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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by olamoses75(m): 12:42pm On Dec 10, 2021
jaeyking:



Lol, you can't have a side chick because of financial constraints
Ra
Make I drop prayer for u
You will have all your needs ,you will not struggle but you will not achieve that financial ability wey go make u reason to get side chick���

Oya onto the advice, try to talk to your wife let her know what you have become because of the lack of sex. Marriage is all about understanding.
If her job is stressful, you have to bear with her
which kind job go make a married woman deny her husband sex? Na only she dey work? I sha hope the woman no Dey collect correct dick at her working place. If una wan kill me come and kill me, na the truth be dat.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by femi4: 12:45pm On Dec 10, 2021
cletz991:
Wrong move.......you SIMPly want to turn the OP to a house boy?he has his own job to attend to
You're not married, ki lomode e mo

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by femi4: 12:46pm On Dec 10, 2021
Jfkitchen123:

It’s so easy to say! When you are in it you will know better!
All these ...
It's not difficult

You just have to learn and stop being rigid

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Nobody: 12:47pm On Dec 10, 2021
Judgesledge:
wow, where have you been all this while, been searching for you
you shouldn't be searching for me cheesy
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Nobody: 12:47pm On Dec 10, 2021
uniqueman:

Let's talk then.
you're not OP nahh
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Nobody: 12:48pm On Dec 10, 2021
Ndidi2:
just hope ua kidding_ right?
Do not do married men



Okay Daddy
I heard you
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Nobody: 12:48pm On Dec 10, 2021
JerryBizz:

Nawa oh
Why are our women always publicly labelling themselves as XXXX whether it's for jokes or for being serious about it.

Uto mpko ampa idem!
They're like three of them on this thread already and their comments seem similar...Is the stereotyping of nditor iban Akwa ibom being overly sexual really true...
Mfina mo ba, oh.

what's the color of your problem sir? undecided
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Nobody: 12:49pm On Dec 10, 2021
Mitishi:




Drop your number
you're not Mr poster nii
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Nobody: 12:49pm On Dec 10, 2021
samonak:

Physical and spiritual, especially this:
grin cheesy
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by lancasterboy: 12:51pm On Dec 10, 2021
Kayceealex:


My question is ABEG NA YOU TYPE ALL THIS THINGS
If the answer is yes did you read it too??
If the answer is no then stop stressing us biko.

Yes I did....If I can't read everything, u lack good sex.. go and get F*cked real good baby... grin grin grin

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Nobody: 12:52pm On Dec 10, 2021
suremossty:
I will be glad to have u as my babe too coz facing the same challenge... top secret am a s3x machine
you will spend cheesy
Since you're a sex machine
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by IJEYdiamond(f): 12:58pm On Dec 10, 2021
Richashell:
We go outside. Mine is 4 years no sex. I have tried everything to make it work but she says no.

At least u confess going outside.... Cos i know ko possible to stay without it as Married dude!!
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Philomath1212: 12:59pm On Dec 10, 2021
Judybash93:
Smart men don't marry

Unfortunately, many don't believe this...
If there's another life, I will kiss marriage goodbye...

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by emmaodet: 12:59pm On Dec 10, 2021
okoroemeka:
in a case like this that the man choose not to have a side chick due to one or two factors then the only option is masturbation,I cannot encourage going to ashawo for sex ,but on the other hand the only constraint on having a side chick is finance,there are different grades and categories of beautiful, reasonable and neat women that needs just a man like you,there are many that are available and will not create a hole in your pocket,you just have to look in places not looked before,a treasure is found in unexpected areas,my side chick is from a very poor family,a beautiful girl no doubt and appreciate every 10 Kobo given to her.Rule no 1 of having a side chick is never be jealous,let her have her freedom of choice and association,don't ever try to limit her to be your possession only,if there are other men then your financial commitment will be pocket friendly, so long she services you every well

cheesy cheesy grin

Na sooooooo
Oga Okoroemeka - chairman association of cheating married men of Nigeria.
That pocket friendly keeps me rolling on the floor.
Ma guy chop knuckle.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by suffering: 1:02pm On Dec 10, 2021
turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.
Have you tried hitting a gym or getting into an exercise routine? Take a shirtless picture pre marriage and one of now then show a friend. Ask the person if you’ve physically changed for the worse and you’ll get your answer there. Men are even better, a lot of women add more than ten kilograms of bulk and complain that their men don’t look their way again.

You’re doing the right thing already by masturbating; marriage is a prison — soapy dey save person mind as a constant distraction. If olosho fall enter your bed na two straight days of knacking you go wan use kill am.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Pumpumking: 1:05pm On Dec 10, 2021
MufasaLion:


I feel you can notice most red flags in women before marriage.

YOU AGAIN..STOP BASHIN WOMEN, BRO!!
brother, we hope u not lookin for excuse to continuing been gay. U sopose to love women...not bash them. Being gay is ilegal sir..PLEASE STOP GAY!!!!(no oofenese) undecided

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by EvansGuru1973: 1:08pm On Dec 10, 2021
LIVINGICON:
Are you sure you are really turning her on? Do you do pre-intimacy? Or na to just dive dey enter the pussy like that,go dey jam am like porn star. grin To the best of my knowledge women crave sex often, most especially if the man is skillful. Na she go dey disturb you for am.

So, go back to the drawing board. There are books on giving good sex and making a woman squirt or orgasm. angry

How married man go dey masturbate? Na 4uck up.
Most married men masturbates baba.. the answer is most woman loss their urge gor sex after they gave birth to kids in the husband home. And that was the simple reason majotity og married men cheats...
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Onyiiobi7735(m): 1:09pm On Dec 10, 2021
Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping
Bro,don't give up. Talk to her again and try to work things out in a way such that both of you can have permanent peace.
Above all,commit your marital life in prayers into God's Hands. There's nothing He can't do. You will be happy again.
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by emmaodet: 1:10pm On Dec 10, 2021
MacANDIES:


Bro be scared, marriage is highly overrated. Sometimes I wish I wasn't married.

Hmmmmmmm……..sometimes I do too.
65% of time…… I like it
But
35% of time……I do wish I never did majorly due to financial reasons.
I would have been better off more financially without marriage than with it.
It is taking a chunk of my money for family monthly upkeep, in-laws, clothing, general maintenance etc.
And I also believe I would have had more money to travel round the world, enjoy my life more, the freedom of traveling without anybody regularly calling where I am and when am I coming home.
I just miss the freedom.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by EvansGuru1973: 1:13pm On Dec 10, 2021
okoroemeka:
in a case like this that the man choose not to have a side chick due to one or two factors then the only option is masturbation,I cannot encourage going to ashawo for sex ,but on the other hand the only constraint on having a side chick is finance,there are different grades and categories of beautiful, reasonable and neat women that needs just a man like you,there are many that are available and will not create a hole in your pocket,you just have to look in places not looked before,a treasure is found in unexpected areas,my side chick is from a very poor family,a beautiful girl no doubt and appreciate every 10 Kobo given to her.Rule no 1 of having a side chick is never be jealous,let her have her freedom of choice and association,don't ever try to limit her to be your possession only,if there are other men then your financial commitment will be pocket friendly, so long she services you every well
Mind you this may lead to lead to contacting Std's if no protection are used.
I still think coming out openly with her family is the best option. A sex starved marriage is bound yo be doomed. No maturity about it bro, secondly move closer to God and read bible frequently to her so she will know she is definitely killing her marriage by her own hand.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by OvertheTop(m): 1:14pm On Dec 10, 2021
Acidosis:
You all should stop blaming your wives. She's not the reason you all couldn't control yourselves before marriage. If you're the type of guy that stayed away from pre-marital sex or sex with too many random women, living with your wife for months without sex during pregnancy or child birth wouldn't be an issue. 1 month after child birth, and some of you're thinking about side chicks. Is sex the only thing you all did with your lives as bachelors?? Just one month oo!

Some of you slept with at least 6 girls per month before marriage. Now as a married man, you want your wife to take over and do the work of 6 ol.osho while also attending to house chores and corporate responsibilities. More often than not, you guys are the problems in your marriage. By the way, this thread is disg.usting.


Are You Married and for How Long? Do you have Kids? How Many?
Don't Lie?

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Shalommy(f): 1:16pm On Dec 10, 2021
lancasterboy:


He is that useless... Yes he is that useless... Deal with it.. It is what it is.. pull your pants down and get F*cked....Stop being insanely St*pid... U want him to work so he will bring his money and spend on you.. to meet your own needs and u will neglect his own needs... See them... Wicked women...Selfish women...Selfcentric females....I cast u out IJN...Amen
Buhahaha... What's your duty as a man?

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by kay29000(m): 1:18pm On Dec 10, 2021
Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, [b]I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator [/b]because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

This made me laugh... Sorry for laughing at your pain OP, but it's just so funny to me. grin
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by professore(m): 1:18pm On Dec 10, 2021
Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband grin
this is not fair.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Shalommy(f): 1:21pm On Dec 10, 2021
lancasterboy:


It's Lazy women like you that have a problem with Sexually viral men like us...It's women like you that make men cheat and still cry and pretend the don't know why he is going outside. Everytime I am tired.. I am tired...Even when they give u sex, they are so lazy to move their own body ..their own body o ...Such lazy drones shouldn't go near marriage ...You believe sex isn't food.... You have a problem....You have a big problem....You are just like a man with a two inch d*ck....
Buhahaha... He's crying. After some lazy men will say they can survive without the help from women. Poor and helpless men.
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by kay29000(m): 1:22pm On Dec 10, 2021
Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband grin

Lol
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by NOETHNICITY(m): 1:24pm On Dec 10, 2021
If I snap my fingers, sex is ready and waiting.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by kay29000(m): 1:25pm On Dec 10, 2021
okoroemeka:
in a case like this that the man choose not to have a side chick due to one or two factors then the only option is masturbation,I cannot encourage going to ashawo for sex ,but on the other hand the only constraint on having a side chick is finance,there are different grades and categories of beautiful, reasonable and neat women that needs just a man like you,there are many that are available and will not create a hole in your pocket,you just have to look in places not looked before,a treasure is found in unexpected areas,my side chick is from a very poor family,a beautiful girl no doubt and appreciate every 10 Kobo given to her.Rule no 1 of having a side chick is never be jealous,let her have her freedom of choice and association,don't ever try to limit her to be your possession only,if there are other men then your financial commitment will be pocket friendly, so long she services you every well

You have said it all.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Lorayne(m): 1:28pm On Dec 10, 2021
ahnie:

I was very active whilst single,crazily spontaneous loves head.but unfortunately whom I m married too isn't a fan.so it finally killed my spoil for sex and my libido packed up and went on a vacay.

But a good head from him might resuscitate those old gone libidos.but we don't share same sexual orientation.

So I packed my kpekus off for good and only procreation purposes.but I m done with child birth.
That's sad. That's why it's good to marry someone you're sexually compatible with.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by kay29000(m): 1:28pm On Dec 10, 2021
Zao19:
More than 70% of married men face this type of problem including my self, if u are yet to married pls stop talking rubbish, u are yet to experience such.

Gbam

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Nobody: 1:29pm On Dec 10, 2021
Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband grin
Are you for real?
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by kay29000(m): 1:29pm On Dec 10, 2021
Kingdemu:
I've never for once been denied sex for the 4yrs I've been married.

Maybe you ask for it once in 3 months.

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