Simran94:

Isn't your statistics supposed to tell you that it's not an intentional thing from the part of the wives? And that it's just the changes a woman's body goes through when she has given birth birth or when breastfeeding coupled with the workload that comes with raising kids and taking care of the home?

The statistics isn't necessarily an indicator that the action of these set of wives isn't intentional.

The 30 percent are MAKING IT WORK.

Several men have had it rough EVEN WHEN they stepped up their game in the home by doing chores and taking care of the baby as well as exercising patience while their women heal from the changes in childbirth.

Women STILL REFUSE when there's NO APPARENT REASON why intimacy shouldn't continue.

These generation of women have it at the back of their heads that 1. MARRIAGE IS MONOGAMOUS in nature 2. She can do anything she likes and 3. The man is expected to stay there and take whatever she dishes out 4. Women divert all their attention to their children. They don't play with their children and they are OKAY when the children are covered. The husband can go and .......
Imagine a wife telling her husband to masturbate or go and have sex somewhere else.

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Klass99:
This has got to be one of the most hilarious threads I have come across this year, the comments are so amusing.

Heaven knew what they were doing when they created us, male and female. The way you married men are honest about your realities is very interesting.

Going back to comments. I can't remember which page I stopped at again

Abeg single people this thread is not for you

Start taking care of your looks and you will hear her ask you what your mission is, by this I mean, try and get a smart hair cut, take care of your oral hygiene because women love kissing but will not tell you, shave off some areas and try to look like a parcel for the beauty queen and do not forget to recharge her line through your phone. Always endeavour to suprise her with things like meat-pie, fruits like apple, watermelon etc. Women love being treated like babies not robots. Please read these books: The Act of Marriage by Tim & Beverly LaHaye, The Five Love Languages for Married by Gary Chapman and The Real You by Dr. Keven Leman.

As for me wey neva marry e be like say na to adopt the baby papa/mama thing o. Me wey dey Bleep 365 women in a year.

Pumpumking:


YOU AGAIN..STOP BASHIN WOMEN, BRO!!
brother, we hope u not lookin for excuse to continuing been gay. U sopose to love women...not bash them. Being gay is ilegal sir..PLEASE STOP GAY!!!!(no oofenese)

Nincompöop!

HenryDion:


This is where dating is very important. You can't date someone for six months without knowing her true colours. Unfortunately, most of you overlook the red flags and forge ahead into marriage.

Don't worry

When you are married and she born, you will keep wondering the type of human or creature they be. They can switch to no sex

If you like, date for 10years. By the time she born first and second (she knows she has established her self in your home) you will hear wueeen

ahnie:
Team sex is meant for procreation

Off me

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

So we even plenty wey dey suffer thesame thing ... Na wa oooo

porn na go kill you one day. Squirting is not for every woman. You will disappoint yourself one day with this squirting dreams.
You are advising a man to read books for sex and you are talking about turning her on. There is a situation in the marriage. sex is not the reason. That woman doesn't love that man at all. He fills up little need for her regarding intimacy.
As he said, he doesn't have problem with women since he had his turn in life. He is a pro. Not a youngie like you needing books to learn love. He is experienced in it but there is a marital issue that makes her deny him. She doesn't look forward to the sex. It is only a routinely thing for her not a pleasurable thing.
They really need to talk about themselves, not kids or other things. They need to build that bond and create that fire again.
If I were in his shoes, I will simply walk out of the house without a notice.

LIVINGICON:
Are you sure you are really turning her on? Do you do pre-intimacy? Or na to just dive dey enter the pussy like that,go dey jam am like porn star. To the best of my knowledge women crave sex often, most especially if the man is skillful. Na she go dey disturb you for am.

So, go back to the drawing board. There are books on giving good sex and making a woman squirt or orgasm.

How married man go dey masturbate? Na 4uck up.

The only solution is POLYGAMY
You will enjoy, i tell you

LordOfTheGame:


Sir, with all due respect, you're an idiot. You are taking advantage of that poor innocent little girl's family background and financial conditions to exploit her for your lustful desire interests. You will reap your reward in due time.

You sef na mumu.
So she go drag the girl from her mama house for relationship?
Don't you think d girl has other options like salesgirl,fuel pump attendant,POS operator etc.
The girl made an informed choice and I'm 100% sure she was not a virgin at the time they started their liason.
If you reason it in terms of exploitation, then everyone gets exploited sir,the govt worker is exploited by govt,the private sector employee is exploited by his employer if not make he bring all d profit share am equally among his staff.
BTW,I'm looking for a neat lady that can be forking me and giving me orgasm plus giving me money at d same time
If you see,be ya brothers keeper and send send me DM

MacANDIES:


I miss everything bro, I wish I can turn back the hand of time. I'll never be married. Just have 2 baby Mama's and be sending them money on a regular.

Mine is not financial, it's the problems my wife gives me, she's troublesome and very selfish.

Association of grumbling married man.
Most women are selfish, we are the ones to put a cap on their greediness.
Let me share a personal experience with you.
Few years back, I took a loan and did a business but failed. So I was struggling financially- to pay back loan, supporting family,other bills etc.
In all these, my wife even though do say she understands what am passing through and will manage, in reality she wasn’t.
Saying one things and acting another way are two different things.
During this trying time, I was having challenges with my car mechanically so I decided to sell and downgrade to clean Nigerian used pending when things come up. At least, we still have a ride to move around - go to church etc. BUT in all these, she was insisting we buy a tokunbo car worth 2.5m then when I planned 1m for the Nigerian used car.
She started complaining that we should buy quality things and not just managing blah blah blah.
At a point, I became furious and fired back that - she is not even ashamed of herself.
I have loans hanging on my neck to clear in millions, we are still staying in a rented apartment and yet to finish our house- she is not worried about that.
She is jobless and not worried about that. If she is really thinking, is she not the one to say ha my husband, don’t spend this 2.5m on a car when we are struggling. Use 1m on car while I take the remaining to setup a biz for myself to run and support the house too.
She is not even worried about that but how to use a good car.
How I pay off my loan is not our problem, I should solve that by myself. That is what her action says despite what she says with her mouth.
She pushed me but I pushed back and reminded her that she is a burden to me rather than asset.
Being jobless is one thing, I can manage that But having a big mouth and a big eye for big things is another totally and that I won’t take it.

So many complains here and there.

I guess I'll use this opportunity to reiterate that people that go into marriage are very Brave.

dinomcjohn:
Never masturbate. Never! And to think that you are doing it while married?!!!! What? Grossly unacceptable. Some things should never happen. This is one of them. Pls stop it right away. Talk to your wife and tell her this will not happen again. Why would a wife deny her husband sex? Be a man. Have sex, good sec. Never masturbate!

Question for you; Are you married?

Lorayne:

Since you re now having good sex with your wife, are you still cheating?

You want to find my trouble bah

Klass99:
This has got to be one of the most hilarious threads I have come across this year, the comments are so amusing.

Heaven knew what they were doing when they created us, male and female. The way you married men are honest about your realities is very interesting.

Going back to comments. I can't remember which page I stopped at again

@ Chigomiced, your narrative has me laughing out loud like crazy. Please how old is your marriage?

I once told a friend that, the only time I see married women praying hard and religiously, is when their marriages are in trouble or they perceive it, to be in trouble. And their prayers are always about the other woman (side chic) not taking their man. Your story just confirmed what I said.

Enjoy urself madear....

My marriage is as old as man

Master, Master, I salute u with 2 hands! U sabi how e dey go. Just dat sometimes e nor dey easy to get these pocket friendly ladies.. though, swag and care dey do am for person Sha. Master, master, u deserve a chilled crate of d brand of beer u drink.

okoroemeka:
in a case like this that the man choose not to have a side chick due to one or two factors then the only option is masturbation,I cannot encourage going to ashawo for sex ,but on the other hand the only constraint on having a side chick is finance,there are different grades and categories of beautiful, reasonable and neat women that needs just a man like you,there are many that are available and will not create a hole in your pocket,you just have to look in places not looked before,a treasure is found in unexpected areas,my side chick is from a very poor family,a beautiful girl no doubt and appreciate every 10 Kobo given to her.Rule no 1 of having a side chick is never be jealous,let her have her freedom of choice and association,don't ever try to limit her to be your possession only,if there are other men then your financial commitment will be pocket friendly, so long she services you every well

Baba

I no fit envy you

U are really trying

emmaodet:




Association of grumbling married man.
Most women are selfish, we are the ones to put a cap on their greediness.
Let me share a personal experience with you.
Few years back, I took a loan and did a business but failed. So I was struggling financially- to pay back loan, supporting family,other bills etc.
In all these, my wife even though do say she understands what am passing through and will manage, in reality she wasn’t.
Saying one things and acting another way are two different things.
During this trying time, I was having challenges with my car mechanically so I decided to sell and downgrade to clean Nigerian used pending when things come up. At least, we still have a ride to move around - go to church etc. BUT in all these, she was insisting we buy a tokunbo car worth 2.5m then when I planned 1m for the Nigerian used car.
She started complaining that we should buy quality things and not just managing blah blah blah.
At a point, I became furious and fired back that - she is not even ashamed of herself.
I have loans hanging on my neck to clear in millions, we are still staying in a rented apartment and yet to finish our house- she is not worried about that.
She is jobless and not worried about that. If she is really thinking, is she not the one to say ha my husband, don’t spend this 2.5m on a car when we are struggling. Use 1m on car while I take the remaining to setup a biz for myself to run and support the house too.
She is not even worried about that but how to use a good car.
How I pay off my loan is not our problem, I should solve that by myself. That is what her action says despite what she says with her mouth.
She pushed me but I pushed back and reminded her that she is a burden to me rather than asset.
Being jobless is one thing, I can manage that But having a big mouth and a big eye for big things is another totally and that I won’t take it.

Yomboy4ever:



I was in a public bus just last week a hardworking guy carrying somethings he bought from owode onirin was saying even after all this whala now and later I get home ask for sex to cool my self down my wife still say no she is tired guess what all the men inside d bus said almost the same thing this guy was complaining about..
Its so rampant among those ladies from 1980 down �
Most Nigeria ladies of now a days don't actually deserve the faithful husband they get..
Funny we still have good guyz who and not ready to cheat once they get d desired sex at home..
I am a living witness mk I just keep quiet ni

Nawah oooooo


Same women complain of men cheating..

But nah Dem dey first withhold sex ooooo

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HarunaWest:
Side chick and masturbation..Unfortunately me I get small change...So i chop my life mehn..[s].Time go reach, na she go dey beg you for straff[/s].

It will only get worse, she can never beg him. You have forgotten that she will be aging and her urge for sex will continue to decline.

tpapi:
once they just give birth like this , they suddenly change and loose interest in sex

But why is this so

I tell you it is not easy, madam will tell me she needs to rest for 30 minutes I should wake her and we will end up the next day with no show, right from time wasn't really interested in it, anytime it happens I just watch xxvideo and relieve myself

olorunoba:
Sorry brother. Did u go counselling before marriage? I guess not. What ur wife is doing is fighting u with sex which is very wrong. She is planting seed of destroying ur marriage. Call her to other and if she refuse to oblige report to those who can talk to her. It a time bomb act fast before the devil achieve his purpose.

Counselling have nothing to do here

Lorayne:
Y'all encouraging adultery. Why not leave the marriage when you're not getting what you want from your spouse?

You here encouraging divorce, what will then happen to the kids.

Danniedpastor:


Wait o!
Did Christ say we should not enjoy sex in any position of our choice? Lol
Me , as a pastor I fire from any position we hungry me.
God is not against it.

Nice one bro

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

You have married a genitally mutilated woman ( circumcised) and there is nothing you can do. Many Nigerian men are in your shoes because a vast majority of our women are circumcised.

LIVINGICON:
Are you sure you are really turning her on? Do you do pre-intimacy? Or na to just dive dey enter the pussy like that,go dey jam am like porn star. To the best of my knowledge women crave sex often, most especially if the man is skillful. Na she go dey disturb you for am.

So, go back to the drawing board. There are books on giving good sex and making a woman squirt or orgasm.

How married man go dey masturbate? Na 4uck up.

Leave story, that woman has been genitally mutilated (circumcised) and there is nothing you can do to make such women enjoy sex. They are usually frigid like corpse on bed.

Joygift3666:
Start taking care of your looks and you will hear her ask you what your mission is, by this I mean, try and get a smart hair cut, take care of your oral hygiene because women love kissing but will not tell you, shave off some areas and try to look like a parcel for the beauty queen and do not forget to recharge her line through your phone. Always endeavour to suprise her with things like meat-pie, fruits like apple, watermelon etc. Women love being treated like babies not robots. Please these books: The Act of Marriage by Tim & Beverly LaHaye, The Five Love Languages for Married by Gary Chapman and The Real You by Dr. Keven Leman.

What a load of BS!!!

luminouz:

What a load of BS!!!

Please what is BS?