₦airaland Forum

edunaragold:
A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

Well, I have to pity my future kids. Their mama wey no too fine go come marry man wey no fine untop? Haba let it balance

[quote author=Freestainworld post=107970690]I tried marrying one babe those days, she said until she hears from God, I kukuma find another better babe marry, aunty still dey hear from God till date, meanwhile I don get pikin.[/quot


E loud oo GOD dey speak to her but her ear don. Block

This one no concern me for now.

Beauty my foot!......Show us proof. Don't be claiming unnecessary beauty here

edunaragold:
A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

Commot here before I keep my dagger for your neck

Most beautiful ladies especially models na like Bet9ja tickets wey don cut.... useless!!!

Itzlinda:
So I'm supposed to compete to get your love so I can pay your bills?

Keep up the bad characters and wonder why beautiful women prefer to stay single. Who cares if you pay her bills? Does that exclude you from being a good person?

The way some of you reason.

Freestainworld:
I tried marrying one babe those days, she said until she hears from God, I kukuma find another better babe marry, aunty still dey hear from God till date, meanwhile I don get pikin.

WTF man!
Does this make you a superman?

She is an adult.
It’s her call to make as to when, how, who to marry.

You sound pained though( tale tell sign of a pussy ass nigga).

Nairaland is obsessed with marriage/relationship matters.

drop the link here na bro

Thank you for this summation. This land is full of little children with 0 life experience. To them the world is just Black and White, and nothing else. Tueh!!

BRATISLAVA:
Clearly men are more obsessed with marriage than women are.

In a nutshell, you believe men can be picky but women dare not. You're not a beautiful woman so all you can do is assume the fault lies with such a woman. It's easy to blame her for why you couldn't get her. You couldn't possibly be the problem.

Same men who say beautiful women cannot be wives, due to some silly assumptions, so they marry the ugly ones who they feel they can control.

Most men are scared of beautiful women and know there is competition. Everything comes with a price, but many don't and cannot pay it. It has nothing to do with beautiful women, because if trash men keep approaching her, she has a right to turn them down the same way a man would refuse to marry someone he thinks is a bad woman.

Beautiful women don't have to agree to marry you just because you're a man and she should be desperate to.

Una still get time for all this mumulity under this Buhari economy?

Freestainworld:
I tried marrying one babe those days, she said until she hears from God, I kukuma find another better babe marry, aunty still dey hear from God till date, meanwhile I don get pikin.

the same here

When she says the men aren't coming she could mean the money men.

JavaScript90:
Op are you sure? Contrary to the op opinion. I think those beautiful girls are just looking for who is man enough. So many of them usually don't have much suitors as you think since most guys are intimidated by their beauty and assumes they are already taken.
Another aspect is money. Most beautiful girls believe their beauty should get them a quality man that can provide very well for them.

u are right

hothire:
Thank you for this summation. This land is full of little children with 0 life experience. To them the world is just Black and White, and nothing else. Tueh!!

The way most of them opine is so myopic. It seems the world only revolves around what they think is going on.

Most of their comments come from a place of bitterness. Maybe a beautiful woman turned him down, and because she did, she suddenly has issues. Nevermind if he has big red flags all over him.

edunaragold:
A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

If she later cheats, the same you will come here and start cursing her. Why arent you stable? Leave girls alone. It is not by force to get married. Upon all the marriages and explosive population in Nigeria, what have we got to show for it? Why is it marriage and sex everytime? Leave her alone. If she doesnt like you, she doesnt. Na she talk say you bald? I know many girls who are drawn to intelligence more than the look. Same goes to men too. And some dont even want to date blacks but whites. Leave such alone. What's your problem? And if any chooses to remain single, is it your choice? Guy, mind you business. "Busy body"...

I don't think it is because of looks though. They are perhaps waiting for the one who in their opinion, can take good care of them

In othewords, man wey get good money

bluefilm:
Nwoke m, zukwanu ike... zukwaanu ike ka ebube muonso nwee nwe ike ruo oru na ndu gi.

Kedu nke bu oge obula ihe gbasara umunwanyi ga n'enye gi nsogbu?

O chim o!

This is a public space not your town council meeting, speak what everyone can understand not that alien stuff you put up there.

JavaScript90:
Op are you sure? Contrary to the op opinion. I think those beautiful girls are just looking for who is man enough. So many of them usually don't have much suitors as you think since most guys are intimidated by their beauty and assumes they are already taken.
Another aspect is money. Most beautiful girls believe their beauty should get them a quality man that can provide very well for them.

Finally, someone is reasoning.

Most men just want to bed a beautiful lady, but they are scared that she's too beautiful to be faithful. You often see how some men discuss wanting moderate to ugly women, so that they won't stray to other men because they won't be attractive.

The assumption that beauty means trouble. I don't even know how Nigerian men concluded on this one.

Then there's the assumption that she's already taken, yet she may not be.

Then there's the belief that she's not intelligent and will be snobbish. By the time men have pestered a beautiful woman for relationships, she must be tired and would've created walls. Some are just introverts who want their peace.

There beautiful women married to poor men. The man is the determinant. Most men don't have good characters but expect so much from women. Beautiful or not, women also want peace of mind.

solsticey2k3:
Some beautiful women don't have good character/attitude.

Men nowadays want peace of mind when it comes to choosing life partners.

did you just say peace of mind
I doubt

Rosement:
A beautiful lady can have a lot of admirers and still not get any marriage proposal. A lot of guys will not marry a lady just because she is beautiful, they will have to see the potential they want in a wife in her before they can marry her.

When a guy approaches a lady, does she immediately know his intentions? Does she know if he just needs someone that will satisfy his sexual urges? The guy might just see her as a sex material.

If beauty is the key, why are all rich men not marrying models or beauty queens? Bill Gates, ex wife Melinda Gates is a computer scientist, Mark Zuckerberg wife, Priscilla Chan use to be a pediatrician, Jeff Bezos gf, Lauren Sánchez is an American news anchor, media personality and an actress. An average looking lady with good qualities might be preferred over an extremely beautiful lady with no qualities.

You have said it all

CUMIN:
Nairaland is obsessed with marriage/relationship matters.

The men are obsessed.

They always, always, have to remind us that they are married and their ex isn't. As if they committed a crime by not marrying them.

Men are obsessed with marriage as a status.

It is not always the case.

some beleive that there is no need to rush to pick one, they want to wait and see if something better than what is available will come their way
most of the times, it ends in regret as a better person never comes.

Some are even unlucky, they are beautiful yet no one is asking them out.

above all, its even worse now because only few men are economically prepared to settle down, most of the few that have money are not in a hurry to marry, a few of them dont want the marriage commitment, they want babymamas.

Some of the ladies out there are still lucky, they are married off immediatley they reach that marriageable age. Its all a fucntion of environment, luck and other factors.

PeaceJoyLove:
If she later cheats, the same you will come here and start cursing her. Why arent you stable? Leave girls alone. It is not by force to get married. Upon all the marriages and explosive population in Nigeria, what have we got to show for it? Why is it marriage and sex everytime? Leave her alone. If she doesnt like you, she doesnt. Na she talk say you bala? I know many girls who are drawn to intelligence more than the look. Same goes to men too. And some dont even want to date blacks but whites. Leave such alone. What's your problem? And if any chooses to remain single, is it your choice? Guy, mind you business. "Busy body"...

Lol.

This is the thing.

Once a lady turns them down, it is thread after thread on women this and women that.

It doesn't even cross their minds that the ladies don't have a destiny with a Nigerian man. Or that they lack good characters them selves.

edunaragold:
A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

women are naturally evil and wicked . Forget the fact that they gave birth to men, time has exposed their love for evil.
Women are the most heartless creature on earth . They can hide their deceptive characters in decades . Women are not to be trusted .If you love yourself ,don't ever have full confidence in a woman .Sleep with one eyes open while around a woman , no matter how long you've known her . you want to live longer don't put a woman into your heart

Beauty is vain, character will take you far in relationship. I can tell you for free that many of those beautiful lady you know or see are still very much single, why?, Because guys are not ready to waste their resources on beauty they prefer the average one's.

Look, in present day Nigeria you have to be very smart in all you do, tell me why do the average looking girls get married quicker than those beautiful ones?, Infact if your wife is too fine nah problem for you. However, where is the place of character, understanding, good money managers, loyalty, values. Many of those pretty girls don't have it they only enjoy comfort and you don't enjoy comfort you labour for it.

Don't get carried away by beauty it is vain.

BRATISLAVA:
Finally, someone is reasoning.

Most men just want to bed a beautiful lady, but they are scared that she's too beautiful to be faithful. You often see how some men discuss wanting moderate to ugly women, so that they won't stray to other men because they won't be attractive.

The assumption that beauty means trouble. I don't even know how Nigerian men concluded on this one.

Then there's the assumption that she's already taken, yet she may not be.

Then there's the belief that she's not intelligent and will be snobbish. By the time men have pestered a beautiful woman for relationships, she must be tired and would've created walls. Some are just introverts who want their peace.

There beautiful women married to poor men. The man is the determinant. Most men don't have good characters but expect so much from women. Beautiful or not, women also want peace of mind.

Apt!

"Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single."

This is a big lie.......... Nowadays beautiful ladies don't care about the handsomeness of a man. Infact number one factor ladies normally look out for before marriage is Money. Nowadays, ladies don't care about your physical looks, so long you have this CASH. I KNOW A LOT OF BEAUTIFUL WOMEN THAT MARRIES UGLY BUT RICH MEN. Your claim is totally out of context. There is no beautiful lady in this planet that Will decide to marry a poor handsome man when the choice for a wealthy ugly man is also available.