heartofcity12:
The wall remains undefeated.

Alphaman007:
I saw this on YouTube by a guy called Glen Graham and want to share to help myself and others.

Be able to maintain frame, You have a purpose or mission in life greater than a girl.
Be secure, no attachment to outcome.
Love is light and playful. Stop trying to hard.
Are you a fun person?
What are the fun activities that you have done and go do them. Stop being boring.
Can you make other people laugh and lift their mood?
Lift their mood. Repeat back key words and ideas.
Active listening skills.
Do you know any good joke?
Read any good book?
Gone to any fun event or activity?
are you boring?
Can you talk about cool and exciting things?
Are you a secure confident man?
Are other women attracted to you?
Do you work out?
Are you a clean and sharp dresser showing that you have high self esteem?
Instead of trying to take love-- Maybe try and have self love and share love, joy and happiness.
Lift emotions and make other people feel good.
Be authentic and genuine.
Be Mysterious, decisive, Not needy, Have standards and boundary.
No fear. Don't be her brother or psychologist banker or doctor.
Be up front, be her lover and if she rejects you do not be hurt. Just move on.
No attachments , no outcome. it sure saves a lot of time and money.

Overcome any psychological issues about sex.
Maybe openly state that sex is natural and normal because it is natural and normal.
Do not be her friend or brother. Be her lover or move on and stop wasting time.
Go meet people in person at things or activities that interests you.

Smartb0y:

Umbrella man, good to see you

Skepticus:


I always thought she would be an EXCEPTION of ladies that will defeat the wall or at least push it back for a bit (I do think she was successful in pushing it back and it is very rare).

So, all of them daily 500 sit-ups, buckets of paints (make-up), cosmetic surgeries etc couldn't defeat the inevitable wall?

SIMPs like Alex Rodriguez (A-Rod) thinks otherwise. Lol

CAPSLOCKED:
WHAT I LEARNT IN 2021 FROM BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN AND NIGERIAN WOMEN (ON THE INTERNET) IS THAT SEX WORK IS A LEGITIMATE HONORABLE WORK. I MEAN, I HAVE NEVER FOUND A SINGLE CASE SUPPORTING FRAUD & GANGSTERISM AS HONORABLE THINGS, BUT SINCE WOMEN WANT US TO HOLD PROSTITUTION TO THE STANDARD WE HOLD ENGINEERING, MEDICINE, LEGAL PRACTICE, ETC, I THINK THAT'S ALRIGHT WITH ME.

THIS SAME 2021 THEY STARTED TO GLAMORIZE THINGS LIKE "ASHEWO DRESS", "ASHEWO VIBES", "GET THAT BAG SIS", "ONLYFANS AND CODEDRUNS IS THE BEST THING ON EARTH". I HAD NO PROBLEMS WITH ANY OF THAT.

NOW WHEN I SAY I CANNOT BE WITH A SOLDIER OR DOCTOR OR TAILOR, FOR PERSONAL REASONS. NOBODY BATS AN EYE.
BUT WHEN I SAY THAT I CANNOT BE WITH A SEX WORKER, THESE WOMEN WILL COME FOR MY HEAD.
WHEN YOU WRONGLY ASSUME A PERSON TO BE A BANKER OR PHARMACIST, NOBODY BATS AN EYE.
BUT WHEN YOU ASSUME SOMEBODY IS A SEX WORKER, YOU'RE DONE FOR.

THIS ANALYSIS SHOW THAT WOMEN CLEARLY KNOW THAT PROSTITUTION IS IN NO WAY HONORABLE. THIS IS WHY THEY HIDE THEIR PASTS BECAUSE EVEN THEM AREN'T PROUD OF THEMSELVES BUT SUDDENLY WANT YOU TO BE PROUD OF IT FOR THEM?

THEY WILL EAT THEIR CAKES AND HAVE IT ANY DAY AT YOUR EXPENSE. DON'T BE A FOOL. EMBRACE BANDITRY TODAY MY FRIENDS. STAY TALIBAN.

CAPSLOCKED:
WHAT I LEARNT IN 2021 FROM BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN AND NIGERIAN WOMEN (ON THE INTERNET) IS THAT SEX WORK IS A LEGITIMATE HONORABLE WORK. I MEAN, I HAVE NEVER FOUND A SINGLE CASE SUPPORTING FRAUD & GANGSTERISM AS HONORABLE THINGS, BUT SINCE WOMEN WANT US TO HOLD PROSTITUTION TO THE STANDARD WE HOLD ENGINEERING, MEDICINE, LEGAL PRACTICE, ETC, I THINK THAT'S ALRIGHT WITH ME.

THIS SAME 2021 THEY STARTED TO GLAMORIZE THINGS LIKE "ASHEWO DRESS", "ASHEWO VIBES", "GET THAT BAG SIS", "ONLYFANS AND CODEDRUNS IS THE BEST THING ON EARTH". I HAD NO PROBLEMS WITH ANY OF THAT.

NOW WHEN I SAY I CANNOT BE WITH A SOLDIER OR DOCTOR OR TAILOR, FOR PERSONAL REASONS. NOBODY BATS AN EYE.
BUT WHEN I SAY THAT I CANNOT BE WITH A SEX WORKER, THESE WOMEN WILL COME FOR MY HEAD.
WHEN YOU WRONGLY ASSUME A PERSON TO BE A BANKER OR PHARMACIST, NOBODY BATS AN EYE.
BUT WHEN YOU ASSUME SOMEBODY IS A SEX WORKER, YOU'RE DONE FOR.

THIS ANALYSIS SHOW THAT WOMEN CLEARLY KNOW THAT PROSTITUTION IS IN NO WAY HONORABLE. THIS IS WHY THEY HIDE THEIR PASTS BECAUSE EVEN THEM AREN'T PROUD OF THEMSELVES BUT SUDDENLY WANT YOU TO BE PROUD OF IT FOR THEM?

THEY WILL EAT THEIR CAKES AND HAVE IT ANY DAY AT YOUR EXPENSE. DON'T BE A FOOL. EMBRACE BANDITRY TODAY MY FRIENDS. STAY TALIBAN.

Winnerly:


The Bleep, are you me? I just did same 2 weeks ago. Met a clown at a mall, she was pretty and all. I called next day, we talked. I called some days later, she was asking me to introduce myself as she cant remember who. I said i will never do such, i hung up and deleted her number.

Ladies of these days are downright disrespectful and even worse if she is pretty. They are just lucky nature wired it that we do the approaching.

Funny thing is, even women in business or customer care are not left out. Most times i prefer to interact with a guy offering services than a woman. It’s a real pandemic.

Personally, I’m nolonger enthusiastic about the dating or marriage scene in Nigeria or anywhere else. It’s all based on what you are and not who you are.

Funny thing is, if you travel out of this country and return, you would see how plain looking Nigerian ladies are. I travelled out for a month and when i came back, i was asking folks if ladies here donot wear make up? Lmao.

I conduct many social experiments from time to time. When i feel like playing, i go out plain but not dirty. Maybe worn out sneakers, small phone etc. First thing they do is stare me stylishly from top to bottom. I wonder if they think we don’t catch those stares. Another looked visibly disappointed when i removed my small phone to collect her number.

She then gave me a fake number. Meanwhile i have an iphone 13 at home and too many airforce one’s to fit on my shoe rack.

These are the kind of clowns some people take seriously. Loose your wealth and loose them.

I will never put forth what i am just to be accepted by someone of thesame flesh and blood like me. Only acceptance one should seek is from their maker.

Magnoliaa:

Respect yourself oh. You're here claiming redpiller. Don't let us start a bloooodysperm 2.0 oh.

Just deeeeeeey your dey.

Thank you.

Emmynator:
Some of my friend tell me I'm too harsh with women, in the words of a male friend, I'm the biggest misogynist he's ever seen, and i told him I'm proud

I am naturally good at identifying shit tests right from time, even before I found the redpill. Even in my childhood, statements like "be a man" "don't be a lazy boy" often produced an adverse effect. I always refused to be manipulated into doing something I don't want to do, much to the frustration of my mother and siblings, even at loggerheads with my dad cause of the same (he's late now though).
I can't count the number of times I've been lazy shamed, so much that it started sounding like a compliment . My younger brother was actually the opposite, he seemed to get an ego boost from being called hardworking, my sisters turned him into an errand machine. Thank God he took heed to my advice when he got a lil bit older, and toned down on the work he does, much to the displeasure of my sisters.
Till date my sisters complain that I am too cold, not caring, bla bla bla. I actually love and cherish them, but not in the simpish way they'd expect.
From my life experiences, I picked the following points;
1. Charity begins at home, yes. Women perfect their manipulation techniques at home (on male within their space) before taking it into the real world, and in the same vein men are prepared for manipulation through the same medium.
The most you will ever be manipulated is by members of your house, the most you kindness will ever be abused is in your house, know this, and know peace.
2. Most of them bad blood you get from females when you fail to fall for their manipulations is them wondering why it doesn't work on you.
3. It's better to start from the lowest point possible and move up from there if you want. In my experience, anytime I did something little, my gesture was met with awe and appreciation (mainly because I did nothing previously). Some guys starting relationships from the highest point in terms of drive and attraction are setting themselves up for failure, cause the other party only thinks "why is he no longer as caring as he used to be", not minding that the previous standard he set was unsustainable.
4. No go dey do pass yourself, it's as easy as that, why should you work so hard only to receive praise as a reward? Ha, you are hardworking, you are caring, you are loving. Do what you consider necessary and rest. You aren't meant to die before your time, you aren't meant to go to bed tired to death for the sake of others, if it's for yourself, then good for you.

I've learnt so much from this thread, this is me giving back, peace.

Osas187:
I met this girl at a naming ceremony and I collected her number,she asked of my name,I told her "Osas"
I called her after three days.
Me : hello
Her : Hi who's on the line ?
Me : Osas the guy you gave out your number
Her : who's Osas
Me : You don't remember ?
Her : Yes
Me : Call me back when ever you remember.
I hang up the call and deleted her number.

Skepticus:


I always thought she would be an EXCEPTION of ladies that will defeat the wall or at least push it back for a bit (I do think she was successful in pushing it back and it is very rare).

So, all of them daily 500 sit-ups, buckets of paints (make-up), cosmetic surgeries etc couldn't defeat the inevitable wall?

SIMPs like Alex Rodriguez (A-Rod) thinks otherwise. Lol

Emmynator:
Some of my friend tell me I'm too harsh with women, in the words of a male friend, I'm the biggest misogynist he's ever seen, and i told him I'm proud

I am naturally good at identifying shit tests right from time, even before I found the redpill. Even in my childhood, statements like "be a man" "don't be a lazy boy" often produced an adverse effect. I always refused to be manipulated into doing something I don't want to do, much to the frustration of my mother and siblings, even at loggerheads with my dad cause of the same (he's late now though).
I can't count the number of times I've been lazy shamed, so much that it started sounding like a compliment . My younger brother was actually the opposite, he seemed to get an ego boost from being called hardworking, my sisters turned him into an errand machine. Thank God he took heed to my advice when he got a lil bit older, and toned down on the work he does, much to the displeasure of my sisters.
Till date my sisters complain that I am too cold, not caring, bla bla bla. I actually love and cherish them, but not in the simpish way they'd expect.
From my life experiences, I picked the following points;
1. Charity begins at home, yes. Women perfect their manipulation techniques at home (on male within their space) before taking it into the real world, and in the same vein men are prepared for manipulation through the same medium.
The most you will ever be manipulated is by members of your house, the most you kindness will ever be abused is in your house, know this, and know peace.
2. Most of them bad blood you get from females when you fail to fall for their manipulations is them wondering why it doesn't work on you.
3. It's better to start from the lowest point possible and move up from there if you want. In my experience, anytime I did something little, my gesture was met with awe and appreciation (mainly because I did nothing previously). Some guys starting relationships from the highest point in terms of drive and attraction are setting themselves up for failure, cause the other party only thinks "why is he no longer as caring as he used to be", not minding that the previous standard he set was unsustainable.
4. No go dey do pass yourself, it's as easy as that, why should you work so hard only to receive praise as a reward? Ha, you are hardworking, you are caring, you are loving. Do what you consider necessary and rest. You aren't meant to die before your time, you aren't meant to go to bed tired to death for the sake of others, if it's for yourself, then good for you.

I've learnt so much from this thread, this is me giving back, peace.

MJBOLT:
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CaveAdullam:


There are a whole lot of things to say on the issue of game and rejection and women's way of interaction in this modern age both in first and third world countries. However, it is of noteworthy that all interactions as per the intersexual dynamics must be understood from an evolutionary lens.

(Gosh! Nairaland ought to have an audio option)!

Let me go down the drain a little:

1. All humans fall for the halo effect: judging people from their physical appearance first before other of their features are paid attention.

2. Women desire handsome men because it signifies handsome kids and resourceful men because it signifies good welfare for her and the kids. While men desire beautiful women for same reason women desire handsome men---beautiful kids.

3. When you approach women and women don't see these qualities they will never take you serious, same way you'll never take an ugly woman serious.

4. The intersexual dynamics is an exchange platform: women bring sex and men brings resources. The one who allows its own goes cheaply is a fool; woman is called a slut and man is called a simp.

5. Sex is mutual, but you must understand that it is what the average woman or women in general has to offer, hence, she must leverage upon it to get a man's commitment. If she offers sex freely she will die poor! Same way a man will become poor if he offers commitment without getting a woman's best both in body and soul. This is the friendzone dilemma!

Should men now save money so that they can bolster their notch counts? Philanderers may agree to this because it is their desire to bask in an avalanche of sexual fantasies. Therefore, paying large sums of money to experience different sexual escapades is no problem for them especially if they got the money.

Lest I forget, remember that from an evolutionary perspective, egg is expensive while sperm is cheap! If women lollygags with their eggs they will pay dearly for it.

6. But women do have sex with men who don't give a hoot about them. Why? It is because of females dual mating strategy: alpha fvcks beta bucks.

This is where game comes in and you bringing sharply to your consciousness that sex is mutual and should cost you little to nothing.

(Also remember that simps are also reacting to what our male ancestors felt in the wild: "since egg is expensive lets give the women we desire more meats, fruits, honey and protection so that they can give us offspring". And we all know that this quid pro quo was roughly beneficial to both parties involved.

7. In the PUA community, rejection seems as a joke. Men are just told to spin other plates and forget about any woman that rejects them. Easier said than experience! Rejection is no joke be it a man or woman at the receiving end. Spinning plates is not an easy task because a man don't have the whole time" chyking" women and neither is it wise frolicking around women because he wants to quickly curb the effect of former rejections.

8. Spinning plates is easy when a man already has that aura of resourcefulness and very attractive which takes us back again to the halo effect.

9. As far as I understand, PUAs success is in parties and sex clubs where already there are females who just want to be fvcked!
However, on a normal day, such is uncommon with the women you come across in the course of your daily duties.

10. I'm not disqualifying the PUA community because they've garnered lessons a man can glean from and improve on his game. But the real world experience is beyond reading "how to seduce a woman in 60 minutes and bring her to your bedroom" or watching infield YouTube videos that are most of the time sponsored and faked.

11. Women have sex but it is mostly with men they are around with. (The problem of kiss and tell is there though, but trust me, these women know their game and play it very well).

Women by nature are emotional and any man that is around them who is able to provide that emotional rush for them mixed with adventures will always get her pvssy wet! For that reason our ancestors mate guarded their females. Same reason long distance relationship is not advisable for any man. For women, sexual feelings must be felt as texts and calls doesn't always suffice.

12. As you approach any woman you must understand that she has a man that's supplying her this emotional rush; he might be a chad or a simp or both. But just know it. These are same men women run to even though they are still engaged to a powerful and wealthy man.

If you approach her and she agrees immediately or hesitantly know that the first reason is your appearance and in addition, maybe your personality. If you are not able to dominate her and surpass the benchmark from which she used to measure her emotional rush, she will still go back to her alpha or yearns for him always in her imagination.

13. That's why the game of CHOSEN (aka the Greenlight Approach) coined by Ubunja is the ultimate as far as I understand. Here, whether you are good, bad, handsome or ugly you'll easily get along with women because they chose you.

Where I think PUA beats CHOSEN is women's availability; the former grants you access to many different women but with less success rate while the later grants access to fewer women but with a higher success rate.

Extrapolating the PUA mentality, you'll be successful with women if you place yourself in a place where women are abundant. Rather than hoping from place to place and trying to get women, you just improve yourself and stay in that niche. Clergymen gets women without doing anything. Ditto for male celebrities, craftsmen etc.

14. Women don't really/necessarily wait and wait to fvck the only 20% of men even though that's what they desire instinctual. They still fvck men who pretends/emulates and posses such characters. And this is only possible with the men they find around because they've already judged this men as a result of their proximity over time.

15. In third world countries to get women easily is by wagging cash. It's as simple as that.
But if you understand the game, you use your cash as a bait! Women must first see attractiveness and resources or their similarities before they get down with men. This is also applicable with first world countries women, however, it seems attractiveness comes first. Notwithstanding, hypergamy is at play any day or time in women regardless of whichever turns it decides to take at any particular point in time.

16. Whether PUA method or Chosen, a man should know what best fits him. Rejection is still part of the game and he must be willing to accept and learn from it.

There are still more to say, but I draw the curtain here for now.

Thanks.

Cc. Bloodysperm, Osas187, Ichidodo et al.

CAPSLOCKED:
WHAT I LEARNT IN 2021 FROM BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN AND NIGERIAN WOMEN (ON THE INTERNET) IS THAT SEX WORK IS A LEGITIMATE HONORABLE WORK. I MEAN, I HAVE NEVER FOUND A SINGLE CASE SUPPORTING FRAUD & GANGSTERISM AS HONORABLE THINGS, BUT SINCE WOMEN WANT US TO HOLD PROSTITUTION TO THE STANDARD WE HOLD ENGINEERING, MEDICINE, LEGAL PRACTICE, ETC, I THINK THAT'S ALRIGHT WITH ME.

THIS SAME 2021 THEY STARTED TO GLAMORIZE THINGS LIKE "ASHEWO DRESS", "ASHEWO VIBES", "GET THAT BAG SIS", "ONLYFANS AND CODEDRUNS IS THE BEST THING ON EARTH". I HAD NO PROBLEMS WITH ANY OF THAT.

NOW WHEN I SAY I CANNOT BE WITH A SOLDIER OR DOCTOR OR TAILOR, FOR PERSONAL REASONS. NOBODY BATS AN EYE.
BUT WHEN I SAY THAT I CANNOT BE WITH A SEX WORKER, THESE WOMEN WILL COME FOR MY HEAD.
WHEN YOU WRONGLY ASSUME A PERSON TO BE A BANKER OR PHARMACIST, NOBODY BATS AN EYE.
BUT WHEN YOU ASSUME SOMEBODY IS A SEX WORKER, YOU'RE DONE FOR.

THIS ANALYSIS SHOW THAT WOMEN CLEARLY KNOW THAT PROSTITUTION IS IN NO WAY HONORABLE. THIS IS WHY THEY HIDE THEIR PASTS BECAUSE EVEN THEM AREN'T PROUD OF THEMSELVES BUT SUDDENLY WANT YOU TO BE PROUD OF IT FOR THEM?

THEY WILL EAT THEIR CAKES AND HAVE IT ANY DAY AT YOUR EXPENSE. DON'T BE A FOOL. EMBRACE BANDITRY TODAY MY FRIENDS. STAY TALIBAN.

Junnior:

I can relate with this. It seemed like I was the one talking. . Having Elder sisters was really a blessing as I got to learn female nature from a very young age. I'm naturally a very observant guy, so I would sit back and observe how my sisters manipulated grown-ass men.
We always quarelled because when they try their nonsense on me, it doesn't work.
They always tried to manipulate me into doing things/work by shaming my masculinity, but I never gave a fvck. I did only what I deemed necessary.
I hardly gave compliments or told them sweet things. They called me cold and all that. Any day I reluctantly give a lil compliment to any one of them, she would be overjoyed and tell the others.
They would often say that it is guys like me that end up being a total m0ron to one girl. They used to tell me that one day I will meet a girl that will have "my password". .
We all grown up now and I still haven't seen such girl born of a human

I believe All men are born redpilled. The issue is that from their time of birth, the bluepill conditioning begins (from their immediate home to the society). Some are strong-willed enough to stay the way they are naturally, while most succumb to the conditioning and become simps.

Nyascobar1414:
'k'

I am an attention seeker. And trust me, I'll take this bait. Mannnyyy hours after I've left, you cut and come from nowhere to come and quote me to say this. Bringing me back to this thread.

Bros, why?

Was one idiot and some fools up there not bragging about 'ignoring the attention seeker?'

Brother wey moomoo, I was quoted o. I was quoted. See it up here. Seee. And thunder will faya the maturity that will make me ignore. You say learn watin? Fireee una never learn.

All of you, una no pass kokoro tintintin for mah eyes, and BEST BELIEVE if I choose to keep this up, if up to four of una no quote me, make I bend.

You can move o, but just move mad into my mention. One of you should just move mad na. Outside this thread. That's the condition. O tan.

Junnior:


They would often say that it is guys like me that end up being a total m0ron to one girl. They used to tell me that one day I will meet a girl that will have "my password". .
We all grown up now and I still haven't seen such girl born of a human

Hakeem12:
what book is this?