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AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.

Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii.

Truvelisback:
Ur wife no dey work?

I wonder ooo! What man in his right mind, would allow his wife to be jobless, without contributing anything to the home ? Nigeria is hard as it is and all hands must be on desk to push the home front running. Women must get something doing, so that they can support thier husbands .At thesame time, the man should also support thier wives with house shores , so that there will be enough time for couple be time out . This is what happens when coupled decide to be selfish towards the other person .

Wrong person can never became right

I always get worried by how suddenly women's attitudes change when money is introduced. You'll start seeing instant show of admiration, care
& fake love which i often call eye service then you get the direct opposite when the money is gone.
The only option is make more and more money

Bunkbars:
Please stop this, someone just shared his pain. And all you could do is laugh at him and tell him to go and hustle, You should be ashamed of your self, if you think its not only men that have problems, share your own na, who is stopping you, A problem shared is heart solved. Please stop typing like someone that is frustrated about life and lacks love, it will only render you bitter,depressed and unprogressive. Women are love and they show compassion even when men don't, i don't understand how a young girl like you, as young as you are, would be having such bitterness and anger. Show compassion let good things come to you. I have observed a lot of bitterness on this forum, and am confused if its poverty or just idleness.

Wisdom too much for your head

AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.

Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler l and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii.

u are stupid n u will definitely have problem in your marriage with this mentality

I pity any man that would want to settle down with you. Smh

AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.

Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii.

babyfaceafrica:
You mean you wish you were still single?.. Wow. Sorry bro

Yeah bro...
The reason is I believe I was too optimistic and maybe had some expectations that weren't realistic enough about marriage.. the person I married isn't necessarily a good or bad person

I'm disappointed, yes.
But mostly in myself... because I felt marriage would bring me into my El Dorado..but the reality isn't so.

Okay... That's why there's justification for leaving a baby alone at home. Whatever the man must have done, that action alone speaks volume

CHoccolaTE:
There are three sides to every story.

Op side, his wife side and the truth gangan

I dont even believe what Op wrote is the full story. He must have omitted the part where he was showing his wife pepper from the story because he wants people to sympathize with him here. Unless your wife is a mad woman, I don't know why she will just get up and start misbehaving for no reason and without any trigger.

Blendy77:


Am a woman but this post is just too funny not to laugh. Don't kno why there is no laughing emoji in this platform after like and share. Women are actually created n wired differently but that's not to say there are no good women. There are lots n lots of good women out there. Just pray for God to give you the right one that will endure with you thru thick and thin.

Which part is funny to you...??

AGurlnoname:


Na you go taya, lol

you are mad woman. That your neck wey long like person wey never chop since last week ehn. And if we run ur family check now, ur papa na one motherfucker pauperlly broked ass. You are a fucking useless lady who depends on men to survive.

Judybash93:

You will never lack anything good in this life! #gbam

Thank u my broda. And u too

Divorce that Bitch while you can otherwise when you are super rich tomorrow she will kill you and lavish YOuR wealth with another man. A good wife is suppose to support at the time of trials. Forget what people will say after that you will be happy.

Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.

Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.

I remember when I lost my job and things became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.

Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.

There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.

In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.

Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.

The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.

Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say.

AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.

Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii.

We have also had stories from the female gender on how their husbands are not treating them right on the social media even here.

The experience he has shared is a common thing among the females. It is so easy to lay hands on, in every neighborhood.

If you doubt it, it's ok.
It's happening before my very own eyes.
Your response validates it. Pray your relatives do not experience the same bitter pill.

Lastly, you speak like one who torment his husband, your type is always aggressive at such stories.

Lol, did you say image, don’t worry that same image/photo you protecting will be used as poster for your obituary, keep thinking what people will say, those same people will come chop and dance at your funeral.

Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.

Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.

I remember when I lost my job and things became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.

Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.

There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.

In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.

Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.

The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.

Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say.

Saynoomore:


Na them be this!

OP, your own small na. It's the same thing everywhere. The issue of packing their miserable luggages out of their matrimonial homes to their mother's house is a very common behaviour with over 90% of them. The funny thing is that, their parents whom they run to, are NOT wealthy, perhaps just a little comfortable at most. It beats me that the parents rather than admonishing the run-away brides to go back to their matrimonial homes, reconcile with their husbands, and be patient for things to turn around for the better, would rather take sides with them very swiftly and would sometimes even call the husband on phone, not to meditate but to add salt to injury! I think all women are just wired that way. Does it beat your imagination that even God created them last! He made sure everything was in the garden, else they would complain and run away from the garden to Lucifer! Even with everything in the garden, the woman still yielded to the serpent. Na so them be o!

Omg!!! This comment just made my year. Funny and plausible

AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.

Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii.

This shows what you are capable of doing, change your character before it's too late , as young as you are learn to show empathy to people's plight , am sure if that man was lazy as you sheepishly claim could he have married the woman in the first place, there were no issues when money was there but immediately the man lost his job you started calling him lazy , change your uncivilized mentality.

if you no want woman wahala stay single

Bītches defending their fellow bītch

Well, what was i even expecting (Some were even advising the man to work harder as if he is playing golf)
I pity those who take women seriously

Marriage is one of the oldest fraud i have ever seen

Apart from procreation, what the fūck does men benefits from it

Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.

Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.

I remember when I lost my job and things became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.

Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.

There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.

In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.

Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.

The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.

Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say.

Sorry for your problems coming from your wife when things was bad for you , thank God you say things are getting better now, I advice you to be wise and probably distance yourself from that woman since she hasn't shown remorse for her wrong doing, divorce her sharply .

Saynoomore:


Na them be this!

OP, your own small na. It's the same thing everywhere. The issue of packing their miserable luggages out of their matrimonial homes to their mother's house is a very common behaviour with over 90% of them. The funny thing is that, their parents whom they run to, are NOT wealthy, perhaps just a little comfortable at most. It beats me that the parents rather than admonishing the run-away brides to go back to their matrimonial homes, reconcile with their husbands, and be patient for things to turn around for the better, would rather take sides with them very swiftly and would sometimes even call the husband on phone, not to meditate but to add salt to injury! I think all women are just wired that way. Does it beat your imagination that even God created them last! He made sure everything was in the garden, else they would complain and run away from the garden to Lucifer! Even with everything in the garden, the woman still yielded to the serpent. Na so them be o!

See as you finish women!!!!! But in all sincerity, not all women does this as some are still very supportive during the trying times. May God help us sha, na true you talk.

AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.

Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii.

Lmao.... Nairaland men are so emotional , see quotes abeg

Honestly you don't have sense.if u are married I pity the gentleman that house u.

playapayaski:
Man should answer to God, woman answer to man.. all that changed when religious practices and gender equality trash started coming up.. yes Adam messed up by listening to eve n not seeking God's authority first.. but any stupid foolish man who still makes such mistake cannot be redeemed n doomed to fail in any union with a woman. ALWAYS LET HER REALIZE SHE LOWER THAN YOU IN EVERYTHING AND AS SUCH IS LIMITED, SAME WAY YOU ARE TO GOD. SHE DISOBEYS, DEAL WITH HER ACCORDINGLY N DIVORCE IF POSSIBLE. FUNNY HOW WOMEN OF OLD RESPECTED THEMSELVES N THRIVED IN A POLYGAMOUS HOME THAN WHAT WE HAVE NOW, ONE MAN ONE WIFE STILL CHAOS EVERYWHERE.
TAKE CHARGE N BE THE MAN, BE HER LORD.
PEACE

Speechless after reading your comments. You must be of old school who believe that women like our mothers that see staying in marriage even when they are dieing as their all time achievement. Note women of this generation don't see it that way & work so hard even in some cases more than the men & wouldn't want to die of HBP because of a man.

That's result of marry sex mate because this your write up show that you don't marry wife but sex mate.


If they warn you some men not to marry lady because of her beauty many of us don't listing, I know very well that you married her because of her beauty and she married you because of your money and see the result now but i'm sorry for your bad experience

Oga keek her fpr house until she poison your food, woman when go do ashawo na u keep for house, if a woman's family can't correct and always supports her when she's wrong OGA run for your life

Rtk5:


Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.

I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.


The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs.

The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image.

Bro .... instead of advising men to avoid marriage you need look in the mirror and see where you made mistakes ... then advise men to not make same before marrying. Any man ... especially the ones doing very well before marriage ... should shine their eyes and find ways to test if the gf would have your back in times of need. Did you? Her family... did you stop for a moment to really check if they loved you?... or what you can provide? Your eyes have now cleared .... you have now seen the nature of the beast .... you are doing ten times better .... don't be fooled twice ... divorce her on the grounds of infidelity/irreconcilable difference... going to another man's house to sleepover. Divorce her ... always be in your child's life regardless of any circumstances.... learn from your mistakes ... move on. Never factor in what people will say .... you can never ever stop people from talking.

I had to login to reply this thread, Sir sorry to say, you married a slay queen and not God fearing lady.
Guys should quit running after slayqueens, pray, God will bring you a God fearing lady that will grow old with you.
A lady who loves and fear God won’t cheat on you, she understands that hardship is only for a short time.
God knows I can’t wife a slay queen

Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.

Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.

I remember when I lost my job and things became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.

Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.

There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.

In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.

Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.

The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.

Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say.

Keep forming up stories in your head until they actually happen to you.

yanabasee2:



I pray never to meet and marry woman like you...


I've seen a man who was earning big, built houses and had good investments.... Married early and was happy.... He had an issue that he was accused of murder.... He was arrested and charged. He spent money to end the case.... He sold all his assets and houses and went broke...


All his friends left him, his wife left him and married his friend.

You can't accuse men who fall as being weak or lazy.

The Op is not lazy, he's a hard working man.

God bless you

Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.

Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.

I remember when I lost my job and things became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.

Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.

There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.

In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.

Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.

The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.

Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say.

I tell guys to spin plates, the 19 to 23 demographic don't want to settle down but will give you easy lay but the 24 to 30 isn't easy lay but will want to settle down after they have played the field and have more than 30 body count. Tell me if a lady that has almost 30 slept with in the past and probably few of them have had sex with her in all three holes still have a genuine desire for any guy. You are her retirement plan. If no child between you I would have said get the divorce and stay away from marriage.

I'm 30, climbing up my career and doing okay. In the next 10 years, my stat would have risen up X10 and I can still have 22 years old girl lays. Even by then would I be even planning to settle down. I'll rather be on my dying bed telling myself how I had good times with hot women of different race (Russian, Polish, Czech Ladies included).

Corollary to the above, I'm pushing weight and building, getting muscles, started my retirement plan, eating right (eat food that boost my testosterone), I did a worthless degree at Unilag (Microbiology) but am one of the lucky ones that got a good offer after service, but just before I ran out of luck, I did PGD and MSc in Computer Science, now I stat to move up the ladder and my ticket to survive when I move out of this shit hole just increased

What am just saying man. Focus on yourself guys, don't let the system cheat you, ladies peak early and decline fast. But we guys have a lot of time to equalise, don't let anyone rush you into marriage

I'm sure all ladies here will marry this year Mofe Damijo (around 50 to 60 something) against the 30 years old looking Mofe Damijo. Men appreciate where women depreciate. You are an accet.

And again, serve her the papers, take good care of your son. Raise him the redpill way.

Read Heartiste.org from the last page through to the first page. You will thank me a year from now.

God and nature be with you man

AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.

Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii.

Lmao.... Nairaland men are so emotional , see quotes abeg

If you are not married, you will marry an abusive husband who beats the hell out of you and you will not even have the kind to go anywhere and tell anyone, if you are married, your husband will turn to an abusive husband who uses you as a punching bag.
Then you will understand not to talk shit like this.