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Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by pricklewane: 10:25am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Those that never built a house can say all you want. When you meet a landlord that will not allow shit no one will tell you the only alternative you have is to move out. I go lock well for my house your father will come n break the lock when no be say e don sign death warrant. Harkinyemi: |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by mikaeli01: 10:28am On Dec 15, 2021 |
I seldom make comment on nairaland but I think I should contribute to this one. In Yoruba language there is a saying that "ejo laa ko, enikan ki ko 'ja" this translates to one learn to argue not to fight. From what you post, one can see you don't know how to argue a dispute hence your ordeal with your landlady. I will point out valid argument to you now. 1. The well was locked for a whole day. Did she or her son or whoever locked the well give prior notice to this effect or reason to all occupant of the building for doing so when that is the only source used by everybody in that house 2. They mention pollution as the reason why the well was locked. Why are they telling the police and not the occupant of the building that they locked the well because of pollution. The wise thing expected of them is to tell everybody living in that house is that they observe there is a particular polutant in the well if any, and the action they are taken to clear it. 2. They are using the well themselves. You said you have the video of them using the well while they refuse to open it for general use of all the occupant of the building. The video is an evidence against them. 3. She is demanding for N50,000 for treatment of the bite you gave her while defending yourself from her assaults. Haba, you are not a dog now, hence you don't carry rabies in you mouth. Table this before a competent lawyer and watch how everybody will be laughing at her and her sons at the end of court hearing but you must be able to make your argument properly, precise and in order. If you don't want to go to Court just let your dad or yourself get a senior police officer or a good lawyer, invite her to the station and settle everything there. They will still ask why did you attack her? Your answer should be that is the only thing to do to get yourself out of her grip and assault. 2 Likes |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Nobody: 10:29am On Dec 15, 2021 |
KiNg0G: Some times na craze dem dey use port craze. |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by LordVarys1: 10:33am On Dec 15, 2021 |
You won't be jailed so dont be scared. You may even get the sympathy of the judge and the case will turn around. Tell the judge you do not have money to afford a lawyer that you are just a student. U will be surprised the judge may just turn the case against her. Dont be scared of going to court. Court is not as bad as we think it is 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Ifesinachi22(m): 10:34am On Dec 15, 2021 |
I can bet my balls this happened in Independence layout. I just hope his son is not a Nairalander 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by samdaisi: 10:36am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Oga sir, you're still a small boy driving with the mentality of being a student before you went to challenge your landlady for locking well, your instinct should would have told you what the result will be. If i were you 1) your fellow students will monitor you there with phone cameral because you are not the only student affected, injury to one it's an injury to all 2) attempted to pull down your boxer you would have assisted them tearing your clothes to justify your evidence the all the family joined hand to beat hell from you 3) you have been the first person to visit hospital complaining bitterly about the beating and injuries you suffered from them 4) you should have been the first person to lodge complaint in police station to get them invited for questioning 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by EmyGod(m): 10:38am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Yinkakolawole:This is wrong brother, God is not mocked. Bible and the name of Jesus Christ in prayers can do wonders more than any other thing. 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by santos123(m): 10:39am On Dec 15, 2021 |
NCE1:is it Unn? |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by obinoral1179(m): 10:42am On Dec 15, 2021 |
NCE1:tell her you want to go to court |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Nobody: 10:49am On Dec 15, 2021 |
EmyGod:i believe in JESUS as you did, am a Redeem member but i can also tells you that there is nothing wrong waking in the midnight to pray, praying with the 4elements & calling on the angels of GOD in prayers. dont misunderstood ur belief on calling on GOD. 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by georgemarcus(m): 10:49am On Dec 15, 2021 |
OP i dont know your age to start with, but from your writing one can easily detect. I want to advise you not to make any further case if you dont have the gut, will, power and money. The property belongs to this woman and the worse is her kids are there with you. Thank God they didnt remove your tooth before you know it. In such matters, you need to be careful how you seek justice, advise or revenge. Your dad must be a peace maker for him to plead to make peace by paying 15k. On the other hand, if you have money to pack out from that house, seek the advise of a lawyer to go to court with her. Of course, she making plans with a Pharmacist and also going to Police shows you that they want to humiliate you and tell you they own the place you are staying. Therefore, you must do whatever they say and live in their apartment according to their instructions. If you go to court with your tore clothes and bruises around your groins it enough evidence for self defense, even though the Police and the Pharmacist come to their aid, she wont win a case with you. So think deep and do whats best. I wish we have lawyers here who can throw in their advice 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by zealous2121(m): 10:50am On Dec 15, 2021 |
My question is this, are you financially capable. If you have up to #150k, what you should do now is go back to the police station or a different one close by, and arrest her back.. tell them your side of the story and explain she and her family's strip you naked not try to, tell the police they actually did and you had to bite her to enable you draw your panties up and run... 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by MaverickA3: 10:55am On Dec 15, 2021 |
If this your narration is true without any addition or subtraction, try to get 2 or 3 fellow tenants or neighbor who will be your witness in case you go to court. Just prepare to tell the judge that you bite the woman in self-defense when she was pressing your balls or pushing your neck against the wall. 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Nobody: 11:35am On Dec 15, 2021 |
KiNg0G: Lol. So he should have allowed the woman naked him and give him the injury of his life for NOTHING? Meanwhile you judged the op unreasonably but here you are threatening anyone who quotes you. Very ridiculous. 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by gudugudumeje: 11:35am On Dec 15, 2021 |
TAKE A FRIENDLY LAWYER TO APPROACH THE POLICE ON THE MATTER... THE POLICE WILL BEHAVE... LET UR FATHER DO .... 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by superCleanworks(m): 11:45am On Dec 15, 2021 |
NCE1: Bros. Ur landlady is working with the police to intimidate you and share your money. You have already started pissing ur pants. Tell them to take the matter to court and you better guard your words and not write any statement till the police provides a lawyer for you or they wait for your own lawyer. Tell them to serve you the court summons. To make it better, go by yourself to court and sue them for 15 million naira. They have no evidence... Except if you have been talking like a radio and police + landlady have been recording all you said to admit guilt. 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Skyfornia(m): 11:50am On Dec 15, 2021 |
ADAMUdaCOWBOY: Shame Kee you there! If you can't see that the tenant is arrogant, then the joke is on you! |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by superCleanworks(m): 11:51am On Dec 15, 2021 |
zealous2121: He better use that money & go straight to court and get them sued for 50 million naira. Make dem see small madness 2 Likes |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by timi4mayo(m): 11:51am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Yinkakolawole: Hmm 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by sexyyoyo(m): 11:54am On Dec 15, 2021 |
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Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by LibraKing: 12:08pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
chidekings:i followed nairaland for 5years before I decided to get an account. so if within this unregistered year i felt like sharing my problem....it means iam hunting for traffick? 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by zealous2121(m): 12:09pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
superCleanworks: You are right, it cost #150k to charge someone too court in Lagos. He can do that too... 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Nyanabo(m): 12:11pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
Guy park out of that place. If you still have outstanding rent ask them to balance you. Beside tell them you would see them in court. Stop you dad from pleading further it would make them feel like they are right and would make it like you are scared of going to court. Since other neighbors can testify in court that the well is in good condition and they locked it up only because the son has issues with another tenant. With a good lawyer you would win and damages would be paid to you and other tenants. Go and meet them, tell them you are waiting to be served the court papers. If indeed they have. A good lawyer, (s)he would advice them from going to court. Stop apologizing you stood up for your right. At a point tolerance becomes stupidity. 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by superCleanworks(m): 12:13pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
zealous2121: There is no predetermined cost. It all depends on how much you want to sue the person for. Last timw i sued someone in lagos for 5 million naira, i paid 5k. I don't know how much it is now. 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by seyz91(m): 12:21pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
motymop: |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Babisha10(m): 12:22pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
Look for a good lawyer since u re in Enugu ask for barrister C. D Ogbe he can solve ur problem 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by LibraKing: 12:22pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
calm your nerves, my only problem is you involving your dad which makes the landlady to be feeling fly. next time when you go to police station, learn how to paint and narrate stories as the weak side. You will tell police you where beaten by the woman and her son, torn your short and got you almost got you naked before you bit her finger to save your self. Next, complain about body pains, and let the woman know you want court case because you are feeling pains and sick. Tell her you want compensation because you have evidence they lock up the compund well meant for everyone but only using it by her family alone. Tell the police you want to settle in court. in fact engage a lawyer....nah 10k collect that 15k from your dad, make the lawyer serve the landlady paper... she go succumb. they no dey chop person for court oooo. i have been there twice because of useless landlord.....b4 you make trouble....learn the law so that you won't shiver when they throw stones at you 2 Likes |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by domchike(m): 12:24pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
Attack is the best form of defense Get an lowbreed lawyer to write a charge for you 5k wil do that You can charge her for 1.Violating your rights and privileges 2. Assault and batteries 3. Unlawful arrest 4.Abuse of your fundamental human right 5.Abuse of your body And anything you can think of Just do that make someone to deliver it to her NCE1: |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by ALFADOS(m): 12:25pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
motymop:na ganza man is high, I for de close to him make I give am one dirty slap e go reset his brain for am next time 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by lagosrd: 12:26pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
Take them to human rights in your area before they concort lies against you and charge you for criminal act. If they do, you will be reprimanded in the prison coustody if you're not smart and fast 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by teacherbim(f): 12:29pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
Yinkakolawole:What is feather of incense ? 1 Like |
Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Immorttal: 12:32pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
chidekings:you're wrong. People don't use their main account on nairaland for personal issues. 1 Like |
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