ibechris:
Both of are u wrong and you messed up the whole situation but in fact,u didn't marry a good wife but a pretender if I may say.

Submissiveness is the hall mark of a descent woman.

There is simply no submissiveness in that woman. How do u justify her hoarding sex in marriage, in a weddedhome?. Her action could have made u to commit adultery which is still possible if the situation doesn't change.

Both of you need to talk extensively and if it worths involving her family,u had better do it fast before it goes out of hand.

Wishing u the best as u put situation under control.

Babastrong:
The only solution is to continue raping her again, again and again till she realised you have paid her dowry( unless when she's sick).
the only thing you need to stop is beating. Don't ever again raise your hand against women.

benzion72:
Two wrong cannot make a right. Having said that. You sound like an immature man. To me. Fulfill all your responsibility at home and play her game with her. She want to withdrawal do same too. Keep a little bit late and let her see that she is dispensable. But cowing and begging such women will not work.

Ecne:


And is the man not someone's son?
Take ya time ooo

domnwan:
God bless you bro or sis, the woman caused her problem and if I were the man, upon pleading with her, I'll let her be and arrange for a second wife or a mistress.

lookingfly:
oya ladies in the house..... Come and explain this nonsense of denying your spouse sex. A man hustle to provide a roof, food clothing for you and treats you right. You now deliberately deny him kpanshing rights. If he joins the Vaseline crew, you cry pervet, if decides to help himself outside with another young mistress, you cry infidelity......why do you guys do that rubbish sef?

Kingsuave:
Mtcheww na fake story self,

But Op you get mad writing skills..

Kingcalls:


Exactly what the devil wants ...commit adultery against God's commandments... women brought sin into the world and they still somehow systematically enable sin

Christinaog:

Men are scum

Christinaog:

Men are scum

Christinaog:

Men are scum

Ishitinyourlife:

Was that the way your father treated your mother like a wh0re

AntiMCU:
Seems like marriages these days is synonymous with sexual starvation.

At least, our forefathers had polygamy (options) for issues like this.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

i926:

If a woman treats a man like a king, she gets treated like a queen. But when she's acts like a bitch, she gets treated like a bitch.


Women who were married in the 1950s to early 1990s are totally well cultured, more feminine and well groomed, unlike the modern day women.

Now, do the math, simpleton.

ibechris:
Both of are u wrong and you messed up the whole situation but in fact,u didn't marry a good wife but a pretender if I may say.

Submissiveness is the hall mark of a descent woman.

There is simply no submissiveness in that woman. How do u justify her hoarding sex in marriage, in a weddedhome?. Her action could have made u to commit adultery which is still possible if the situation doesn't change.

Both of you need to talk extensively and if it worths involving her family,u had better do it fast before it goes out of hand.

Wishing u the best as u put situation under control.


God bless you! They're both wrong, how can you deny ur wedded husband sex for weeks.
@OP God will intervene in ur home and heal ur wife emotionally.

Ishitinyourlife:

Next time stop bickering incessantly and do what you're told,all I asked you to do is answer a single question,did your Daddy treated your mama like a wh0re

domnwan:
God bless you bro or sis, the woman caused her problem and if I were the man, upon pleading with her, I'll let her be and arrange for a second wife or a mistress.

Christinaog:

Men are scum

cococandy:
Your wife needs to divorce you. Unfortunately she’s not here to read the advice. It would be thoroughly disgusting being married to a rapist. Excuse me while I puke

ibechris:
Both of are u wrong and you messed up the whole situation but in fact,u didn't marry a good wife but a pretender if I may say.

Submissiveness is the hall mark of a descent woman.

There is simply no submissiveness in that woman. How do u justify her hoarding sex in marriage, in a weddedhome?. Her action could have made u to commit adultery which is still possible if the situation doesn't change.

Both of you need to talk extensively and if it worths involving her family,u had better do it fast before it goes out of hand.

Wishing u the best as u put situation under control.