socialmediaman:


Jeeeeeez! Dang! That woman is someone’s daughter

Which someone's daughter!?
Look at the way our man was and is still SIMPING after her!!,,,, ain't you seeing that?

InTheCloudySky:
You didn't bother asking her/finding out what was going on with her or in your marriage (you obviously had pre-existing issues that may have caused her to withdraw from you) to have refused you, but you resorted to violence.

As if slapping her wasn't bad enough, slapping her to the extent of her bleeding in the mouth meant you did it with a lot of force, not to mention the force you obviously used to rape her. The act of rape in itself is an act of violence. Sorry (not sorry): you're a beast. After being violent towards her x2, what do you expect?

Get on your knees, plead with her and ask for her forgiveness, then let her know you won't ever repeat such violent actions towards her again. Secondly, you're selfish if you're expecting her to cook for you after what you've done. You should be the one cooking for her during this time ―to appease her. Things should fall back into place if you start doing that and catering more to her, then you two can go see a sound marriage Therapist to work out your issues. Otherwise keep eating the indomie you've been eating.

Best advice here.

Op you are a beast. Be lying here that you've never done it before. You've never done it before yet one slap resulted to bleeding. Ontop of the bleeding mouth you should have attended to, you still penetrated her by force to satisfy yourself sexually while she bleeds. . If na my sister you do that one to, I'll teach you a lesson you'll never forget. U go use your hands pack your blood for floor. U dare not treat women in such way not to talk of your wife.

U should rather focus more on seeing a therapist and working on yourself because there are high chances you'll do it again if not worse.

Ishitinyourlife:

You're a complete nuisance,it is useless animals like you that gives men bad names, oloshi, your wife don't wanna have sex with you and your brain doesn't tell you that you need to figure out why she's behaving that way and fix the problem,your reaction is to hit and rape her, e no go better for you

Shut up 4kin simp....u will end up like ur fellow simps ,a life full of regrets... na fools like u go talk say a man should not hit a woman even if she hits u.... mumu men ....u are nothing but a half boy, half woman....man no dey ur DNA

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

A decent woman is submissive Stfu big SIMP
Y'all and your likes are doomed


Pukes

InTheCloudySky:
You didn't bother asking her/finding out what was going on with her or in your marriage (you obviously had pre-existing issues that may have caused her to withdraw from you) to have refused you, but you resorted to violence.

As if slapping her wasn't bad enough, slapping her to the extent of her bleeding in the mouth meant you did it with a lot of force, not to mention the force you obviously used to rape her. The act of rape in itself is an act of violence. Sorry (not sorry): you're a beast. After being violent towards her x2, what do you expect?

Get on your knees, plead with her and ask for her forgiveness, then let her know you won't ever repeat such violent actions towards her again. Secondly, you're selfish if you're expecting her to cook for you after what you've done. You should be the one cooking for her during this time ―to appease her. Things should fall back into place if you start doing that and catering more to her, then you two can go see a sound marriage Therapist to work out your issues. Otherwise keep eating the indomie you've been eating.

I doubt if u re married. What's the essence of marriage if she can't open up on what is bothering her?? It's takes two people to make their marriage work, most he be punished or starve sexually for only God knows what is in her mind? I'm not supporting him slapping her or raping her but I'm sure u ll be the first person to call him a scum if he cheated on that woman. She should be largely blame for what is going on, how can u starved ur husband of sex for months

Kingcalls:


Shut up 4kin simp....u will end up like ur fellow simps ,a life full of regrets... na fools like u go talk say a man should not hit a woman even if she hits u.... mumu men ....u are nothing but a half boy, half woman....man no dey ur DNA

Maybe your father treated your mama like a WH0re or you were not just raised up to be a man, if you support rape and beating a woman who didn't hit you first e no go better for you once again,I aiiint no simp I'm more of man that your father was

Remag666:
How does one rape his wife
I am not understanding you paid bride price na
Oga it's impossible to rape your own wife don't let all those people yarning dust deceive you

May God bless you for this.
Only few people have talked about this so far.
Can it really be considered a rape since they're both married?.
He was wrong by hitting her and having his way forcefully on her, yes. But then again they are married and it would be bias if I only put the blame on the man because the woman is equally wrong, infact she's wicked like some people have pointed out.
There are no reasons good enough for wives to deny their husbands of sex.
This act is only acceptable if A. She's on her menses B. She's fasting or sick.
If he offended her, she could have talked to him, most especially during the moments he was making advances on her. That's the perfect timing to talk things out with her man because that's the moment when...you know?
Most people blaming the op have been really bias.
It's those kind of people that make ladies see themselves as goddess. This is how some women would blindly tear apart their marriage.
Would she have rather had her husband committing adultery instead?
This question might look stupid but is raping her not better than having side chicks?
I don't support his act but...
Let's call a Spade a spade pls, they're both wrong.

@op, it would be better you involve your family and her family, it may be hard but do it.
Say it out loud and clear everything that has happened.
I'm very sure not everyone would be on her side. Even her siblings that are female might talk some sense into her.

But make sure not to lose it next time, there are better ways of handling females.

Mercychen:


God bless you.

A lot of these "woke" women take their husbands money without his consent but he never calls them thieves or keeps malice with them. When they talk about it, it's always mild with all smiles. But when the demands and takes his right without their consent, they'll begin raise cockroach shoulders shouting rape.

You go talk wetin you go find for man house before if no be that thing.

Abeg make una no spoil me o.

People are encouraging nonsense and that y marriages are crumbling daily... if every husband and wife should start doing my own my own , don't touch my thing ,don't use my stuff...will u still call that one marriage.... imagine a man telling his wife dont touch my car even if she can drive ...now if there's an emergency and she uses his car,will u now condemn her?? The guy was manipulated by media to think he raped his wife... he should hv used a different word... I slapped her ( which was wrong) and I ended up having sex with her ... now some forming woke people are now taking advantage and calling him rapist ... even the bibles says only on 2 accounts should a man b permitted to divorce his wife... 1... if she commits adultery 2... if she fails to perform her sexual duties as a woman ....

They are saying a wife has sole right to her body but a husband dont hv sole right to his money ....just imagine ... as a man u must perform ur duties by providing for ur family whether u like it or not... but a woman has the right to decide whether to hv sex with her husband or not... y wudnt we be having a hight rate of divorce cases..... that cococandy , siofre and that ilovehippotamus will not last in marriage with their mind set...I just pity the man that will waste his money on wedding ceremony only for the marriage to end within a yr or 2 ...bad investment...I'm glad ladies like pocohontas has seen the light and have stopped selling that type of mentality

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

With all due respect your wife is being selfish! Even though, you should never have forced your way.
This is the reason why I pity some guys that envy married men, and even say it that married will sex anytime they want. Na lie! Infact na scam!! You will only have sex when your madam allows you. But the use of force should never come into play. Even though, women can be selfish a lot of times, they only want to have sex when they are in the mood, they bother less about the husband's mood. Nonetheless, as a married man even unmarried, self-restraint is very important. And always remember you may not be able to have sex anytime you want.
Initially I felt may I wasn't performing well too until I started seeing and hearing other people's stories.

Ladyhippolyta88:


They need a therapist, especially the wife who is going through trauma and looking for a coping mechanism.

She doesn't need a religious advice, because a woman is married she should not lose her free will in the name of submission it is advice like this that is the foundation of the problem because a man would want to take it by force if his wife is not willing.

My dear, free will is the enemy. If you want the free will to do as you please, then please remain single. Do not marry and start looking for free will. Marriage is a bond(age)! It binds you to your spouse and children! You put them ahead of yourself 90% of the time else the marriage will not work! If you are not ready to do this, pls REMAIN SINGLE!

OlawaleBammie:
God bless you brother

The guy made sense die.
Witholding sex from a man in marriage should be a punishable offense ��
It is physically and spiritually evil.
It is witchcraft,yes that's the word! witchcraft.

Christinaog:

Men are scum

Women come be ?

As for me o! I no support the guy but the lady self no know say men get konji issue. If u no wan even get the konji self, the half naked women on our street go give you sexual pressure. As you no be man, you can't understand.

Ishitinyourlife:

You're a complete nuisance,it is useless animals like you that gives men bad names, oloshi, your wife don't wanna have sex with you and your brain doesn't tell you that you need to figure out why she's behaving that way and fix the problem,your reaction is to hit and rape her, e no go better for you

U get sense ooo

eneazi:





Being his wife is no justification for his vile act. What he would have done when the whole rejection thing started was talk to her about, did he even talk to her about it, like find out the reasons behind her actions.

Nothing to figure out... Marriage is about communication... She should have communicated

Ishitinyourlife:

Maybe your father treated your mama like a WH0re or you were not just raised up to be a man, if you support rape and beating a woman who didn't hit you first e no go better for you once again,I aiiint no simp I'm more of man that your father was

U are a 4kin simp.....and only whores raise simps ...boys that grew up with real men as fathers stand on their 2 feet ... u must be a product of a so called rape that ur LovePeddler of a mother told u ....all lies ....she whored herself and got knocked up ...thats y u are a bonfires simp that is definitely heading to destruction

AntiMCU:
Seems like marriages these days is synonymous with sexual starvation.

At least, our forefathers had polygamy (options) for issues like this.

As per your first paragraph, that's just the sad reality in most homes. Even worse, both partner unintentionally do everything possible to make themselves unattractive to each other. Women become fat anyhow and the man grow pot belly. They stop stimulating their love life and practically become grumpy roomates. Imagine sex with such configurations

But guys these days are polygamous. Sleeping with different women till eternity in my view, is advanced polygamy. Men are more polygamous now than before. And moden polygamy is worse than traditional polygamy because the men ain't obligated to commit to the women at all, and their baby. A true definition of privileges without responsibilities.

stomach hunger has joined the other hunger, now you have to do what you should have done from the beginning, romance your wife and find out what is really bothering her. As for the forceful sex keep apologizing no matter how long it takes, go to the market and buy a big basket of patience, you are going to need it.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

Guy u fu*k up!!! Why did u even touch her!! Many men re looking for this opportunity to come!!! Anyway get ur urself a side chick to help u cure ur konji!! No use soap, I repeat get urself a side chick!!!
The problem with ur wife is, she is a baby, never matured;!! Don't worry with she will understand the danger of sex starvation 2 partner!!!!

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

if truly, you have begged her so much and she refused, promise yourself not to repeat such mistake. Rise up, be a man and disappear without a word , off your phone , I will advice you go live in a secluded chapel for the 3 days. Stay there and pray , the absence will make her think ,heal, forgive and even start missing you a lot. When both of you get back together again, it's time to talk on the sex issue. I still don't know why a healthy married woman will keep on hoarding sex from the man that paid your bride price, what do you think that bride price is for? Na una go dey hoard sex , na una go still dey complain of cheating

You did the right thing, is she not your wife? Did she want you to go and knack goat

cococandy:
Your wife needs to divorce you. Unfortunately she’s not here to read the advice. It would be thoroughly disgusting being married to a rapist. Excuse me while I puke

go an sit down with your biased an one sided view

Rather than hit my wife, I'll just go about my business and get one young girl to kpansh. My bros do you know how many ladies will agree to your advances married and unmarried, even from a consensual point of view. they will smash you free of charge not to talk of if you can provide for them then the numbers become exponential. You lost the frame battle, your woman shouldn't use sex as a ploy to control you or refuse you. If you had an emergency backup plan initially, she would notice your lack of concern after she refused and become concerned. That adrenaline rush will make her have mind blowing sex.

Alternatively, she might not see you as the man you were before, either you've lost the physical appeal she liked or worst case scenario she is fcking someone else my gee.

many married men they suffer for marriages, some sef they sexless marriages.

ablejesus26:


The guy made sense die.
Witholding sex from a man in marriage should be a punishable offense ��
It is physically and spiritually evil.
It is witchcraft,yes that's the word! witchcraft.

as in eehn, and they wont want us to cheat, they wont want us to go into polygamy and still dey wil refuse to satisfy our sexual urge.

As to me na lie, if u withold sex from me just know that someone is servicing me on ur behalf..

I cant me working mysef out day and night and u that u re supposed to be my source of inspiration,u re the one trying to blackmail me.

I wil cheat and i will let u knw that i cheat, and if i catch u cheating den u re going to ur papa ous, in my marriage i am the one holding the whip, i married u and not the other way.

nrexzy:


Na him wife oo no b babe oo...
Abeg
D kingdom of God sufferth violence...... Etc

Lemme ask why on earth would his wife starve him. Of sex for over a long period with no reason?

E make sense to u

She probably must have had sex with some other Dude and felt withdrawn from her hubby, for a while... happens a lot these days.
Very soon, wives will start sleeping around with their full chest.

@OP, just divorce that babe for your peace of mind, she's done with you. Just pray she doesn't raise up a rape case against you.
You can leave your daughter with her, and visit her whenever you like.

Aaron12:
Funny enough most men that haven't seen the panties of a woman will marry such hoes, and the hoes will deny them sex, infact i don vex make the guy dey rape am everyday. What nonsense.

Fixed.
He didn't rape her he fûcked her
Yes he should keep doing it like dat until he fûcks sense into her coconut head.
I plan on contesting for rep very soon.
One of my main mission is to ensure that weaponizing sex in marriage should be a punishable offense �.
This witchcraft has gone on for too long.

If your wife denies you sex for that long without having health issues or psychological issues that she's not communicating, either divorce her or legit get a side chick

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

Under the Nigerian customary law , a legally married couple cannot claim rape.

OlawaleBammie:
as in eehn, and they wont want us to cheat, they wont want us to go into polygamy and still dey wil refuse to satisfy our sexual urge.

As to me na lie, if u withold sex from me just know that someone is servicing me on ur behalf..

I cant me working mysef out day and night and u that u re supposed to be my source of inspiration,u re the one trying to blackmail me.

I wil cheat and i will let u knw that i cheat, and if i catch u cheating den u re going to ur papa ous, in my marriage i am the one holding the whip, i married u and not the other way.

Well that's how you choose to handle this jezebelic too of malnupulating men with sex.
But to some of us who do not derive pleasure in cheating,if she refuse to give you with no explanation or reasoning,take it.
There is nothing like rape there.

Dont marry if you love sex o
Dont marry if you love sex o
Don't marry if you love sex o
Don't marry if you love sex o
Dont marry if you love sex o
Dont marry if you love sex o
Dont marry if you love sex o

Ladyhippolyta88:


They need a therapist, especially the wife who is going through trauma and looking for a coping mechanism.

She doesn't need a religious advice, because a woman is married she should not lose her free will in the name of submission it is advice like this that is the foundation of the problem because a man would want to take it by force if his wife is not willing.

I hope you know the man also has that same free will to shaaag another finer and younger Lady, get her pregnant and start another family with her.
The Dude fvucked up I swear, in fact, make hand touch am small sef.
See opportunities wey your baby Mama de give you, you then chose RAPE ooshii.

See Husbands, it's better to divorce the woman to get someone better than commit RAPE.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

You should have sought for advice rather than forcefully having your way on her against her willingness/readiness. Have you made effort to find out why she was denying you sex? It could be that she was raped in the past by someone she trusted and she is still battling the trauma. Now, you have complicated it by repeating same scenario.

You have scored an own goal and this will forever live in her memory. Even if she forgives you she may always see you as a rapist each time you make love to her and that means she will not enjoy it as expected.

To those who are being denied sex by their married partners, please investigate what could be the issue and make effort to resolve it or understand with him/her. If it is not a case of cheating resulting to what I can refer to as switch of feeling, just be calm and also pretend as if you too do not want, that will strengthen the feeling for each other and you can always come back together as fresh lovers to do the needful.

My advice.
Buy her some things you know she likes. If she accepts, wait till some hours later, seat her down and beg her for forgiveness. Do not ask why she is denying you sex at that moment. Try to also lock up after that and start acting caring and strange at the same time. Talk less and be good. She may open up to you on her own.

Finally, do you actually win bread for the family? Some women are allergic to poverty and it turns them off seriously.