edunaragold:
A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

edunaragold:
A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

edunaragold:
A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

edunaragold:
A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

AbujaCitiBlog:

Op you missed it. Most young Nigerian girls are lesbians on the low. They pretend a lot. That's why marriage to a man is not a priority because they form emotional attachments to their lesbian partners which they can't have with any man. That's the real gist.

BRATISLAVA:


Clearly men are more obsessed with marriage than women are.

In a nutshell, you believe men can be picky but women dare not. You're not a beautiful woman so all you can do is assume the fault lies with such a woman. It's easy to blame her for why you couldn't get her. You couldn't possibly be the problem.

Same men who say beautiful women cannot be wives, due to some silly assumptions, so they marry the ugly ones who they feel they can control.

Most men are scared of beautiful women and know there is competition. Everything comes with a price, but many don't and cannot pay it. It has nothing to do with beautiful women, because if trash men keep approaching her, she has a right to turn them down the same way a man would refuse to marry someone he thinks is a bad woman.

Beautiful women don't have to agree to marry you just because you're a man and she should be desperate to.

BRATISLAVA:


Finally, someone is reasoning.

Most men just want to bed a beautiful lady, but they are scared that she's too beautiful to be faithful. You often see how some men discuss wanting moderate to ugly women, so that they won't stray to other men because they won't be attractive.

The assumption that beauty means trouble. I don't even know how Nigerian men concluded on this one.

Then there's the assumption that she's already taken, yet she may not be.

Then there's the belief that she's not intelligent and will be snobbish. By the time men have pestered a beautiful woman for relationships, she must be tired and would've created walls. Some are just introverts who want their peace.

There beautiful women married to poor men. The man is the determinant. Most men don't have good characters but expect so much from women. Beautiful or not, women also want peace of mind.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram real matters bro.. real matters. WTF MAN

Freestainworld:
I tried marrying one babe those days, she said until she hears from God, I kukuma find another better babe marry, aunty still dey hear from God till date, meanwhile I don get pikin.

Beebah2000:
E no concern nairaland.

edunaragold:
A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

szczescie:


I am a man but I agree with your comment 110%

O.p must not have what it takes to step up to such women so he is trying to find fault with then and rubbish them.

That's the way I see it. They can't have such women so they condemn them to console themselves.

I mean the way we can see fine girls and know this girl fine is the same way girls can see us and know this boy is fine, I want my children to look like that or be as tall as that, it is allowed.

Thank you for this admission. People act as if it is wrong for any woman to have a preference. We all have preferences. Men have preferences, women have them too. We can't invalidate them.

I am a man and I am fine small and I hol' small money with good degree and also a hard-working fellow, but even as a man I have standard in women, I will want to follow or go after. I don't just approach any and every female.

Why are you so sincere? We have standards! Everyone! But the problem is that most of these men who come online with odd opinions don't seem to understand that concept except when it is their standards, and feel entitled to be accepted.

It's not because I'm too proud or full of myself or a bad person or I hate the girls I don't want to go after, it's simply personal any girl I'm following to me has to be a little over average in looks (I need to be attracted to her segzshually, I've actually seen many women my John Thomas cannot stand for even if they are un-clad) and in character too and most importantly must be someone that does not nag or complain at every little thing. I'm not too interested in tall or short or tribe or level of religiousity. So just looks, character and finance (I don't need a rich woman just someone who is not wasteful with money) that's all.



I have had girls who where my spec but I ran away from because I know that even though I have cash if I follow this girl this money will not take us anywhere and nothing will impress her, also she complains alot so I ran away from her.

So if I can do that I believe girls too should be able to choose or be as picky as they like but like guys they should not complain when no guy meets their standard.

Exactly this.

If nobody meets your standard maybe it's time to move elsewhere or adjust the scale.

Sometimes, geography has a lot to do with it. Certain traits we want cannot be found in certain races or areas, and that is fine. Sometimes we can adjust and sometimes we have to take the step out. I don't see why people like the OP feel that it is a must that what you see must be what you should get.

Also I have been dumped or rejected by about 2 or 3 girls because, I was too young or not boyfriend material or similar reasons that to me are funny but I respect those girls and their decision. 2 of them are still single till now but I will NEVER hold it against them because it is their lives and their decision to make not mine and true true even though I had small cash and could take care of them at the time I was young and they never believed me when I said I don't have a girlfriend they also never believed that a good looking young guy with money will be faithful and will be wilłimg to settle down anytime soon so ALL 3 of them rejected me for this reasons.

The way men mock women for not marrying them because they are still single is so childish you begin to wonder if that character isn't why they were dumped. It's almost as if once a woman doesn't agree to a relationship with them, then she must be doomed to be single. Some of these women don't even know that the man for them could be chilling anywhere else on the planet wondering when she will turn up. Too much entitlement. And too much bitterness.

They too have money they are doing well for themselves so money is not an issue and they are looking good too, I still have 2 out of 3 of them on Whatsapp we still talk once in a while. No hard feelings that's how it should be in my opinion.

Thanks for your contribution—giving a balanced view. Why aren't more posters like you?

Freestainworld:
I tried marrying one babe those days, she said until she hears from God, I kukuma find another better babe marry, aunty still dey hear from God till date, meanwhile I don get pikin.

edunaragold:
A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

Nyanabo:
Most women have set their standards so high majority of the men in Nigeria can't reach it.

It why when menopause starts knocking, they run to church, and accept any tom, dick and Harry that comes their way.

Thereby leading most of them to be unhappy in their homes, either unsatisfactory sexual life in the other room, anger issues from the man or the lady herself (because originally the man is not up to standard).

There is a saying you can model the man/woman of you dream with patience.

Aethiops:
it is not assumption but natural, a beautiful woman is like a man planting an apple tree in the village square, everyone wants a bite of the fruit, but not the tree ence gets lots of admirers, Thieves, so the owner has to do diligently to protect his property same applies to a beautiful woman

edunaragold:
A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

BRATISLAVA:


Why not change yourself? Why are people always trying to change and control other people?

A futile effort.

edunaragold:
A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

BRATISLAVA:


Clearly men are more obsessed with marriage than women are.

In a nutshell, you believe men can be picky but women dare not. You're not a beautiful woman so all you can do is assume the fault lies with such a woman. It's easy to blame her for why you couldn't get her. You couldn't possibly be the problem.

Same men who say beautiful women cannot be wives, due to some silly assumptions, so they marry the ugly ones who they feel they can control.

Most men are scared of beautiful women and know there is competition. Everything comes with a price, but many don't and cannot pay it. It has nothing to do with beautiful women, because if trash men keep approaching her, she has a right to turn them down the same way a man would refuse to marry someone he thinks is a bad woman.

Beautiful women don't have to agree to marry you just because you're a man and she should be desperate to.

Nyanabo:


That saying goes beyond how you comprehend it. Moreover I don't think it's futile, I have seen it work in various homes.