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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by money121(m): 7:57pm On Dec 19, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls
O... B ... O adugbo
Run my brother

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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Uchedizzy(f): 8:00pm On Dec 19, 2021
BravoEcho:
U better control your Yeye feeling before they control you outta the company....focus on your life first, women will come trooping..


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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by poiZon: 8:08pm On Dec 19, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls
Resign from that place so u can focus on ur life.
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by sonssyo: 8:11pm On Dec 19, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls

Rebuke the devil and he will flew from you,be careful!!

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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by phorget(m): 8:20pm On Dec 19, 2021
This one wey una dey furkkkk unaself upandan for this una workplace so shey you sure say una dey fit make profit so?

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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by 77star: 8:24pm On Dec 19, 2021
Moonie911:
OP read my lips or write up anyone,
She is not into you
You are her superior so she is just been friendly, a lady that likes you wont date someone else than after that relationship ended starts dating another guy in your workplace.
All this feeling is probably in your head because she smiles and play with you doesn't mean she likes you that way, she probably wants to be on your good side since you are her boss.
Kindly move on
How far Munirat?
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Meteng: 8:29pm On Dec 19, 2021
I can't believe the mods even took this to front page. We're done for in this country
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by omoadeleye(m): 8:32pm On Dec 19, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls


Infatuation
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by femi4: 8:33pm On Dec 19, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls
You better die that feelings before you lose your job. Office romance no dey pay, she LL be keeping her salaries while you spend yours on her .

Other guys chasing her will block your way to the top if they know the power that be

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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by MaverickA3: 8:37pm On Dec 19, 2021
Girls are/become manipulative and egocentric once they know you have feelings for them. Ignore her completely or better still be close to another girl and watch her reaction.

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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Chrisceejay: 8:38pm On Dec 19, 2021
Sonnobax15:
cheesy
Op,e be like say the work don tire you cheesy

This na one thing wey I dey always dey try avoid....Like not doing anything like relationship for where I take dey hustle.. Because it's either the see-finish go too much or you go lose the small respect wey you dey get cheesy.

Op, like seriously,free that banny cheesy. Make una friendship be only based on business-minded from henceforth,to avoid set up wey go lead to sacking and doing short-time lodging for police station undecided
legit intel
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by just2endowed: 8:40pm On Dec 19, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls

Don't try it
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by MaverickA3: 8:42pm On Dec 19, 2021
Can I ever give myself headache over a girl sha? Not again

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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Remman(m): 8:46pm On Dec 19, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....


Advice on what to do pls
guy, trust me, you're not madly in love with her. You're madly in lust over her. Once you have intimacy with her, you will hate her and it may turn out bad on you and your job. Talking from experience!

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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Maj196(m): 8:46pm On Dec 19, 2021
If you lose your job that love go clear for your eyes
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by gabpaul: 8:47pm On Dec 19, 2021
ukaface:
NL has made me realise that different people have different issues bothering them.

Me sha, make person come do Christmas for me.

Be like I go create my own thread laidis o.

Wanna hang out? cool
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Benprass(m): 8:48pm On Dec 19, 2021
When praying for children parents try and pray for the one that have the following

Sense
High self esteem
Responsible one
The one with the fear of God

Now I see why some couples have delay in getting kids. Must time God want them to know how to train their kids up properly.
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Rexymania(m): 8:53pm On Dec 19, 2021
Op na small pikin
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by sammirano: 8:57pm On Dec 19, 2021
Are you alright? undecided
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by biggie73(m): 8:59pm On Dec 19, 2021
I learned not to mix work with pleasure when my boss was interested in my girl at work. As a reasonable man, I called it quit with the lady- love doesn't count. She dated my boss, then divorced my boss.

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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by BABANGBALI: 8:59pm On Dec 19, 2021
Another trash on the front page of nairaland






After accepting your friend request.. U're still asking me, can we be friends?
No! Come and be my Landlord
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by BABANGBALI: 9:00pm On Dec 19, 2021
biggie73:
I learned not to mix work with pleasure when my boss was interested in my girl at work. As a reasonable man, I called it quit with the lady- love doesn't count. She dated my boss, then divorced my boss.
did you chop her before calling it quit with her or na she chop you?
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by masterfactor(m): 9:06pm On Dec 19, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls
Go and listen to this track (black bonez ft bella shurmurda-okwaraji), The advice you are looking for is in that track.
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by seyz91(m): 9:11pm On Dec 19, 2021
No matter what you do

Never, i repeat "never" involve in anything office romance
.it always end in tears
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls

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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by jameel6: 9:12pm On Dec 19, 2021
Better focus on your job, look for relationship outside your office and fall seriously in love, don't hide.

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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by emmyN(m): 9:31pm On Dec 19, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls

Take an hour after work tomorrow just imagining and meditating on how hellish your life would be when you eventually lose your job.

Done? Congratulations, you are no longer "madly in love". angry
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Emmahunk(m): 9:33pm On Dec 19, 2021
Concentrate on your career. She is aware of how you feel about her and has found a willing spare tire in you,
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by jaxxy(m): 9:46pm On Dec 19, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls

A man who can’t control his feelings will loose many battles in the game of love. Control ur damn feelings already. undecided
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by okoroemeka(m): 9:46pm On Dec 19, 2021
Yohans:
At this age and time you are are saying that you are madly in love. My advice for you is that you should focus on your self development because love issa scam.
not only is he madly in love he also said he cannot control his feelings anymore which the lady in question is exploiting to her advantage, before you say you love someone,it is advisable to fvck that person at least 5 times then you can decide if she is someone you can love, moreover love in a workplace is not the best of ideas
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Hotguy27: 10:04pm On Dec 19, 2021
ahmedaturboy:

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls

Who are we to advise workers in the devil's kingdom?
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by aimmoney9: 10:29pm On Dec 19, 2021
Sonnobax15:
cheesy
Op,e be like say the work don tire you cheesy

This na one thing wey I dey always dey try avoid....Like not doing anything like relationship for where I take dey hustle.. Because it's either the see-finish go too much or you go lose the small respect wey you dey get cheesy.

Op, like seriously,free that banny cheesy. Make una friendship be only based on business-minded from henceforth,to avoid set up wey go lead to sacking and doing short-time lodging for police station undecided
Beta talk...

Correct G..... grin

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