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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Bouncing2(m): 3:41pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
socialmediaman:Which someone's daughter!? Look at the way our man was and is still SIMPING after her!!,,,, ain't you seeing that? 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by RosyIsBlessed: 3:42pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky: Best advice here. Op you are a beast. Be lying here that you've never done it before. You've never done it before yet one slap resulted to bleeding. Ontop of the bleeding mouth you should have attended to, you still penetrated her by force to satisfy yourself sexually while she bleeds. . If na my sister you do that one to, I'll teach you a lesson you'll never forget. U go use your hands pack your blood for floor. U dare not treat women in such way not to talk of your wife. U should rather focus more on seeing a therapist and working on yourself because there are high chances you'll do it again if not worse. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Kingcalls: 3:45pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Ishitinyourlife: Shut up 4kin simp....u will end up like ur fellow simps ,a life full of regrets... na fools like u go talk say a man should not hit a woman even if she hits u.... mumu men ....u are nothing but a half boy, half woman....man no dey ur DNA 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by iTearHerToto: 3:47pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9:A decent woman is submissive Stfu big SIMP Y'all and your likes are doomed Pukes 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by akaahs(m): 3:48pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky:I doubt if u re married. What's the essence of marriage if she can't open up on what is bothering her?? It's takes two people to make their marriage work, most he be punished or starve sexually for only God knows what is in her mind? I'm not supporting him slapping her or raping her but I'm sure u ll be the first person to call him a scum if he cheated on that woman. She should be largely blame for what is going on, how can u starved ur husband of sex for months 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ishitinyourlife: 3:53pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Kingcalls:Maybe your father treated your mama like a WH0re or you were not just raised up to be a man, if you support rape and beating a woman who didn't hit you first e no go better for you once again,I aiiint no simp I'm more of man that your father was 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by OVikkytan49: 3:56pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Remag666: May God bless you for this. Only few people have talked about this so far. Can it really be considered a rape since they're both married?. He was wrong by hitting her and having his way forcefully on her, yes. But then again they are married and it would be bias if I only put the blame on the man because the woman is equally wrong, infact she's wicked like some people have pointed out. There are no reasons good enough for wives to deny their husbands of sex. This act is only acceptable if A. She's on her menses B. She's fasting or sick. If he offended her, she could have talked to him, most especially during the moments he was making advances on her. That's the perfect timing to talk things out with her man because that's the moment when...you know? Most people blaming the op have been really bias. It's those kind of people that make ladies see themselves as goddess. This is how some women would blindly tear apart their marriage. Would she have rather had her husband committing adultery instead? This question might look stupid but is raping her not better than having side chicks? I don't support his act but... Let's call a Spade a spade pls, they're both wrong. @op, it would be better you involve your family and her family, it may be hard but do it. Say it out loud and clear everything that has happened. I'm very sure not everyone would be on her side. Even her siblings that are female might talk some sense into her. But make sure not to lose it next time, there are better ways of handling females. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Kingcalls: 3:59pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Mercychen: People are encouraging nonsense and that y marriages are crumbling daily... if every husband and wife should start doing my own my own , don't touch my thing ,don't use my stuff...will u still call that one marriage.... imagine a man telling his wife dont touch my car even if she can drive ...now if there's an emergency and she uses his car,will u now condemn her?? The guy was manipulated by media to think he raped his wife... he should hv used a different word... I slapped her ( which was wrong) and I ended up having sex with her ... now some forming woke people are now taking advantage and calling him rapist ... even the bibles says only on 2 accounts should a man b permitted to divorce his wife... 1... if she commits adultery 2... if she fails to perform her sexual duties as a woman .... They are saying a wife has sole right to her body but a husband dont hv sole right to his money ....just imagine ... as a man u must perform ur duties by providing for ur family whether u like it or not... but a woman has the right to decide whether to hv sex with her husband or not... y wudnt we be having a hight rate of divorce cases..... that cococandy , siofre and that ilovehippotamus will not last in marriage with their mind set...I just pity the man that will waste his money on wedding ceremony only for the marriage to end within a yr or 2 ...bad investment...I'm glad ladies like pocohontas has seen the light and have stopped selling that type of mentality 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Berankis: 3:59pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9:With all due respect your wife is being selfish! Even though, you should never have forced your way. This is the reason why I pity some guys that envy married men, and even say it that married will sex anytime they want. Na lie! Infact na scam!! You will only have sex when your madam allows you. But the use of force should never come into play. Even though, women can be selfish a lot of times, they only want to have sex when they are in the mood, they bother less about the husband's mood. Nonetheless, as a married man even unmarried, self-restraint is very important. And always remember you may not be able to have sex anytime you want. Initially I felt may I wasn't performing well too until I started seeing and hearing other people's stories. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Mom007(f): 4:00pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Ladyhippolyta88:My dear, free will is the enemy. If you want the free will to do as you please, then please remain single. Do not marry and start looking for free will. Marriage is a bond(age)! It binds you to your spouse and children! You put them ahead of yourself 90% of the time else the marriage will not work! If you are not ready to do this, pls REMAIN SINGLE! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ablejesus26(m): 4:02pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
OlawaleBammie: The guy made sense die. Witholding sex from a man in marriage should be a punishable offense �� It is physically and spiritually evil. It is witchcraft,yes that's the word! witchcraft. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by almarthins(m): 4:02pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Christinaog:Women come be ? As for me o! I no support the guy but the lady self no know say men get konji issue. If u no wan even get the konji self, the half naked women on our street go give you sexual pressure. As you no be man, you can't understand. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by nrexzy: 4:03pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Ishitinyourlife: U get sense ooo 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by nrexzy: 4:04pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
eneazi: Nothing to figure out... Marriage is about communication... She should have communicated 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Kingcalls: 4:06pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Ishitinyourlife: U are a 4kin simp.....and only whores raise simps ...boys that grew up with real men as fathers stand on their 2 feet ... u must be a product of a so called rape that ur LovePeddler of a mother told u ....all lies ....she whored herself and got knocked up ...thats y u are a bonfires simp that is definitely heading to destruction |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by pansophist(m): 4:08pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
AntiMCU: As per your first paragraph, that's just the sad reality in most homes. Even worse, both partner unintentionally do everything possible to make themselves unattractive to each other. Women become fat anyhow and the man grow pot belly. They stop stimulating their love life and practically become grumpy roomates. Imagine sex with such configurations But guys these days are polygamous. Sleeping with different women till eternity in my view, is advanced polygamy. Men are more polygamous now than before. And moden polygamy is worse than traditional polygamy because the men ain't obligated to commit to the women at all, and their baby. A true definition of privileges without responsibilities. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by oghenetega100(f): 4:08pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
stomach hunger has joined the other hunger, now you have to do what you should have done from the beginning, romance your wife and find out what is really bothering her. As for the forceful sex keep apologizing no matter how long it takes, go to the market and buy a big basket of patience, you are going to need it. Noah9: |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by onunwa21(m): 4:10pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Guy u fu*k up!!! Why did u even touch her!! Many men re looking for this opportunity to come!!! Anyway get ur urself a side chick to help u cure ur konji!! No use soap, I repeat get urself a side chick!!! The problem with ur wife is, she is a baby, never matured;!! Don't worry with she will understand the danger of sex starvation 2 partner!!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by adadike(f): 4:13pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9:if truly, you have begged her so much and she refused, promise yourself not to repeat such mistake. Rise up, be a man and disappear without a word , off your phone , I will advice you go live in a secluded chapel for the 3 days. Stay there and pray , the absence will make her think ,heal, forgive and even start missing you a lot. When both of you get back together again, it's time to talk on the sex issue. I still don't know why a healthy married woman will keep on hoarding sex from the man that paid your bride price, what do you think that bride price is for? Na una go dey hoard sex , na una go still dey complain of cheating 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Elidrisy20: 4:15pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
You did the right thing, is she not your wife? Did she want you to go and knack goat 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by razible5384(m): 4:17pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
cococandy:go an sit down with your biased an one sided view 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by shomutuski(m): 4:21pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Rather than hit my wife, I'll just go about my business and get one young girl to kpansh. My bros do you know how many ladies will agree to your advances married and unmarried, even from a consensual point of view. they will smash you free of charge not to talk of if you can provide for them then the numbers become exponential. You lost the frame battle, your woman shouldn't use sex as a ploy to control you or refuse you. If you had an emergency backup plan initially, she would notice your lack of concern after she refused and become concerned. That adrenaline rush will make her have mind blowing sex. Alternatively, she might not see you as the man you were before, either you've lost the physical appeal she liked or worst case scenario she is fcking someone else my gee. many married men they suffer for marriages, some sef they sexless marriages. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by OlawaleBammie: 4:23pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
ablejesus26:as in eehn, and they wont want us to cheat, they wont want us to go into polygamy and still dey wil refuse to satisfy our sexual urge. As to me na lie, if u withold sex from me just know that someone is servicing me on ur behalf.. I cant me working mysef out day and night and u that u re supposed to be my source of inspiration,u re the one trying to blackmail me. I wil cheat and i will let u knw that i cheat, and if i catch u cheating den u re going to ur papa ous, in my marriage i am the one holding the whip, i married u and not the other way. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 4:26pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
nrexzy: She probably must have had sex with some other Dude and felt withdrawn from her hubby, for a while... happens a lot these days. Very soon, wives will start sleeping around with their full chest. @OP, just divorce that babe for your peace of mind, she's done with you. Just pray she doesn't raise up a rape case against you. You can leave your daughter with her, and visit her whenever you like. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ablejesus26(m): 4:28pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Aaron12: Fixed. He didn't rape her he fûcked her Yes he should keep doing it like dat until he fûcks sense into her coconut head. I plan on contesting for rep very soon. One of my main mission is to ensure that weaponizing sex in marriage should be a punishable offense �. This witchcraft has gone on for too long. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by DMerciful(m): 4:33pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
If your wife denies you sex for that long without having health issues or psychological issues that she's not communicating, either divorce her or legit get a side chick Noah9: 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Truckpusher(m): 4:33pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Under the Nigerian customary law , a legally married couple cannot claim rape. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ablejesus26(m): 4:34pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
OlawaleBammie: Well that's how you choose to handle this jezebelic too of malnupulating men with sex. But to some of us who do not derive pleasure in cheating,if she refuse to give you with no explanation or reasoning,take it. There is nothing like rape there. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Juicy001: 4:38pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Dont marry if you love sex o Dont marry if you love sex o Don't marry if you love sex o Don't marry if you love sex o Dont marry if you love sex o Dont marry if you love sex o Dont marry if you love sex o 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 4:41pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Ladyhippolyta88: I hope you know the man also has that same free will to shaaag another finer and younger Lady, get her pregnant and start another family with her. The Dude fvucked up I swear, in fact, make hand touch am small sef. See opportunities wey your baby Mama de give you, you then chose RAPE ooshii. See Husbands, it's better to divorce the woman to get someone better than commit RAPE. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Hotguy27: 4:44pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9: You should have sought for advice rather than forcefully having your way on her against her willingness/readiness. Have you made effort to find out why she was denying you sex? It could be that she was raped in the past by someone she trusted and she is still battling the trauma. Now, you have complicated it by repeating same scenario. You have scored an own goal and this will forever live in her memory. Even if she forgives you she may always see you as a rapist each time you make love to her and that means she will not enjoy it as expected. To those who are being denied sex by their married partners, please investigate what could be the issue and make effort to resolve it or understand with him/her. If it is not a case of cheating resulting to what I can refer to as switch of feeling, just be calm and also pretend as if you too do not want, that will strengthen the feeling for each other and you can always come back together as fresh lovers to do the needful. My advice. Buy her some things you know she likes. If she accepts, wait till some hours later, seat her down and beg her for forgiveness. Do not ask why she is denying you sex at that moment. Try to also lock up after that and start acting caring and strange at the same time. Talk less and be good. She may open up to you on her own. Finally, do you actually win bread for the family? Some women are allergic to poverty and it turns them off seriously. 1 Like |
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