TheMostComplex1:
Tell her to keep the baby. God will provide for her

Same way he’s providing for the children begging on the streets right?

When she been dey plan to Bleep, she seek advice? Or she been dey expect to get chocolate after the sex?

Born am

MsFaith:

Op is the impregnator. No dey write epistle

And how did you come by this ma'am?

KLand:


She should keep the baby. She can learn from Ronaldo's mum.

I will recommended this link: https://victorscorner.com/2021/06/15/should-i-remove-this-baby-a-real-life-question-from-someone-contemplating-an-abortion/

And how many Ronaldos are there in the world?

The odds of a normal couple having a Ronaldo is 1 in 1 million. The odds of a single mother having a Ronaldo is 1 in 10 million.
So you are comfortable with having 1 Ronaldo for every 10 million street children.

madukaanaya:
that child may be our future president

How many illegitimate children have been presidents in the history of the world?

The odds of the son of a poor single single mother becoming president is 1 to 100 million.

[quote author=eeewise post=109183822]Got a call from a friend who is 23 without much family support (orphans) that she ran some tests and is a month pregnant.
She needs advice on what to do?
She has little or no family support system to cater for a child

So thinking of termination of pregnancy but naive on how to go about it

Any suggestions on what to do exactly

This is the point in her life were she needs comfort and encouragement. Am not in any support of sexual immorality and whatever we sow we are bound to reap. But the mistake has been made and two wrongs cant make a right. The Bible assures us of Jehovah's mercy and willingness to forgive but it doesn't mean he will shield is from the consequences of our sins. But he is always near to those who are broken at heart and who call upon him in their time of distress. She needs to pray about her situation, ask for forgiveness and allow Jehovah's holy spirit help her to make the wise choice. The unborn child should not be punished for her mistake. Even the life of an unborn child is still precious in God's eyes.

I know you pointed out she has no support but how would she know for sure if she doesn't ask for help. Does she have any relative or siblings let her cry to them for help, believe me if she prayerfully ask for help even from friends there's nothing Jehovah cannot do. Even if she can't raise the child let her keep the child and allow the baby a chance to live cause that would be the divine thing to do. She might consider giving the baby up for an adoption later. She can arrange with the hospital to help look for any couple who are in need of a child but that's a decision that she needs to consider in the long run.

For now your friends needs comfort and encourage. She's broken right now and confused but she needs to reassured and at the same needs to be strong to face the challenges ahead. If you would like some words of encourage ans advice then call me WhatsApp me on 07048805956

Remman:
Op, we know it's you... Just continue reading below please send her my congratulations.

Tell her not to kill the child. Let her give birth and instead send the child to a motherless babies home and option to sell the baby or go to an hospital and tell a good doctor (not nurse) that she's pregnant but ready to sell the child as she has nothing to care for herself. At the end of the ordeal, she will make a minimum of N300K if the doctor or the orphanage don't want to cheat.

If she doesn't want this patterns, let her still give birth and put the baby in a carton and dump it at the gate of any orphanage around.

Thank me later.

That's a crime. She, the buyer and any agent that facilitates the trading of the baby would go to jail.

If she doesn't want to go through the pregnancy nko?
You want to use pregnancy and baby as a punishment for her sexual sin abi?
What about the man that got her pregnant? Should he not face any form of punishment?

Darreytinho10:
Let her born God will provide

Like he has provided for millions of children roaming the streets and becoming nuisance to society.

eeewise:


But how do you take care of a child in this economy with no job or family support systems

So.....

Are you responsible for that? If yes, go and pay her dowry...And keep pushing you go see the light as long as you do things right..

Na lazy person dey reason no job and bad economy...

If nobody employed you, you employ yourself...Small petty trade is not limited to any gender...

Just get busy...Na person dey fry Akara, yam and potato plus fish for junction...They make more money than most level10 govt workers.

People should start using their brains please...A lot of dignity in labour...

Please tell to start a small busines before 6months time she will be shocked at how much she made..to take care of herself.

There cases I consider abortion, this is not one...

A 23 year old lady is old enough to be a wife and mom...that is best age for a lady to marry sef.

franchasng:
I usually blame girls when things like this happen. My blame is not about abstinence cos we are all humans, but Nigerian girls always make this silly mistake. What do I mean?


You went to visit a guy in his house, he starts to make sexual advance towards you, you know for sure that you too is Hot and want him to do it but your female ego wont let you calm down and tell him to get a condom first and ensure he wears it properly.



You keep dragging pant and bra with him till he off your panties under duress. Your mumu female ego couldnt let you to calm down and tell him to wear a condom, the guy is scared that if.he dares make move to get a condom you will quicky put on your clothes and change.your.mind. So he cunningly inserts his dick into your wet vagina and you stylishly allow him cos thats what you want from the start but only dragging with him so it wont look like you are cheap.



In the process he shoots hot semen into your vagina and pregnancy will definitely occur because your girl ego will not also allow you to go to a pharmacy shop to buy morning after pills or something to keep you safe, months later you start screaming that you got pregnant unknowingly, how?



Dear single ladies, forget about talking about abstinence cos it doesn't work, please always make sure he wears a condom and properly wore. Stop dragging with guys even at the point of penetration, allow him to get a condom.

So it's the girls fault the man did not make provision for a condom before inviting the girl to his house and initiating sex (sometimes forcefully). The Nigerian society exonerate men in pregnancy related issues, and put the blame 100% on the girl.

In the US if you get a girl pregnant and run away, you will be brought before a court to pay child support, or you go to jail.
They think more of the welfare of the child. We on the other hand punish the child along with the mother for her sexual sins.

If you abort that Child, you and that girl will not have any other child in your entire life, Amen

Ficeo:
If you abort that Child, you abd that girl will not have any other child in your entire life, Amen

Is that a curse or a threat?

wirinet:

Is that a curse or a threat?

Its not only a curse but a curse that MUST come to pass.
You think God can be mocked? You will know that Thou shall not commit fornication is a commandment from God. My friend, better tell her to give birth to that great Child, else the consequences will be severe for both parties responsible.

Ficeo:

Its not only a curse but a curse that MUST come to pass.
You think God can be mocked? You will know that Thou shall not commit fornication is a commandment from God. My friend, better tell her to give birth to that great Child, else the consequences will be severe for both parties responsible.

False. I don't know the bible you are using, but fornication is not a commandment directly from God. It adultery that is part of the 10 commandments, precisely the 8th commandment.

The bible demands that if you have carnal knowledge of a young maiden, you are obliged to pay her dowry and marry her. But then men don't like taking responsibly in sexual matters and easily defy that "commandment".

wirinet:


So it's the girls fault the man did not make provision for a condom before inviting the girl to his house and initiating sex (sometimes forcefully). The Nigerian society exonerate men in pregnancy related issues, and put the blame 100% on the girl.

In the US if you get a girl pregnant and run away, you will be brought before a court to pay child support, or you go to jail.
They think more of the welfare of the child. We on the other hand punish the child along with the mother for her sexual sins.

A Nigerian girl in Nigeria ought to know that she alone will bear the brunt should pregnancy occur unplanned. That is why I am kind of blaming the girl first. Of course I would have loved it if we had similar law that holds men accountable in this situation, at least it would have made more guys to be very careful with how they shoot without protection.

You got a call from a friend that she is pregnant
Who is fooling who.
Na ur cross carry em.

onlinetomola:


abi nah

Chai no be ice cream I type o.Na NL censor am.

Na créampie I mean

wirinet:


So it's the girls fault the man did not make provision for a condom before inviting the girl to his house and initiating sex (sometimes forcefully). The Nigerian society exonerate men in pregnancy related issues, and put the blame 100% on the girl.

In the US if you get a girl pregnant and run away, you will be brought before a court to pay child support, or you go to jail.
They think more of the welfare of the child. We on the other hand punish the child along with the mother for her sexual sins.

Except in a case of rape,the girl has more blame than the guy.

An adult guy can demand for sex,why didn't she say no?Why did she pull off her clothes?Why did she spread her legs?

She has seen cases of girls with unwanted pregnancy and their suffering yet,she did bàreback with a guy...

[quote author=eeewise post=109183822]Got a call from a friend who is 23 without much family support (orphans) that she ran some tests and is a month pregnant.
She needs advice on what to do?
She has little or no family support system to cater for a child

So thinking of termination of pregnancy but naive on how to go about it

Friend or you? Nor b person bleep her abi na holy ghost give her belle? I think nairaland na hospital? Why una day do skin to skin with who una nor get future with sef? Best of luck sha, invite me for the naming and dedication ceremony.

eeewise:
Got a call from a friend who is 23 without much family support (orphans) that she ran some tests and is a month pregnant.
She needs advice on what to do?
She has little or no family support system to cater for a child

So thinking of termination of pregnancy but naive on how to go about it

Any suggestions on what to do exactly

sent a mail

wirinet:

Is that a curse or a threat?

ignore the ignorant, toothless bulldog

Ficeo:
If you abort that Child, you and that girl will not have any other child in your entire life, Amen

you are an unfortunate fellow

Still confused ... Does condom not exist

wirinet:


So it's the girls fault the man did not make provision for a condom before inviting the girl to his house and initiating sex (sometimes forcefully). The Nigerian society exonerate men in pregnancy related issues, and put the blame 100% on the girl.

In the US if you get a girl pregnant and run away, you will be brought before a court to pay child support, or you go to jail.
They think more of the welfare of the child. We on the other hand punish the child along with the mother for her sexual sins.

If he doesn't bring condom so abortion is the way... Noted

MufasaLion:
You impregnated an orphan and you came here to seek for advise. Well, it's none of my business.

I taya for that guy.

Tufiakwa.

eeewise:
Got a call from a friend who is 23 without much family support (orphans) that she ran some tests and is a month pregnant.
She needs advice on what to do?
She has little or no family support system to cater for a child

So thinking of termination of pregnancy but naive on how to go about it

Any suggestions on what to do exactly

so she knw that she does not have family before she engage herself in pre-marital sex abi abeg oyo lowa

eeewise:
Got a call from a friend who is 23 without much family support (orphans) that she ran some tests and is a month pregnant.
She needs advice on what to do?
She has little or no family support system to cater for a child

So thinking of termination of pregnancy but naive on how to go about it

Any suggestions on what to do exactly

it's either it's you that got pregnant or you that pregnated her. Either way, pls go and register for antinatal

She should birth the child and be a good mother to her. It will make her suffer and from that suffering will come great lessons capable of changing her story, capable of making her rise higher than her counterparts. Most importantly, she should draw near to God, she will need Him greatly. Tell her these words.

And the thing is now common.

Pre marital pregnancy is what is reigning now.

Everywhere, girls and women of all child bearing ages, pregnant out of wedlock.

Most of them are have no estbalished male partners in their lives to support the child.

What is the product of having sexual intercourse without protection - Baby. I don't know why most people act confused after getting pregnant.
Is like putting your hands on fire and you are surprised your hands got burnt.

wirinet:


False. I don't know the bible you are using, but fornication is not a commandment directly from God. It adultery that is part of the 10 commandments, precisely the 8th commandment.

The bible demands that if you have carnal knowledge of a young maiden, you are obliged to pay her dowry and marry her. But then men don't like taking responsibly in sexual matters and easily defy that "commandment".

Whatever you want to term it that's your business. That's why even from secondary school, youths are messing up. Personally, I see it as a commandment. Ephesians 5:3 -
"But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints"
Akuko! Who dey read bible again?
People are looking for children, you are trying to do something funny after you must have done a process that leads to getting children. Don't try God by terminating that pregnancy ooo! If you do, you will not bear the calamity. Its a direct message to those involved.