Afamsi:
She has covenanted with the gods not to have her biological child

diamondbody:



My unfortunate and useless father, You're really a mad man�

obailala:
See how this one is passionately gulping panadol for another person's problem.

SocialJustice:
Village mentality has finished you my foolish mama. Thank God you have access to Internet. Make Ogun kill me if I don see goats and fowls for town and Poultry before

Ogaboss44:


And how is it your bussiness how she choose to raise her child.
Are you any better than her, you guys would just sit In one place all day , and be spewing trash about someone's life.

pepperdemzombie:

Carry cutlass follow your mama make e find your papa for you.

irunoko:
if she no marry- insults
If she marry- insults
If she no born- insults
If she born- insults
If she do surrogacy- insults
If she be single mother- insults
She be career woman- insults
She be housewife- insults
She be virgin- insults
She no be virgin- insults

When Simi sang women don suffer I guess she was right

Zetty177x:


Confirmed illiterate. So her egg is not her biological child?

Prime4life:
Why is she even explaining to dumb folks. Anyways take good care of your child, happy motherhood.

obailala:
I'm currently in a vehicle now with my pops and mum and my Oloriburuku dey support person wen go form Pikin without papa. Idiot like me no common.. So no vex, clean your eyes and check well cos I dey the same bastard category with my unfortunate Papa and mama family.

pepperdemzombie:
Linda pikin_no papa
Precious children_no papa
Ini Edo pikin_no papa.
Shey ipob children no dey get papa ni?

Benprass:



Look at this Goat I call my mother!

Me and my foolish mother don't know my father.

Ogaboss44:


And how is it your bussiness how she choose to raise her child.
Are you any better than her, you guys would just sit In one place all day , and be spewing trash about someone's life.

Peace081:
She even get time dy explain to some dumb people

pepperdemzombie:

You and your mama no know your papa abi? How can a sane person go online to tell people she used a random sperm donor to form her daughter without shame? Nothing wrong with surrogacy, a husband/boyfriend/lover is to be the donor. Who asked her before she talked?
Happy moherhood indeed Household wen dey boast of peace, na their bastard never grow. Later the confused one will be kneeling down about and crying in secret like Tonto begging fvck mates to stand as father.
Breeding bastards and naming them after their fathers, rubbish!

Missmossy:

Not true she is human you know
she couldn’t conceive when married hence her going for surrogacy.

pepperdemzombie:

You and your mama no know your papa abi? How can a sane person go online to tell people she used a random sperm donor to form her daughter without shame? Nothing wrong with surrogacy, a husband/boyfriend/lover is to be the donor. Who asked her before she talked?
Happy moherhood indeed Household wen dey boast of peace, na their bastard never grow. Later the confused one will be kneeling down about and crying in secret like Tonto begging fvck mates to stand as father.
Breeding bastards and naming them after their fathers, rubbish!

Missmossy:

Not true she is human you know
she couldn’t conceive when married hence her going for surrogacy.

Agboconsult1:
But will the daughter know her father?

Crystalom3:
of course everyone with an opposing views is miserable.

Who the heck gave y'all this type of reasoning?

Her child will bring her happiness, OK. But what about the child herself? Does anyone take her happiness into account?

Like you, Ini's reason for wanting surrogate is superficial and self-centered. It wasn't about the child but herself.

But hey, it's us who are miserable. At least we are not birthing babies so they can give us happiness

pepperdemzombie:
Linda pikin_no papa
Precious children_no papa
Ini Edo pikin_no papa.
Shey ipob children no dey get papa ni?

pepperdemzombie:

You and your mama no know your papa abi? How can a sane person go online to tell people she used a random sperm donor to form her daughter without shame? Nothing wrong with surrogacy, a husband/boyfriend/lover is to be the donor. Who asked her before she talked?
Happy moherhood indeed Household wen dey boast of peace, na their bastard never grow. Later the confused one will be kneeling down about and crying in secret like Tonto begging fvck mates to stand as father.
Breeding bastards and naming them after their fathers, rubbish!

Farfalla:


What is selfish about wanting to be a mother? Human beings have desires and motherhood was one of Ini's desires. Just as good friendships, good relationships, a fulfilling career, good health and a fulfilling spiritual life bring happiness, children can be a source of happiness too. I should know.

What makes you think that she's getting a baby for selfish reasons? Is the desire to raise a child selfish? What would you rather she did?

Antoeni:
For Now Your Daughter is Fatherless Period.
Prove it Otherwise

Crystalom3:
lolz.

All I see is self, self, self and more selfs. It's not bad to desire motherhood but raising a child as your source of happiness is bad.

It's not bad to bring forth a child but bringing that child forth when you know the preventable challenges the child will face but instead of preventing such, you still go ahead to bring that child forth is wickedness.

AS and AS parents will love to experience parenthood but we tell them no, not because we are miserable but because we care about the happiness of the kids as well.

Same with Ini. One day that child will be the only one in her group without a father. (not knowing her father is something the society can easily understand, not having a father is an issue Nigeria is not yet ready for.)

Can Ini bear the fallout and the consequences, yes she can. Is it right to put the innocent kid through the same? I'd leave that to you. But personally, I know I won't go through such routes, at least not for now.

Farfalla:


This woman is in her late 30s for crying out loud. What would you rather have her do?

We don't know the arrangement she has with the man. Why should we assume that he'll not be a part of his child's life?