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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Easy5265: 11:00am On Dec 04, 2021
Thanos5555:
: angry
It's so bad how Moderators will rewrite someone's post on group forum and immediately send it with thier names as Authors.

Back to the topic: I hope Sanwo-olu takes this matter seriously, they need to arrest the School Management and parents of those children, enough is enough oooooo.

The worst thing is to send a wealthy son to school where the teachers are paid little and are poor, they will end up playing a blind eye to the students atrocities, all because of they are afraid of the wealth of thier parents, this has resulted in many wealthy boarding schools to harbour Drug addicts , all because thier teachers and care keepers are afraid to speak to wealthy children or discipline them,

You can't come to government school and Do cultism with your #1000 school fees lollllllll

But because they pay 1 million as school fees in Dowen, they allow whatever to happen, the same with the school close to my area, 500k as school fees, bro cone and see drug addicts for that school, no discipline at all


*am the original author of this story, nairaland moderators hijacked and sent it to front page with thier name *
.

That's what the mods do... bullying everywhere
Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by baralatie(m): 11:01am On Dec 04, 2021
Havertz10:
Hopefully cultism will be given the attention it deserves but I doubt it, these people have infested every institution, after all these fanfare, this matter will die and Nigerians will shift focus to another subject, as for dowen they have lost their prestigious standing, plenty students will leave and they will have to fire so many workers that ignored these events

That school is dead for all intents and purposes
Surely the school has been pulled down by its non chalantant attitude
Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Jude273(m): 11:01am On Dec 04, 2021
Edusouls:
Chai I swear Yoruba parents are the worst and the most corrupt, see monsters they raise as kids, and terrible hearts they have, no wonder their men dream for Igbo women, tufiakwa unu.
U are a bastard, what bring tribalism into this issue, u need to grow up. Nwa afo igbo k'mbu
Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by baralatie(m): 11:04am On Dec 04, 2021
Thanos5555:
: angry
It's so bad how Moderators will rewrite someone's post on group forum and immediately send it with thier names as Authors.

Back to the topic: I hope Sanwo-olu takes this matter seriously, they need to arrest the School Management and parents of those children, enough is enough oooooo.

The worst thing is to send a wealthy son to school where the teachers are paid little and are poor, they will end up playing a blind eye to the students atrocities, all because of they are afraid of the wealth of thier parents, this has resulted in many wealthy boarding schools to harbour Drug addicts , all because thier teachers and care keepers are afraid to speak to wealthy children or discipline them,

You can't come to government school and Do cultism with your #1000 school fees lollllllll

But because they pay 1 million as school fees in Dowen, they allow whatever to happen, the same with the school close to my area, 500k as school fees, bro cone and see drug addicts for that school, no discipline at all


*am the original author of this story, nairaland moderators hijacked and sent it to front page with thier name *
Public schools have their own drama and theatrics o
Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Cantonese: 11:06am On Dec 04, 2021
dfrost:


The ignorance of someone who has never left the hut he was born in. Are you happy now?

cheesy grin

Never mind my young friend. You need to understand the deep pain that family passes through right now. It is called the “nightmare of parents”. Seeing the death of their biological children. It is easier to lose money or other physical things. Even the siblings are in very deep pain as we speak. We all need to call evil by its name and not speak because we are not in that pain.

Again we must all rise to ensure justice for the boy’s family especially as the parents of the culprits are making serious efforts to fly them away to evade justice.

Do have a great weekend.
Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Jman06(m): 11:07am On Dec 04, 2021
Vinnie2000:




Boarding schools is Mostly for Errant and Weak parents!
Also Selfish Parents who focus on Wealth pursuits and Businesses! sad

Those Days, Parents put in their Children in Boarding schools because there were living in Villages and the Boarding school was in the City e.g Warri, Ibadan, Lagos, PH, Onitsha,etc..

Currently, It's not like dat!..
Parents do Not have Strong Reasons in Registering Their kids in Boarding schools! sad
Boarding schools are not for errant and weak parents like you put it. The distance of the school from home is one factor that makes parents send their children to boarding schools especially when such parents have preferences for a particular school. Like in the case at hand, it is possible that the boy's family house is far from school and in order to beat Lagos traffic congestion, the parents decided to send the boy to boarding house so he doesn't have to contend with traffic congestion to and from school as that would affect his academic performances and even poses a security risk.

Also, sending children to boarding houses is a way of preparing them for independent living. It helps in preparing children psychologically towards their individuality and to think and work independently. It also improves children's social skills as many have built good relationships in boarding schools that later helped them survive in the wider world after school.

Therefore, the boy's parents shouldn't be blamed in this case for sending their son to boarding house, instead let us blame the management of Dowen college for failing in their responsibility to protect the boy despite the huge amount of money his parents paid as school fees. Let's channel our blames appropriately and stop diverting attention from the main issue on flimsy grounds!

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by baralatie(m): 11:10am On Dec 04, 2021
Jman06:
Boarding schools are not for errant and weak parents like you put it. The distance of the school from home is one factor that makes parents send their children to boarding schools especially when such parents have preferences for a particular school. Like in the case at hand, it is possible that the boy's family house is far from school and in order to beat Lagos traffic congestion, the parents decided to send the boy to boarding house so he doesn't have to contend with traffic congestion to and from school as that would affect his academic performances and even poses a security risk.

Also, sending children to boarding houses is a way of preparing them for independent living. It helps in preparing children psychologically towards their individuality and to think and work independently. It also improves children's social skills as many have built good relationships in boarding schools that later helped them survive in the wider world after school.

Therefore, the boy's parents shouldn't be blamed in this case for sending their son to boarding house, instead let us blame the management of Dowen college for failing in their responsibility to protect the boy despite the huge amount of money his parents paid as school fees. Let's not channel our blames appropriately and stop diverting attention from the main issue on flimsy grounds!
Exactly

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by onayemi1: 11:11am On Dec 04, 2021
Richy4:


undecided undecided undecided

Taking your kids and wards to Boarding school does not mean abandonment or dereliction of duties by parents. Most times parents have little options while deciding the type of school for their kids. Here are some reasons for this decisions.

1. Most times, you are unable to get a good school close to your residence. Let's not deceive ourselves, Government has failed in providing secondary education at local levels. You hardly can see good school in many locality. And for some kids, they have to wake up as early as 5am to be prepared for school everyday. Some kids travel as much 10km daily to get to school. So parents are forced to take the boarding house option.

2. Most people pamper their kids at home and they are not usually well trained for the larger society. Sometimes we are over protective, So taking them to boarding facilities can make them independent.

3. Now both parents have to work to sustain families. One income can not do it again. So both parents have to work hard to provide the basics for the children. Living in this country is tough and Government has not in any way help to create a better society.

If the case of bullying is established then the school has failed woefully and they should be sanctioned severely.

Decisions to place kids is usually a tough one that most parent make and they are usually left with fewer options.

Before judging, wait until your kids gets to the age of getting into secondary school.

And the main questions is "How do we create a better society"?

Man

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Richy4(m): 11:13am On Dec 04, 2021
ORIAYO70:



I don't knw how sane parent will live their ward at the mercy of third party, in the name of boarding sch n u expected positive result...


We all need parental care while we grow.
Most parent does that cos of their work schedule, now Sylvester is dead

A lot of us went to boarding school and we came out strong and independent...

Yes some parents sent their ward to boarding school because of work schedule, many sent theirs because of quality education.. and some find themselves there due to distance between home and the school...

I don't see anything wrong with parents sending their children to boarding school.. cultism can still exist within the day school operations.. under the nose of the parents.. so?

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by sleekman(m): 11:17am On Dec 04, 2021
Normally I would have said, "You see ya life". The problem now is you really don't have one. How you go open mouth blot this nonsense?You get pikin sef? Mtchew! Cyber mama.

NovesaTillie:
The parents who abandoned their 12 year old in a boarding school have failed woefully in parenting and should be arrested and charged for negligence and murder angry

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by faste: 11:21am On Dec 04, 2021
Viraltrends123:
Our judiciary system is just rubbish including the people in it. Shouldn't there be prosecutors taking up the issues by now, shouldn't the police have arrested those cultist and their parents. Watch as everything will die, just like the way ipob killed Dr. Akunyili gruesomely. Imagine someone who he and his wife spent their whole life trying to make Nigeria great, everyone have forgotten them now.


More of this will happen if those involved are not killed too.

Imagine after some robbers robbed a bank, killed lots of people and stole like 35 millions, and just one of them was caught, and sentenced to 10 years in prison, then what am I still doing in my shop begging people to by my clothes over 50 naira gain.
Ipob kee you there..are u insane!
Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by geemd434: 11:21am On Dec 04, 2021
NovesaTillie:
The parents who abandoned their 12 year old in a boarding school have failed woefully in parenting and should be arrested and charged for negligence and murder angry

You are the biggest fool, I know. And you are probably a Yoruba. How do I know, the person who died isn't yoruba so you think you know bettrr. You are bastard. God kill all your families. Fool
Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by smartr: 11:22am On Dec 04, 2021
Islie:
#Justiceforsylvester: Parents of alleged Dowen College cult members planning to fly them abroad, says deceased father

The father said the school management were wrong to have allowed the five culprits to leave the school without informing the police.



https://gazettengr.com/justiceforsylvester-parents-of-alleged-dowen-college-cult-members-planning-to-fly-them-abroad-says-deceased-father/

If the school won't release the names of the killers, the school must be burnt down angry angry angry
Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by faste: 11:26am On Dec 04, 2021
mrlycan:
What kind of parent puts their children in the boarding school.. ? This is Nigeria..........for crying out loud
The boarding system should be abolished..it has bred a lot OS monsters.

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Magnoliaa(f): 11:28am On Dec 04, 2021
Kriss216:
Cultism at tender age
Children of these days are something else. One need to devise means to curtail them else they fall to the opposing factors.


Naso. This one that your comment is surprisingly bland and devoid of any striking hot rod of condemnation and crusade against Nigerian girls. Hafa?

Market don finish? You no get any agenda to push? No word of advice? Or caution? No kaya to push? I see you don't have any word for your gender in this matter. Abi you've suddenly grown a brain and realized everything is not a means for gender fight? I don't want to believe you suddenly grew sensible. I knew Nairaland would not have contained your agenda quest and slurs if those kids so happened to be girls that killed another while forcing her to do abortion or become an escort to rich men.

So this is all you can come up with? Hehe. For all your SJW and boy-fighter, morality-restoring persona. You are not going to do something personal for Sylvester? E no pain you reach bone marrow and sinew?? Should you not be tearing down Nairaland, demanding for justice in a case like this? Carrying it on your head? Ehn. Abi your brain suddenly dies and you're found lacking for sensible things to say in grave and dire matters outside of spreading vile and hate and insulting women? E pass your jurisdiction and scope of comprehension ba? grin

Kriss216:

I know where you're driving at.
Come straight and air your view, magnolia. You've grown pass this hide and seek side talk.

Tch. Watin be this? Abeg, clear for road, joor. No be me quote you so? I no be like you o and can never be. The side talks is your forte. Hopping on people's comments insulting me and deliberating misspelling my monicker. My view is right up there. I've not modified it. Maybe you should get glasses or a translator to read it to you and make you understand what I'm saying.

Pfft.
Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by skywalker95(m): 11:36am On Dec 04, 2021
NovesaTillie:
The parents who abandoned their 12 year old in a boarding school have failed woefully in parenting and should be arrested and charged for negligence and murder angry
Emotional comment. Nah today pple begin go boarding school?

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Kriss216: 11:37am On Dec 04, 2021
Magnoliaa:


Naso. This one that your comment is surprisingly bland and devoid of any striking hot rod of condemnation and crusade against Nigerian girls. Hafa?

Market don finish? You no get any agenda to push? No word of advice? Or caution? No kaya to push? I see you don't have any word for your gender in this matter. Abi you've suddenly grown a brain and realized everything is not a quest for pushing gender talking points? I don't want to believe you suddenly grew sensible. I knew Nairaland would not have contained your hate quest and agenda and slurs if those kids so happened to be girls that killed another while forcing her to do abortion or become an escort to rich men.

So this is all you can come up with? Hehe. For all your SJW and boy-fighter persona. You are not going to do something personal for Sylvester? E no pain you reach bone marrow and sinew?? Should you not be tearing down Nairaland, demanding for justice in a case like this? Carrying it on your head? Ehn. Abi your brain suddenly dies and you're found lacking for sensible things to say in grave and dire matters outside of spreading hate and shaming women? grin
I know where you're driving at.
Come straight and air your view, magnolia. You've grown pass this hide and seek side talk.

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Viraltrends123: 11:38am On Dec 04, 2021
emezuo17:
. You sounded like someone who was making sense until you added' like ipob killed Akunyili' my guy, face front, ipob didn't kill Chike Akunyili, why you guys want to force this narrative down our throat is what some of us don't understand.
who cares if ipob kills Akunyili. All I'm interested is change, no killer should go scot-free
Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Bigpapi: 11:38am On Dec 04, 2021
NovesaTillie:
The parents who abandoned their 12 year old in a boarding school have failed woefully in parenting and should be arrested and charged for negligence and murder angry




Simple

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Viraltrends123: 11:38am On Dec 04, 2021
faste:
Ipob kee you there..are u insane!
His brother said ipob killed him
Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Kelvin30286063(m): 11:44am On Dec 04, 2021
Deborah98:
#justiceforsylvester sad... No peace for the wicked. My mind tells me the school and it's management knows what happened to that boy but you know money has a way of silencing truth, like the man said their parents are wealthy and who knows how much these people mush have taken to cover up the case. At the end the truth will prevail. God help us
I worked as a teach for many years so I can categorically tell you that the school management knows what happened to him. The students involved would have confessed already but the management will try to cover it up cos they want to protect the school.

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Miller232: 11:47am On Dec 04, 2021
Starzo:

and you're part of it's make up so, what does that tell you?
Oga am not part of ur useless country make up... Everybody behaving like they are in the zoo
Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by baralatie(m): 11:47am On Dec 04, 2021
Kelvin30286063:

I worked as a teach for many years so I can categorically tell you that the school management knows what happened to him. The students involved would have confessed already but the management will try to cover it up cos they want to protect the school.
I don't think that school will survive o

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Nobody: 11:48am On Dec 04, 2021
NovesaTillie:
The parents who abandoned their 12 year old in a boarding school have failed woefully in parenting and should be arrested and charged for negligence and murder angry

This is not the time to reason like a hoe, try and comprehend before you comment.

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Excellent89: 11:50am On Dec 04, 2021
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NovesaTillie:
The parents who abandoned their 12 year old in a boarding school have failed woefully in parenting and should be arrested and charged for negligence and murder angry

Keep quite when you don't know what to say.

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by beejay85: 11:53am On Dec 04, 2021
NovesaTillie:
The parents who abandoned their 12 year old in a boarding school have failed woefully in parenting and should be arrested and charged for negligence and murder angry
U don't know what u are saying....if u follow the case ,u LL realise the deceased is the fifth child of that family passing through the same institution..
Granted, an unfortunate incident occurred, but it's not enough to rubbish the boarding sch setting or refer their parents as failed...
My issue with the parent of the boy was the response time ( too late) since the sch dispensary called them to come pick him up..
Also an orthopedic hospital would have been better to ease d boy's pain , stabilize him and later carry out necessary surgery instead of rubbing with balm by the dad as seen in d video..

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by ogaemma: 12:02pm On Dec 04, 2021
#saynotoboardingschool
Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by rooney(m): 12:03pm On Dec 04, 2021
I can't argue that small children are not into cultism. Not quite long a primary School teacher was narrating how primary three pupils in her school were fingering their Private parts. The female ones practicing lesbianism. I won't allow my children to be a boarder. I prefer taking the pains of school runs in their secondary school than allow all those rubbish going on in boarding house to happen to my children. Any parent that misses training the children at teen age in a godly way, it will take special grace of God for that child to be well behaved child in the society.

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by dfrost: 12:03pm On Dec 04, 2021
Cantonese:


Never mind my young friend. You need to understand the deep pain that family passes through right now. It is called the “nightmare of parents”. Seeing the death of their biological children. It is easier to lose money or other physical things. Even the siblings are in very deep pain as we speak. We all need to call evil by its name and not speak because we are not in that pain.

Again we must all rise to ensure justice for the boy’s family especially as the parents of the culprits are making serious efforts to fly them away to evade justice.

Do have a great weekend.

Not angry at all. cheesy

I understand what they are passing through, I really do.

I've seen the ills of boarding school, trust I've seen it.

The disadvantages outweighs the advantages. Drug abuse, same sex copulation, bullying, extortion, cultism et al.

Not that this things don't exist in day schools but the the fact remains that parents can most times detect an issue before it generates to worst circumstances, like the one we have before us now.

That poor chap really suffered before he gave up. embarassed

#IStand4Justice #Justice4Sylvester

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Anaerobi(m): 12:04pm On Dec 04, 2021
I wish to see the pictures of those boys. I won't mind stoning them to death.

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Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by sayso: 12:07pm On Dec 04, 2021
Oga stop crying. You have the fund, send in assins after them or the parents period. Me I will not let it fly. They took one,I take five.
Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by blackpanda: 12:07pm On Dec 04, 2021
NovesaTillie:
The parents who abandoned their 12 year old in a boarding school have failed woefully in parenting and should be arrested and charged for negligence and murder angry

Abandoned as how
I attended boarding school and I don't regret it for anything. If anything it shaped my success today

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