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| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by greggng: 8:48am On Dec 15, 2021 |
NCE1:Education gives you and edge against someone who is not educated . The way we handle issues speak volume about our upbringing . Everything is not gra gra . Granted she locked up the water source . What are our options . You may report to people close to your land lady to beg on you guys behave . Utilmatey you may report to the police or even go to the traditional ruler of the place. Confronting them in their home is like digging your own grave My advice is to find a way to settle them and pack out of that house . Is not advisable living in a house where landlord Iives. It takes me 7 years before I started finding peace from my landlady. Only men with strong shock absorber can be like me . Others waited patients while you are the one with the gut to confront her ...you don't go yo war alone otherwise you might end up dead and nobody can even know what happened too your body.. be wise . |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Remman(m): 8:48am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Try and gather evidence. If the case gets to the court. There will be witnesses. Your neighbours will need to say what happened or what they observed. The judge is not a fool (unless bribed). Your landlady will definitely loose the case. But if the matter gets to court, you will need to pack out of that compound. The thing is, once the case gets to court, both opponents will be enemies and based on the lies that will be brought up by the lawyers doing their job, enemity between both parties will be intensed. Women are driven by emotions and not reasoning. So, she may end up paying people that may hurt you. Be wise. Use that money for court or the 50k and pack out of that compound. This is a temptation. |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Foolishbuhari: 8:48am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Crimpsy:Clear matter! |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by lilyheaven: 8:48am On Dec 15, 2021 |
KiNg0G:Why would you Deny him asses to water, is he not paying his rent? |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Nobody: 8:49am On Dec 15, 2021 |
The woman is a troublesome and all her children that don't have future will leave that house and experience what's it mean to be tenant, police understand what's happening just keep calm with them and don't make any attempt to pay money If any Landlady or Landlord try it with me if he/ she survive it mean God loves the person |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Perfecttouch(m): 8:49am On Dec 15, 2021 |
KiNg0G:nairaland is breeding alot of mentally deranged people |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by LadyMedina25(f): 8:49am On Dec 15, 2021 |
You need a good lawyer to teach this people a good lesson.. If you know that you are right do not fear |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Pharaoh4rin(m): 8:50am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Go and buy a second padlock, a bigger, uglier padlock and lock it and throw the keys faaarrrr away. Insist on going to court even if other tenants are recalcitrant. or better still go and buy otapiapia and |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Shusher: 8:50am On Dec 15, 2021 |
KiNg0G:Shut up! He paid his rent and he doesn't need to be polite to access water, it's a given right as long as he isn't damaging the source of water. My father also has a compound and we don't lord over the tenants like gods. Stupid Nigerian mentality. Spits. |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by aikyg(m): 8:51am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Do not live in the same house with the landlord or landlady. It's a no no. |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Doyou2019: 8:51am On Dec 15, 2021 |
3plet:Judge Judy go eat that landlady up, if this useless case was presented to her. |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by marsup: 8:52am On Dec 15, 2021 |
NCE1:Go to court. Tell them you are ready to go to court, make sure all the other tenants are called as witnesses. But u have to be very careful, if possible leave the house, and make sure no one you know, rents an apartment from there. Good luck. |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Pharaoh4rin(m): 8:52am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Yinkakolawole:Children of Cherubim and seraphim. Tufiakwa |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Telebin: 8:52am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Your landlady is evil. Pack out of that compound before they kill u |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Shusher: 8:53am On Dec 15, 2021 |
NCE1:Tell them you want to go to court and watch the dynamics change. She might even want to withdraw the case. I only hope you didn't go back to assault her after the initial fight, if so you might just lose the case. You bit her in self defence, she can never wim that case. You might just spend some money for court proceedings and all but she is likely to be fined and pay you money for damages. |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by hardbody: 8:54am On Dec 15, 2021 |
KiNg0G:When kids are given techno fones and not screened before joining Nairaland this is what you get. |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Jamesbiodun(m): 8:54am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Seriously na did kind of matter I like, let the case go to court they and the police are trying to play shit with you... Go to the police station very early in the morning and see the DPO with your evidence... I hope the DPO is not dirty sha.... I go kukuma go kill rat and throw it in the well make everything balance ![]() |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by descarado: 8:55am On Dec 15, 2021 |
NCE1:You are not wise. Wisdom is profitable to direct. When you went to the house and you were told to leave, just leave. Go and fetch water elsewhere. U all as tenants will collectively solve the problem. Others don't have water too. You are now involving your innocent daddy. When you want to be stubborn,do that in a cause that will favour you. |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Digmygold: 8:56am On Dec 15, 2021 |
I hope you are not just trivialising the bite. How serious is it? Next time don't approach her alone. Do so with co-tenants who can stand in as witnesses. Now its them against ONLY you. Don't ever get involved in a fight or assault. You should have gone to report them first when they assaulted you instead of biting her.They would have been at the receiving end not you. If you can prove you were assaulted too. Do so. If you can prove that you did what you did in a bid to defend yourself and because you were provoked, do so. I can assure you that the Police is involved in that 50k they are asking for and they have a ready set "Sharing Formula". I will advice you to find a way to settle out of Court but don't pay the 50k. Tell them.you don't have. They most likely don't want to go to Court too. They just want to exploit the opportunity you gave to them by stooping low to their level, getting into a brawl. |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by seguno2: 8:56am On Dec 15, 2021 |
INCREDIBLE007:If Jesus Christ followed your advice, you won’t be referring to the Bible, would you ![]() |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Princedapace(m): 8:56am On Dec 15, 2021 |
KiNg0G:Like seriously? He paid for the house he is staying. Not free. When he paid, he paid for the water supply as well. Omo, people dey mad for this country o. Can u imagine comment. |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Iliveforever(m): 8:57am On Dec 15, 2021 |
NCE1:The best option here is stubbornness.. This case is a bailable offense so the court won’t take it serious. Tell them to take it to court. I’m ashamed you’re scared and I’ll even get angry or attack you if you pay her 1 kobo. Let them go to court and you’ll see how they’ll run away. They’ll first consider the money they’ll use and open a case in court, their lawyer fees and time it will take to get justice.. Just relax, if you can go to your neighborhood and fetch water, no problem |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by GorillaApp(m): 8:57am On Dec 15, 2021 |
KiNg0G:You are truly clueless. Nigeria mentality don chop Una brain. The landlady has no right to lock up her well under such flimsy excuse and if there is any reasonable reason to, she ought to inform every tenant about the proposed lockdown. The op has a right to go find out what happened that led to a locked well and has every right to defend himself. Law wey some of Una no know they almost turn some of you guys to tyrant and beast. Op, don't give that woman a kobo. Tell her to go to court. I remembered when my former landlord took me to court. I was just laughing! Na even him own lawyer call me for back come dey brief me Wetin to talk for court as I refused to take a lawyer and insisted on defending my self( don't try this o). My landlord lawyer know say him client just want to oppress me but the lawyer must chop na ![]() Before we appear for court, him go call me privately and we go harmonize our positions and he will tell me what to respond. Las las, my landlord still call me and we settle. Court ask me how much time I need to move out. This na person wey give me 7 days to leave before ![]() Finally, for your peace of mind, if you can afford it, leave that compound before person die |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Comedian2019: 8:57am On Dec 15, 2021 |
You need to leave that compound if you know you can't do them strong thing. Those people are animals. I have people with similar behavior in my compound. They don't change. Rather than pay them 50k, discuss with your parents and look for another accommodation. That house is a wrong place. For the sake of your career, pls leave that God-forsaken house. |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Respect55(m): 8:57am On Dec 15, 2021 |
KiNg0G:Are you just a retard or trying to be one? |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by descarado: 8:57am On Dec 15, 2021 |
marsup:You will be surprised they will decline. They didn't come to that place to go to court. |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by akpunda86: 8:58am On Dec 15, 2021 |
NCE1:Bros u fall ✋.For this Enugu,u Lucky say landlady gree u dey fetch her well,In Enugu u pay for accommodation and not well oga.mine here rainy season everybody free to use it but once dry season enter OYO, U made a mistake biting her,if she pulls down ur boxer Ahh Na bad thing unless u get a pencil gbola. Bros kindly go apologise to your Landlady my guy as she own dat house Na ur head 4 dat compound so got to accord her respect. You have no right going to her flat to ask her why lock well u didn't pay for nor dug for her,wat u paid for was room,ur source of water OYO. Go prostrate and say mummy I'm sorry forgive me and enjoy ur tenancy. Ciao |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Iliveforever(m): 8:59am On Dec 15, 2021 |
NCE1:I’m a lawyer and I just told you to keep calm and if possible go and buy a chilled bottle of Heineken and relax. Na today we begin see cases like this |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by ramatintin(m): 9:00am On Dec 15, 2021 |
KiNg0G:i see same trait of the land lady and her son in this your write up no wonder your Papa no gree build compound. |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Kenneth10110(m): 9:00am On Dec 15, 2021 |
KiNg0G:you were expected to have sense please |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Myke99: 9:01am On Dec 15, 2021 |
motymop:Oga keep quite.. you’re talking all the rubbish |
| Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Comedian2019: 9:02am On Dec 15, 2021 |
KiNg0G:OP is a tenant, not a begger. How do you expect a young man who has not eaten nor bathed the whole day to ask politely? Are the family supposed to behave like beasts in the first place? Stop this your Nigerian slave mentality. That water is definitely one of the reasons the tenants paid rent. So it's their right to fetch, not a privilege. Those beasts of a family are fortunate they didn't try it with someone like me. They would be begging by now. If you know |
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they and the police are trying to play shit with you... Go to the police station very early in the morning and see the DPO with your evidence... I hope the DPO is not dirty sha.... I go kukuma go kill rat and throw it in the well make everything balance
