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Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by tommy589(m): 12:22pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
The thing here is that the girl will never change and will never appreciate you took are in. I know you are a tolerant man and you should continue to keep it that way due to your wife history with the girl's mother.For six years now I have been walking in your shoes, I know how it is to live with a devil like that. This one now is 19,I knew when she was brought at 2 years to live with my wife's family. She lived with 5 different families within 8 months I sent her packing,before they came pleading for her during last year lockdown. All that has a beginning must have an end |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by TheGreatOne90: 12:22pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Sirlancelot:Guy easy ooh. Hope you will not call police for wife, if she collects little change on your pocket, while watching your cloth |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by Ikem11(m): 12:22pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
TotoGame: Ya for you nothing wrong cos your heart is dark and evil not to have conscious of knowing " doing anything with a girl of 15yrs is an abuse" Such a girl can never make a right decision. Her emotions and feelings is playing games with her at that age. So you as an adult manipulating her ignorance for your own evil needs. Am ashamed of you as a fellow human being 2 Likes |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by Haakeem(m): 12:23pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Wick3:SAPA.......but if the husband is rich,it would be the wife complaining 1 Like |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by TheGreatOne90: 12:23pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Simdyofficial:Don't take this advice please |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by theamazonguru(m): 12:23pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
As per the food matter, bros that is the easiest to deal with. Trust me. Everybody knows the times are hard. Things are expensive in the market, so this is not the time to be careless about how food stuff is handled in the house. Desperate times they say needs desperate measures. Let me give you my personal experience with a jeun-ko-ku and lazy brother-in-law staying with us. This guy is about 30 years old. He is lazy asf. He can't wash his own cloth, he can't iron clothes, he can't do any house shore, as in he is totally useless. But he can consume the whole house. If you dish food for him he will complain it is so little, that you are suffering him in your house. Hahaha. If you ask him to make his own eba, he will make the eba for his own mouth in a big pot, half solid, half water, half garri. He will balance and be consuming the mountain like one of the gods. Hehehehehe. Then when he is done levelling the hill, he will be throwing his smelly fart anyhow, if you caution him about morals he will tell the sister, fart no get house. Oh my gosh. He is so so annoying. My approach He left us briefly, them came back this year. As a champion of Warri, I quickly called a family meeting. I said " this one you are back now, let it be known to thee, thy body system and thy brain, that things are no more the same like the last time you were here. It is no more business as usual. At 30 you can't be here doing nothing, go get a job. And as for food, my wife is the only person that has access to the kitchen. As you dey see the kitchen so, it is her office , her constituency. She makes the food, she dishes it the way her spirit leads her. If she gives you a mountain to consume, be grateful. If her church mind asks her to serve you like a beggar, be thankful that you even have a roof over your head and a food to consume. Any day I hear you complain about food served in this house, that will be your last day in this house. This is my house - the COKER's. My house my rule. You either fall in line or fall out." That was the magical wand I used. The guy man dey there dey maintain his level. But I just got him a job sha. Make him dey see money spend. Make him begin to become useful to himself. Make him self know how easy or hard it is to make the money we use to make the provisions he complains about. Now we are all good. Everybody know e level. 3 Likes |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by confydoedowaye(m): 12:25pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Take her back to her mum, promise to be paying her school fees and be paying her school fees... Pay as much as your muscles can carry, then discontinue. By so doing, you have made good effort to appreciate her mum's benevolence to your wife... You have to handle this.... Play a sucker to catch a sucker else you will be more frustrated than the man below...
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Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by TheGreatOne90: 12:26pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Richy4: Am totally impressed with your suggestion. You are really smart. To train child no dey easy at all 2 Likes |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by Trevor007007(m): 12:26pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Sirlancelot:Sorry for your pain or the pain you are currently undergoing, the said girl is actually acting her age, 15 years to 17 years can be seen as the years of disobedience especially when the said teenager is far from home, to cut the long story short, she does not see you as her mother or father so you cannot badge her around like you are her parents, you can't desipline her because she will never listen to you, you are not the one that gave birth to her the only solution to this is to send her back to her parents so she can have good parental training from them because she will not be obliged to receive them from you unless she humbly decides on her own to listen to you. |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by doublex10: 12:27pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Simply send her packing. |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by Sirlancelot(m): 12:27pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Boss it is not like that,I have two 8 months old boys already,they are eating deep on my pockets as regard feeding,this very girl eat alot as well.She does not render any help for me.i don't see her as maid arleck: |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by victorazy(m): 12:28pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Sirlancelot: funny you 15yr old is beating a full grown man in his house |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by faoogoke(m): 12:31pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
You need to let her know you are the boss! Wait for her to commit one offence like that, make sure your wife is not around, find correct cane and beat the hell out of her. A 15 year old is too small to be such a threat to a family. |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by kushme: 12:31pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest: Sir, if I may ask, what are those possible things to likely cause the decline? |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by Martini101(m): 12:32pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Young man at your age, If you can’t tame a 15 year old girl . When Madam start giving you petty women wahala, you will go and call your kinsmen abi? Better start treating the young girl as an adolescent she is. |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by Nobody: 12:32pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Sleep with her so she will stop craving for food and start craving your magic wand |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by generalwo(m): 12:35pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
The only thing that drew my attention is the stealing part... If you allow that girl grow up with your child, u will regret it...... Though it's hard but I think it's time you draw the line.... You can help with part of her school fees while she's with her parents but her continued stay in your home will eventually become catastrophic |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by aydgov: 12:39pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Repatriate her in matrix mode |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by Goalnaldo(m): 12:41pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Richy4:This advise looks like the biblical ahithophel. Very nice. |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by Trybes(m): 12:43pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
You said she goes to school and come back late in the evening 5pm precisely. Does she attends after school lessons, if yes then she has no problem there and going to Church is perfectly okay. I guess your main complain is that she eats too much. She stealing beverage is very wrong if she is already being served enough and you have to address that. Maybe you are a low income earner and that's why you have an issue with her heavy eating. If she was your daughter or sister would you complain that she eats too much. 1 Like |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by shogsman(m): 12:44pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
You're a man,act like it and leave the child alone,tf did you expect from a 15year old 1 Like |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by emerged01(m): 12:45pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Sirlancelot: Guy no be your battle o,except you want the family of your wife to see you as bad person. Use your wisdom to win this battle. Leave the battle for your wife,she is in the best position to fight her,all you need is to dey ginger her small small till the coast is clear. No go involve yourself too much. 1 Like |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by shogsman(m): 12:46pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
TotoGame:If this useless deranged pedophile is not banned on this platform then seun and his mods are all sociopaths and they need to be checked. I'm working on ways to fish out bastards like you technologically wise,you think you can exhibit your depravity online like you don't leave a digital footprint right. God will punish you for that statement you goddamn pedophile 2 Likes |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by PinkHealthGroup: 12:47pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Listen to your dumb ass. You want to mess a "fifteen year old up" you grown ass motherfquer. Send her home. Do not abuse her you dipshit |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by Kobicove(m): 12:47pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Why did you even agree for her to come into your home in the first instance? |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by ubongdom: 12:48pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Sirlancelot:I am in similar situation. |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by TotoGame(m): 12:53pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
shogsman: Well your useless dad is also a pedophile cus he impregnated your mum when she was 14 Don't be too surprised..I know your history |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by Richy4(m): 12:54pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Goalnaldo:Thank You |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by adventisty: 12:54pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Brother, Please ,it easy on her. Needs guidance and counseling. |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by Richy4(m): 12:56pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
TheGreatOne90:It's not easy at all.. We follow them with wisdom.. |
Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by NaBanga: 12:57pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Stop encouraging child slavery. American and UK women do not need slaves. They take care of themselves during pregnancy. Many work during pregnancy. Very few of these women need child slaves to survive. |
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