I'm as very light smoker- at most, three to four cigarettes a week...

I'm very young, and I started smoking two years ago...

In our society, if a woman is known to be a smoker... She's looked down on... And false assumptions are made of her personality...

Why the stigmatisation? I know men are victims too but women who smoke are viewed as classless etc... While with men, it's simply a bad habit...

What's your opinion on women who smoke? And what's your reason?

I would appreciate comments based on experiences rather than bias...

And I need valid points how SMOKING directly indicates a wayward woman...

Thanks!

Women who smoke are poor examples of what a lady is supposed to be and should be avoided at all costs.

Wife material is costly because wife material is rare. Every women is not a wife.

Certain red flags allow you to separate the quality from those who are merely quantity. A woman who smokes doesn't truly value herself, her image, or even her own health.

Datboredberry:
I'm as very light smoker- at most, three to four cigarettes a week...

I'm very young, and I started smoking two years ago...

In our society, if a woman is known to be a smoker... She's looked down on... And false assumptions are made of her personality...

Why the stigmatisation? I know men are victims too but women who smoke are viewed as classless etc... While with men, it's simply a bad habit...

What's your opinion on women who smoke? And what's your reason?

I would appreciate comments based on experiences rather than bias...

And I need valid points how SMOKING directly indicates a wayward woman...

Thanks!

Mynd44
Lalasiclala
Dominique

I just embarrass myself now...

Nkechi told me she was coming yesterday to stay with me till Sunday, after preparing for her cuming... She ended up not showing up, I called her but her phone was off, till now her phone is still off...

Wetin I go do that girl if I see am ennnn

I had already bought exhibit before that night, I forgot I kept 2 in my back pocket, so this morning I say let me rush down to the bank and do some transaction... Just to try and bring out my wallet, those 2 exhibit fell out to the full glare of the people in the bank...

Which kind embarrassment be this for me this morning... Na for this reason I go beat Nk die

NaijirianKing:
Women who smoke are poor examples of what a lady is supposed to be and should be avoided at all costs.

Wife material is costly because wife material is rare. Every women is not a wife.

Certain red flags allow you to separate the quality from those who are merely quantity. A woman who smokes doesn't truly value herself, her image, or even her own health.

Like I clearly stated... No cultural bias... I don't need your, "women should be this or that" lectures!

A woman who smokes, how does she not value herself?

As for her image, that's the point of this post... Why smoking damages the image of a woman and not a man! Can you answer this?

And the only drawback to smoking is it's impact on one's health... But do you care that men smoke more? Are you concerned about their health also? Plus, there are a million bad habits...that could kill faster...

Bigredmachine:
Why

Why what? Do I smoke or why the society judges women who do?

Datboredberry:
Why what? Do I smoke or why the society judges women who do?

Smoking in general is something that's attached to a wayward life... A man who smokes may be seen as an irresponsible man, infact society of today will quickly say he's a useless man... But hell no, not all who smoke are irresponsible...

As for women who smoke out of any reason... Will always get harsh treatment from the public cos, the society sees women as gentle and tender creature who should not be caught in such act... I won't blame the society for looking down on women cos from my observation 84% of women who smoke lives a wayward life... The rest are just addicted to it... That's just the way it's, even me I classify women who not only smoke, but pierce their nose as wayward (I need to change that thinking, I know this)... Well OP just live ur life the way it pleases you, so long as u don't affect the life of others

Women who smoke turn me on, I am attracted to them a lot, we have a lot of fun together most times, na cruise and we dey fit relate well. But I can never and will never wife a woman that smokes.

Bigredmachine:
I just embarrass myself now...

Nkechi told me she was coming yesterday to stay with me till Sunday, after preparing for her cuming... She ended up not showing up, I called her but her phone was off, till now her phone is still off...

Wetin I go do that girl if I see am ennnn

I had already bought exhibit before that night, I forgot I kept 2 in my back pocket, so this morning I say let me rush down to the bank and do some transaction... Just to try and bring out my wallet, those 2 exhibit fell out to the full glare of the people in the bank...

Which kind embarrassment be this for me this morning... Na for this reason I go beat Nk die

I sincerely wish derailers on Nairaland would drop dead! You're trying to ruin my thread!

Iwas once taggd irresponsible cuz iwas smoking.. Til date istil hate that girl

funny thing was that, this so called girl was taking alcohol. And me icant drink witowt smoking it wont flow.

the e'd'yot girl went bout teln ppl am a chimney that shes sure am irresponsible

smoking has never in anyway defined my life. Things only got owta palms when istartd doing drugs


>>curently dragin my captain black in peace<<

¤whatever you do in life moderation must/should be your daily donut/nugget¤

Lee99:
Women who smoke turn me on, I am attracted to them a lot, we have a lot of fun together most times, na cruise and we dey fit relate well. But I can never and will never wife a woman that smokes.

Nice contribution! Why can't you marry a woman who smokes tho?

You vibe well with women who do... I think it's because you want a solid image... But it women who smoke weren't stigmatised, then there would be no need for this...

Another issue is that a white woman smoking is more tolerated in black communities than black women who smoke.

Assume you're engaged to a Dutch lady, and she's a light smoker... Is she also disqualified?

I'm just trying to see things from the perspective of a man...

If you can maintain a very good oral and body hygiene, smoke is no big deal to me. People smoke for different reasons.

Have you seen girls smoking shisha? Depends on what they are smoking though, the stigma is reduced

Datboredberry:
Nice contribution! Why can't you marry a woman who smokes tho?

You vibe well with women who do... I think it's because you want a solid image... But it women who smoke weren't stigmatised, then there would be no need for this...

Another issue is that a white woman smoking is more tolerated in black communities than black women who smoke.

Assume you're engaged to a Dutch lady, and she's a light smoker... Is she also disqualified?

I'm just trying to see things from the perspective of a man...

First of all I don't judge people or my reaction towards people based on the color of their skin, that's racist, white or black or yellow, woman is woman to me, same reason I won't wife a Nigerian girl is the same reason I won't wife the Dutch one, its my principle

Candidlady:
Iwas once taggd irresponsible cuz iwas smoking.. Til date istil hate that girl

funny thing was that, this so called girl was taking alcohol. And me icant drink witowt smoking it wont flow.

the e'd'yot girl went bout teln ppl am a chimney that shes sure am irresponsible

smoking has never in anyway defined my life. Things only got owta palms when istartd doing drugs


>>curently dragin my captain black in peace<<

¤whatever you do in life moderation must/should be your daily donut/nugget¤

Thanks! I remember a day I spent with a boy... He's in his twenties...

He was extremely nice, tried to flirt... But he was shy...

One thing led to another, we ended up in his friend's home smoking cigarettes and Arizona...

We vibed really well... Only, he assumed I was in a cult!

Thought I was a bad girl... Started speaking street slangs... I couldn't even understand him!

Like, I enjoy smoking... Doesn't mean I'm wayward... It's simply pleasurable... And if I'm with someone who doesn't smoke, I don't...

I really like you! Honestly...

Datboredberry:
I sincerely wish derailers on Nairaland would drop dead! You're trying to ruin my thread!

If wishes were horses beggers would ride... Your wish won't come to pass... Sorry

Bigredmachine:


Smoking in general is something that's attached to a wayward life... A man who smokes may be seen as an irresponsible man, infact society of today will quickly say he's a useless man... But hell no, not all who smoke are irresponsible...

As for women who smoke out of any reason... Will always get harsh treatment from the public cos, the society sees women as gentle and tender creature who should not be caught in such act... I won't blame the society for looking down on women cos from my observation 84% of women who smoke lives a wayward life... The rest are just addicted to it... That's just the way it's, even me I classify women who not only smoke, but pierce their nose as wayward (I need to change that thinking, I know this)... Well OP just live ur life the way it pleases you, so long as u don't affect the life of others

Ever thought that maybe the argument is this:

wayward people smoke...

Not...

People who smoke are wayward...

Lee99:

First of all I don't judge people or my reaction towards people based on the color of their skin, that's racist, white or black or yellow, woman is woman to me, same reason I won't wife a Nigerian girl is the same reason I won't wife the Dutch one, its my principle

Thanks! I noticed some men hold African women to impossible standards... Till they travel abroad and surprisingly, they don't mind the white women smoking...

I get your point

Bigredmachine:


Smoking in general is something that's attached to a wayward life... A man who smokes may be seen as an irresponsible man, infact society of today will quickly say he's a useless man... But hell no, not all who smoke are irresponsible...

As for women who smoke out of any reason... Will always get harsh treatment from the public cos, the society sees women as gentle and tender creature who should not be caught in such act... I won't blame the society for looking down on women cos from my observation 84% of women who smoke lives a wayward life... The rest are just addicted to it... That's just the way it's, even me I classify women who not only smoke, but pierce their nose as wayward (I need to change that thinking, I know this)... Well OP just live ur life the way it pleases you, so long as u don't affect the life of others

really?

Datboredberry:
Ever thought that maybe the equation is this:

wayward people smoke...

Not...

People who smoke are wayward...

I know not all people who smokes are way ward, but the number of the wayward people far out Numbered the cool headed smokers...

Society will see 500 wayward smokers before they see 5 cool headed smokers... Hence their believe that all smokers are wayward

Datboredberry:
Thanks! I noticed some men hold African women to impossible standards... Till they travel abroad and surprisingly, they don't mind the white women smoking...

I get your point

Where are you based? Maybe we can organise a smoking session, I do Rothman brown or switch, Bohem when I don't see either

Lee99:

Where are you based? Maybe we can organise a smoking session, I do Rothman brown or switch, Bohem when I don't see either

Datboredberry ruuuunnnn ooooo!!!

siofra:


Datboredberry ruuuunnnn ooooo!!!

You this hairy balled guy, you no dey rest?

I sincerely likes girls that smokes.....dated many........they just turn me on, especially when we inside...with the door locked............. smoke and sleep!!!

Lee99:

Where are you based? Maybe we can organise a smoking session, I do Rothman brown or switch, Bohem when I don't see either

interested..

Lee99:

You this hairy balled guy, you no dey rest?

You think you have sense shebi

But sha datboredberry is an open-minded person, so she might consider you.

NaijirianKing:
Women who smoke are poor examples of what a lady is supposed to be and should be avoided at all costs.

Wife material is costly because wife material is rare. Every women is not a wife.

Certain red flags allow you to separate the quality from those who are merely quantity. A woman who smokes doesn't truly value herself, her image, or even her own health.

Seriously STFU!

Deffjam:
interested..

I dey Abuja

Lee99:
Women who smoke turn me on, I am attracted to them a lot, we have a lot of fun together most times, na cruise and we dey fit relate well. But I can never and will never wife a woman that smokes.

Although to me, it's irresponsible for a woman to smoke, but still can be friends with one in a non-romantic way.

siofra:


You think you have sense shebi

But sha datboredberry is an open-minded person, so she might consider you.

Thank you for your recommendation that wasn't asked for

FirmTR:


Although to me, it's irresponsible for a woman to smoke, but still can be friends with one in a non-romantic way.

I get what you mean bro

Lee99:

Thank you for your recommendation that wasn't asked for

Tell that to 16 year old Sikira that lives on your street she'll believe you.