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Danycrusoe:
Alot of ladies end up like this, now naturally I don't pity them but I pity this one, she's just 20 and she has a 1year old daughter already.


The guy who impregnated her looks mature and responsible on the outlook. A month after the birth of the baby he forgot about her despite the fact that they live in the same area.


She dares not try n meet him. Now she's looking for someone to carry another man's consequences of having pleasure. When I was advising and warning her back den, she saw me as a vibe killer, a slowpoke and all. Unfortunately, I'm not a bill sorter, las las she will be fine.


Gentlemen, if d guy wifed her up and pay bills she won't be like this. Moral of the story, don't make mistakes of trying to save them, they don't want to be saved. Bleep dem and lookaway.

Danycrusoe:
Alot of ladies end up like this, now naturally I don't pity them but I pity this one, she's just 20 and she has a 1year old daughter already.


The guy who impregnated her looks mature and responsible on the outlook. A month after the birth of the baby he forgot about her despite the fact that they live in the same area.


She dares not try n meet him. Now she's looking for someone to carry another man's consequences of having pleasure. When I was advising and warning her back den, she saw me as a vibe killer, a slowpoke and all. Unfortunately, I'm not a bill sorter, las las she will be fine.


Gentlemen, if d guy wifed her up and pay bills she won't be like this. Moral of the story, don't make mistakes of trying to save them, they don't want to be saved. Bleep dem and lookaway.

MJBOLT:

if she sees any cuckold who wants to shoulder her responsibilities,she will return to her old ways,girls like this no fit change.

heartofcity12:
She got served, I know few like this too and I don’t pity them at all. They don’t want to be saved, reality always humble them after they become baby mamas with the baby father not in the picture.
I’m a big girl”, “I don’t date broke guys”, “I’m a slay queen”,”Nice guys are boring” “I deserve only the richest guys”- Most of it always end in tears as this or worse.

Danycrusoe:
She's actually young and wasn't the picky type looking for rich guys, her hoe phase just messed her up, jumping from one dick to d other before this one hang am for one corner

Just imagine
At 20,she's still very young,one SIMPle guy somewhere might decide to grant her wish.

Danycrusoe:
100% true. She wants a phone, she needs a phone, she no get money but she wants me to buy for her in exchange for Mouth Gig and sex.

MJBOLT:

Just imagine
At 20,she's still very young,one SIMPle guy somewhere might decide to grant her wish.

Danycrusoe:
She's actually young and wasn't the picky type looking for rich guys, her hoe phase just messed her up, jumping from one dick to d other before this one hang am for one corner

Osas187:
I met this girl at a naming ceremony and I collected her number,she asked of my name,I told her "Osas"
I called her after three days.
Me : hello
Her : Hi who's on the line ?
Me : Osas the guy you gave out your number
Her : who's Osas
Me : You don't remember ?
Her : Yes
Me : Call me back when ever you remember.
I hang up the call and deleted her number.

Andremalan731:

foreman:
See experience.

Guys, have you ever messed around with girls between 18 to 20 years of age. Try it if you have the time and a good di-ck.
But be careful they tend to be careless and carried away with oversweetness especially if your di-ckgame is top notch.

Andremalan731:

leetylee:
Women have secrets that will just cast them the moment they spill...
I watched a video about game of truth where this woman was put on a hot seat and asked questions bout her marriage life and involvement with other guys outside marriage, likeee you just need to see how the woman was just spitting shit the husband doesn't know that was happening behind his back, thinking his wife won't do none of what can never happen to him in marriage.

Funny enough the husband was present at the show obviously showing how shocked and disappointed he is, the woman was asked if she loved her husband and does she deserve a better man? She said yes and said no for the other question. It might interest you to know that the money involved for this game was $200,000 and higher ( If the questions keep going) so she settled for the 200,000 since she can't afford to risk what she has swept under the rug to the acknowledgement of her husband. In her words "the money is enough for me and my daughters" I don't want to sound too heavy on the woman choice of word.

According to her she has been a good wife, her husband is trying his possible best to keep the family inorder (financially and emotionally) but she, as nature could have it find herself having extra activities outside marriage. Trp is a dynamic manual that teaches/ you about this 'nature' and how you can respond to it, a pill once taken serve as an antibody to foreign entities which works with the system in sync to fight against it.

No matter how innocent, humble, caring and decent she is mind you there is traces of hypergamy in them no matter how small. There's always the half truth and total lies in their stories, listen beyond the composition there's always a catch to it (I'll share a short revelation later) believe them at your own peril. Though they can be honest with trivia things but not with things that has to do with their personal lives. In this journey, we should be disciplined and swallow the truth the way it is... It's the only way to redemption.

CAPSLOCKED:
WHAT I LEARNT IN 2021 FROM BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN AND NIGERIAN WOMEN (ON THE INTERNET) IS THAT SEX WORK IS A LEGITIMATE HONORABLE WORK. I MEAN, I HAVE NEVER FOUND A SINGLE CASE SUPPORTING FRAUD & GANGSTERISM AS HONORABLE THINGS, BUT SINCE WOMEN WANT US TO HOLD PROSTITUTION TO THE STANDARD WE HOLD ENGINEERING, MEDICINE, LEGAL PRACTICE, ETC, I THINK THAT'S ALRIGHT WITH ME.

THIS SAME 2021 THEY STARTED TO GLAMORIZE THINGS LIKE "ASHEWO DRESS", "ASHEWO VIBES", "GET THAT BAG SIS", "ONLYFANS AND CODEDRUNS IS THE BEST THING ON EARTH". I HAD NO PROBLEMS WITH ANY OF THAT.

NOW WHEN I SAY I CANNOT BE WITH A SOLDIER OR DOCTOR OR TAILOR, FOR PERSONAL REASONS. NOBODY BATS AN EYE.
BUT WHEN I SAY THAT I CANNOT BE WITH A SEX WORKER, THESE WOMEN WILL COME FOR MY HEAD.
WHEN YOU WRONGLY ASSUME A PERSON TO BE A BANKER OR PHARMACIST, NOBODY BATS AN EYE.
BUT WHEN YOU ASSUME SOMEBODY IS A SEX WORKER, YOU'RE DONE FOR.

THIS ANALYSIS SHOW THAT WOMEN CLEARLY KNOW THAT PROSTITUTION IS IN NO WAY HONORABLE. THIS IS WHY THEY HIDE THEIR PASTS BECAUSE EVEN THEM AREN'T PROUD OF THEMSELVES BUT SUDDENLY WANT YOU TO BE PROUD OF IT FOR THEM?

THEY WILL EAT THEIR CAKES AND HAVE IT ANY DAY AT YOUR EXPENSE. DON'T BE A FOOL. EMBRACE BANDITRY TODAY MY FRIENDS. STAY TALIBAN.

Danycrusoe:
Alot of ladies end up like this, now naturally I don't pity them but I pity this one, she's just 20 and she has a 1year old daughter already.


The guy who impregnated her looks mature and responsible on the outlook. A month after the birth of the baby he forgot about her despite the fact that they live in the same area.


She dares not try n meet him. Now she's looking for someone to carry another man's consequences of having pleasure. When I was advising and warning her back den, she saw me as a vibe killer, a slowpoke and all. Unfortunately, I'm not a bill sorter, las las she will be fine.


Gentlemen, if d guy wifed her up and pay bills she won't be like this. Moral of the story, don't make mistakes of trying to save them, they don't want to be saved. Bleep dem and lookaway.

Magnoliaa:
I am an attention seeker. And trust me, I'll take this bait. Mannnyyy hours after I've left, you cut and come from nowhere to come and quote me to say this. Bringing me back to this thread.

Bros, why?

Was one idiot and some fools up there not bragging about 'ignoring the attention seeker?'

Brother wey moomoo, I was quoted o. I was quoted. See it up here. Seee. And thunder will faya the maturity that will make me ignore. You say learn watin? Fireee una never learn.

All of you, una no pass kokoro tintintin for mah eyes, and BEST BELIEVE if I choose to keep this up, if up to four of una no quote me, make I bend.

You can move o, but just move mad into my mention. One of you should just move mad na. Outside this thread. That's the condition. O tan.

Junnior:
I can relate with this. It seemed like I was the one talking. . Having Elder sisters was really a blessing as I got to learn female nature from a very young age. I'm naturally a very observant guy, so I would sit back and observe how my sisters manipulated grown-ass men.
We always quarelled because when they try their nonsense on me, it doesn't work.
They always tried to manipulate me into doing things/work by shaming my masculinity, but I never gave a fvck. I did only what I deemed necessary.
I hardly gave compliments or told them sweet things. They called me cold and all that. Any day I reluctantly give a lil compliment to any one of them, she would be overjoyed and tell the others.
They would often say that it is guys like me that end up being a total m0ron to one girl. They used to tell me that one day I will meet a girl that will have "my password". .
We all grown up now and I still haven't seen such girl born of a human

I believe All men are born redpilled. The issue is that from their time of birth, the bluepill conditioning begins (from their immediate home to the society). Some are strong-willed enough to stay the way they are naturally, while most succumb to the conditioning and become simps.

Nyascobar1414:
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ezeonline:

CaveAdullam:
There are a whole lot of things to say on the issue of game and rejection and women's way of interaction in this modern age both in first and third world countries. However, it is of noteworthy that all interactions as per the intersexual dynamics must be understood from an evolutionary lens.

(Gosh! Nairaland ought to have an audio option)!

Let me go down the drain a little:

1. All humans fall for the halo effect: judging people from their physical appearance first before other of their features are paid attention.

2. Women desire handsome men because it signifies handsome kids and resourceful men because it signifies good welfare for her and the kids. While men desire beautiful women for same reason women desire handsome men---beautiful kids.

3. When you approach women and women don't see these qualities they will never take you serious, same way you'll never take an ugly woman serious.

4. The intersexual dynamics is an exchange platform: women bring sex and men brings resources. The one who allows its own goes cheaply is a fool; woman is called a slut and man is called a simp.

5. Sex is mutual, but you must understand that it is what the average woman or women in general has to offer, hence, she must leverage upon it to get a man's commitment. If she offers sex freely she will die poor! Same way a man will become poor if he offers commitment without getting a woman's best both in body and soul. This is the friendzone dilemma!

Should men now save money so that they can bolster their notch counts? Philanderers may agree to this because it is their desire to bask in an avalanche of sexual fantasies. Therefore, paying large sums of money to experience different sexual escapades is no problem for them especially if they got the money.

Lest I forget, remember that from an evolutionary perspective, egg is expensive while sperm is cheap! If women lollygags with their eggs they will pay dearly for it.

6. But women do have sex with men who don't give a hoot about them. Why? It is because of females dual mating strategy: alpha fvcks beta bucks.

This is where game comes in and you bringing sharply to your consciousness that sex is mutual and should cost you little to nothing.

(Also remember that simps are also reacting to what our male ancestors felt in the wild: "since egg is expensive lets give the women we desire more meats, fruits, honey and protection so that they can give us offspring". And we all know that this quid pro quo was roughly beneficial to both parties involved.

7. In the PUA community, rejection seems as a joke. Men are just told to spin other plates and forget about any woman that rejects them. Easier said than experience! Rejection is no joke be it a man or woman at the receiving end. Spinning plates is not an easy task because a man don't have the whole time" chyking" women and neither is it wise frolicking around women because he wants to quickly curb the effect of former rejections.

8. Spinning plates is easy when a man already has that aura of resourcefulness and very attractive which takes us back again to the halo effect.

9. As far as I understand, PUAs success is in parties and sex clubs where already there are females who just want to be fvcked!
However, on a normal day, such is uncommon with the women you come across in the course of your daily duties.

10. I'm not disqualifying the PUA community because they've garnered lessons a man can glean from and improve on his game. But the real world experience is beyond reading "how to seduce a woman in 60 minutes and bring her to your bedroom" or watching infield YouTube videos that are most of the time sponsored and faked.

11. Women have sex but it is mostly with men they are around with. (The problem of kiss and tell is there though, but trust me, these women know their game and play it very well).

Women by nature are emotional and any man that is around them who is able to provide that emotional rush for them mixed with adventures will always get her pvssy wet! For that reason our ancestors mate guarded their females. Same reason long distance relationship is not advisable for any man. For women, sexual feelings must be felt as texts and calls doesn't always suffice.

12. As you approach any woman you must understand that she has a man that's supplying her this emotional rush; he might be a chad or a simp or both. But just know it. These are same men women run to even though they are still engaged to a powerful and wealthy man.

If you approach her and she agrees immediately or hesitantly know that the first reason is your appearance and in addition, maybe your personality. If you are not able to dominate her and surpass the benchmark from which she used to measure her emotional rush, she will still go back to her alpha or yearns for him always in her imagination.

13. That's why the game of CHOSEN (aka the Greenlight Approach) coined by Ubunja is the ultimate as far as I understand. Here, whether you are good, bad, handsome or ugly you'll easily get along with women because they chose you.

Where I think PUA beats CHOSEN is women's availability; the former grants you access to many different women but with less success rate while the later grants access to fewer women but with a higher success rate.

Extrapolating the PUA mentality, you'll be successful with women if you place yourself in a place where women are abundant. Rather than hoping from place to place and trying to get women, you just improve yourself and stay in that niche. Clergymen gets women without doing anything. Ditto for male celebrities, craftsmen etc.

14. Women don't really/necessarily wait and wait to fvck the only 20% of men even though that's what they desire instinctual. They still fvck men who pretends/emulates and posses such characters. And this is only possible with the men they find around because they've already judged this men as a result of their proximity over time.

15. In third world countries to get women easily is by wagging cash. It's as simple as that.
But if you understand the game, you use your cash as a bait! Women must first see attractiveness and resources or their similarities before they get down with men. This is also applicable with first world countries women, however, it seems attractiveness comes first. Notwithstanding, hypergamy is at play any day or time in women regardless of whichever turns it decides to take at any particular point in time.

16. Whether PUA method or Chosen, a man should know what best fits him. Rejection is still part of the game and he must be willing to accept and learn from it.

There are still more to say, but I draw the curtain here for now.

Thanks.

Cc. Bloodysperm, Osas187, Ichidodo et al.

Nyascobar1414:
'k'

Nyascobar1414:
'k'

CaveAdullam:
There are a whole lot of things to say on the issue of game and rejection and women's way of interaction in this modern age both in first and third world countries. However, it is of noteworthy that all interactions as per the intersexual dynamics must be understood from an evolutionary lens.

(Gosh! Nairaland ought to have an audio option)!

Let me go down the drain a little:

1. All humans fall for the halo effect: judging people from their physical appearance first before other of their features are paid attention.

2. Women desire handsome men because it signifies handsome kids and resourceful men because it signifies good welfare for her and the kids. While men desire beautiful women for same reason women desire handsome men---beautiful kids.

3. When you approach women and women don't see these qualities they will never take you serious, same way you'll never take an ugly woman serious.

4. The intersexual dynamics is an exchange platform: women bring sex and men brings resources. The one who allows its own goes cheaply is a fool; woman is called a slut and man is called a simp.

5. Sex is mutual, but you must understand that it is what the average woman or women in general has to offer, hence, she must leverage upon it to get a man's commitment. If she offers sex freely she will die poor! Same way a man will become poor if he offers commitment without getting a woman's best both in body and soul. This is the friendzone dilemma!

Should men now save money so that they can bolster their notch counts? Philanderers may agree to this because it is their desire to bask in an avalanche of sexual fantasies. Therefore, paying large sums of money to experience different sexual escapades is no problem for them especially if they got the money.

Lest I forget, remember that from an evolutionary perspective, egg is expensive while sperm is cheap! If women lollygags with their eggs they will pay dearly for it.

6. But women do have sex with men who don't give a hoot about them. Why? It is because of females dual mating strategy: alpha fvcks beta bucks.

This is where game comes in and you bringing sharply to your consciousness that sex is mutual and should cost you little to nothing.

(Also remember that simps are also reacting to what our male ancestors felt in the wild: "since egg is expensive lets give the women we desire more meats, fruits, honey and protection so that they can give us offspring". And we all know that this quid pro quo was roughly beneficial to both parties involved.

7. In the PUA community, rejection seems as a joke. Men are just told to spin other plates and forget about any woman that rejects them. Easier said than experience! Rejection is no joke be it a man or woman at the receiving end. Spinning plates is not an easy task because a man don't have the whole time" chyking" women and neither is it wise frolicking around women because he wants to quickly curb the effect of former rejections.

8. Spinning plates is easy when a man already has that aura of resourcefulness and very attractive which takes us back again to the halo effect.

9. As far as I understand, PUAs success is in parties and sex clubs where already there are females who just want to be fvcked!
However, on a normal day, such is uncommon with the women you come across in the course of your daily duties.

10. I'm not disqualifying the PUA community because they've garnered lessons a man can glean from and improve on his game. But the real world experience is beyond reading "how to seduce a woman in 60 minutes and bring her to your bedroom" or watching infield YouTube videos that are most of the time sponsored and faked.

11. Women have sex but it is mostly with men they are around with. (The problem of kiss and tell is there though, but trust me, these women know their game and play it very well).

Women by nature are emotional and any man that is around them who is able to provide that emotional rush for them mixed with adventures will always get her pvssy wet! For that reason our ancestors mate guarded their females. Same reason long distance relationship is not advisable for any man. For women, sexual feelings must be felt as texts and calls doesn't always suffice.

12. As you approach any woman you must understand that she has a man that's supplying her this emotional rush; he might be a chad or a simp or both. But just know it. These are same men women run to even though they are still engaged to a powerful and wealthy man.

If you approach her and she agrees immediately or hesitantly know that the first reason is your appearance and in addition, maybe your personality. If you are not able to dominate her and surpass the benchmark from which she used to measure her emotional rush, she will still go back to her alpha or yearns for him always in her imagination.

13. That's why the game of CHOSEN (aka the Greenlight Approach) coined by Ubunja is the ultimate as far as I understand. Here, whether you are good, bad, handsome or ugly you'll easily get along with women because they chose you.

Where I think PUA beats CHOSEN is women's availability; the former grants you access to many different women but with less success rate while the later grants access to fewer women but with a higher success rate.

Extrapolating the PUA mentality, you'll be successful with women if you place yourself in a place where women are abundant. Rather than hoping from place to place and trying to get women, you just improve yourself and stay in that niche. Clergymen gets women without doing anything. Ditto for male celebrities, craftsmen etc.

14. Women don't really/necessarily wait and wait to fvck the only 20% of men even though that's what they desire instinctual. They still fvck men who pretends/emulates and posses such characters. And this is only possible with the men they find around because they've already judged this men as a result of their proximity over time.

15. In third world countries to get women easily is by wagging cash. It's as simple as that.
But if you understand the game, you use your cash as a bait! Women must first see attractiveness and resources or their similarities before they get down with men. This is also applicable with first world countries women, however, it seems attractiveness comes first. Notwithstanding, hypergamy is at play any day or time in women regardless of whichever turns it decides to take at any particular point in time.

16. Whether PUA method or Chosen, a man should know what best fits him. Rejection is still part of the game and he must be willing to accept and learn from it.

There are still more to say, but I draw the curtain here for now.

Thanks.

Cc. Bloodysperm, Osas187, Ichidodo et al.

Martinez39s:
1000 pages of this awesome red pill thread. Despite the intrusion from females, blue pill men, simps, mischievous folks and phonies, this thread is still standing gidigba and will continue standing.

Ubunja, Skepticus, pansophist, CaveAdullam, Zabiboy, Saviolamemphix, JESHAL, Jessepaid, GLYCOLYSISS, Luminouz, CAPSLOCKED, BLOODYSPERM, heartofcity12, ichidodo, junnior and other redpillers, I doff my hat for una.

Danycrusoe:
Alot of ladies end up like this, now naturally I don't pity them but I pity this one, she's just 20 and she has a 1year old daughter already.


The guy who impregnated her looks mature and responsible on the outlook. A month after the birth of the baby he forgot about her despite the fact that they live in the same area.


She dares not try n meet him. Now she's looking for someone to carry another man's consequences of having pleasure. When I was advising and warning her back den, she saw me as a vibe killer, a slowpoke and all. Unfortunately, I'm not a bill sorter, las las she will be fine.


Gentlemen, if d guy wifed her up and pay bills she won't be like this. Moral of the story, don't make mistakes of trying to save them, they don't want to be saved. Bleep dem and lookaway.

emmaodet:
Lol

Most women don’t know how hard life is until the responsibility of a man is shifted to them.
That is when they start having sleepless nights, high blood pressure and taking anti-depressant.
There was a lady I was close too sometimes ago, she works with custom and a divorcee with a kid.
She always complain to me about hard and difficult life is with a kid and always asking me for help regularly despite earning 120k then.
Funny enough, the major reason she separated from her hubby is due to financial problems because the hubby was earning 90k as a civil defense guy then and the said lady literally wanted to dump all responsibilities on him.
From what I know, any time the lady uses her money to get things at home, the man there not touch them.
A case study - there was a day she went to work and the hubby switched on the gen after getting home around 5pm to cool down and watch tv. On getting home, the lady flared up because the petrol in the gen was bought by her yet the hubby is there in the parlor, sitting and spreading his legs using her petrol. Something that is meant to be done by a man, he is there shamelessly using his wife’s petrol/money. Before you know it, kasala burst, raising voices, cursing each other, to the point of about beating each other.
Now the said lady is single again with their daughter, earning 120k and always complaining about money not enough DESPITE -
1. Packing back and staying with her family. Meaning she is not paying house rent nor the pressure of house rent on her head.
2. I believe since she is staying with her parent, feeding cost will also reduce because she may likely just be dropping maybe 20/30k to her parent monthly to add to the house feeding money.
3. Now that she is staying alone, she now knows what it means to be a man.
A woman who sees a man earning 90k or something less than 200k, will want him to save and buy car, save and buy land and be building it, regular car maintenance, house rent, kids school fees, family monthly upkeeps, inbetween she will still be grumbling why he is not giving them money for shopping because the clothes they are wearing is either getting old or not sizing them again, in all these he has to find a way to save and he must also have enough to invest because they are not getting younger and must invest for their old age and retirement, occasionally support her family aka in-laws while his own family/parent are also screaming at him in one corner about how he has not been sending money home to papa and mama that trained him to that stage, his junior ones will be keeping malice with him for not giving them anything despite working (what a useless brother) and above all these, the occasionally financial draining events like burial, wedding, naming, hospital bills incase of health unseen challenges will crawl in and not to talk of bad investments/bad businesses that went wrong and then Gbammmmm!!!!!! A mama is totally broke and indebted and his wife will DUMP him.
Unfortunately, when the man comes to nairaland to narrate his ordeal and share his pains and experiences, what does he get? How stop that silly story of yours and go out there and Hustle.
- Oga double your hustle.
- You fuuucked up, you should have invested your money wisely when you were working- for those who lost their jobs.
Etc
A crazy world.