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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:25pm On Dec 01, 2021
sharpwriter:

lol... i hear una.... it seems you periodically choose times to be naughty cheesy

I am serious o. But, do you think I'm a naughty girl?
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Opeyemic01: 12:29pm On Dec 01, 2021
joelag:


Some of those men claiming holy holy, you think it's their ordinary eyes... Na dia wives put magun on them

Hmmnn!!!!
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by merits(m): 12:40pm On Dec 01, 2021
Joysticks:
Coded cheaters.
Exactly no two ways about it.

Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Sholaco: 12:42pm On Dec 01, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:
I can't even try it and will not advise any female I know to try it. I love sex very much and I am active. Fingering no dey belleful me. Or else I go dey call my EX to come work am.

My friend wey her husband travel for 5 years and returned. She say when the husband been wan nack the local government, the place don close up. I can't try it. Instead of her to find someone to be helping her oil the region. And the husband will be cheating like that.
i want to glorify God in you, you are wonderfully made.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 12:43pm On Dec 01, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:
I can't even try it and will not advise any female I know to try it. I love sex very much and I am active. Fingering no dey belleful me. Or else I go dey call my EX to come work am.

My friend wey her husband travel for 5 years and returned. She say when the husband been wan nack the local government, the place don close up. I can't try it. Instead of her to find someone to be helping her oil the region. And the husband will be cheating like that.
make i dey service you na, abi how u see am?
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Nnamaka1: 12:45pm On Dec 01, 2021
You seem to forget the main reason the man had to leave the family and travel abroad. It's to escape the current economic situation of the country.

If he stays it's poverty that will finish the family . It's not easy but sacrifice has to be made



Lalami3232:
grin I pity you as a man wey leave your spouse for 9ja and travel go abroad, you just be like person wey plant corn by the roadside grin grin. On no condition should you ever leave your spouse in 9ja, no ever try am atall because you don give free food to friends/community and street urchins. Even the woman wey you dey live with for house still dey carry another man pikin to give to you, talkless of say you leave her at the mercies of people. Women dey always claim say dem no like sex and fit control body, my dear na lie ooooo. Deep down, dem want their engines to be serviced regularly and greesed thoroughly grin.
Never make the mistake of leaving ur spouse for 9ja while you travel for long, I don warn you finish. Pu*sy no be like WhatsApp wey get "LAST SEEN", so u no fit know if dem dey cheat but 99.9999% of the time, one guy dey drill her oil on a regular basis.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again " The day I go mistakenly born girl pikin eeh, I go *********** "

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:51pm On Dec 01, 2021
Sholaco:
i want to glorify God in you, you are wonderfully made.

Thank you.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:51pm On Dec 01, 2021
Volkswagen90:
I want to start being celibate this month. God help me.

Fixed.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by sharpwriter(m): 12:53pm On Dec 01, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:


I am serious o. But, do you think I'm a naughty girl?
Hmmmn..... Sometimes Yeeeesssss grin
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 1:01pm On Dec 01, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:


Fixed.
it seems my account was hack o, when did i type this?
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by BestMan001: 1:02pm On Dec 01, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:
I can't even try it and will not advise any female I know to try it. I love sex very much and I am active. Fingering no dey belleful me. Or else I go dey call my EX to come work am.

My friend wey her husband travel for 5 years and returned. She say when the husband been wan nack the local government, the place don close up. I can't try it. Instead of her to find someone to be helping her oil the region. And the husband will be cheating like that.

Thanks for speaking your MIND.

I wish they will learn, listen or adjust with this.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by jassmenn(m): 1:02pm On Dec 01, 2021
Except you are saying there's a way JWs managed such situations. I actually have a JW woman with three kids who's husband is far away in US.
She actually carries herself well publicly, but her husband has been gone for so long to still be waiting on him
grandstar:
Adultery is rife, especially with men.

I am a Jehovah's Witness and it is strongly discouraged(Read Proverbs 27:12). A brother who engages in such with his wife will lose many privileges of service.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Lordedifice1: 1:04pm On Dec 01, 2021
Love Machine things dem dy use for some woman who can't cheat with another man
But i wonder how dy cope
You know say body no be firewood
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by joelag: 1:06pm On Dec 01, 2021
Elxandre:

When wahala happen, your wife go chop disgrace too, which will extend to your kids and you, yourself. grin

Na true oooh.... Never thought along this line.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by AllKnowing: 1:33pm On Dec 01, 2021
misterme:
You should worry more about married couples who live together in the house but have stopped love making because of a number of problems like financial problems, stress, ever-growing bitterness toward each, etc. I think this is a bigger concern

I remember you, Sir!
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by JooEeL(m): 1:39pm On Dec 01, 2021
MorningStar233:


And they say masturbation is a sin...wahala no dey finish

Which sin? Abeggi.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by MorningStar233: 1:40pm On Dec 01, 2021
JooEeL:


Which sin? Abeggi.

Lol,me self weak
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by caprini1: 1:49pm On Dec 01, 2021
Bennysam:

Even if you are around and start monitoring woman you will die young my brother, if you suspect your wife please do a DNA test on your kids
DNA for wetin? In igboland ,every child born under my roof as long as i paid her bride price ,are all my own.I will love and take care of everyone.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by stuffs4me(m): 1:50pm On Dec 01, 2021
IJEYdiamond:


Same as Nigerian women.... the fact still remain that they cant try shit with the white women they marry there... slap beat or even word abuse that they r use too doing to Naija women especially igbo men.....

Scared their Ass!!

Na those that agree to that arrangement!!






It is ten times better to marry a white woman overseas than bring a Nigerian woman abroad. The white woman will build with you as your partner while the Nigerian woman will always try to rope you into trouble just to take over what you laboured for.

Nobody is talking about slapping anybody and you know.
Nigerian woman will frame you for a crime you didn't do just to take over what you laboured for
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by caprini1: 1:50pm On Dec 01, 2021
AZControversial:


cheesy
The table has broken since.
Table that has decayed sef grin
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by caprini1: 1:52pm On Dec 01, 2021
joelag:
Place magun on her before you leave, and have peace of mind.
Will she place Magun on the man too? undecided
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Johnelo: 1:57pm On Dec 01, 2021
grandstar:
Adultery is rife, especially with men.

I am a Jehovah's Witness and it is strongly discouraged(Read Proverbs 27:12). A brother who engages in such with his wife will lose many privileges of service.

Really, where do you base
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by thuxzwda1: 1:58pm On Dec 01, 2021
ednut1:
Both parties find ways to find alternatives na. And there are some who don’t have high libido and are faithful


grin
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Adeoye11(m): 2:00pm On Dec 01, 2021
zagorakis:


I hope if they marry and take you there, you won't go and render the man useless there.



Haba maga Gini..
What am trying to say is any man or girl am courting must know that once we marry anywea you go I go. Forget bout rendering him or her useless
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Adeoye11(m): 2:02pm On Dec 01, 2021
stuffs4me:



It is ten times better to marry a white woman overseas than bring a Nigerian woman abroad. The white woman will build with you as your partner while the Nigerian woman will always try to rope you into trouble just to take over what you laboured for.

Nobody is talking about slapping anybody and you know.


Abeg ,you guys should stop all this myopic reasoning , just because one has experience in something bad does not generalize everything as bad.
Nigerian woman will frame you for a crime you didn't do just to take over what you laboured for
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Bennysam: 2:02pm On Dec 01, 2021
caprini1:
DNA for wetin? In igboland ,every child born under my roof as long as i paid her bride price ,are all my own.I will love and take care of everyone.
Individual differences
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by grandstar(m): 2:03pm On Dec 01, 2021
jassmenn:
Except you are saying there's a way JWs managed such situations. I actually have a JW woman with three kids who's husband is far away in US.
She actually carries herself well publicly, but her husband has been gone for so long to still be waiting on him

There are no sacred cows among Witnesses. If it is true, and there is no valid reason, he will be denied privileges.

There was a brother who was accommodating his mother, his sister-in-law with her little dzughter in his wife. His mum was about to move out to her own flat but when the body of elders heard about it, they advised against it. They said the brother being alone with his sister-in-law may lead to immorality. The mother chose to stay until her daughter-in-law got her own flat.

I remember when I was in England in 2014, an elder in the congregation I associated with during my holiday, asked whether I was staying. I replied no and he was happy. We are also urged to obey Caeser (Romans 13:1-7). Since the visa does not give me the right to work, It will be wrong to seek work and overstay. Those who do overstay and work illegally also lose privileges of service.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by einsteine(m): 2:07pm On Dec 01, 2021
Most cheat.

At least I know of three women
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by grandstar(m): 2:08pm On Dec 01, 2021
Johnelo:


Really, where do you base

In the leafy, tree-lined suburb of Akute, Ogun
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by JooEeL(m): 2:16pm On Dec 01, 2021
MorningStar233:


Lol,me self weak

It's better than sleeping with another man's wife or raping.

Besides its a very understandable situation. If your wife was there, would you masturbate? Answer his no.

There's notn wrong. Besides, Im not so much of a religious person anyways, so it doesnt bother me.

I cant speak for others.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by bayocanny: 2:17pm On Dec 01, 2021
Nuttella:
I won't even wish that on anyone, if you won't take me with you forgerrit.

Marriage is for companionship, why should two married people be separated for 5 years?

Oya let me take you. Are you ready?
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Awkabigboy: 2:20pm On Dec 01, 2021
seyz91:
Which kind stupid question be this?

Even spouse wey dey work next/neighbouring state sef no sure as dem dey Bleep around undecided

Kon dey talk abroad undecided
Don't be stupid, no one asked u to comment

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