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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Exceed15: 1:18pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Thread carefully because right now you are emotionally imbalance. Calm down and let time tell. |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Repu2244(m): 1:18pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
T0T0fucker: Guy you be real Mumu, like big Mumu Abeg gettat 5 Likes |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Nobody: 1:19pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1:You really need to read the OPs comments on this thread so that you will know he is only doing all this because he's hurt she's married to someone else, he has Ego issues and that's what is eating him up. Let him quietly approach the girl and ask her for a DNA test as regards his doubts and he SHOULD NOT involve her husband or family into it because if in the end the baby isn't his, he would have already planted a seed of mistrust in her marriage. 7 Likes |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by hobat4cash(m): 1:21pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Ikpeabujo: Trash, na only you sabi kill person abi? U be God shey? Na people like you dey father another man pikin. |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Nobody: 1:21pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
T0T0fucker:Cc MrBrownJay1, see one of his comments. Doesn't this sound like a pained egoistic man? 1 Like |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by princewarri1985: 1:21pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Bro If the child is yours, he or she will definately have one characteristic of your facial feature just go to her facebook or watsapp profile to see the baby face, about 10 years ago i traveled to lagos and had a fling with this girl for a week and return back to warri and cut every ties with her, 5 months later she called me and told me she was pregnant, i threatened her on the phone and warned her not call my line again, her mother called me again that she has given birth as a sharp warri boy i told her the baby is not mine, i had a dream because of the dream and curiosity i traveled to lagos, WHEN I SAW HER FOR THE FIRST TIME I HAD TEARS IN MY EYES BECAUSE IT FELT LIKE I WAS LOOKING AT MYSELF IN A MIRROR, I HELD HER IN MY HANDS ALL THROUGH THE DAY AND I REFUSED TO LET GO AND I TOOK RESPONSIBILITY IMMEDIATELY, bro! My advice for you is for you to do a dna test if the child does not have your facial feature and if it's yours then take full responsibility, because blood is thicker than water! 3 Likes |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:21pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
WillyDave: see dudes talking with their misplaced egos....so your new wife possibly has a baby by another man, so you'd rather pretend that all is well in your marriage and that the baby is yours (while denying the biological father his rightful place) instead of doing whats right?!?!?!?! you would even think of attacking this guy, simply because he fukced her before you.... some men sha! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by T0T0fucker: 1:23pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
WillyDave: whose this buffalo? you think everyone is poor and wretched like your ancestors before you? 1 Like |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Sotland: 1:24pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Even if you are responsible for the pregnancy.. Did you pay her brideprice? Or you think you can go about impregnating someone's daughter and then come forth to claim the child, where is that done? Oga you are just a sperm donor.. Don't go about trying to be asunder between the couples. You will surely have yourself to be blamed. Imagine, you didn't pay brideprice and you want to claim a child.. Try that with some family and see yourself rot in jail.. T0T0fucker: 5 Likes |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:25pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Simran94: if thats how he viewed this woman all along, do you actually believe he should suddenly change now, simply because she may be his baby mama?! if a woman was indeed a low dirty hoe before getting pregnant, does she become a saint, simply because she got pregnant?!?!?! or, because she is now married, her past has suddenly vanished?! 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Nobody: 1:25pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1:OH so he didn't knkw she was an Olosho before he had sex with her RAW abi? No wonder, Birds of the same feather 5 Likes |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by T0T0fucker: 1:26pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Simran94:hurt? hahahaha. This virgina people self.....am hurt because a girl picked from the club stopped getting attached to me. |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by jasminer: 1:26pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1: If the baby is his and her marriage crashes, he will be compelled to provide an apartment and pay her half of his salary monthly with visisting rights only, you cant share custody of a child thats being breastfed, you can only visit. That woman will deal with him with everything she's got 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:26pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Simran94: the reason why the OP wanna do this isnt important to me, so long as EVERYONE knows who the biological father of the baby truly is... |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Nobody: 1:27pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
T0T0fucker:The way you keep describing this lady in question shows you are hurt. You keep calling her a Hóe, an Olsoho, "you picked her up form the club", those are lines from a pained egoistic man. Approach her and ask for a DNA test to be done, just leave her husband out of it 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by CALCULUS16: 1:28pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Some men and fornication. This is when u will knw that Peace that come from being pure is better than Pleasure from lewdness. 3 Likes |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:28pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
jasminer: in the west possibly, in 9ja, HELL NO! but hey, what if he is jobless? are you saying that if a man is jobless, he shouldnt claim his rightful heir, and instead let some stranger claim his biological child as theirs?!?!?!?!?! |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Nobody: 1:29pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1:Funny enough, everyone won't know who the true father of the child is. He should go for a DNA test, if the child isn't his then he should move on and mind his business 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by T0T0fucker: 1:30pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Sotland: that's if they have the power to put me in jail... think with your sense...not with your anus. she's an adult am an adult. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:30pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Simran94: true...and thats why i said that they need to do a DNA test "quietly" 1st. |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by EhischemNg: 1:31pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
T0T0fucker: Everything u jux said here shows how selfish u are.....You focused more on what u wanna do and not how it might affect her life or marriage (If she agrees)....If she wants u anywhere close to her child she would have told u before now....Yes it is her child cos it may have been ur sperm but you guys weren't legally married.. If she were an Igbo girl the child would automatically belong to her father pending when u pay her bride price... If she had also told u of the pregnancy u would have either told her to abort it, Rejected it, and still carried your self to Nairaland to say how a girl wants to hold u Ransome with a child. Mr man u werent dere all tru the pregnancy but now want to take full custody of the child...did it ever occurred to u DT she could have died during childbirth?? Or had life threatening complications?? I am sure u would have been among the first ppl to type RIP and wouldn't care about the child being yours or not.. It all boils down to ur sickening ego... FEELING USED neglecting the fact u have used lot of women all in the name of your lifestyle, she is happily married to a rich guy and u are single till God knows when and she is of good health to taunts u crazy with her status.... You don't give a shit about her yet supposedly go check her status..because u no get job Regardless of wat u end up doing jux know she outsmarted u once and she can again also dt ds time u might not get the ego and to rant online even with ur so called BLOCK 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:31pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Simran94: so you dont know that some men out there have unprotected sex with oloshos? some even go down on them and lick that community toto finish.... to each their own madness! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Nobody: 1:31pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1:And if this OP in question was married, would his past also be revisited especially now that he MIGHT have impregnated someone else? Would his promiscuity also be revisited if he was married? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Susily(m): 1:32pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Saintmary: Thats his burden, and he's determined to find out if the baby is his. That's all that matters 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Nobody: 1:33pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1:Exactly, QUIETLY but OP is already sounding like someone going in to wage a war 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:36pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Simran94: he may know something we dont....but if she refuses the quiet DNA test, then an all out war is what any man should go after. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:37pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Simran94: if a man needs to do what is right, then yes, just as he may scatter her marriage, it may also scatter his, |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by BabaCommander: 1:38pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
T0T0fucker: 1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days pass 9 months. You no 1 point is invalid. Gestation period rarely last 9 months. It's calculated in weeks, and 40 weeks is 9 months. But birth occured from as early as 32 weeks. Please, tread with caution. As for the complexion, even a would be dark skin baby could appear fair. Moreover, the child could take after an extend family member on both sides on pysiology. Again I will caution you to tread carefully. 3 Likes |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by jasminer: 1:38pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1: Have u been divorced in naija? lol, if he's jobless, he will sleep in prison till he forgets what she looks like Wisdom is profitable to direct, what if the lady gets him killed? Will he claim the child in the grave? See u shouldnt play with a snake no matter how small it looks 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by biggie73(m): 1:39pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
I understand how you feel about wanting to be responsible to your kids. But then she didn't tell you you are an option. Why look for trouble? Just ignore. Just have your DNA fee ready for the future. Don't fight it. 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by WillyDave: 1:40pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
T0T0fucker: Ur need tells so much about you. Irresponsible buffalo. 4 Likes |
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by MultiDot: 1:41pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
O'boy you are obviously the most foolish idiot I have read his his post on this forum. So just because you imagine the baby could be yours, you are planning to destroy a home? If I am the Lady's husband, even if the DNA proves the child is yours or not I will make sure that you never enjoy peace here on earth the whole of your life. I will so make life unbearable for you that you will crimp at the sight of a woman! In the first place who ever told you that making a woman pregnant is an assurance that the baby will be yours. Which Nigerian law supports that? You want to reap what you did not sow. You are so self centered that you have lost any iota of reasoning. Just pause awhile and think beyond your jaundiced self for once. Imagine the trauma you will put a lot of people through with your doomed and fatal dream of fatherhood! Cease from this wicked pursuit before you destroy yourself! 6 Likes 1 Share |
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