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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by dasparrow: 6:39pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Why would your wife deny you sex to begin with OP? Has she always been that way? Women, don't let society pressure you into marriage if you know you don't like sex and cannot cope with constant conjugal duties. If you allow yourself to get forced or pressured into marriage, be prepared to get beat and raped by your spouse since it seems that most Nigerian bred men are predisposed to being rapists. Remember, Nigeria is not a safe country for females and most Nigerians seem to see nothing wrong with spousal abuse. This OP has only been married for 3 years and is already showing signs of being an abuser. One day, he will hit his wife in a sensitive part of her body and she will slump and die. Too many women have died prematurely at the hands of their spouses. So I suggest that women leave abusive marriages because there is no reward in heaven for you if you allow some "Mungo Park" murder you before your time. Men, divorce your wife if she is no longer fulfilling her conjugal duties and won't tell you why. Stop being violent. I know that the Nigerian culture is one that glorifies abuse and violence but it is better to walk away from a relationship you are not happy in than to become violent. This type of stories are the reason why an increasing number of young women are now becoming terrified of marriage because of all the abuse going on in most Nigerian marriages. Nigerian society, stop putting pressure on every single adult to get married. Some people are better of single than married. Lastly, not everyone really cares about sexual intercourse so expecting every adult to desire marriage, an institution where you will be expected to fvck all the time like rabbits on Viagra is foolhardy at best and a recipe for disaster. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ifakiland(m): 6:39pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Don't apologise, allow her grieve alone, ignore her totally....why will she deny you her body in the first place?? Infact make she get out. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Digmygold: 6:42pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
ibechris: So even she is exhausted she must "submit" to sex? I know you wouldn't say the same if she was your daughter. Do men also not deprive their wives of sex? Do you think the Op will tell you the whole truth or do you know if for the past one month he has been going out to have sex with other women abandoning his wife only to go back to her only when he desires? He had no right to hit her. Thats horrible. I won't be surprised of his divorce papers are served any time soon. Very selfish man. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by benzion72(m): 6:44pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Two wrong cannot make a right. Having said that. You sound like an immature man. To me. Fulfill all your responsibility at home and play her game with her. She want to withdrawal do same too. Keep a little bit late and let her see that she is dispensable. But cowing and begging such women will not work. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Babastrong(m): 6:45pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
The only solution is to continue raping her again, again and again till she realised you have paid her dowry( unless when she's sick). the only thing you need to stop is beating. Don't ever again raise your hand against women. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Digmygold: 6:46pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Op you are an animal and I am sure if we were to hear your wife's side of the story we will all be shocked. How can you hit her? You don't deserve a wife. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Digmygold: 6:47pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Babastrong: Thats is how they will.be raping and raping your own daughters and grand daughters too. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Digmygold: 6:50pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
benzion72: Na so your daughters too go dey dispensable for their husband house. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ekebest: 6:52pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Hello Sir, it has happened, it has happened. You can't kill yourself by drinking poison because you raped your wife. If you weren't remorseful, you would not have come here to ask for help. 1. Do not commit suicide. 2. Do not have High blood pressure. 3. Own up the fault and don't blame her for anything. 4. Keep persevering in being remorseful and begging for forgiveness. 5. Prepare for uncertainty at any time. 6. You need to seek the face of God in prayer for help. 7. You don't really know what is going on in her mind so, you should be watchful over yourself at all times. 8. God helping you that you are still alive to see the 7th day without any positive change, REPORT YOURSELF TO YOUR PARENTS. Call for family meetings if need be because you are already DEATH in her world. She may retaliate on you at anytime so, seek for help from your parents /parents in-laws. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Digmygold: 6:52pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Ecne: If na your daughter mouth dem hit wey blood dey flow you would react differently. All you wicked souls. Na sharp sharp Karma dey locate your type and your generations too. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Digmygold: 6:55pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
domnwan: And when the 2nd wife too refuses, you will get a 3rd and then a 4th. The vicious cycle then keeps going on until you catch HIV. Una no just get sense at all. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Digmygold: 6:58pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
lookingfly: So even if she is exhausted she must succumb? Your sense troway? 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by NaBanga: 6:58pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Kingsuave: Although I am sure this story is fake, these things do happen. It happened to my female friend. She left the man. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by IvarDboneless: 6:59pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Kingcalls:Bros you see marriage and woman if you no use your sense you go just die.before your time 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by weltin1(m): 6:59pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Hw on earth ur wife go dey refuse to give u puna without a good reason? Haba ur wife no try. Bt u 4 no force her, u 4 jejely comot go de get ur puna 4 outside. Then stop to the even cross hand 4 9t maybe 4like 2years. If she no well she no fit tell her husband? Make she gerat 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Timothyoj(m): 7:01pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Christinaog:Men are scum bawo, for a whole one month, I should be begging my wife for sex...? And I don't want to cheat on her. To me ,the wife has her part to explain but the husband's action is a NO NO for me. Very bad approach. Pls apologize to your wife and you both should find a balance. Wish you well.... 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by DrLuv: 7:01pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Christinaog:Hmm...would you free comfortable to if we say All men including the male in your family Just because there is a Judas did not make the other apostles worthless 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by youska(m): 7:26pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Christinaog:Including your papa. Don't generalize us 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Ishitinyourlife:If a woman treats a man like a king, she gets treated like a queen. But when she's acts like a bitch, she gets treated like a bitch. Women who were married in the 1950s to early 1990s are totally well cultured, more feminine and well groomed, unlike the modern day women. Now, do the math, simpleton. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by StarGra: 8:08pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
If a man in this 21st century be thinking like this on this issue,then there is a problem with such person.....This your idea, shows how terrible your kind are..... Your the type women say " men are scum"..Tueh!! AntiMCU: |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Healthquest: 8:11pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9:I don't do this often but let me do it for you. Ur wife withdrew from you and you didn't ask her what' the issue is?. She could be having infections or some other medical conditions which she doesn't want you to contract, they are many conditions which could warrant Ur wife to denial you sex which can be legal. There's a missing line if by now, you don't discuss Urs & her private parts with Ur wife. U can start henceforth anyways. Secondly, if I assume everything is okay with her and this act is coming due to a third party ( prolly Ur wife is seeing someone outside, ) if she's servicing someone outside and the individual is better dan u, she won't be seeing u as husband because you're not fit as far she's concern. Third one is bad and it's not always advisable but men are actually polygamous in nature, If you persuade your woman for sex for days, weeks or even months and she didn't give you with some frivolous excuse, stop beggin her and ignore d sex. Eat Ur food because it's Ur money and play with Ur kid. Forget about d sex from her and get it else where while at it watch out for her and make sure she never catch you. I give her 3 months max, she must come to beg or you'll catch whoever is servicing her so far you guys stay together. MY 3KOBO. NB: Never rape a woman be it your wife or anyone,that act can put u in prison and I condemn it . It's never an option because women enjoys and want this sex even more than you. So chill and wear good boxer, build up and look like a strong man. 20 push up every morn won't be bad just to change the whole game. To persuade her, you need to beg and ask the very important question, which is the Reason why she decided not have sex with you again, she cannot be planning and not put you into consideration. The family belongs to both of you 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ishitinyourlife: 8:11pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
i926:Next time stop bickering incessantly and do what you're told,all I asked you to do is answer a single question,did your Daddy treated your mama like a wh0re 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Dbb01(m): 8:14pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
[quote author=InTheCloudySky post=109267765]You didn't bother finding out what was going on with her or in your marriage to have refused you, but you resorted to violence. As if slapping her wasn't bad enough, slapping her to the extent of her bleeding in the mouth meant you did it with a lot of force, not to mention the force you obviously used to rape her. The act of rape in itself is an act of violence. After being violent towards her x2, what do you expect? Get on your knees, plead with her and ask for her forgiveness, then let her know you won't ever repeat such violent actions towards her again. Secondly, you're expecting her to cook for you after what you've done? You should be the one cooking for her during this time ―to appease her. Things should fall back into place if you start doing that and catering more to her Wow, this is the best idea my brother You can also joke with your daughter when she's around so she can just...smile, you know? |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Onarabu: 8:18pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Ishitinyourlife:I have given you an answer, but your brain cells are dead to even interpret & understand. I ain't to e held responsible for that. Your type worship women thinking they are angelic and incapable of doing evil. But I won't reply no more, old man with dead brain cells. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by investigator007: 8:20pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Na wa o, what you did to your wife was really bad, but your wife too no try abeg 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Onarabu: 8:21pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
domnwan: Two wrong cannot make a right. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by shadeyinka(m): 8:22pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Christinaog:does that include all your brothers and uncles and your dad? If true, thats very serious problem from one family 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Babastrong(m): 8:40pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
[quote author=Digmygold post=109314134] Thats is how they will.be raping and raping your own daughters and grand daughters too.[ if they denied their husbands what belongs to them(amen). If not, any mortal that try to rape them outside the wedlock will die mysteriously( asee). If you laid this curse on my daughters that have not marry, pls know this today that YOUR MOTHER shall soon be raped in your present (asee).] |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by jornwhite: 8:41pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
cococandy: What he did might be wrong buh not out of place, marriage is not about when its convenient for the man or the wife, the man has every right to her body just as she has right to his. as much as i would av liked to preach *understanding*, i won't cos the reason why wives lock up there legs most times is for selfish reasons, they believes that how to get a man to do whatever they want Imagine your husband decides not to drop money because he is not in the mood or doesnt feel like it for months, if he mistakenly forget money in the wardrobe and you take it ... does that make you a thief 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Digmygold: 8:44pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by lereinter(m): 8:46pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
ibechris: God bless you 1 Like |
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