There's a lot of threads and comments by men advising the ladies to avoid dating Yahoo boys and ritualists...

Here's my response...

1. Neither 'ritualist' nor 'yahoo boy' is written on the forehead of a man... Most of these criminals usually look innocent and incapable of committing these crimes... Apart from those who purposefully go out of their way to look the part (dye their hair, dreads, chains, rugged jeans, etc) most Yahoo boys and ritualists delibrately keep a low profile to avoid being detected... It prevents them from being arrested and it helps them lure their victims easily... Your neighbour, your cousin, even the man you sit besides in church or pray with in the mosque could be a ritualist...

2. Telling women to avoid dating rich men is the worse advice... Most of these ritualists pretend to be wealthy but in reality, they are desperate poor men. Those more likely to commit these crimes, fraud and rituals, are men who have probably not made their first millions... A poor man is a hundred times more likely to be pushed by his circumstances to engage in criminal activities than a man who's living comfortably... So if you really care about the wellbeing of women, you would rather advise them to settle with a rich man who made his wealth cleanly... Or a foreigner... Or remain single as she builds her own wealth... But NEVER date a poor Nigerian man who could easily be intimidated by his well-to-do mates and pressured to do anything necessary to follow in their footsteps.

YAHOO BOYS AREN'T RICH, THEY ARE POOR.

POOR MEN ARE LIABLE TO ENGAGE IN RITUALS THAN RICH MEN.


3. Not every victim of rituals was lured with the promise of a lavish lifestyle... especially if the victim was a woman. There's a lot of victim blaming and it's sickening... Not every female victim of rituals was an 'olosho' or 'gold-digger'... That's as stupid as assuming that every male victim of rituals was lured with the promise of a free drink or sex, and it's hypocritical that most men here make the first argument but never the second... Most ritualists actually take their time to know, date and win the trust of their targets, in this case, the innocent girls... A lot of these ritualists have been introduced to the families of these girls as prospective partners...

4. It's ignorant and delibrately wicked and evil-encouraging to spend your time giving advice upon advice to women to beware of these sort of men... When you haven't made a single effort to put a stop to the actions of the yahoo boys...
Is it seriously easier to put a question mark on men than it is to advise your gender to stop killing women? Every man seems to have a word of advice for the woman next door, but not for the fifteen year olds luring children to the bush to butcher them up! Are you content that nearly every Nigerian man is either into fraud or skull mining?

Because this should a wakening call for Nigerian men to work together get their gender into the line back afain... Teach them to be decent and normal and hardworking... And not greedy and opportunistic and fetish...

But it seems every case of rituals is turned around by men, who ought to be ashamed, into a playground to slut-shame the victims...

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Attached: pictures of typical ritualists. Notice how normal they look?

When you encourage women to date 'poor' men to avoid the ritualists, you're actually pushing them into early graves...

Alright…. Date them

Hmm

I didn't read.I feel like insulting you but I'm fighting the urge not to.Note:you haven't offended me in any way but I just feel like bashing you,you'll like it,it's more fun than all this rubbish you wrote up there.Good night Mr ITK

Who can read this epistle and summarize for me in 3 sentences?

Sh*t is lengthy!

Iyaebe:
I didn't read.I feel like insulting you but I'm fighting the urge not to.Note:you haven't offended me in any way but I just feel like bashing you,you'll like it,it's more fun than all this rubbish you wrote up there.

Can you be mature for once? This attitude of yours is disappointing...

I'm making a case for the victims of rituals...

Iyaebe:
I didn't read.I feel like insulting you but I'm fighting the urge not to.Note:you haven't offended me in any way but I just feel like bashing you,you'll like it,it's more fun than all this rubbish you wrote up there.Good night Mr ITK

Iyaebe and her usual antics.

ePoster:
Can you be mature for once? This attitude of yours is disappointing...

I'm making a case for the victims of rituals...

Thank God you insulted me back.Are you a portharcourt based guy? if yes,then you should worry more about the erectile dysfunction the black sooth is causing you guys.It is well

White knight in shining armor.

HacheNoire:
Who can read this epistle and summarize for me in 3 sentences?

Sh*t is lengthy!

1. You can't identify a ritualists by his face, stop criticizing the victims of rituals who couldn't.

2. Telling women that avoiding rich men would prevent them from being victims of rituals is stupid. Poor men are the most desperate and most likely to commit this crime...

3. Not every woman who's used for rituals was an olosho or gold-digger... Most actually genuinely loved and trusted these men...

4. It's ridiculous to be content advising women to avoid Nigerian men when you could instead advise your gender to stop being a threat... In no normal society is ritual killings normal... Don't make Nigerian women think it is...

ePoster:


1. You can't identify a ritualists by his face, stop criticizing the victims of rituals who couldn't.

2. Telling women that avoiding rich men would prevent them from being victims of rituals is stupid. Poor men are the most desperate and most likely to commit this crime...

3. Not every woman who's used for rituals was an olosho or gold-digger... Most actually genuinely loved and trusted these men...

4. It's ridiculous to be content advising women to avoid Nigerian men when you could instead advise your gender to stop being a threat... In no normal society is ritual killings normal... Don't make Nigerian women think it is...

You are brilliant.

Youngpo413:
White knight in shining armor.

And you're an alpha? For doing what? Not criticizing the ritualists? If you're in favour of the beheadings and organ harvesting, lemme know...

Iyaebe:
I didn't read.I feel like insulting you but I'm fighting the urge not to.Note:you haven't offended me in any way but I just feel like bashing you,you'll like it,it's more fun than all this rubbish you wrote up there.Good night Mr ITK

You are horrible.

HacheNoire:



You are brilliant.

Well, thanks... I had a friend... He was my bro, great looks, amazing personality... The sort any woman would die for... Except he was poor...

He wasn't under any pressure... He lived with his parents and was in the university... But his mates into yahoo were making big bucks and he was envious.

I ended the friendship after I tried to dissuade him...

A woman could date him without knowing his true intentions...

A poor man is angry and desperate... And sly and pretentious.

ePoster:
And you're an alpha? For doing what? Not criticizing the ritualists? If you're in favour of the beheadings and organ harvesting, lemme know...

ladies are too greedy...in life nothing goes for nothing...

Another rubbish post . Who told you that you cannot identify them ? A person who has dreadlocks and wakes up by 11am everyday to press his phone and play NairaMarley music until it is 6pm , after which he goes to the club and hangout with his friends buying champagne while driving a Rav-4 is what? Mtchww...

fikayormi:
Alright…. Date them

How about you advise men to stop killing... Then it wouldn't be necessary for you to preach...

Remember, you're a Nigerian man... If the yahoo boys become the majority then every woman around the world would assume all Nigerian men are psychos... Especially those who are poor.

Ammishaddai:
Another rubbish post . Who told you that you cannot identify them ? A person who has dreadlocks and wakes up by 11am everyday to presses his phone and plays NairaMarley music until it is 6pm , after which he goes to the club and hangout with his friends buying champagne while driving a Rav-4 is what? Mtchww...

First of all, 80% of the ritualists caught... They have low-cuts, most are even elderly men...

Secondly, those who drive Rav-4 are the minority who cashed out... Not the majority who are targeting young girls and boys for ₦50k...

This assumption, you could easily become a victim...

OP I understand to be corrected on this.

There is no woman dating a Yahoo boy plus aka Ritualist that does not know..

The signs are very prominent but most of our ladies are greedy make them leech to the guys in the name of yw won't use me he loves me mantra.

How can a girl spot a Ritualist AKA Yahoo boy

1. Loud coloured hairs, hair locks, sagging, tattoos and funny looking friends always smoking weeds most times. Because of the identity some have stopped using loud coloured hairstyles.
2. Permanently on laptops and the emphasis on clients during phone communication
3. Always drinking and partying at odd hours
4. Spend productive hours of the day gisting, sleeping and chatting for example at 8am
5. Always the loudest at parties and willing to spend beyond their means and out spray everyone at a party.
6. Gives you large amount for no just cause and shower you with gifts.
7. When asked means of livelihood it does not match the income, lifestyle and living pattern.A couple of them hide under the entertainment industry that is the new pastime but you can still spot when it's does not add up.
8. Favourite car is always a venza and Toyota Camry muscle while the baby ritualist among them drive a Toyota big for nothing.
9. Half of the time; Parents live in penury and they are mostly from broken homes.
10. Ask about the parents.. Conversation about the father will lead to a melt down session. Red flag
11. There is always a party no matter the mood of the nation
12. There is a particular man that they call or call them and they are very respectful to (the juju man) watch out for the call.
13. There is a particular day they will be very hostile to you that the day they are renewing the ritual eats human waste, sleep with mother, sleep in coffins, etc. They may be smooth talker on the phone initially and suddenly become hostile.
14. Watch out for incision on body part hands, legs and back. They are covered with tattoos.
15. Strange object around the house.
16. Always sleeping in hotels very big red flag. Even Dangote does not sleep in hotel perpetually not even in his city.
17. Dedicate a day and track him around you will be shocked by the revealation.
18. Above all, follow your instincts a woman knows when things don't add up. The signs shows.
The list is exhaustive

ePoster:


First of all, 80% of the ritualists caught... They have low-cuts, most are even elderly men...

Secondly, those who drive Rav-4 are the minority who cashed out... Not the majority who are targeting young girls and boys for ₦50k...

This assumption, you could easily become a victim...

I am a man, and our society frowns on lazy men ...in fact the Nigerian society is not healthy for a lazy man who cannot have something coming into his pocket . So that automatically has excluded me from being a victim of easy-money rituals because I will have to work my ass out : there is no free meal for an able-bodied man .

Unlike the average Nigerian woman who shamelessly has the entitlement mentality that came from her mother. She is always in that constant belief that men are the custodians of money and support for their welfare , and hence, they should collect it from only them . It is this mindset that most ladies in Nigeria have and that is why they will continue to fall for these petty money rituals

Beblessedbaba:
OP I understand to be corrected on this.

There is no woman dating a Yahoo boy plus aka Ritualist that does not know..

The signs are very prominent but most of our ladies are greedy make them leech to the guys in the name of yw won't use me he loves me mantra.

How can a girl spot a Ritualist AKA Yahoo boy

1. Loud colours,hairs, sagging, tattoos and funny looking friends
2. Permanently on laptops and the emphasis on clients during phone communication
3. Always drinking and partying at odd hours
4. Spend productive hours of the day gisting, sleeping and chatting for example at 8am
5. Always the loudest at parties and willing to spend beyond their means
6. Gives you large amount for no just cause and shower you with gifts.
7. When asked means of livelihood it does not match the income, lifestyle and living pattern.
The list is exhaustive

Again, these are the actions of those who have cashed out... Not the struggling average ritualists and alfa

Ammishaddai:
Another rubbish post . Who told you that you cannot identify them ? A person who has dreadlocks and wakes up by 11am everyday to presses his phone and plays NairaMarley music until it is 6pm , after which he goes to the club and hangout with his friends buying champagne while driving a Rav-4 is what? Mtchww...

Please stop spreading your ignorance on this great forum.

A lady was travelling home to see her fiance's parents when the fiance tried to use her and other girl for rituals but she managed to escape.
This is someone she trusted. Her husband to be not some random yahoo boy.

Ammishaddai:
I am a man, and our society frowns on lazy men ...in fact the Nigerian society is not healthy for a lazy man who cannot have something coming into his pocket . So that automatically has excluded me from being a victim of easy-money rituals because I will have to work my ass out : there is no free meal for an able-bodied man .

Unlike the average Nigerian woman who shamelessly has the entitlement mentality that came from her mother. She is always in that constant belief that men are the custodians of money and support for their welfare , and hence, they should collect it from only them . It is this mindset that most ladies in Nigeria have and that is why they will continue to fall for these petty money rituals

Because of your desperation to slut-shame Nigerian women, you're doing a disservice to the Nigerian men who are victims of rituals...

One of the most popular tactics to get victims is employment scams...

You assuming that every woman who was murder by ritualists was a gold-digger is indirectly justify the actions of the murderer... It also shows your low IQ... You see a case and you go with the easier argument that suits your bias...

What's your opinion of the hundreds of thousands of Nigerian men and boys who have been used for rituals...

Because cases of women are in the news more, that doesn't mean they are the majority of the victims...

Youngpo413:
ladies are too greedy...in life nothing goes for nothing...

Atleast, 50 percent of the victims of ritual killings are men, including little boys...

Don't you feel stupid?

ePoster:


Because of your desperation to slut-shame Nigerian women, you're doing a disservice to the Nigerian men who are victims of rituals...

One of the most popular tactics to get victims is employment scams...

You assuming that every woman who was murder by ritualists was a gold-digger is indirectly justify the actions of the murderer... It also shows your low IQ... You see a case and you go with the easier argument that suits your bias...

What's your opinion of the hundreds of thousands of Nigerian men and boys who have been used for rituals...

Because cases of women are in the news more, that doesn't mean they are the majority of the victims...

For every man used for rituals , there more than 10 women used for the same . Take it or leave it , but that is the truth . And mind you, I am not being biased here ; I am just providing you with the evidences you blindly fail to see because you have covered your eyes with your own ignorance

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siofra:


Please stop spreading your ignorance on this great forum.

A lady was travelling home to see her fiance's parents when the fiance tried to use her and other girl for rituals but she managed to escape.
This is someone she trusted. Her husband to be not some random yahoo boy.

[/s] You are more gullible than I thought . This is another fine example of the type of women that probably seen men with humble beginnings and reject them, yet , they choose to date a guy with a car(...and who is also probably earning 6 figures) because in their narrow mind , he can meet their financial needs .

But when it backfires, whose fault is that ? The man or the woman ?

Even you yourself always claim to go to your "Male friends" place to hawk pùssy every now and then so if you too become a victim of this, I will not be surprised at all.

Ammishaddai:
For every man used for rituals , there more than 10 women used for the same . Take it or leave it , but that is the truth . And mind you, I am not being biased here ; I am just providing you with the evidences you blindly fail to see because you have covered your eyes with your own ignorance

Your stats is off...


The difference between the number of women killed for rituals isn't far greater than the number of men killed...

The reason women and children, including boys are targeted is because it's harder for them to resist being kidnapped, etc...

As for men, because their ases aren't national sensations... That doesn't mean they aren't being killed... Most of the skulls recovered, the remains belonged to men... The media mostly cares for women...

I asked, the men and boys... What's your opinion of their character?

And the women who were lured with false promises of employment? Those who entered one-chance motors? Those who were forcefully taken from the streets? Those who has their drinks spiked by friends? Those whose husbands turned on them out on their desperation?

Are you going to slut-shame them?

And your opinion on the Yahoo boys? Don't you care that they are butchering men and women and children? Or you have nothing to contribute because their actions are normal?

You're not bothered that 70% of young boys see yahoo as the next best thing after Jesus?

Isn't that greed?

Or you only have the entitlement mentality of women, forget that it's the reason your gender is cutting people open and eating their organs...

Ladies should stop broke-shaming hardworking and honest guys. The ones that receive the insults in bad fate go all out for the money and eventually venture into money making rituals using the same ladies that rejected them in the past, then they'll keep using them till no single one is left for decent guys to see or marry.

The society needs to stop worshipping money.. we need to start asking people how they made their money and see evidence. All these things count.

If a graduate that earns say 150k a month is broke to a jobless lady but a riffraff with no source of livelihood driving muscle, hummer, range etc. is cool for her to date, then there is serious problem.

Ammishaddai:
[s][/s] You are more gullible than I thought . This is another fine example of the type of women that probably seen men with humble beginnings and reject them, yet , they choose to date a guy with a car(...and who is also probably earning 6 figures) because in their narrow mind , he can meet their financial needs .

But when it backfires, whose fault is that ? The man or the woman ?

Even you yourself always claim to go to your "Male friends" place to hawk pùssy every now and then so if you too become a victim of this, I will not be surprised at all.

No use arguing with you. I want to work. Bye bye.

ePoster:
Atleast, 50 percent of the victims of ritual killings are men, including little boys...

Don't you feel stupid?

The stupid' one is you for posting crap...you will soon get tired, knight in shining armour.

Ammishaddai:
[s][/s] You are more gullible than I thought . This is another fine example of the type of women that probably seen men with humble beginnings and reject them, yet , they choose to date a guy with a car(...and who is also probably earning 6 figures) because in their narrow mind , he can meet their financial needs .

But when it backfires, whose fault is that ? The man or the woman ?

Even you yourself always claim to go to your "Male friends" place to hawk pùssy every now and then so if you too become a victim of this, I will not be surprised at all.

Are you daft? The yahoo boys who have cashed out of made millions, they form the minority!!!

The men with humble beginnings, these poor men, they make up the majority of the ritualists and Alfas... These are poor men!

Add up the maths... If you can...

A poor man compared to a rich man, who's likely to kill to make money?

The ritualists who were arrested with sacks of human remains, don't you know they did so for ₦50k? Doesn't that sound like wealth to you?

Or you think every yahoo boy is rich?

Youngpo413:
The stupid' one is you for posting crap...you will soon get tired, knight in shining armour.

Ofcourse, the gender... The poor black men from sub-saharan Africa who love to pretend to be Alphas... You couldn't even care that your fellow men are being hacked to death because of the stupidity of your fellow men...

Your primary concern is women... I mean, your entire movement centers around them and sex... If women didn't exist, then you couldn't be an Alpha... There's a high probability that you couldn't even drag shoulders with another man your age... You would feel intimidated...

For that reason, you're irrelevant to me....

If you don't care for the young boys in Nigeria... Them gracefully exit this thread... There's probably a thread for Nairaland Alphas teaching you how to approach women... Run off...