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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by CrownOfClay724: 10:16am On Jan 11, 2022 |
descarado: E be things. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Daxyd4realzy(m): 10:49am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Why did she refuse you sex? Are you sure she wasn't seeing another person? The only mistake you made is hitting her. It is well 10 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 11:17am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Maybe she even liked it. She manipulated you by crying and you also showed weakness by begging her. So stupid of you. When you get home, bath...eat, call her and fvck her from behind so hard. Tell her she's free to walk away, if she can't perform her duties...spank her ass and then pump her harder. Ask her, if she likes being forced? If she says no, handle her breasts and tell her to be a good lady. That way no need to force enter her. In the morning, before going to work, kiss her & let her know how beautiful she is..play with her. Men, if you are getting married because of sex, forget it. In fact when you get married, your sex life gon be fvcked up. Men, stay toxic! 41 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 11:18am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Daxyd4realzy:It normal for most women to stop or even hate sex, after the get married. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by leomarz007: 11:23am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Noah9: Ova ur faithful wife is fucking outside. Period 4 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Tallesty1(m): 11:47am On Jan 11, 2022 |
I am going to be an ass on this thread and I don't care. I hate to hear people telling a man to work on his anger issues when the simplest solution is telling the wife to work on her pissing him off attitude. A man who has been a good husband and father going for weeks and sometimes months without sex with his wife and you don't think his anger is justified? No, he doesn't need a professional help on his anger, the wife should stop denying him sex. It's that simple. What the op did is wrong and he deserves several punches on his face but let us also address what triggered his action. Why in fvck's sake would he have to beg for sex from his wife? Something that teenagers are getting anyhow and everywhere. Do you women even know how frustrating that is? If he wronged his wife knowingly or unknowingly, do you think weaponizing sex is the best approach? What happens to communication? @OP, what you did is very very wrong, first violent and then rape. Two solid grounds for divorce and imprisonment in one night.... What were you thinking? Thank you stars that she's not suing. She's still shocked and will be traumatized for a while so stop forcing her to get over it quickly because as it is now, you irritate her. Let her be, but keep doing what you do. Treat her right, shower her with love and all. These are annoying to her right now but it will count for something when she starts to consider you, if she starts to consider you. 69 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by phemmyfour: 12:30pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Christinaog:And you call yourself Xtiana 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by egwajoe(m): 12:39pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky:My Guy Messed up Big time. But I wish to Read the Lady's Side of the Story. Why Should the Man ask her, whether She has Issues with him? Is the Man a Magician to figure it Out? She Should let him know the issue, She has with him. When you Visit a Doctor, You are expected to let the Doctor know your issues, Simple. " There is No Smoke Without Fire" She Committed a Sin by Denying her Husband his Conjugal Rights. And The Husband Also Committed a Sin, by Taking The Law into his Hands. So in My Opinion, Both of Them Should Sit on a Round Table and Iron The Issue Squarely, Without Any Third Party Support. They Can,and Should Overcome This Test ,in Their Home!!! 6 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 12:47pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Tallesty1: Thank you for being bold enough to spill the truth from both angles. We see a lot of herd mentality everyday. Rape as a capital offense is horrible in all its colorations. Denying your spouse conjugal rights for weeks and months, be it a man/woman is as bad also. Both are just wrong. As a man, I would wonder if she is even still attracted to me or she is having an affair. It will even make some men go outside. What kind of unsubmissive wife is that? Oga rape is bad, but you have a bigger elephant outside pleading your wife. If her low libido is not psychological, then forget her pretense, something is wrong. 34 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ModelLook(m): 12:50pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Rapist 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Irupetepete: 12:56pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Christinaog:I don't support her actions but why will she deny him sex? His rights 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Oyiboman69: 1:00pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
gfon:OK |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by EXLOVER(m): 1:11pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Pretend like you want to commit suicide, just carry an alcohol and the rope pass her at the sitting room with sadness, then go inside your room. You will see her coming to beg you not to kill yourself, use that opportunity to talk things out. Beg for forgiveness, get her a nice gift the next day. If this doesn't work just kee yourself Control your preek next time 10 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Danjikanbauchi: 1:21pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
If your wife is not sleeping with you then she is getting it outside. You collect what rightfully belong to you. What you paid for. Report her to her family of they support her send her back to them. If a woman stop giving you s** for no r ason be very careful because she can poison you. 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cococandy(f): 1:35pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
According to some people what you did was not rape since you guys are married. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Graxie(f): 1:37pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
How can a healthy woman deny her husband sex for one month? Very bad, you hate sex yet you marry. Ndi uchu. Oga, it is possible that you irritate her, your smell, eating habits, laughter or your sex style. It's possible she is yet to experience orgasms from you perhaps, she experiences pain. Meanwhile, you have been a rapist, this is not your first time. She must be wondering how many women you might have raped before. For you to go ahead despite her bleeding mouth, cry, tears to rape her and ejaculate means you are a pro. She will forgive you with time. 9 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ImaIma1(f): 1:40pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
You should have had a serious talk with her nau. Even if she was at fault for withholding sex, your actions have made her right. It would have been better if you had reported her to a family member. Now you can't even afford to involve anyone because of the shame. I think at this point if you cannot get through to her, you should report yourself to someone she respects. And please, don't ever do that again. 7 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cococandy(f): 1:40pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Your wife needs to divorce you. Unfortunately she’s not here to read the advice. It would be thoroughly disgusting being married to a rapist. Excuse me while I puke 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by JOACHINpedro: 2:12pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Graxie:You read my thought fellow psychologist 4 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Bigfish121(m): 2:36pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
If I ask my wife for see and she dey form,I go just leave and cover myself with duvet and sleep.These days all this sex stuff nor dey move me. 6 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by daddytime(m): 3:21pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
I feel so sorry for your wife and how you just messed up your relationship further. Things can never be the same again between you two. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by blaquebelle: 3:24pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
God please save that poor woman from this man. This is how chronic abusers start. Tueh. Why would you force yourself on anybody, talk more of someone you claim you love. How can you even enjoy it when your partner is feeling disgusted. She bled and you still forced her like that. You're an animal. Now you're buying her gifts. What stopped you from buying her a gift before or trying to convince, cajol and tease her into having sex. Instead of you to investigate what her problem with frequent sex is or how to find her buttons you assaulted and molested her. You should be in jail please. I pray for the day Nigeria would start working properly so that you'll be in jail by now instead of coming online to rant and say rubbish. Atleast that way there won't be a next time. Mtchewwww 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by blaquebelle: 3:29pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Your problem is even that people will notice you have issues and you can't explain. In Sha Allah, God no go let me marry your type 7 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by SmellingAnus(m): 3:33pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Op in as much as I will say you are very wrong but I must also say that your wife is a highly manipulative wicked soul... The worst part of it is that you don't even know she is heartless that is why you keep painting her like a saint.... Your story is a lesson to all men that we should learn to handle issues with our women without violence or rape because the woman will have something to hold on to use against the man in the future... This woman already has you where she wants and you will keep apologizing foolishly... Unfortunately, even if I tell you to let her be and give her space , I know you can't keep to that because you are already under high level manipulation.... It would have been better for you to even have a side chick than to be violent towards that manipulative soul looking for excuse to perpetually keep you under her spell... I will not be surprised if she is already gathering evidence of rape that she will use to make your life useless both in your community and on social platforms like Nairaland etc... You married a bitter feminist ... Unfortunately, she has succeeded in manipulating you to do what you may regret for the rest of your life... 36 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Arsenate(m): 3:48pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
cococandy:Yeah, hopefully she does, in the best interest of everyone. She can proceed to meet other men who will tolerate her selfish, sex denying asssss while op can get other women who will wanna fuuuck him. *funny how you make it look like a woman divorcing a man whom she denies sex will be the man's loss* Una funny, I swear. Happy puking. 57 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cococandy(f): 3:51pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Arsenate:It may not be his loss because unfortunately, he can always find someone to rape but it would be her gain. To be free from her rapist. He’s of no benefit to anyone. No one has anything to gain from living with a rapist. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by PlentyMonikers(f): 3:53pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Noah9:you didn't rape her, it's your right, you paid a lot for her head so you deserve it. see her as your sex slave 13 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by PlentyMonikers(f): 3:56pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
cococandy:you be idiot, why would she deny him sex in the first place when her bride price was paid for? OP don't feel any guilty abeg, it's your right, you deserve it, next time she denies you sex you rape her over and over again before kicking her cheating ass out of your matrimonial home 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Newboss(m): 4:01pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
AntiMCU: Wahala for man wey don go marry. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Arsenate(m): 4:05pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
cococandy:Kinda love how you are about to burst an artery on this issue but always happily troll men who open threads on paternity fraud. Not news that you've always been bias towards women so your opinions and labels of men don't hold any weight to me, tbh. Hopefully op sees it that way and doesn't feel guilty by your words. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cococandy(f): 4:05pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
PlentyMonikers: Right.Are women even humans to you people? @truthsayer009 you’re not interested in coming to tell me how I’m bitter and what have issues today? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cococandy(f): 4:06pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Arsenate: I know. How awful that I have a problem with rape 9 Likes 1 Share |
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