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Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Kobojunkie: 10:54pm On Jan 03, 2022 |
Demigod22:Wait a minute OP... why is she wicked? She told you from the get go that all she desired from you was friendship... why demonize her for not wanting a relationship of the sort you prefer? Why can't she expect help from you when you went along offering her your friendship ? She is not wicked and there isn't anything wrong with her asking someone she sees as a friend for help with her project. You, on the other hand, are always free to refuse her your help. Abeg, no be by force for her to date you because you want her to. Get over yourself and if you can't be a friend to her, move on so she can find others more worthy abeg! 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Das1mama: 3:40am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Demigod22:thanks brother |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Kobojunkie: 4:17am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Das1mama:Pull the brakes here abeg! She was your baby mama for 6 years and then left to go marry someone in Lagos, talking your son with her? And you've despised women ever since then? 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Kobojunkie: 4:20am On Jan 04, 2022 |
hslbroker2:Please, try to keep God out of these suggestions as many of these beings here are already too confused as it is. If a grown up like the OP does not even understand the basic rudiments of human friendship, you think say im go understand am better when you try to weave God into the mix? |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Franktom247(m): 4:39am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Mini saga |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Olayetan(m): 5:04am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Demigod22: Anything she ask you within your convenient reach, do it with free open mind, just take your mind off relationship with her for now, this life race is a funny marathon... |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Homeboiy: 7:35am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Tell her to pay in cash or in kind I deleted 90% of the female contacts on my phone on Jan 2. Manipulative species 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by vanbonattel: 7:44am On Jan 04, 2022 |
hslbroker2: Off point. I recommend this poster for a ban immediately. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by lereinter(m): 9:00am On Jan 04, 2022 |
It's ladies that teach men how to be emotionally strong She sees you hasn't been are type to date, so she showed you through actions Is not every help you can render |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Richy419: 10:21am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Ladies know the good once when they see one you were one of the good once and even me know that you will help her out |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by ZooCountry45: 11:00am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Demigod22: She knows you are an Original SIMP. SO SHE KNOWS YOU WILL HELP HER. HAPPY SIMPING |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by ZooCountry45: 11:03am On Jan 04, 2022 |
slickycee: Hahahhaha pure truth!! 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by ZooCountry45: 11:08am On Jan 04, 2022 |
I have learnt women are just manipulative and deceptive. |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Das1mama: 12:21pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Yh, but bro has a lady you truly loved ever broken your heart? |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Kobojunkie: 4:44pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Das1mama:Ofcourse! That's no reason to hate her or any other being....its part of life. |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Das1mama: 6:56pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Easier said than done, individual difference though but do u know ever since she left have not being able to date other ladies cos of the emotional trauma, my dreams being shattered of not being involved in polygamy, having all my kids from a single woman..... Bro if i tell u have never witnessed or experienced a peaceful home before i only watch it on movies or some of my friends family.... So u understand i pray i overcome soon. |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Das1mama: 8:07pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Guy u are so blunt in your words, learn how to make use of them but remember something what goes around comes around and besides it's my decision and i choose who 2 love or who 2 hate..... Becareful |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by shakespere: 8:18pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Loads of baby comments here. So once you have feelings for a girl, na by force to like or love you back. Its simple she has no feelings for you. IT DOESNT MAKE HER A BAD PERSON In this case she told she wanted frienship only, no relationship, yet you no hear. You are very selfish, you want her to date person wey she no like? Abi because you de help her, she must open leg, una de mad? Just imagine say na your sister, na so she go date and Bleep every guy wey toast / help am Dont key into all this immature guys simps nonsense, you go do for woman wey you love, woman wey love go do for you, nothing strange, na person wey no send you go chop you. If you cant help her on the project because of un returned feelings wey no be her fault, tell her ow much you go collect. Forget all this immature hard guys on naira land. Person wey fall in love de mugu, so nothing strange You dont have to help |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Demigod22: 9:57pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Truvelisback: Hahaha, you won't kill me laugh. Seriously I don't know anything about the name Cynthia though. |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Demigod22: 10:01pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: From your recent comments, I noticed you have understanding deficiency. From my write up, I made it clear that I was the only one helping her and she is not helping me, I am not expecting her to date me again since we are friends now. I called her for eight months and I stopped calling for four months and she never care to call and check up on me until yesterday, that's after four months, she called only for her to ask for help. Is that your own understanding of friendship? Learn how to understand before commenting. |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Demigod22: 10:06pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: So you that understand the basic rudiments of friendship, friendship should be one sided right? Philosophy of life is all about give and take. So it is okay for her not to care, not even a call for four months, and it is not okay for me to turn down a request from parasitic friend abi? If she also understand what friendship entails, she would have been more humane in the friendship, and if you really understand reciprocated friendship, you wouldn't have commented this out of point comment. |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Demigod22: 10:08pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Olayetan: So you are advising me to help someone that never appreciate all the help I have rendered before, someone that never called one day unless she needs help? |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Demigod22: 10:09pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
lereinter: You made a great point here. |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Demigod22: 10:10pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Richy419: Hahaha, even my village people won't support me helping her. |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Kobojunkie: 10:12pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Das1mama:Huh? Becareful of what exactly? I am not an eejit that i will go around blaming my woes on others. Life will surely teach you that only fools do that if you are unwilling to heed that warming now. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Demigod22: 10:14pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
shakespere: I will not help her with her project, not because of unrequited love, but because of her lack of gratitude and about the friendship, she was taking advantage of the friendship. At least, you call your friends to check up on them. But she only called when she needed help. I have cut off every toxic and unhealthy friends this year. Thanks for your advice. |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Kobojunkie: 10:20pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Demigod22:Your story clearly tells that you weren't a victim but a con who was burned by his own con. Did she have a gun to your head any of those months? Did she threaten you that if you didn't help her each time she would no longer be your friend? You stopped calling her and she never called back. So what? She called you for help, nothing wrong with saying no and telling her you no longer want to be friends with her because she didn't call you all that time. I have friends I haven't called in many many years but when I pick up the phone to talk to them, we catch up as if no time has gone by at all. Friendships are different. People are different with it. Friendship no be same as dating. There are friends who call when there is an emergency and maybe during the holidays... Friendship relationships are not dating relationships. Because you are my friend don't mean I got to call you every month even. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by AYNL: 10:33pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
why is everybody talking about sex OP clearly wrote he was ready to accept her conditions like no sex and others well here's my piece help her with her project,but don't spend a dime over it o,even if her money remain 5kobo no help her I hate bullshii |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Das1mama: 10:37pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Whatever.... Am sure u will definitely get what u looking for... Keep Free Styling.. |
Re: How Can I Cope With This Wicked Girl? by Kobojunkie: 10:42pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Das1mama:And what am I looking for? 1 Like |
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