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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Mikeeytools: 10:19am On Dec 19, 2021
Cuttycool:
Umuogwo is not compulsory. Next time she gives birth look for another alternative helper, it's not compulsory that your mom should spend months there. Your mom can spend few weeks.
Na them be this o. Next you would hear your mother does not need to come visit. Then next stop calling your mother. Then next your mother is a wicth Na so. Wicked gender.

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Nobody: 10:20am On Dec 19, 2021
Asgard73:


Stop spreading your ignorance... only fools do so.

Your family no need am .. no means is yeye and wrong

Adashu..

Who your family help ? Who know them..

You Dey blast wetin you don’t know anything about feeling funky..

Who send your family in igboland .. wetin Dey invent ?

Careless talk
na beggar's and loosers statement you just made. Pauper leave the woman, husband and baby let em live in peace, don't intrude on their privacy. Them no beg you for assistance, what of woman who's motherless?. Y am I even wasting time argueing with parasitic pest!

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by eyinjuege: 10:21am On Dec 19, 2021
Favfables1:


Postpartum depression or not, pulling out a knife on your husband and mother inlaw is a very terrible behavior that should be shunned,so stop making excuses for her behavior!!

So now everytime someone has postpartum depression, he/she is justified to pulling out a knife on people at every slight provocation??
Mtttttcheeeeewww...

Why didn't her postpartum depression make her pull out a knife on a random stranger or on a military man/woman, why her husband and mother inlaw?? You think if they filed a report against her on the basis of threat to life, you think she'll go free without any repercussion all because she has postpartum depression??

As long as it's not self defense, pulling out a knife on a person is a behavior that'll make one question your sanity or your morality, either ways, she needs urgent psych eval...

You don't seem to know enough about post partum mental illnesses which can range from depression to full blown psychosis.
Depression isn't just a state of feeling sad like most people believe. Everyone feels sad at some point, but there are other symptoms with it and a time frame for it.
But women who have just had a baby are very vulnerable in their post partum states and can actually start exhibiting strange behaviours.
There are women who have killed their children, husbands and relatives due to psychosis after birth, so don't ever take it lightly.
Such threats are not taken lightly and what they need is some help. The law will even find it hard to separate the murder as deliberate or from mental illness.
These are unfortunately the realities of some women.
Her own mother has just come, but who knows if she will still chase her mother about with a pestle?
I quite agree she needs to speak to a psychiatrist/doctor.

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Nobody: 10:23am On Dec 19, 2021
Cuttycool:
Umuogwo is not compulsory. Next time she gives birth look for another alternative helper, it's not compulsory that your mom should spend months there. Your mom can spend few weeks.
mother in law don turn this thing to something else, them go even use am to boss their daughter marriage and combine turn d man to complete stranger. What of a woman with no mum. Imagine a woman leaving her husband home for months in d name of yeye omugwo. Who even invent this selfish term self!

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Nobody: 10:25am On Dec 19, 2021
Asgard73:


Your gibberish is smelling...

Not because your weak bro no fit control his family make others Dey help him control a.m..

Your family Dey blame am on omogwu..

Get sense and dash yourself
na feminist statement you just made. I no go insult you back cos I get sense unlike u
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Asgard73: 10:27am On Dec 19, 2021
Vickyvice:
na beggar's and loosers statement you just made. Pauper leave the woman, husband and baby let em live in peace, don't intrude on their privacy. Them no beg you for assistance, what of woman who's motherless?. Y am I even wasting time argueing with parasitic pest!

See your brain naa... so omogwu is going to beg

Haba

Foolishness is a bliss .. see what pride has turn you and your family to..

Honesty you’re a poor human .. very poor in all aspect of life ..
Only poor souls brag online .. only real poor parasites brag about money.

I really pity your people and their pride.

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Asgard73: 10:33am On Dec 19, 2021
Vickyvice:
na feminist statement you just made. I no go insult you back cos I get sense unlike u

In your little brain .. people control humans .. like dolls, .. people can only control weak humans..like your people that you’ve seen been controlled.
In your little and prideful mind .. going to your sons and daughters house is to beg for food.

Lazy human with poverty mentality..

Something tells me .. people like you are born in povert and never expect to make it in life.. if not his grace ... now your family succeeded .. but the poverty experience is still stuck.

The insults tradition of the tribe because of your family experience and you think you get sense

Poor soul

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Justkatty(f): 11:09am On Dec 19, 2021
Tallesty1:
Chase away his mother.

Bring in her own mother.


Then apologize.


Women are smart grin
What are you saying? He should aswell chase his mother inlaw? Two wrongs can't make a right, She has said sorry..so I don't see any reason for dragging same issue.
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Justkatty(f): 11:12am On Dec 19, 2021
Vickyvice:
this is exactly what our family want. Our sisters give birth, our family makes all supplies, both for baby and their kitchen without visiting for omugwo, while our in-laws both from our sisters husban side and our bothers wife's people visit for the omugwo, ... Both ways. even our wives are surprised that their own mum comes for omugwo, while our mum,,,their mum inlaw doesn't go for omugwo when her biological daughter gives birth. we in our family don't see the unusual neccesity of this, as we want them to be at total peace of privacy. Truth is it's not compulsory for a woman's mum to do this, since most mum in-laws have used this opportunity to become their boss of marriage. What if d woman no get mum again?
It's also a good one and I believe you guys got your reason (reasons).

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by dingbang(m): 11:13am On Dec 19, 2021
And why the fvck would your mum come for omugwo?

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by MorningStar233: 11:14am On Dec 19, 2021
Now I totally understand why in Idoma culture the wife goes to her mother's house to deliver, see finish becomes inevitable if you over stay anywhere

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by generalwo(m): 11:14am On Dec 19, 2021
Who won when they fought? Bros I don't support your wife fighting your mum oooooo.... No excuse is enough for her to fight but as a good man, forgive her... Learn to love her again..... Treat her mom with respect while she's in your house and this should make your wife realize even further that she was wrong to have fought your mum and even pulled a knife on her.... I apologize on her behalf bros... For the sake of your new born.... If she do am again, I go personally rent the truck when she go take park go back to her parents house

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by advanceDNA: 11:15am On Dec 19, 2021
Mariangeles:
Have you considered the fact that your wife might be going or might've gone through postpartum depression, which might've led to that behaviour?

Were she and your mum having problems before your wife got pregnant and had a baby?

N.B. Postpartum depression is not an excuse for bad behaviour, it is real.

Let her pull knife on her own mother too, then we will know she’s truly suffering from depression.....

Nonsense..

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by xcesspaschal(m): 11:15am On Dec 19, 2021
As an Anambra son....Mum over Everything.....

Let peace rule.

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Help2020: 11:16am On Dec 19, 2021
DjBigMoni:
Thank God for safe delivery, even though it was CS everything went successful.

So my mum came around for Omugwo first and ever since my wife had been having issues with her. it got to the extent my wife pulled a knife on my mum and I, she even fought my mum before she left.

So her mum now came around for Omugwo also and I have not been giving her face even despite she has apologised with my wife also and even her Dad. But I'm still finding it difficult to forgive her don't know why.
So has apologized, so pls move on..But some things I hear about marriage scares me too much..I can't imagine my wife fighting my mum,how?
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by chudez0147(m): 11:16am On Dec 19, 2021
DjBigMoni:
Thank God for safe delivery, even though it was CS everything went successful.

So my mum came around for Omugwo first and ever since my wife had been having issues with her. it got to the extent my wife pulled a knife on my mum and I, she even fought my mum before she left.

So her mum now came around for Omugwo also and I have not been giving her face even despite she has apologised with my wife also and even her Dad. But I'm still finding it difficult to forgive her don't know why.
DamnNigga
Isoright!!

Maybe your mum behaves like that guy with the moniker @Edofirstson.

I won't say more than this until we hear from your wife too. Isoright!!

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by MichaelSokoto(m): 11:18am On Dec 19, 2021
sorry oo!

Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by udemzyudex(m): 11:19am On Dec 19, 2021
She pulled a knife?

Na wa
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by staga: 11:19am On Dec 19, 2021
DjBigMoni:
No other reason, she even had to threaten my life again after my mum incident, wanted to pure me hot water in the presence of her mum all because I said I'll still deal with her after all the pleading. she still begged for forgiveness that night

You need to take some very strong measures. What kind of madness will make a woman pick up a knife on the woman that birthed her husband? For me, it is unforgiveable.

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by nkemoma(m): 11:19am On Dec 19, 2021
Mariangeles:
Have you considered the fact that your wife might be going or might've gone through postpartum depression, which might've led to that behaviour?

Were she and your mum having problems before your wife got pregnant and had a baby?

N.B. Postpartum depression is not an excuse for bad behaviour, it is real.



Mugu...

The depression happen only when mother in law de Why the wife no pull knife for her own mama?

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by juman(m): 11:19am On Dec 19, 2021
Omugwo is for wifes mother.
Forgive your wife and have peace in your family.
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by yorubarere: 11:20am On Dec 19, 2021
Mariangeles:
Have you considered the fact that your wife might be going or might've gone through postpartum depression, which might've led to that behaviour?

Were she and your mum having problems before your wife got pregnant and had a baby?

N.B. Postpartum depression is not an excuse for bad behaviour, it is real.
But the depression no happen when her own mama came. You these girls make Una know say Una too go get male children.

Nonsense!

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by ednut1(m): 11:20am On Dec 19, 2021
Nawa
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Elijahrona(m): 11:20am On Dec 19, 2021
DjBigMoni:
Thank God for safe delivery, even though it was CS everything went successful.

So my mum came around for Omugwo first and ever since my wife had been having issues with her. it got to the extent my wife pulled a knife on my mum and I, she even fought my mum before she left.

So her mum now came around for Omugwo also and I have not been giving her face even despite she has apologised with my wife also and even her Dad. But I'm still finding it difficult to forgive her don't know why.

Hi OP.

I don't know if you can read this, but women are generally angry and sad if they deliver via CS.

They will usually fight their mother in-laws especially when they're trying to impose something on them (trust me on this, no one understands your wife better than herself at this crucial time).

Just try to settle things between your wife and your mom.

Holding grudges won't solve anything.
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by GorillaApp(m): 11:20am On Dec 19, 2021
Justkatty:
That wasn't nice of her her, irrespective of what could have happened, she wouldn't have resulted in carrying knife or having a physical fight with her mother inlaw.....She for get mind carry knife for her own mama?
Anyways since she has apologise, please forgive her but a Stern warning should be given.

God abeg give me mother inlaw wey go take me as her daughter and I promise to cherish her.
The way my mama born me naso she too born the person I call my crown.
Desist from violence it doesn't pay.
Search no further
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by solidmyk(m): 11:21am On Dec 19, 2021
viyon02:
So her mum can come for omugo abi? If you don't want thunder fire you, don't allow her mum too to come for omugo period.
Yes she came for an omugo

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by frozen70(f): 11:21am On Dec 19, 2021
DjBigMoni:
Thank God for safe delivery, even though it was CS everything went successful.

So my mum came around for Omugwo first and ever since my wife had been having issues with her. it got to the extent my wife pulled a knife on my mum and I, she even fought my mum before she left.

So her mum now came around for Omugwo also and I have not been giving her face even despite she has apologised with my wife also and even her Dad. But I'm still finding it difficult to forgive her don't know why.

She went extreme and its difficult for you to guarantee your safety with her

She has to go to wherever your mum is and tender an u resolved apology with her parents along and her parents will witness the first and last threat she will ever give to any members of your family

But if she is so u fortunate that your mum has decided you won't go ahead with her again, that's the end

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Benprass(m): 11:21am On Dec 19, 2021
When they say study the person you want to marry you think they limit it to the wife/man alone!

Nop but study her family, background, everything although people can hide things but pray over everything especially when it have to do with marriage.

One cow is taking about depression that is why the wife acted that way, why can your chase her own mother with knife.

Oga you just have to be careful with your wife, she might have anger issues, and again start praying for her so that God will change her stone heart, if not she might stab you one day.

May God not allow us marry an evil woman.
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by ABANGWABOI(m): 11:21am On Dec 19, 2021
Op you get luck say you no be my brother..
I for beat you and your wife silly ..
Them no born any of my brothers wives to try such with my mom.. I would beat both my bro and his wife like kids..

Nonsense and women wrappers..

Op for you not beating up your wife for beating your mom.. may you remain unfruitful and miserable in life.. Amen..


Spits on the Weakling..
God abegg.. instead of giving me a Son like Op.. just give me bobrisky

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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by olisaEze(m): 11:22am On Dec 19, 2021
And u came to tell us so we can do....? grin

Your wife pulled a knife on u & ur mom because u haven’t been in charge of ur home. She has seen that ure just a male and not a man.

Telling us that ur preferred method of addressing it is by carrying face in ur own house instead of sending her back to her parents for the omugwo shows that ure not even aware that a lifelong problem has only just begun.

Once a woman loses her respect for u, there’s no turning back.
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by sokera: 11:22am On Dec 19, 2021
Mariangeles:
Have you considered the fact that your wife might be going or might've gone through postpartum depression, which might've led to that behaviour?

Were she and your mum having problems before your wife got pregnant and had a baby?

N.B. Postpartum depression is not an excuse for bad behaviour, it is real.
postpartum depression that only activate for her mother in law and not her own mother ? Abi ?

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