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Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Ugandatales: 8:27pm On Dec 17, 2021
puppie017:
What's the difference BTW Arizona and colorado

Big difference...Three drags of Colorado is enough to make you crazy...Arizona is Childs play compared to Colorado. I once went to see a friend, and his friends were smoking Colorado...can you believe that I got high, even without smoking (I'm not a smoker)...just from inhaling secondhand Colorado smoke, I got high.

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Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Ifesinachi22(m): 8:27pm On Dec 17, 2021
Wawelexy:
The person above me is either a non smoker or occasional smoker...

Possible cause of his death;
LOAN/DEBT
SPORT/VIRTUAL BETTING
POVERTY

The wife said he doesn't take Colorado but smokes Arizona and that he stops smoking before the incident,
If the guys didn't stop smoking, may be he might still be alive, cos AZ makes you forget ur worries for a while and bring temporal joy. The thought of him not being able to puff that sh*t again might just make him have a second thought just to overcome the suicidal thought.

May his soul rest in perfect peace, I pity his wife and kid. Pray they gets help.

Please what is Colorado and Arizona?

I'm hearing it for the first time. Is it Igbo or some sort of weed?

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Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by rowrowland: 8:28pm On Dec 17, 2021
What is Colorado? What is Arizona? ..am i missing something?!
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by seyz91(m): 8:28pm On Dec 17, 2021
Confirm!
neoclassical:
For those who are accusing the person that recorded the video why he did not rescue the deceased, are you guys blind to see that the guy was sitting in a dangerous position. Any attempt to hold him at that moment would have resulted in both the guy and the rescuer falling inside the lagoon. So unfortunate he died that way.
At the same time, I condemn early marriage in its entirety. Imagine blaming the parents for not taking care of a married man, when he is supposed to be taking care of his parents. If you have a means of livelihood, you can marry anything you want, otherwise, why rushing into marriage at such early stage. Such depression would have been avoided if he did not have a family to cater for at the age of 25 years without tangible means of sustenance, considering the perilous times we find ourselves orchestrated by evil old men who call themselves leaders.
May his soul rest in peace.
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Femeto: 8:29pm On Dec 17, 2021
DoggoneDogg:
By Alao Abiodun


Source: The Nation
Abeg wetin be the difference between Colorado and Arizona?
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Ugandatales: 8:29pm On Dec 17, 2021
Ifesinachi22:


Please what is Colorado and Arizona?

I'm hearing it for the first time. Is it Igbo or some sort of weed?

They are different strains of weed...Colorado is the baba of them all...That's the one that make someone crazy.
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by InvertedHammer: 8:29pm On Dec 17, 2021
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Whoever would have saved him must be capable and willing to solve the cause of his depression. Otherwise it is an exercise in futility. Saving him wouldn't have been enough.

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Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by seyz91(m): 8:30pm On Dec 17, 2021
You get am
DoggoneDogg:


You must be new to earth. Humans love seeing other humans suffer lowkey.
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Olatara(f): 8:30pm On Dec 17, 2021
BKayy:
He died because of Lack of self control.
If he controlled his dick and didn't impregnate you, he will still be (directly or indirectly) under the support of his parents or relatives pending his financial independence.

Your own dey your body undecided.
Keep judging a dead man
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Ifesinachi22(m): 8:31pm On Dec 17, 2021
BobbieZion:
Sativa is therapeutic, it calms your nerves and eases the stress.
Some people will not understand, he stopped taking the real antidote to his situation

He doesn't have money to buy again
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by DrinkWater10: 8:31pm On Dec 17, 2021
neoclassical:
For those who are accusing the person that recorded the video why he did not rescue the deceased, are you guys blind to see that the guy was sitting in a dangerous position. Any attempt to hold him at that moment would have resulted in both the guy and the rescuer falling inside the lagoon. So unfortunate he died that way.
At the same time, I condemn early marriage in its entirety. Imagine blaming the parents for not taking care of a married man, when he is supposed to be taking care of his parents. If you have a means of livelihood, you can marry anything you want, otherwise, why rushing into marriage at such early stage. Such depression would have been avoided if he did not have a family to cater for at the age of 25 years without tangible means of sustenance, considering the perilous times we find ourselves orchestrated by evil old men who call themselves leaders.
May his soul rest in peace.
I be always wondered how such people die. Is it the impact upon landing on the water or the drowning?
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by BKayy: 8:32pm On Dec 17, 2021
Olatara:
Your own dey your body undecided.
Keep judging a dead man
Hope you learnt something from my post.
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Oddfinder: 8:32pm On Dec 17, 2021
baby124:
Mental illness. I am sure he had issues his family know about. Which is why they have not shown up. It’s not a shock to them. They no wan answer questions.
Any small tin ' mental illness'. It seems that's the only response you Instagram fans and zombies have to any discuss..
Someone is dealing with real life issues, broke and helpless and u termed it mental illness..

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Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by FireRain: 8:32pm On Dec 17, 2021
neoclassical:
For those who are accusing the person that recorded the video why he did not rescue the deceased, are you guys blind to see that the guy was sitting in a dangerous position. Any attempt to hold him at that moment would have resulted in both the guy and the rescuer falling inside the lagoon. So unfortunate he died that way.
At the same time, I condemn early marriage in its entirety. Imagine blaming the parents for not taking care of a married man, when he is supposed to be taking care of his parents. If you have a means of livelihood, you can marry anything you want, otherwise, why rushing into marriage at such early stage. Such depression would have been avoided if he did not have a family to cater for at the age of 25 years without tangible means of sustenance, considering the perilous times we find ourselves orchestrated by evil old men who call themselves leaders.
May his soul rest in peace.


Well said.
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Gainman: 8:32pm On Dec 17, 2021
christistruth01:



If the Person talking to him had signalled to others he Could have been Caught from behind by 3 or 4 People while the other Person talking to him distracted him
you watch movies too much. You think u are watching Jack Bauer film. So d guy dey blind or dumb that he will not see anyone moving close to him. I even suspect d guy taking d video was using style to move closer to hold him. Dat is why d guy jumped down.

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Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Philipponzaghi: 8:33pm On Dec 17, 2021
AfonjaConehead:
What a sad tale.

Meanwhile everyday on here, a certain philiponzaghi searches for stories about Igbos doing drugs in Asia and pastes them on here. His intention is not against the crime but to paint the Igbos in bad light.

May God help that young widow and her precious little baby girl who knows nothing about what is happening.
From her looks it's obvious they are really suffering..

I stopped creating those threads because some Ibos are accusing me of spoiling their image and you can see I relaxed for some time by not creating threads and under-reporting crimes of drug traffickers in India.

With this one you just did for accusing me, then I think it’s time I resume so the accusations can be justified.

Lastly, I am only reporting the arrest of Nigerian drug traffickers and unfortunately for the Ibos, they dominate 99% of the demographics. How is that an Igbo hate??

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Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by chitransco(m): 8:33pm On Dec 17, 2021
Amos1423:
Africans! Nigerians! Zombies of the highest order.

I bet you in the end, Africans are just good examples on how humans are not supposed to live.

It's quite sad that when you get to Mali, Cameron's, Niger, Ghana and even to South Africa mostly part populated by blacks and the rest of the subharan Africa you'd get to notice that every of our sense of thoughts either rich or poor is all wired the same, first it's always the battle of the first generation of how to escape poverty then, how to not get broke again later how your generation would never be poor again forgetting that it takes just one wretched child, sad incidence or whatever for all that's ever worked for to be gone in a day, everyone is just all about themselves, just themselves that's why you see greed, selfishness and corruption thrives best cause to everyone Africa is just but how to survive, this is where everyone doesn't just want to live in, everyone sincerely just wants to be free from this contraption and if not for taxes and strict laws Abroad, every rich individual would be doing business in Nigeria from Abroad also if our politicians had a chance they'd rule Nigeria from abroad same way Buhari is doing that's why you see even the least councilors and local government chairman don't stay in their local government, most of them live either secretly or publicly in the capital city.



Nigerians are going through alot but to be sincere, everyone just merits the measure of pain we are going through because we are just not so different from how we want our leaders not to be.

A Nigerian entrepreneur would maltreat his employees at the slight chances then uses same mouth to criticize the government.

A Nigerian common security at the gate of an organizations feels its rather wise to oppress, extort others all for the fact that he's the security man.

Nigerians don't just care about the next door neighbor and sometimes even members of the family don't care about their family members too, everyone is just about themselves that's why you see life in Africa is just battle of the fittest and only the strong lives while the rest continues in the race of survival, eat small food, build small houses, have a small car or sometimes non and what next? Die leaving your family to with the choice of selling off your property to bury you cause you were the all in all, you never thought of opportunities you could present for others to rise and in the end all that you've worked for just gone like that.

No one cares!

In schools, it's student against lecturers, lecturers against management and management against their respective state government or federal.

In the society, its government against the people and the people against government

Police against the people, everyone just has their measure of evil against the next person. I have watched a female officer shut the door on a poor boy who came for an interview just because she didn't like the boys dress; what if that was the only pairs of cloth which the boy had?

If only we cared about what our next generations would look like, the kind of environment you'd wish for them to grow we as a people would already be pushing the government, pressuring them on what to and what not to at every point in time.

Everyone is judging the camera man but in the end have you ever wondered or asked yourself why a boy of that age with no source of income, impregnates a girl and start a family when he is being sustained by another person? Have we ever thought about the future of the kid who'd grow up with no opportunity morally, technically, educationally and every "ally". This sh**t happens everywhere, children raising children under the parents roof. Ave we ever thought of the poor child, the difficult and struggles of life the child will see? I though children were the foundation of the society? Ave we wondered what foundation our kids are raised? If child rights law in Nigeria was successfully effected & implented, in the first place, what would trigger a person who can't take care of himself to want to raise a child after the fore knowledge of the impending danger that would befall him from the government if the child is not properly taken care of? Of course you know about child support, that way people can only raise kids when ready and not when it rains, also we can start from raising a sane society.

The rate rate of suicide in the country the past years is alarming, it clearly shows everything is wrong in the society. People who commits suicide sometimes don't want to die but just wants their pain, challenges to go away.

Graduates will finish from school, no work and the next advise is for he/she to start getting is to start a business, from which money?

I pity Africans cause we will never grow with this attitude
my God!!!..u are a rare gem bro...u re one in a million...keep up the mentality...I know u won't get much "likes" from folks here...cus their mentality is just too shallow to grasp d point u tryna make..and once they don't understand u nd ur mentality...they term u "different".."abnormal".."weird"...e.tc...shalom bro..shalom!!!..this is d best damned piece I've seen here so far

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Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Ugandatales: 8:33pm On Dec 17, 2021
omonla10:
Till tomorrow, I've not watched where e actually jumped.. My liver dey cut midway into d video

And me I am looking for where to watch it. The video had already been removed by the time I saw the post.
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by TheGreatOne90: 8:33pm On Dec 17, 2021
christistruth01:


That is how they stop People from Jumping from Buildings

Many of them latter go back to say" Thank you" because they didn't realize what they were doing at Time

Do you know Nnamdi Azikiwe was so frustrated that he tried to kill himself when he was just 23 years old

It was a kind hearted Black American that saw him and dragged him off the Railway Tracks and encouraged him to keep on living

Look What Nnamdi Azikiwe later became the Premier of the Eastern Region and the first Ceremonial Nigerian President before he passed away at almost 94 years
If only the black man minded his business, he could have saved many nigerians alot of pain
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Ifesinachi22(m): 8:34pm On Dec 17, 2021
Ugandatales:


They are different strains of weed...Colorado is the baba of them all...That's the one that make someone crazy.

OK thanks. I don't smoke, that's why i don't know any of these things.

I've heard of SK and Igbo itself.
I've seen meth too.

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Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Nobody: 8:34pm On Dec 17, 2021
Dsalvo:
Wow. Tragic. Feel bad for the young wife and infant daughter he left behind. Dude is virtually a baby himself in Nigerian age.

The hardship in the country means majority of 25 year old live with parents, or other family members, and are being supported by them.

Life just overwhelmed him. There are so many young Nigerians, 14 to 26, just hustling daily to eat while living rough. Their parents dont know where they are and don't care.

I just don't know why Nigerian leaders continue shying away from insisting on family planning.

Adults irresponsibly having children they cannot care for, and later abandon, is literally killing Nigeria.
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Wealthinwealth1: 8:34pm On Dec 17, 2021
As much as I pitied the guy for ending his life, he threaded the path of depression, he did drugs? still complaining his parents did not take care of him? At 25years? The issue with many youths is that they have been over pampered making always looking for who to put thier blames on when issues arise. A 25year old, should find the nearest mountain and pour out his worries to his Maker. Life is not a bed of rose, pointing accusing fingers on parents that might have thier own battle they are facing, I am sure he wants his parents to take take responsibilities both physically and spiritually for his daughter while he kips smoking his Arizona. Hmm. The earlier we youths starts to take responsibilities for ourselves without looking for who to put blames on, the better for us. RIP to the dead

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Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Nobody: 8:35pm On Dec 17, 2021
Baba don shamefully run away. Him for wait na. You just dey only 11 month into buying baby food and you don run. Arrogant boy whether thay way na your mate. Now see the kind bitter execution when you dey forced to carry out on yourself.

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Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by BestRicePlug28(f): 8:35pm On Dec 17, 2021
yamunla:
HER FAMILY WAN USE HER CASH OUT SHARP SHARP


May the soul of her husband RIP

Must you think through your anus?

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Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Ifesinachi22(m): 8:36pm On Dec 17, 2021
Ugandatales:


And me I am looking for where to watch it. The video had already been removed by the time I saw the post.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yfQo2BdmiLc

Watch here.

Graphic content.
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by vannessa7(f): 8:36pm On Dec 17, 2021
neoclassical:
For those who are accusing the person that recorded the video why he did not rescue the deceased, are you guys blind to see that the guy was sitting in a dangerous position. Any attempt to hold him at that moment would have resulted in both the guy and the rescuer falling inside the lagoon. So unfortunate he died that way.
At the same time, I condemn early marriage in its entirety. Imagine blaming the parents for not taking care of a married man, when he is supposed to be taking care of his parents. If you have a means of livelihood, you can marry anything you want, otherwise, why rushing into marriage at such early stage. Such depression would have been avoided if he did not have a family to cater for at the age of 25 years without tangible means of sustenance, considering the perilous times we find ourselves orchestrated by evil old men who call themselves leaders.
May his soul rest in peace.

He definitely had a tangible means of sustenance, depression does not necessarily need a valid cause, it's a mental illness, I've been there and the only thing you think about is to end it even if you are better than most people, I'm sure doing drug was a contributor, if he couldn't sustain his wife and child they wouldn't be staying with him at that age. Surveyors make decent money,
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Ugandatales: 8:37pm On Dec 17, 2021
Ifesinachi22:



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yfQo2BdmiLc

Watch here.

Graphic content.

The video has been removed.
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Ifesinachi22(m): 8:38pm On Dec 17, 2021
Philipponzaghi:


I stopped creating those threads because some Ibos are accusing me of spoiling their image and you can see I relaxed for some time by not creating threads and under-reporting crimes of drug traffickers in India.

With this one you just did for accusing me, then I think it’s time I resume so the accusations can be justified.

Lastly, I am only reporting the arrest of Nigerian drug traffickers and unfortunately for the Ibos, they dominate 99% of the demographics. How is that an Igbo hate??

Werey
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Ifesinachi22(m): 8:39pm On Dec 17, 2021
Ugandatales:


The video has been removed.

Yeah. I can see that too.

Wonder why they removed it

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Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Nobody: 8:39pm On Dec 17, 2021
Femeto:
Abeg wetin be the difference between Colorado and Arizona?

I will advise you don't get any Information concerning these extremely dangerous and harmful substances. Just keep off, My One Cent......
Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by WillyDave: 8:39pm On Dec 17, 2021
neoclassical:
For those who are accusing the person that recorded the video why he did not rescue the deceased, are you guys blind to see that the guy was sitting in a dangerous position. Any attempt to hold him at that moment would have resulted in both the guy and the rescuer falling inside the lagoon. So unfortunate he died that way.
At the same time, I condemn early marriage in its entirety. Imagine blaming the parents for not taking care of a married man, when he is supposed to be taking care of his parents. If you have a means of livelihood, you can marry anything you want, otherwise, why rushing into marriage at such early stage. Such depression would have been avoided if he did not have a family to cater for at the age of 25 years without tangible means of sustenance, considering the perilous times we find ourselves orchestrated by evil old men who call themselves leaders.
May his soul rest in peace.
You took the words out of my mouth. Anybody who tried to rescue that guy may have ended up in the lagoon with him bearing in mind his sitting position. The wife is putting the blame on the parents. For me it is a no no even though I don't have all the details. As a drug addict, he did not just start today. The parents may have done a lot to help him for years without success. Everybody may have probably gotten tired of him and decided to turn their back on him. No one should blame the parents. At 25 he already has a family to care for and with no tangible means of livelihood. It's enough to cause him depression. Being a drug addict and the decision to marry early knowing that it comes with added responsibility were all his choices and not his parents. For every choice we make, there must be consequences.

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