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So, I successfully texted the guy I like and we hung out today. I'm sure that he doesn't have a girlfriend already. Next time I see him in person I want to confess my feelings. How should I phrase it? I was thinking along the lines of "You know, I really like you. I'd like to be be more than friends." By more than friends, I mean a romantic relationship. He already told me he likes strong, ambitious girls. I just need some help figuring out what I want to say. Do you have any experience with asking a guy out or having a girl ask you out?

You think he doesn't know already that you fancy him?.. tell him he is cute, that a sister won't mind being his girl. baba will code instantly.

It's one thing to woo the opposite sex, it's another thing for them to accept or decline, so you better prepare your mind. This is what guys have to deal with all the time from ladies they toast.

The gal am currently dating just asked if I love her?and I said yes. That's how we started. Although, she dey use style before dey ask me how I take dey see gals wey dey make first move,and I told her I don't see anything bad in it.And so she went ahead and make the first move.But there are some guys that take it as something different,like its not suppose to be like. So take your time and study him before telling him your mind. And make sure he won't use it against you later.

Girls can shy to say i want to be your girlfriend, but they dont get shy when asking for urgent 2k.

tell him anyhow.
just ensure you say it.

you can even tell him now

Kazeem47:
The gal am currently dating just asked if I love her?and I said yes. That's how we started. Although, she dey use style before dey ask me how I take dey see gals wey dey make first move,and I told her I don't see anything bad in it.And so she went ahead and make the first move.But there are some guys that take it as something different,like its not suppose to be like. So take your time and study him before telling him your mind. And make sure he won't use it against you later.

Just like guys see fine ladies and approach them, girls too see guys they admire but most are too shy to talk or just too afraid of outright rejection, later when they see the guy with another girl, they start hurting.

African china use am sing.. if you love somebody, walk up to him/her and tell 'em you love 'em, cos no crime atal.

I always appreciate and encourage boldness in ladies.

samiabigail:
So, I successfully texted the guy I like and we hung out
today. I'm sure that he doesn't have a girlfriend already.
Next time I see him in person I want to confess my
feelings. How should I phrase it? I was thinking along the
lines of "You know, I really like you. I'd like to be be more
than friends." By more than friends, I mean a romantic
relationship. He already told me he likes strong, ambitious
girls. I just need some help figuring out what I want to say.
Do you have any experience with asking a guy out or having
a girl ask you out?

Hanty just open your mouth and say "OG hafa nah, e be lyk say I dey gbadun u wella, as in I don dey fall for u small small. I go like make we move our relationship go the next level, how u take see am na??
Afterall, na shot you wan shoot no be pesin you wan kill.

samiabigail:
So, I successfully texted the guy I like and we hung out
today. I'm sure that he doesn't have a girlfriend already.
Next time I see him in person I want to confess my
feelings. How should I phrase it? I was thinking along the
lines of "You know, I really like you. I'd like to be be more
than friends." By more than friends, I mean a romantic
relationship. He already told me he likes strong, ambitious
girls. I just need some help figuring out what I want to say.
Do you have any experience with asking a guy out or having
a girl ask you out?

U sound despirate and nervous. Don't rush things, take it step by step. Don't confess ur love for him yet, rather sneak into a relationship with him. How? 1. Get to know him well. 2. Make him get fond of u by making ur chat with him lively and interesting. 3. When u meet him Physically While chatting with him, make a strong eye contact with him, with a killer smile. Then watching him ur alms while he falls madly in love with u. Ur aim is to make him reciprocal to ur feelings for him.

If you are not careful the way you present yourself, you might present your Kpekus on a platter of gold for him to smash and match. Most guys won't turn down a harmless request from a girl. For God sake, instead of telling or opening up to him, why don't you use your gender power to make him like you and do the asking? Nor go make the guy see you as a desperate girl seeking for a relationship.


By the way I admire your courage, it reminds me of one of my ex-babe who is married now. Babe is so bold that she would call me on phone and tells me she wants to wipe. Babe will take excuse from work to come and cut preek. Her boldness is top-notch and since I wasn't ready financially, I respect her request of getting married since age is not on her side. I have since stopped speaking with her online and on site. She is enjoying her marriage, I want her to continue to enjoy it and I am glad she is comfortable.



So babe, to crown it all; Make the guy to like you. Just be diplomatic and Unbothered about getting him and I assure you, he will come for you.

samiabigail:
So, I successfully texted the guy I like and we hung out
today. I'm sure that he doesn't have a girlfriend already.
Next time I see him in person I want to confess my
feelings. How should I phrase it? I was thinking along the
lines of "You know, I really like you. I'd like to be be more
than friends." By more than friends, I mean a romantic
relationship. He already told me he likes strong, ambitious
girls. I just need some help figuring out what I want to say.
Do you have any experience with asking a guy out or having
a girl ask you out?

Before You Set Out on your mission, please answer these questions:
How mature is the guy?
How will you handle rejection (if plan no work)?
Have you done all your assignment on the guy?
If you have done your assignment on him, you don't need to tell him anything, just require him to say what you want him to say.
Don't be in a haste, take your time. Make him talk, he should tell you about himself, be his friend.
I can't believe I am betraying another bro