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Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by 22o62021: 6:42am On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:

I be ogbanje normally grin


Ekwuru m ya ekwu

I will deliver you

I’m willing

Send a mail
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Rickmann: 6:48am On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:
Please dont mind my typos...
Y'all remember my last post about how a guy threatened me because I didn't ask his proposal. He works at gigm. Well...after much considerations on how to go about the issue, I decided to send gigm a mail to lodge my compliant, I was also able to gather enough evidence from our chats and sent to them.
Gigm promised me to look into the matter, he got sacked few days after. The guy in question chatted me to beg me to send gigm another mail telling them that we have settled so he can called back.....he sha called me to apologize and all..that aside...
.
I sit back sometimes and ask questions to myself...like, why am I always unlucky with guys, I wouldn't deny that I haven't met the good ones, just very few of them..it ended in a very bad way
Ever since, its been from frying pan to fire...just when I decide to give my all to one person, boom...everything goes bad...I'm happy for one thing tho, I have something that keeps me busy, I'm not an idle person. But sometimes when I'm alone, back from work, need someone to gist and laugh with...there's no one...I have friends tho, but there's always a difference with that special one...I'm not desperate for anything, this just me thinking my life while lying on my bed after a stressful day's work....
Lalasticlala please push to front page

Well, I stay in Anambra as well and could be that missing piece in ur life's puzzle..

You never know, girl.
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Candycrushy(f): 6:51am On Nov 18, 2021
Rickmann:


Well, I stay in Anambra as well and could be that missing piece in ur life's puzzle..

You never know, girl.
Missing puzzle kwa grin grin grin
Oga rickman

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Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Rickmann: 6:51am On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:

Missing puzzle kwa grin grin grin
Oga rickman

Of course.
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Rickmann: 7:06am On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:
Please dont mind my typos...
Y'all remember my last post about how a guy threatened me because I didn't ask his proposal. He works at gigm. Well...after much considerations on how to go about the issue, I decided to send gigm a mail to lodge my compliant, I was also able to gather enough evidence from our chats and sent to them.
Gigm promised me to look into the matter, he got sacked few days after. The guy in question chatted me to beg me to send gigm another mail telling them that we have settled so he can called back.....he sha called me to apologize and all..that aside...
.
I sit back sometimes and ask questions to myself...like, why am I always unlucky with guys, I wouldn't deny that I haven't met the good ones, just very few of them..it ended in a very bad way
Ever since, its been from frying pan to fire...just when I decide to give my all to one person, boom...everything goes bad...I'm happy for one thing tho, I have something that keeps me busy, I'm not an idle person. But sometimes when I'm alone, back from work, need someone to gist and laugh with...there's no one...I have friends tho, but there's always a difference with that special one...I'm not desperate for anything, this just me thinking my life while lying on my bed after a stressful day's work....
Lalasticlala please push to front page


This is one problem with Nigerian guys, their crazy sense of entitlement to everything.

Damn shame!
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Nobody: 7:11am On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:

Lol
Maybe it's me
Cos most times I dont give just anybody a chance to come close to me

Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Candycrushy(f): 7:12am On Nov 18, 2021
Rickmann:



This is one problem with Nigerian guys, their crazy sense of entitlement to everything.

Damn shame!
Lol
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Phcmayor(m): 7:50am On Nov 18, 2021
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Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by SarutobiEky(m): 8:02am On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:

Lol
Op attend to my mail, please.
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Nobody: 8:28am On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:

What happened btw was more than what I posted publicly....and pls dont jump to conclusions without getting enough proof
I'm not what I described me as too
He really pushed me to send that mail...what if sth bad happens to me before I could have made a move

Yea, I guess so, but it simply feels off and inhuman to attack someone’s job. Yes he may have been very stupid as is common with humiliated men, there are many other ways to bring him to book. Including having your strong relative call and return his threat or even report him to any police friend you have or even make an entry if it was that bad and have him arrested to sign an undertaking.

Ok even if you succeeded in taking his taking (destroying his life in a way), don’t you think he would have carry out his threat even if it were a mere threat before then. I mean he would then actually had a reason to harm you, I know a desperate man can be dangerous even if it would ultimately lead to his destruction.

As you also said he came apologising, just to show you that he never really meant those words. A real man would never hurt a woman especially one he claims/claimed to love. He was just humiliated and became stupid to save face. Please don’t take such rash decision again.

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Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by SmartPolician: 9:02am On Nov 18, 2021
HopeNeverDies:
U actually made someone lose his job just coz he was tryna ask you out? undecided

That’s so absurd... bombshellll!!! Really really heartbreaking!!!! undecided

You are writing NONSENSE.
If a girl says no, you guys should learn to respect that. Relationship is a choice, not by force. I hope guys learn from that.

@Candycrushy, if that's your real picture, you are beautiful. However, I get the impression that you are forming a bad girl. So, how do you expect to attract the good guys when you keep forming a bad girl? undecided

IMO, you should join a group or society in church. Get close to God and interact with people who are active in church. The truth remains that you are more likely to see a much more decent guy in church (not those who only come to church on Sundays) than in a night club.

Good luck!!

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Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by FahBuLous: 9:12am On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy, I'm here o ..
Come and take me ...
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Endeared(f): 9:49am On Nov 18, 2021
Skullano:
if you are in the East (Anambra State) then let's link up may boredom no go finish you cos of relationship abi love matter.
Hi what’s your age bracket?
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by gulfer: 11:33am On Nov 18, 2021
If I was the guy sacked by GIGM, I would've sued their smelly ass by the billions; how's my life outside of work supposed to influence their action(s)/Inaction(s) against me....After winning the court case then, I'd use the money to mess you up real good angry angry angry angry angry angry
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Candycrushy(f): 12:28pm On Nov 18, 2021
FahBuLous:
Candycrushy, I'm here o ..
Come and take me ...
Lol...take you to where
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by FahBuLous: 12:30pm On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:

Lol...take you to where
Anywhere you wish..
Can I be ur nairaland son? cool
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Candycrushy(f): 12:33pm On Nov 18, 2021
SmartPolician:


You are writing NONSENSE.
If a girl says no, you guys should learn to respect that. Relationship is a choice, not by force. I hope guys learn from that.

@Candycrushy, if that's your real picture, you are beautiful. However, I get the impression that you are forming a bad girl. So, how do you expect to attract the good guys when you keep forming a bad girl? undecided

IMO, you should join a group or society in church. Get close to God and interact with people who are active in church. The truth remains that you are more likely to see a much more decent guy in church (not those who only come to church on Sundays) than in a night club.

Good luck!!
I get your point
Thanks
Btw...I dont form bad girl for any reason...I'm just a little good God fearing girl
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Rickmann: 12:36pm On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:

I get your point
Thanks
Btw...I dont form bad girl for any reason...I'm just a little good God fearing girl

Mmmm
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Rickmann: 12:37pm On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:

Missing puzzle kwa grin grin grin
Oga rickman

Yes
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Candycrushy(f): 12:50pm On Nov 18, 2021
artimisfowler:


Yea, I guess so, but it simply feels off and inhuman to attack someone’s job. Yes he may have been very stupid as is common with humiliated men, there are many other ways to bring him to book. Including having your strong relative call and return his threat or even report him to any police friend you have or even make an entry if it was that bad and have him arrested to sign an undertaking.

Ok even if you succeeded in taking his taking (destroying his life in a way), don’t you think he would have carry out his threat even if it were a mere threat before then. I mean he would then actually had a reason to harm you, I know a desperate man can be dangerous even if it would ultimately lead to his destruction.

As you also said he came apologising, just to show you that he never really meant those words. A real man would never hurt a woman especially one he claims/claimed to love. He was just humiliated and became stupid to save face. Please don’t take such rash decision again.
I'm no longer in the same location with him so he wouldn't have any means to hurt me
Besides I tried having my relatives , friends and my siblings call him n chat with him...he blocked everyone...to show how serious he was..i was really scared...i can't say everything here...i couldn't go anywhere because of fear...after he was sacked, I felt a little guilt tho...but it's well
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by jornwhite: 1:19pm On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:

You dont know me dear
We dont have to appear on Forbes list to prove we are rich ok
My family and me, we are rich and comfortable
Thank you



Then you should be able to employ "a boyfriend" that knows his job as a boyfriend, with a good salary he won't dare to fvckup.


I only give this advise to gurls i consider my daughter ... Hire a boyfriend nd thank me later.
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by ObiaboAdoka(m): 1:33pm On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:
Please dont mind my typos...
Y'all remember my last post about how a guy threatened me because I didn't ask his proposal. He works at gigm. Well...after much considerations on how to go about the issue, I decided to send gigm a mail to lodge my compliant, I was also able to gather enough evidence from our chats and sent to them.
Gigm promised me to look into the matter, he got sacked few days after. The guy in question chatted me to beg me to send gigm another mail telling them that we have settled so he can called back.....he sha called me to apologize and all..that aside...
.
I sit back sometimes and ask questions to myself...like, why am I always unlucky with guys, I wouldn't deny that I haven't met the good ones, just very few of them..it ended in a very bad way
Ever since, its been from frying pan to fire...just when I decide to give my all to one person, boom...everything goes bad...I'm happy for one thing tho, I have something that keeps me busy, I'm not an idle person. But sometimes when I'm alone, back from work, need someone to gist and laugh with...there's no one...I have friends tho, but there's always a difference with that special one...I'm not desperate for anything, this just me thinking my life while lying on my bed after a stressful day's work....
Examine ursef wela nd c y relationship r not working for u. Harmattan is here in my area nd i need breathing blanket. If u don't mind we can start something in dis winter season nd c wer it will lead us to. Shalom.
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by sterlingD(m): 1:44pm On Nov 18, 2021
Assess and evaluate yourself honestly. How is your lifestyle?And also how is your frame of mind. Your lifestyle maybe sending out the wrong vibes about you hence the right kind of person or people you wish and desire to attract maybe put off. Also your frame of mind which boils down to attitude matters, it determines the kind of aura or spirit you which you emit. The image you present of yourself,is it the kind of image that will genuinely attract the kind of person and people you desire interact and build relationships with.
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Candycrushy(f): 1:49pm On Nov 18, 2021
ObiaboAdoka:

Examine ursef wela nd c y relationship r not working for u. Harmattan is here in my area nd i need breathing blanket. If u don't mind we can start something in dis winter season nd c wer it will lead us to. Shalom.
I'm not a blanket pls
Thank you
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Candycrushy(f): 1:50pm On Nov 18, 2021
jornwhite:




Then you should be able to employ "a boyfriend" that knows his job as a boyfriend, with a good salary he won't dare to fvckup.


I only give this advise to gurls i consider my daughter ... Hire a boyfriend nd thank me later.
Lol....not even a husband...
Wen I'm not a sugar mommy
Abeg ooo
I'm not interested
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by felixzo1(m): 2:00pm On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:
Lol....not even a husband... Wen I'm not a sugar mommy Abeg ooo I'm not interested
you are very polite, I like that about you.
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by jornwhite: 2:21pm On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:

Lol....not even a husband...
Wen I'm not a sugar mommy
Abeg ooo
I'm not interested


Hehhehee ! children of nowadays ... even d boyfriend i wan give you we never negotiate you don dey point to husband shocked you know much husband go dey collect as salary

dear listen to me, i pray ur own children listen to you tew
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by dingbang(m): 3:35pm On Nov 18, 2021
U will remain single forever o
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Nobody: 4:18pm On Nov 18, 2021
Candycrushy:
Please dont mind my typos...
Y'all remember my last post about how a guy threatened me because I didn't ask his proposal. He works at gigm. Well...after much considerations on how to go about the issue, I decided to send gigm a mail to lodge my compliant, I was also able to gather enough evidence from our chats and sent to them.
Gigm promised me to look into the matter, he got sacked few days after. The guy in question chatted me to beg me to send gigm another mail telling them that we have settled so he can called back.....he sha called me to apologize and all..that aside...
.
I sit back sometimes and ask questions to myself...like, why am I always unlucky with guys, I wouldn't deny that I haven't met the good ones, just very few of them..it ended in a very bad way
Ever since, its been from frying pan to fire...just when I decide to give my all to one person, boom...everything goes bad...I'm happy for one thing tho, I have something that keeps me busy, I'm not an idle person. But sometimes when I'm alone, back from work, need someone to gist and laugh with...there's no one...I have friends tho, but there's always a difference with that special one...I'm not desperate for anything, this just me thinking my life while lying on my bed after a stressful day's work....
I just have one Question..
Hope you wouldn't mind?
Please, what ALL do you intend giving a man?
I ask because I had a lot of women around me before I picked one for marriage.
And during this time, most kept saying such..
But within me I knew, most wia recipes 4 disaster

Please, Answer my question..
Thanks
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Skullano(m): 5:36pm On Nov 18, 2021
Endeared:

Hi what’s your age bracket?

I'm 31 years old and a male.

You?.
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Candycrushy(f): 7:22pm On Nov 18, 2021
MALIGNANTGuest:

I just have one Question..
Hope you wouldn't mind?
Please, what ALL do you intend giving a man?
I ask because I had a lot of women around me before I picked one for marriage.
And during this time, most kept saying such..
But within me I knew, most wia recipes 4 disaster

Please, Answer my question..
Thanks
Peace of mind and absolute companinship
Re: Why Do I Always Keep Meeting Bad Guys!! I'm Tired.. by Candycrushy(f): 7:23pm On Nov 18, 2021
jornwhite:



Hehhehee ! children of nowadays ... even d boyfriend i wan give you we never negotiate you don dey point to husband shocked you know much husband go dey collect as salary

dear listen to me, i pray ur own children listen to you tew
Let ur own children listen to you first...and who told u I'm looking for somebody's son to buy
So weird

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