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GurlFriend:
They will say they want their wives to always keep shape and when you are dating them, they will manage to maintain their 2 and 4 packs. After one year of marriage, they will upgrade to 10 gallon geepee tank. Yet it is still them that will come on Nairaland to say women are hoes

Chill.. Calm down.

HRSweetness:
Oh, he said a lot. He's defending the actions of his fellow callous, gay man.

Sensitive much? Youre bandwagoning with a somersaulter so u must be another closet homosexual.

Biglittlelois:
You are gay.

This is the problem with Nigerians, once you have different opinion on things, they tend to label you as what you are not.

So, I ain't gay and I like me some succulent tities and ass!

siofra:
This is what these redpillers do. 80% of the redpillers on this forum are homosexuals. Yeessss they are.


I'm sorry dear. Men are scum and useless. Disgrace him and tell all his friends. For two years he deceived you.

Since you're a very emotional woman I suggest you go to therapy because the months to come will not be easy for you at all.

But you'll heal and you'll be fine. Men areee scuuuummmm.

Don't destroy his life by exposing him. Stigmatization can destroy someone, as if you care!

wiseone28:
Who are those quoting the op again?

The thing tire me i swear. It's life sha -we have to somehow accomodate nonsense in the midst of sense.

GurlFriend:
If you are gay, why do you want to ruin an innocent woman's life?

please helm us ask him ooo.

AfroKnight:
.

e pain am

Fordzzy:
i don't see the need for the last paragraph comrade...

When you reach elder status you will see the need.

GurlFriend:
They will say they want their wives to always keep shape and when you are dating them, they will manage to maintain their 2 and 4 packs. After one year of marriage, they will upgrade to 10 gallon geepee tank. Yet it is still them that will come on Nairaland to say women are hoes

did u read the post? Or you have an already existing problem with my gender?.

I will rather congratulate you that you discovered before you entre into the oath of marriage. My sister, I know it is painful but at the same time thank God that you could see before deceiving you Into marriage. Break in courtship is not break in marriage. The Lord will heal your broken heart.

trailblazar:
Why is it paining you?

it's no paining me. We call out stupidity!

Ejaculating gender, that's s so hilarious, I think a whole lot of the younger generation erroneously thinks homosexuality is a passport to meeting high networth individuals and rapidly moving up the food chain, it's a terrible habit to learn and with enormous spiritual baggage, my opinion though,

Flamemignon1:
I'm so sorry you had to go through this, it's a complete waste of 2 years. There's no excuse for queer people who continue to do this not even the anti gay laws, it's just cruel. Please seek therapy and move on and if you've decided to out him to his folks, do it

Blame the society and not them. Society unknowingly puts enormous pressure on them to get married. They fear homophobia so "settle down".

I visited a man 10 years ago with someone. The man visited was then around 60 and unmarried. There had been pressure on him to get married but he rebuffed everyone.

I noticed at that time, there were lots of young men loitering about but took no notice.

It was after a long time friend opened up to me that he himself was gay compelled me to research thoroughly about so i won't be caught unawares again.

It was then it dawned on me that the man was most likely gay. He comes from a very principled family and those principles stopped in from marrying to please society.

GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

You can't be done with men yet.

MufasaLion:
This is the problem with Nigerians, once you have different opinion on things, they tend to label you as what you are not.

So, I ain't gay and I like me some succulent tities and ass!

Yea, Nigerians -never seek to learn or understand -they know everything!

Bobrisky will be happy with this heart break

trailblazar:
Sensitive much? Youre bandwagoning with a somersaulter so u must be another closet homosexual.

Typical! Why are you gay people so closed minded? If we don't commend your perverse ways we must be like you in secret

It's pathetic the way y'all act the victim while bullying us to accept your abnormalities.

You will never see the misogynistic Gaylord called Kriss216 on this thread. When its to bash women like his mother, he will start running his mouth.


Enwe

Techguy96:
How old are u?

Are you gay?

GurlFriend:
Lol. This made me smile

I'm glad you smiled.. We'll make you forget your sorrows. Trust me. Life is fun you know.

siofra:
This is what these redpillers do. 80% of the redpillers on this forum are homosexuals. Yeessss they are.


I'm sorry dear. Men are scum and useless. Disgrace him and tell all his friends. For two years he deceived you.

Since you're a very emotional woman I suggest you go to therapy because the months to come will not be easy for you at all.

But you'll heal and you'll be fine. Men areee scuuuummmm.

Gaddam Yo Fyne!

siofra:
This is what these redpillers do. 80% of the redpillers on this forum are homosexuals. Yeessss they are.


I'm sorry dear. Men are scum and useless. Disgrace him and tell all his friends. For two years he deceived you.

Since you're a very emotional woman I suggest you go to therapy because the months to come will not be easy for you at all.

But you'll heal and you'll be fine. Men areee scuuuummmm.

Haba!This is a fictional write up to earn likes na!

naturefellow:
it's no paining me. We call out stupidity!

To me, it looks like response to pain stimuli because you didnt address a single line contributed by the elder. You may need to use your metrics for stupidity on your contribution.

trailblazar:
Yea, Nigerians -never seek to learn or understand -they know everything!

Exactly! Most of them are hypocrites. They secretly watch gay/transgender porn but always quick to condemn them publicly.

GurlFriend:
Don't know, don't fuxking care

OK never mind. Sorry for your loss

Jesus! Bro is actually gay? I suspect this too...
How will a matured man doing his lips as if there's lipstick there. Tufiakwa! O buru ogwu, o ma ley.. Hee begged you not to expose him... Well he is already exposed aunty.... ...

GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

Thank your star.

Beremx:
You will never see the misogynistic Gaylord called Kriss216 on this thread. When its to bash women like his mother, he will start running his mouth.


Enwe

You're too old for all these, besides, I love breast and soft nyash.
Leave all these nonsense for Iyaebe and co. Act your age, please

Digmygold:
That must be Ubunja who hides under the red pill trash. Frustrated, evil anf Gay lot.

Good thing God exposes them at the end of the day.

Really, fish brain...
You so daft asf

totosucker:
Something tells me that this guy is yours. Don't be quick to reject him yet. You said you love him, so what can you do to help him out of that lifestyle? Who does he respect? His pastor? Can you talk to his pastor or someone he respects. The truth is the guy himself needs help. You have come this far with him. Two years no be two days oo. Instead of just getting mad, why don't you have a heart to heart conversation with him and know how it all started and how it could possibly end.

There is nobody that cannot change. Thank God you discovered it during courtship and not when you were married to him. Something tells me that he will change with the right help and prayers. Cheer up baby. Things will get better

The character of Don Quixote doesn’t suggest that the guy needs help. Don Quixote was a man of sanity and madness. The lady, Gurlfriend, perhaps was his sanity at play, and his madness being...

HRSweetness:
Typical! Why are you gay people so closed minded? If we don't commend your perverse ways we must be like you in secret

It's pathetic the way y'all act the victim while bullying us to accept your abnormalities.

Nah not bullying -You ignorantly jumped on a somersaulters post to defend it, sweetling, you had it coming. Keep your validation to yourself as long as you are aligning with a somersaulter. Next time look very well before you leap.

This story sounds like the kind of stuff you'll see in YouTube comedies.