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Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:51am On Dec 15, 2021
Are you a slave to her?
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by dammiedot(m): 8:52am On Dec 15, 2021
If she doesn't give you peace of mind......don't waste your time
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Ingredient88(m): 8:52am On Dec 15, 2021
Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.

I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?
my brother, Thank God you are able to control it at that moment, every lady out there have one or two attitude, in which if you leave one for another, you will still discover that her own is even better.... something good can come out of it sir, eve Jesus ask us to be tolerant, when you know the attitude of your fellow person both of you can move together without no problem, since you know she's temperament in nature, you should be able to control yourself when it should comes up, my own girlfriend normally believe that she equally have the right I have, she puts in to examine whatsoever I ask her to do! O mad ba,.... But one need to be calm that is what make us a man over them.

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Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Crusadee: 8:53am On Dec 15, 2021
Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.

I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?
if you will break up with a girl must you inform her? Let me advice you walk away without a word, stop calling, ignore chats, stop caring and find another girl, that's how to break up with a girl, informing the girl that you want to breakup is for children r/ship

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Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by ramatintin(m): 8:53am On Dec 15, 2021
Guy run for your life before were woman stab man cos of small argument.

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Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Ingredient88(m): 8:53am On Dec 15, 2021
anthonyuncle:
leave her
leave her for you ba?
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by anonymuz(m): 8:54am On Dec 15, 2021
Differentiate:
I don't know why you guys are even in a relationship Financing some else problem when your own problem is even more higher than mount everest . I left relationship shi some months back and belive me im the freest nigar alive no bitch can ask me of 2k now . I fuçk bitches when I got racks . RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE IS SCAM
comrade you be real G. I met a girl 2 week ago,started being a friend. Suddenly I called one day and she blatantly told me that she's not interested.
My reply: thank you for not letting me get into your scam cage.

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Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by obalola02: 8:55am On Dec 15, 2021
Be careful next time.Anyway please contact me for:

Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Barristter07: 8:56am On Dec 15, 2021
Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.

I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?

Sometimes it's not the words, but the Emotions behind it bro, She was just upset that you missed her calls. Probably thinking you rate her less important that the whole day went off without you calling back.

I agree with u, that her choice of words is very poor - " the one you recharge for me " sounds rude, which I think she need to work on, and if consistent , the ball is in your court to know either to continue or end it. But she was just expressing a pain.
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by phazotron(m): 8:57am On Dec 15, 2021
slickycee:
You see red flags you still dey ask for advice.
Sometimes you need to train your heart to accept what the mind already knows.

Mr OP that her anger issue would only get worse as she gets older

Unless she intentionally seek help and improve her attitude.

I hate hearing just because no one is perfect , you must then manage nonsense in a relationship.

Adults take responsibility for their actions and would always compromise to make things better.

If op should continue the relationship regardless of her anger issues, then she would need to change her personality to one that op would enjoy.


If op was the one with anger issues and he constantly abused her,

People won't be advising the lady to continue, they would ask her to run for her life.

This life Sha , if you don't use wisdom , people would give you a terrible advice that sounds so good.

OP the ball is in your court.
Have that difficult conversation with her today and let her know your stand.
If she can't change of work on herself, then just break up and remain friends.
While you look for someone that anger isn't her imperfections.


Do you think you can have a peaceful home with an easily angered person .

You must be jonzing


My ex used to pull this nonsense too

I walked away. I know how many issues I'm dealing with

I cant go and add another person's immaturity to it

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Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Dreytonisback(m): 8:57am On Dec 15, 2021
The girl's not at fault , you're at fault for taking rubbish

Lights up my kpoli in peace

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Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Ingredient88(m): 8:58am On Dec 15, 2021
Double0h7:


Are her other qualities good enough to overlook this small imperfection? Because nobody is going to have it all. If we just keep ending relationships for every imperfection we see, then we'll be old and alone, or we'll finally become desperate, and settle for someone with all the imperfections combined!

If her temper doesn't lead to violence, or verbal abuse, then I'd say learn to ignore her tantrums, and wait for her to come to her senses... if she knows she has this issue and she dislikes it, then with age and life experience she'll overcome it herself. Also, if the relationship is young then there's a lot of insecurities and lack of trust, so her temper could just be a self defense mechanism. She might think you're cheating, or she might just fear losing you (fear and anger come from the same place).

I'm in an understanding mood today and just want to save a relationship, instead helping to end one grin
you have done well sir, this is a sound mature mind, God bless you, everyone with deir own for body.
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Hopez456(m): 8:59am On Dec 15, 2021
You had better break up with her before she break bottles on your head

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Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Panda7(m): 9:00am On Dec 15, 2021
so your girlfriend even calls you and you can't change her temperament it means you are a ________
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Ingredient88(m): 9:01am On Dec 15, 2021
Mgada1ne:


I appreciate you alot.
She doesn't seem to have other imperfection, she loves me so much ,the only problem os the anger issue.
Our relationship is about 2years now but this keep happening.
thank God for that .. that is our own weakness, learn how to tolerate and whenever she brings it up like that, just be calm, she will come around as soon as possible, you don't because of headache cut off the head.

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Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 9:04am On Dec 15, 2021
Double0h7:


Are her other qualities good enough to overlook this small imperfection? Because nobody is going to have it all. If we just keep ending relationships for every imperfection we see, then we'll be old and alone, or we'll finally become desperate, and settle for someone with all the imperfections combined!

If her temper doesn't lead to violence, or verbal abuse, then I'd say learn to ignore her tantrums, and wait for her to come to her senses... if she knows she has this issue and she dislikes it, then with age and life experience she'll overcome it herself. Also, if the relationship is young then there's a lot of insecurities and lack of trust, so her temper could just be a self defense mechanism. She might think you're cheating, or she might just fear losing you (fear and anger come from the same place).

I'm in an understanding mood today and just want to save a relationship, instead helping to end one grin
It will soon lead to violence, she will later receive severe beating from op. Op better leave that kind of woman, angry people must be avoided at all cost. Of you don't leave her, you will later be referred to as a violent person. A word is enough for the wise!

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Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Jorge91: 9:07am On Dec 15, 2021
Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.

I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?
IS she not suppose to call back to know what happened to the love of her life. Maybe God placed everything like that so you can read the writings on the wall.
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Tooreda: 9:08am On Dec 15, 2021
Easy



Truvelisback:
She isn't temperate, u have been a SIMP to her for long.
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:08am On Dec 15, 2021
anonymuz:
comrade you be real G. I met a girl 2 week ago,started being a friend. Suddenly I called one day and she blatantly told me that she's not interested.
My reply: thank you for not letting me get into your scam cage.
Naso na not like she will be giving you money when you're dating her you'll be the one doing the spending, taking her out, give her money for her hair, buy sharwama for her, go to cinema and na you go still pay o all because say you wan fuçk and Christmas don show now me self never know wetin go sup na their I go kon dey worry untop another person daughter again . guy they don't worth that stress if you ask . make we all dey our dey las las everything go set.
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:11am On Dec 15, 2021
anonymuz:
comrade you be real G. I met a girl 2 week ago,started being a friend. Suddenly I called one day and she blatantly told me that she's not interested.
My reply: thank you for not letting me get into your scam cage.
Naso na not like she will be giving you money when you're dating her you'll be the one doing the spending, taking her out, give her money for her hair, buy sharwama for her, go to cinema and na you go still pay o all because say you wan fuçk and Christmas don show now me self never know wetin go sup na their I go kon dey worry untop another person daughter again . guy they don't worth that stress if you ask me . make we all dey our dey las las everything go set.

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Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by dapolaw(m): 9:12am On Dec 15, 2021
Someone called you, you didn't pick... Then the following morning, you called her to tell her to call you back.... Bros, her question is valid.... Onus lies on you to call her and explain why you weren't able to pick her call not you asking her to call you back... You could have saved yourself all this if you had easily recharged your line then call her to explain why you were unable to pick her up.


I also think you need to work on your temperament too.

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Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Regex: 9:15am On Dec 15, 2021
You are being foolish and calling it self control.
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by jack3nity: 9:16am On Dec 15, 2021
We no Dey put mouth for relationship matter.
If you know what is right and want peace of mind forever you know what to do you are just blinded by pu*** not love
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Arsenate(m): 9:18am On Dec 15, 2021
slickycee:


This life Sha , if you don't use wisdom , people would give you a terrible advice that sounds so good.

Ah, a smart man here. Spot on dude.

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Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by anonymuz(m): 9:19am On Dec 15, 2021
Differentiate:

Naso na not like she will be giving you money when you're dating her you'll be the one doing the spending, taking her out, give her money for her hair, buy sharwama for her, go to cinema and na you go still pay o all because say you wan fuçk and Christmas don show now me self never know wetin go sup na their I go kon dey worry untop another person daughter again . guy they don't worth that stress if you ask me . make we all dey our dey las las everything go set.
na so o.
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Kobicove(m): 9:19am On Dec 15, 2021
What are you still doing with her?

Dump her ASAP!
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Yuneehk(f): 9:19am On Dec 15, 2021
Double0h7:


Are her other qualities good enough to overlook this small imperfection? Because nobody is going to have it all. If we just keep ending relationships for every imperfection we see, then we'll be old and alone, or we'll finally become desperate, and settle for someone with all the imperfections combined!
grin
You've done well by advising this brother. With the way others are saying dump her, you'd think they're perfect. He's clearly said that's her only flaw, so asides her anger (of which is justified for this incident sef grin ), she's a good person.

OP, she loves you, that's why she got vexed you didn't pick her call.

If she doesn't call, these set of people will still say it's a one sided relationship because the lady doesn't call.
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Solatium(m): 9:20am On Dec 15, 2021
Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.

I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?



You are dating an unappreciative and an insensitive/inconsiderate person and you think it will lead to good?
You already know the answer

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Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by yewawa: 9:21am On Dec 15, 2021
Thank God you asked........My brother please quit that relationship now before it is too late.Quit,I repeat quit now and prayerfully look for the that will make your comfortable....Talking from experience!
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by treatise: 9:22am On Dec 15, 2021
Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.

I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?

Nothing much. It means someone is recharging her phone airtime and other things may be recharged as well. grin
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by enonche85(m): 9:22am On Dec 15, 2021
Imustreturn:
she won't change don't stress your self. I've seen alot. My ex told me she can't compromise for anything. I just jejely broke up in peace

You have to try dialogue first before leaving sha. Some will try to adjust.
Re: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Imustreturn(m): 9:26am On Dec 15, 2021
enonche85:


You have to try dialogue first before leaving sha. Some will try to adjust.
bro. In this current time that everyone is trying to survive no time for that one. As an adult we should understand that it's not easy to live with each other. I mean they have seen and heard things. So it shouldn't be difficult

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