It happened in my daughter's school and I went round the parents homes including the school to warn that the next time this would happen,, I'm gonna use Edo JuJu. The buly stopped and the parents of the bullies withdrew them from that school. For now, I'm left with just one child and I'm ready to kill any bully around her. The parents saw that in me and did something.

starbuck:
My daughter is 12 and in Jss2... Something of such happened in their class but the case was that of student who was to repeat because he failed.. The boy in question refused to repeat the Jss2 that he was asked to and he went ahead to even sort the school principal with 5k but his friends advised him against that because they know the woman in question doesn't entertain rubbish...

His next line of action was to go buy 5k plus padlock to lock the school gate from outside twice or thrice a week without the security guard knowing who does that.. Mind you, the school has boarding facilities with students and teachers and the owner living there.. When the locking of the school became rampant, the security man devised a mean and caught him in the middle of the night when he came to lock the school from outside...

Stories now emerge that he wanted to burn the school too and he had also come to school with a gun( this is where my daughter's case in).. She was the person who saw something like a gun in his bag one of the days he came to school and she brought it up when they were called to testify about the boy and his evil deeds...

When the boy's mother was summoned and she was told if she was aware that his son usually leave at night and come to the school to lock the gate, she said that they live in a big house and she usually not aware when someone goes in or out of the house but she had a slight knowledge about the day her son was caught because he didn't come back on time from the errand she sent him... They told her about the gun, she said that her son has so many toys with guns included, so maybe it was one of the the toy guns that his mates saw and thought it was a real gun..

After the bla bla, they asked her to take her son home till further notice... When my daughter came back and told me about it and the threat the boy made to her and one other of their classmates that he will deal with them... I was like, these people don't know me ooo, told my husband about it and told him that i would be going right to the student house to confront him and the mother, he was like 'I shouldn't try it because it would look like i am invading in their privacy because kids can say anything and don't mean it' '

Husbandman didn't know me well enough... I located the woman's house in the absence of my kids and husband and dropped a piece of mind with her and her son ( I activated my stuttering voice too so they will know i can devour anyone once it comes to my flesh)

Yes o. No time to check time.

Ulunne777:
My son came home to tell me his teacher calls him "big head" which saddened him. He's new to the school and was still trying to fit in and here comes a teacher,of all names in the world,Big head is the best for him not like his head is bigoo.

Went to his school the next day and met the teacher.Imagine she telling me "ask other boys in my class I call all of them big head.How can she ridicule a male when she's been praying for one(has 4 girls as I later discovered)"

My son insisted right before her that it was only him she called thatand me I warned her seriously. That was how the shit ended.

I know where to draw the line but I will not accommodate any act that will affect my kids self esteem.

I am not trying to support the teacher but I don't really see big head as an insult. He may have done something wrong and instead of punishing him or caning him she called him big head. People have different tolerance level, so teacher should also watch what they call students. Sometimes they may just be playing with the student. For example I call my sister olodo, but it is not like I truely mean it

starbuck:
My daughter is 12 and in Jss2... Something of such happened in their class but the case was that of student who was to repeat because he failed.. The boy in question refused to repeat the Jss2 that he was asked to and he went ahead to even sort the school principal with 5k but his friends advised him against that because they know the woman in question doesn't entertain rubbish...

His next line of action was to go buy 5k plus padlock to lock the school gate from outside twice or thrice a week without the security guard knowing who does that.. Mind you, the school has boarding facilities with students and teachers and the owner living there.. When the locking of the school became rampant, the security man devised a mean and caught him in the middle of the night when he came to lock the school from outside...

Stories now emerge that he wanted to burn the school too and he had also come to school with a gun( this is where my daughter's case in).. She was the person who saw something like a gun in his bag one of the days he came to school and she brought it up when they were called to testify about the boy and his evil deeds...

When the boy's mother was summoned and she was told if she was aware that his son usually leave at night and come to the school to lock the gate, she said that they live in a big house and she usually not aware when someone goes in or out of the house but she had a slight knowledge about the day her son was caught because he didn't come back on time from the errand she sent him... They told her about the gun, she said that her son has so many toys with guns included, so maybe it was one of the the toy guns that his mates saw and thought it was a real gun..

After the bla bla, they asked her to take her son home till further notice... When my daughter came back and told me about it and the threat the boy made to her and one other of their classmates that he will deal with them... I was like, these people don't know me ooo, told my husband about it and told him that i would be going right to the student house to confront him and the mother, he was like 'I shouldn't try it because it would look like i am invading in their privacy because kids can say anything and don't mean it' '

Husbandman didn't know me well enough... I located the woman's house in the absence of my kids and husband and dropped a piece of mind with her and her son ( I activated my stuttering voice too so they will know i can devour anyone once it comes to my flesh)

Get the police involved and probably the boy's parents sign an undertaking.

Don't take anything threat lightly these days. These spoilt kids may want to act one of the silly films they have watched

Lmao
I wish I can still remember the guy that always bully me
But the idiot doesn't know I've joined boxing class
He tried it one day after assembly and the punch I gave him on his stomach he reach sickbay....

Good thing

My parents were extremely peaceful people. My mother being a judge avoided taking laws into her hands.

But when I was in JSS1 in a boarding school, the biggest boy in the class was always trying to bully me. Always, it was me he was picking on, and I was not the smallest in the class. In fact, I was one of the tallest, just that I was skinny.

One day, while we were lined up in front of the dining hall, he tried to bully me again. I faced him, and dared him to touch my head again. He was shocked. Since then, he never tried to bully me again.

Bullies are cowards. Even if you can't fight, stand up to them. They will never trouble you again.

Chiden:
My mum never fought for me. No one ever did, I was always a victim. It kinda made schooling difficult for me.. but it made me stay out of trouble. Always minding my business, people could step on my toes and walk away. I'll still tell you sorry and cry...

Sometimes when I tell my mum she'd blame me for being there at the point I was bullied.. so I'd always conceal. No one cared that much..

My parents as well. That's one stupid African culture of morals, especially educated folks. You will notice the illiterates are the ones that come to school to fight their children's teachers, and bullies.

some parents will wanna like, you too bully who you shape bully

frankson1:



Good for you

Back then as a boarder, I used to fall ill each time school resumed and didn't want to go because I didn't like the school and state. With this, my traveling will be postponed and sometimes by 2-3 weeks and I'd feel better. At a point, my Dad understood my antics so when I acted my drama again, Oga said I won't die that 'na only cry I go cry' and that was it because it never happened again.

I'm glad I went through a boarding school because I learnt a lot and came out with lots of positives and much stronger.

Wow interesting!
Cool.

tuzle:
I am not trying to support the teacher but I don't really see big head as an insult. People have different tolerance level, so teacher should also watch what they call students. Sometimes they may just be playing with the student. For example I call my sister olodo, but that it is not like I truely mean it

It's not about how you see it, it's about how the child sees it. Bullying is bullying. There's no joke in that.

Chiden:
My mum never fought for me. No one ever did, I was always a victim. It kinda made schooling difficult for me.. but it made me stay out of trouble. Always minding my business, people could step on my toes and walk away. I'll still tell you sorry and cry...

Sometimes when I tell my mum she'd blame me for being there at the point I was bullied.. so I'd always conceal. No one cared that much..

Poor baby. But u turned out ok and looking strong and alright. Remember me? Haven't seen your diary or channel since then. Will try check'em out soon

iamyemiakins:
You dare bully my kids and Imma pull up in the school like this, to instill everlasting fear in you!

Teachers must be trained to deal with the problem professionally. If all parents get involved, it will be a war.

These days you don't even need to visit the school as most schools have WhatsApp group for their parents, na to first share the names of the bullies and calling out their parents then give a piece of my mind to the management not to allow me come to the school and scatter things and also warn other parents about it, and if nothing is done I will ensure massive withdrawal from the school through the platform by inciting other parents.

If it is a severe one like the one Mercychen shared or like the Dowen case, na to first go the school get my facts right while secretly audio recording, I take my leave while acting cool headed make them for no suspect and come back with any available set of either of these groups, police, army, or touts make them no say you no fit treat small pikin anyhow and be begging for forgiveness. Na transferred aggression be that.

Playthepianos:
Yeah, it happenedbto me precisely thirteen years ago when I was in secondary school. That time , bullying in all government school in Lagos was at its lpeak.

I was in JSS2 when one tall fat senior enjoyed bullying me and my two friends, becayse we were small.

When it was too much, I reported to my parents. The next day, I was shocked to find my father in school before assembly.

When the teachers agreed to show him the senior bullying his son, I beat the hell out of the bastard, slapped his head and teeth and warned him never to bully me again. Yes, it was me that did all that to the bully because I was my dad and mum.

I deserve some accolades.

When I got to SS3, I decided to bully my juniors because I was bullied when I was a junior. Guess what - I bullied them. I bullied one fine newcomer girl to be my girlfriend but she didn't flinch. Unfortunately, her father was a policeman so he came two days later for me before assembly again. When I was told some policemen were in school for me (I was a prefect but I was going to school late..e no concern me), I ran away.

Me wey be odogwu those days.

Today, Ladies and gentlemen I am very tall and no one can bully me.

I rise. Court!

Fuuuuuuuuu

Chiden:
My mum never fought for me. No one ever did, I was always a victim. It kinda made schooling difficult for me.. but it made me stay out of trouble. Always minding my business, people could step on my toes and walk away. I'll still tell you sorry and cry...

Sometimes when I tell my mum she'd blame me for being there at the point I was bullied.. so I'd always conceal. No one cared that much..

so sad for you. I hope you are strong now to challenge anybody. It is not a must for you to be strong or win the fight, you must learn to approach the one who confronts you.

Ulunne777:
My son came home to tell me his teacher calls him "big head" which saddened him. He's new to the school and was still trying to fit in and here comes a teacher,of all names in the world,Big head is the best for him not like his head is bigoo.

Went to his school the next day and met the teacher.Imagine she telling me "ask other boys in my class I call all of them big head.How can she ridicule a male when she's been praying for one(has 4 girls as I later discovered)"

My son insisted right before her that it was only him she called thatand me I warned her seriously. That was how the shit ended.

I know where to draw the line but I will not accommodate any act that will affect my kids self esteem.

Let me get it straight, soo... cos your child was called a big head by the teacher "his elder", you went ahead to embarrass the teacher in front of the child. You did all these just to massage the boy's ego and prove to him you are a caring parents, to the detriment of the teacher’s integrity.

And to worsen the situation, you are even proud of your action. You think it is easy? Why did you bring him to the school? You should have home-schooled him yourself, at least no nobody will get the chance to call him big head.

Oga...u no try oo..
This is how we end up raising scallywags, turn around and claim they are just being bold. All this our over sabi is not helping oo...that's why we see different shii happening in our society today. things that normally won't dare happen 20 years back. You no try sir. You no try at all..

tuzle:
I am not trying to support the teacher but I don't really see big head as an insult. People have different tolerance level, so teacher should also watch what they call students. Sometimes they may just be playing with the student. For example I call my sister olodo, but that it is not like I truely mean it

You say this because you are matured, there is this girl who practically can't remember whatever you teach her in the last few seconds and some of my colleagues then were not helping matters, they compound her woes by always insulting her and all I could see was she getting worst while her elder brother is a very brilliant chap whom they also always compare her with, she panics when she sees them unlike when I tried getting close to her, she is free with me and even her classmates will be calling her names and it affects her relationship with others, in the long run how do you think she will relate with people?
See bullying comes in different forms and the most brutal is emotional because you don't have to carry the scars for all to see.

petsey:
Lol... no be now adays

Try get husband and pikin fes, make we see how you go post on this kain thread

od501:


Let me get it straight, soo... cos your child was called a big head by the teacher "his elder", you went ahead to embarrass the teacher in front of the child. You did all these just to massage the boy's ego and prove to him you are a caring parents, to the detriment of the teacher’s integrity.

And to worsen the situation, you are even proud of your action. You think it is easy? Why did you bring him to the school? You should have home-schooled him yourself, at least no nobody will get the chance to call him big head.

Oga...u no try oo..
This is how we end up raising scallywags, turn around and claim they are just being bold. All this out over sabi is not helping oo...that's why we see different shii happening in our society today. things that normally won't date happen 20 years back. You no try sir. You no try at all..

The guy did the right thing. If the teacher can't act professionally in front of his students, he should be disgraced in front of them. This is a teacher that would be immediately sacked if her action gets to the ears of business minded school owners.

Killing a child's self esteem is a sure way of setting him up for failure in life.

InTheCloudySky:
It's a sweet gesture but an unhealthy one. Parents should teach kids how to stand up for themselves and without using violence. If the bullies persist, involve the school authorities or even the Police, but don't take matters into your own hands.

How can you free yourself from bullies without using violence?, beg the bully to stop?.

Omoh I will teach my child real VAWULENCE!!! (self defence techniques).

My elder sister was married for 13 years before having her only child.
Now imagine someone or a group of people bullying such a soul.

My dad was a special forces in the military and they did so many kind of bleeped up shit during the wars.

My youngest bro is in d navy.
A league of its own.

And I spent almost 8 years in the university for a course of 4 year before graduating.

Hope u get my drift.

bluebay:
My Son in Nursery 1 was almost Expelled from
School last week for Beating and scratching the faces of two kids . My wife called to explained but I kept wondering what the teacher was found when this happened.

Most nursery pupils are violent, hope you disciplined him?

Alwayshungry:
My elder sister was married for 13 years before having her only child.
Now imagine someone or a group of people bullying such a soul.

My dad was a special forces in the military and they did so many kind of bleeped up shit during the wars.

My youngest bro is in d navy.
A league of its own.

And I spent almost 8 years in the university for a course of 4 year before graduating.

Hope u get my drift.

Yes I get...

TinubuGoQuench:


Only one person go just post one long epistle of boredom like so?

It's not boring actually

My mum is a teacher and my god mother is one of her colleages that happens to be her ride or die padi.

If I venture cry go meet my god mother sey one yeye student do me anything, I don dey expect legit war the next day be that.

The above may sound tout-ish to some people but my god mother's fight for me actually made me understand the fact that I can always stand for my right.

Note: I am short for my age and my my peers like picking on me.

My experience was funny...

I was the gentle type, I get bullied only once by any lucky student...they are always unlucky the second time because I beat the hell out of such.

I grew up with Grandma, so it was never an option to report to her.

Ryda:
I would love such experience, make I enroll my child first.

We go first scatter things for the school before I start to ask questions.

SEE UR FACE.


I CANT STOP LAUGHING

ModestGal:

It's not about how you see it, it's about how the child sees it. Bullying is bullying. There's no joke in that.

I have a friend that I call big head sometimes, so will u call that bullying? What I am trying to say is that calling big head isn't an insult, it could even be a joke, although the child may take it as an insult. I was tall from my youth days and I have been called names like iroko, longitude and so on, will I count that as bullying? So refer to someone as big head isn't bullying to me.

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