| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by dapadawee: 9:37am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Find a lasting solution to it.
Her only problem is that she's not mature and ignorance of what marriage entails. Her parents shouldn't accommodate her and you too should make her comfortable In your home. Stop every extra marital affairs on your part because when a woman knows you are having an affair she will never cooperate with you because when you had a job you spent your money on women and beer parlor friend so now that you don't have why should she share in your pain. For woman to tell you she's going to her male friends house going is not her motive her motive is just to pass a message to you she no longer feels comfortable with you. But OP if this your story is just to pull traffic God punish you. If na fake story he got turn reality 1 Like |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by victorazy(m): 9:38am On Dec 28, 2021 |
everythinggirly:
It's good to pray for the right one even before marriage, someone that loves you can't hurt you. Love never fails.  Na wao! I thank God for loving me o! So people can pass through this? I thank God for my wife o! Na she dey even preach to me that things will get better some day. Sometimes she will call her people to borrow money so that we can eat. |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by EmperorTolson: 9:38am On Dec 28, 2021 |
AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.
Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii. Why is your neck looking like that of a Turkey? |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by Nobody: 9:38am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Lol face your problems and solve it bro |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by Adezanotti: 9:39am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Na women love dey for Na Wetin concern make man dey carry love put for head! I taya o! I no tok say make man no love but carry am put for head. Man loves by heart Na woman dey use am do head tie dey show am like MTN (everywhere you go)! harjay1986:
bro I keep saying it, Men should stop getting marry to woman they love .... she will capitalize on that love you have for her rather marry the one that loves you more than you do for her..... these one tend to be reasonable 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by Nobody: 9:39am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Angelawhite:
It's good to be defensive about women but not all the time nah. Take away emotions and listen to the story. You never quoted or mentioned any specific thing in the story that was offensive. You just resorted to wearing your amour of defense without recourse to common sense. How will you justify a married woman visiting her male friend or leaving a baby at home ? Yes let me be defensive. I know this OP here, everything is just fiction for guillble people like you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by ccollins(m): 9:39am On Dec 28, 2021 |
AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.
Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii. what kind of abnormal woman are u |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by dontrulee: 9:39am On Dec 28, 2021 |
everythinggirly:
It's good to pray for the right one even before marriage, someone that loves you can't hurt you. Love never fails. It's a lie, the one that will love you will hurt you. |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by ShenTeh(m): 9:39am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.
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Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say. Thumbs up for your bravery. Marriage is tough, don't let anyone fool you. It's ok that you have kept your sanity with all that you have gone through. While it is true that some people (both men and women) have stumped their selfishness into their marriages and would go any length to disrespect themselves and make life unbearable for their spouses, there are actually more good people that evil. Please whatever you do, don't just do it in silence, officially report her to her family, and her religious leaders. They are aware but are likely to pretend that you are tolerating it. She will wake up late. |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by Nobody: 9:40am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Rtk5:
sir, it baffles me how some people reason, honstly if i type all my experience with this woman you will think it is fiction. A woman that when i lost my job and there was no money for diapers her sister advised her to steal my phonr and go sell it. Thank God i found it under the bed. I saw the chat with her sister on that. Boss please and please fo your own good... Leave this woman now.. chaii how heartless can she be! Haa! I'm angry for you oooo 1 Like |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by bolabadmus38: 9:40am On Dec 28, 2021 |
The other of the story is also important,but since we can't get and based on your own side,the best thing is to have a break of something else can happen. Look fo somewhere and have a break and deal with her from a far. Ask God for guidance. |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by everythinggirly(f): 9:41am On Dec 28, 2021 |
victorazy:
Na wao! I thank God for loving me o! So people can pass through this?
I thank God for my wife o!
Na she dey even preach to me that things will get better some day. Sometimes she will call her people to borrow money so that we can eat. Nice you have a woman who truly cares. |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by Nobody: 9:41am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Bunkbars:
Please stop this, someone just shared his pain. And all you could do is laugh at him and tell him to go and hustle, You should be ashamed of your self, if you think its not only men that have problems, share your own na, who is stopping you, A problem shared is heart solved. Please stop typing like someone that is frustrated about life and lacks love, it will only render you bitter,depressed and unprogressive. Women are love and they show compassion even when men don't, i don't understand how a young girl like you, as young as you are, would be having such bitterness and anger. Show compassion let good things come to you. I have observed a lot of bitterness on this forum, and am confused if its poverty or just idleness. na both!! And lack of contentment and foresight as toppings!! |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by credon: 9:41am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.
Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.
I remember when I lost my job and things became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.
Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.
There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.
In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.
Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.
The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.
Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say. Bros your conclusion is excellent, your peace and happiness is important, your life depends on it, so it is for your wife because you may get angry and kill her. What is unfortunate now is that her family are worsening the problem. So like you concluded, get a divorce 1 Like |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by EmperorTolson: 9:41am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Rtk5:
sir, it baffles me how some people reason, honstly if i type all my experience with this woman you will think it is fiction. A woman that when i lost my job and there was no money for diapers her sister advised her to steal my phonr and go sell it. Thank God i found it under the bed. I saw the chat with her sister on that. Many things dey happen o |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by chikason22(m): 9:41am On Dec 28, 2021 |
AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.
Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii. Nothing sensible as usual. So gettat 
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| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by Lightorder: 9:41am On Dec 28, 2021 |
AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.
Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii. please ma, who serves the drinks you take ? |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by Adezanotti: 9:41am On Dec 28, 2021 |
At least it’s a fiction for people to learn from AGurlnoname:
Yes let me be defensive. I know this OP here, everything is just fiction for guillble people like you. |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by na2016: 9:42am On Dec 28, 2021 |
chatinent:
Sorry for your experiences, bro.
Please be strong. It isn't always greener in marriages. Meanwhile, one thing I will never support is promiscuity....but a question is: are you working harder?
By harder I mean endeavouring to provide for your family...since you have just a son?
Sometimes, it may be you are working hard but it isn't paying much. What to do? Work smart. Work and freelance on other jobs to get some extra money.
Responsibility are setting in. Don't seek people to manage you. Just be average.
Be strong bro. Are you married? If you are and have experienced half what this op wrote, you will really pity him and talk of smart work and others. Some women nowadays are really a problem. At times I think marriage is not worth it. Forget those matching clothes couples wear, it doesn't tell what the men go through and in a few instances what the women go through. 1 Like |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by SeriouslySense(m): 9:42am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Thank you for your story, it's really important to really know the true personality of whoever we want to marry, and people sometimes hide their true selves. You seem like a good parent, at least thank God for that. Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.
Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.
I remember when I lost my job and things became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.
Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.
There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.
In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.
Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.
The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.
Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say. |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by addren1(m): 9:42am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Sorry for the rough experience s bro.It's just like that when things turns south in a marriage especially when you have no other backup source of income.Do you have any skills for passive income like freelancing, copywriting or web design.I am presently into affiliate marketing with digital firms.It really helped me a lot though because it's a good side hustle.I can explain the process for free though if you might be interested.Just check my signature for my details. |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by od501: 9:42am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.
Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.
I remember when I lost my job and things became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.
Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.
There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.
In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.
Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.
The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.
Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say. Keep thinking about what people will say until she kee you trowa. |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by Samade7: 9:42am On Dec 28, 2021 |
AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.
Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii. You are worst than Iswap member. |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by Nobody: 9:43am On Dec 28, 2021 |
AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.
Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii. The story is obviously fake. Clickbait to generate traffic. Trust Nairalanders to react till eternity. 3 Likes |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by Newboss(m): 9:43am On Dec 28, 2021 |
OP, correction: the worst thing that can happen to a man is to be married and broke.
A man can be broke in peace and soak his garri in peace if he's not married.
Marriage is a liability to a man. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by house10s: 9:43am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Palema007:
Now I know there is no hope for you. So divorce is the solution? I hope he wouldn't have anything to do with any woman again too.
You know what? Just get lost already! I've wasted enough mentions on you already and your senseless summations has failed to convince me otherwise. u speak like a ho |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by rajiedreez: 9:43am On Dec 28, 2021 |
There's no relationship worth killing yourself for |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by Uptheante(m): 9:43am On Dec 28, 2021 |
AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.
Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii. Bleep u & everything u stand to represent. U are a stupid & insensitive feminist with a dead conscience |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by Dshocker(m): 9:44am On Dec 28, 2021 |
AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.
Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii. I believe you are learned enough to understand when to use the word lazy in a sentence! |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by MrNipplesLover(m): 9:44am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Y'all pussy ass niggaz will keep getting heart break and come ranting here... Since una head no want correct.
Marriage should be a for better and for worse affair no matter what challenge comes in between...
But you fvcking human beings no respect marriage.. This is why marriage is undesirable nowadays...
And we wey we already know say majority of ladies of today deserve no relationship/love, let alone marrying dem put for house...
If she doesn't cheat on u (for one reason), she go frustrate ur life if challenges come in the marriage.
The only way to have peace of mind as a man is to stay away from all this mumu loving u shitt.
Almost all the women are meant to be hooked, have fun with, if u can fvck dem, fine... But u must pay for every fvck, then bounce and enjoy ur life... Come tell me how u go dey have issues with women by doing this...
All of una wey dey always bash me on top wetin I talk up there... At least, u can see the story of the OP.
Apart from his own ordeal, we see many broken homes, many women filing divorces with their men up and down... From celebrities to ordinary people... We see am everyday.
So, wetin una need again?
Since una no want get brain, una go commit suicide las las. |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by Nobody: 9:44am On Dec 28, 2021 |
AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.
Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii. You no get one single sense for head na why the number of bitter, angry and unmarried feminist full ground nowadays...olodo rabata  1 Like |
| Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by oshaosha2014(m): 9:44am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Most likely a slay queen. If it is possible he should not marry again. MALIGNANTGuest:
I have always told LADIES that...
There is nothing wrong in a Lady staying Single.
In Fact, I cherish Reverend Sisters a lot.
They are determined!
My Elder cousin who got married to a White Lady 2years ago, was given a time frame of 3 years as survival target for his marriage.
Could you believe he just called me, telling me he is divorced. Marriage is barely 2yrs.
Reason:
His wife doesn't want to get pregnant.
She's has been on contraceptive pills since they got married. Rather she went and adopted a dog for $7000 in replacement for a child.
Why should I blame his wife? We saw it coming!
These are 2 humans with entirely different ideologies. May be, if that my cousin was born & probably raised in the US, they would have thought along same line. But here, we have a lady not raised to raise a home. You, as a man brought up differently rushed & proposed.
Dragging each & everyone one of us to his glamorous wedding! Now he's in dire need of a typical Nigerian woman. His speedy effort at actualizing that may cost him another slay queen!.
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