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My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by officialmario(m): 9:59am On Jan 13, 2022
Good morning Nairalanders

I want to use this medium to seek for your advice..

Me and my wife has been together since 2014, although we have not done marriage as we only did introduction, but we planned having our marriage this year, we had two kids, but I think right now I'm not comfortable living with my wife.

I am not enjoying this relationship anymore, she keeps beating me whenever there is quarrel between us, she is fond of slapping me and giving me punches, at times she makes use of wire and and broom to scatter my head.

The one that happened on Monday is really giving me much concern, she checked my phone and saw a friend I was chatting with and instead of her to ask me about the lady, the next thing she did was to slap me and she started beating me to the extent of having right hand dislocation.. It's not as if she can beat me if I decided to fight back, I don't want to raise my hand on a woman, it's a curse and I don't want to do that, this is getting out of hand and I am not living comfortable at home again, we sleep on different bed, she doesn't allow me touch her again.

She is even planning to get a room by ending of this month when she gets her salary..
I told my sister about her behavior, the advice she gave me is that I should beat the hell out of her whenever she raises her hand to beat me.

I have pleaded with my wife to let us continue the way we have been doing before but she wouldn't listen to me.

I am really confused and I don't know what to do right now..

I need your advice my great people of Nairaland.

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by kozmokaz(m): 10:00am On Jan 13, 2022
grin
Like beat beat ?

Okay on the topic

Beat beat her back na

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by SEXONLY: 10:02am On Jan 13, 2022
You should stop doing what will make her flogging you grin Respect your madam and be a good boy.

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by Nobody: 10:04am On Jan 13, 2022
What other advise do you think we can offer you than to beat her next time?

You don’t necessarily have to give her punches and dislocate her jaw.

Next time She starts the rubbish, pin her down, hold her two hands and use slaps to finish her butt. Beat her like a little kid.

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by SEXONLY: 10:05am On Jan 13, 2022
U mean to lash her with his kondo olopa wink

Carchoice:
What other advise do you think we can offer you than to beat her next time?

You don’t necessarily have to give her punches and dislocate her jaw.

Next time She starts the rubbish, pin her down, hold her two hands and use slaps to finish her butt. Beat her like a baby.

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by KashApp: 10:05am On Jan 13, 2022
Ará nairaland....tuntun ti de ooo. Opo l’eti, zazoo!!
SEXONLY:
You should stop doing what will make her flogging you grin Respect your madam and be a good boy.
Abi ooo grin

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by KillIgbohoN0W: 10:06am On Jan 13, 2022
officialmario:
I don't want to raise my hand on a woman, it's a curse and I don't want to do that,

Wow. So the deity you worship did not also make it a curse for women to beat men. grin


Anyway, your wife is into BDSM and your sex bores her to death. Give me her number so I can change her for you.

Cheers.

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by Zee0007: 10:08am On Jan 13, 2022
Food don land for repillers.

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by FamTomx2(m): 10:08am On Jan 13, 2022
sad

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by Romanoff(f): 10:14am On Jan 13, 2022
After 8 years of housing a woman without paying shishi on her head, you done give her belle two times, she dey perform wifely duties to you even though you no be her husband and you want us to give you what advice?

Make she continue to dey flog you.

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by Yohans(m): 10:32am On Jan 13, 2022
Fake story.

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by Amarisco(f): 10:33am On Jan 13, 2022
You’re now officially her punching bag.

You have a few options though

1. Get counselling - only works with reasonable people

2. Dish it back - you have to be careful you don’t go overboard

3. Go your separate ways - may not feel like an option but the only way to regain some sanity and dignity

After all, you’re not even traditionally married - just packaging at the moment. If you marry nko, na knife remain?

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by RoyalBlu(f): 10:33am On Jan 13, 2022
mentiras flagrantes lipsrsealed

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by pussyphilia(m): 11:21am On Jan 13, 2022
You are lucky you have a wife like that who resets your head by beating you. You should learn to respect and obey her to reduce the frequency of the beating. Trust me if you behave yourself, you'll do better and live longer with that kind of lady. Too much freedom in marriage is not good for a man! Truss me


#CoversheadAndRunsAwayFromRedpillers#

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by izywzy: 11:27am On Jan 13, 2022
You are a KORLU, if you don’t know the meaning ask PORTABLE

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by KingAlayinde(m): 11:29am On Jan 13, 2022
officialmario:
Good morning Nairalanders
I want to use this medium to seek for your advice..

Me and my wife has been together since 2014, although we have not done marriage as we only did introduction, but we planned having our marriage this year, we had two kids, but I think right now I'm not comfortable living with my wife.
I am not enjoying this relationship anymore, she keeps beating me whenever there is quarrel between us, she is fond of slapping me and giving me punches , at times she make use of wire and and broom to scatter my head.

The one that happened on Monday is really giving me much concern, she checked my phone and saw a friend I was chatting with and instead of her to ask me about the lady, the next thing she did was to slap me and she started beating me to the extent of having right hand dislocation..it's not as if she can beat me if I decided to fight back, I don't want to raise my hand on a woman, it's a curse and I don't want to do that, this is getting out of hand and I am not living comfortable at home again, we sleep on different bed, she doesn't allow me touch her again.
She is even planning to get a room by ending of this month when she get her salary..
I told my sister about her behavior, the advice she gave me is that I should beat the hell out of her whenever she raises her hand to beat me.
I have pleaded to my wife to let us continue the way we have been doing before but she wouldn't listen to me.

I am really confused and I don't know what to do right now..
I need your advice my great people of Nairaland.



You got to show her you're the man for her to know her place, ask for forgiveness first and makes sure to best her to reset her ego and now reasons with her ..... Women don't likes dull men likes you

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by kwaso2: 1:10pm On Jan 13, 2022
officialmario:
Good morning Nairalanders
I want to use this medium to seek for your advice..

Me and my wife has been together since 2014, although we have not done marriage as we only did introduction, but we planned having our marriage this year, we had two kids, but I think right now I'm not comfortable living with my wife.
I am not enjoying this relationship anymore, she keeps beating me whenever there is quarrel between us, she is fond of slapping me and giving me punches , at times she make use of wire and and broom to scatter my head.

The one that happened on Monday is really giving me much concern, she checked my phone and saw a friend I was chatting with and instead of her to ask me about the lady, the next thing she did was to slap me and she started beating me to the extent of having right hand dislocation..it's not as if she can beat me if I decided to fight back, I don't want to raise my hand on a woman, it's a curse and I don't want to do that, this is getting out of hand and I am not living comfortable at home again, we sleep on different bed, she doesn't allow me touch her again.
She is even planning to get a room by ending of this month when she get her salary..
I told my sister about her behavior, the advice she gave me is that I should beat the hell out of her whenever she raises her hand to beat me.
I have pleaded to my wife to let us continue the way we have been doing before but she wouldn't listen to me.

I am really confused and I don't know what to do right now..
I need your advice my great people of Nairaland.

Nnaa, You are a big fool

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by udomonday: 1:12pm On Jan 13, 2022
officialmario:
Good morning Nairalanders
I want to use this medium to seek for your advice..

Me and my wife has been together since 2014, although we have not done marriage as we only did introduction, but we planned having our marriage this year, we had two kids, but I think right now I'm not comfortable living with my wife.
I am not enjoying this relationship anymore, she keeps beating me whenever there is quarrel between us, she is fond of slapping me and giving me punches , at times she make use of wire and and broom to scatter my head.

The one that happened on Monday is really giving me much concern, she checked my phone and saw a friend I was chatting with and instead of her to ask me about the lady, the next thing she did was to slap me and she started beating me to the extent of having right hand dislocation..it's not as if she can beat me if I decided to fight back, I don't want to raise my hand on a woman, it's a curse and I don't want to do that, this is getting out of hand and I am not living comfortable at home again, we sleep on different bed, she doesn't allow me touch her again.
She is even planning to get a room by ending of this month when she get her salary..
I told my sister about her behavior, the advice she gave me is that I should beat the hell out of her whenever she raises her hand to beat me.
I have pleaded to my wife to let us continue the way we have been doing before but she wouldn't listen to me.

I am really confused and I don't know what to do right now..
I need your advice my great people of Nairaland.
are you handicapped?

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by Foodqueen(f): 1:48pm On Jan 13, 2022
No be the beating de pain u, na d fact say she wan go rent house.

No worry, we go soon read your story for front page.

Ode oshi!!!!

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by GboyegaD(m): 1:56pm On Jan 13, 2022
So whenever she beats you, do you cry "mummy, calm down, mi o ni se be mo, I'm very sorry" or you cry "egba mu ara 'dugbo i.e. please come to my rescue neighbors."

I'm asking because for you to tolerate this nonsense for 8years is unimaginable. To make matters worse, your concern isn't your health, your safety, or the abuse you expose to children to but the fact that she wants to go rent a room.

Oga, you need reset for Military Police guardroom.

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by Kobojunkie: 3:04pm On Jan 13, 2022
officialmario:
She is even planning to get a room by ending of this month when she get her salary..
I told my sister about her behavior, the advice she gave me is that I should beat the hell out of her whenever she raises her hand to beat me.
I have pleaded to my wife to let us continue the way we have been doing before but she wouldn't listen to me.
I am really confused and I don't know what to do right now..
I need your advice my great people of Nairaland
It may not be a bad idea for you two to separate for a while to figure your individual selves out. undecided

If you truly want to continue with her, I suggest you both enroll the aide of a professional marriage counselor cause that woman obviously has some serious anger issues that she needs to deal with please. undecided

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by freshkpomo(m): 3:11pm On Jan 13, 2022
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Romanoff:
After 8 years of housing a woman without paying shishi on her head, you done give her belle two times, she dey perform wifely duties to you even though you no be her husband and you want s to give you what advice?

The woman deserves to remain a baby mama, how much them go add join introduction money take do marriage? You need to see sensible (Oyibo) People marriage, just few people and the priest.. sometimes them just Waka go court, that's all.. But you see useless people like you, you will want pre-wedding photo 1, pre-wedding photo 2, Bachelor's Eve, introduction 1 and 2, traditional marriage (this ought to be the only one because it's where you pay the necessary stuffs), white wedding, reception, Honey moon in Dubai, baby shower...... The list is on, all for yourselves....


I once had a friend who was once a millionaire living with one lady like that, they have been together for over 10 years, through the years she was busy eating money and getting pregnant like a rabbit without any future plan.. My guy gave this woman all his life, even till date that he is now currently broke.. But guess what? This woman is now taunting this guy man that he has not paid money on her head, there was a day she returned with all her children to her family house, I had to accompany my friend to go bring her back home after he begged me.... We drove to their home town... The father dey para say him kidnap him pikin for house without paying, my friend was unable to speak and the woman was just smiling, I vex tell the man say " All the years when this guy get millions and all the bag of rice him send come give una nor reach do marriage"? You women are just evil walai....... As them hear my statement, them come dey beg my friend make him come carry him wife go back house but make plans to do the needful... The girl old-mama youngy begin like me self ( this na story for another day grin )

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jan 13, 2022
Is this a joke or what? angry angry
What manner of Simpson is this abeg?
OP you need a mental check up asap, I don't think you're okay at all angry

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by inoki247: 3:24pm On Jan 13, 2022
he too early to give you the Award of the most SIMPle man for 2022....


Buh as e b lik diz na u go get d Award

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by FalseProphet1(m): 3:24pm On Jan 13, 2022
I see the beating increasing, I see her buying lots of horse whips, and canes to use on you.

I see her adding punishment to it, I see you kneeling down for hours, I see her locking you outside the home.

I see you crying and singing akwa Jesus kwara na elu obe

This I have seen.

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by IprintMONEY: 3:24pm On Jan 13, 2022
You are a mumu man

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by Sonoyom(m): 3:24pm On Jan 13, 2022
She beats you but you are begging her.




Finished man.

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by Mophor: 3:24pm On Jan 13, 2022
Issokay!!!
Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by Faber(m): 3:24pm On Jan 13, 2022
grin

Welcome to Redpill

Thunder fire you. Woman dey beat you for your own house. Once again Thunder fire you dia

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Re: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by NotBeenPaid: 3:24pm On Jan 13, 2022

I usually don't get involved in relationship matters. The decision is left for you alone to make. Getting into a fisticuff with her isn't the right way either because your kids are watching.

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