Romanoff:
After 8 years of housing a woman without paying shishi on her head, you done give her belle two times, she dey perform wifely duties to you even though you no be her husband and you want us to give you what advice?

Make she continue to dey flog you.

officialmario:
Good morning Nairalanders

I want to use this medium to seek for your advice..

Me and my wife has been together since 2014, although we have not done marriage as we only did introduction, but we planned having our marriage this year, we had two kids, but I think right now I'm not comfortable living with my wife.

I am not enjoying this relationship anymore, she keeps beating me whenever there is quarrel between us, she is fond of slapping me and giving me punches, at times she makes use of wire and and broom to scatter my head.

The one that happened on Monday is really giving me much concern, she checked my phone and saw a friend I was chatting with and instead of her to ask me about the lady, the next thing she did was to slap me and she started beating me to the extent of having right hand dislocation.. It's not as if she can beat me if I decided to fight back, I don't want to raise my hand on a woman, it's a curse and I don't want to do that, this is getting out of hand and I am not living comfortable at home again, we sleep on different bed, she doesn't allow me touch her again.

She is even planning to get a room by ending of this month when she gets her salary..
I told my sister about her behavior, the advice she gave me is that I should beat the hell out of her whenever she raises her hand to beat me.

I have pleaded with my wife to let us continue the way we have been doing before but she wouldn't listen to me.

I am really confused and I don't know what to do right now..

I need your advice my great people of Nairaland.

Kingcalls:
U are a simp and u hv accepted the manipulation that women are harmless... she de beat u , u de look am...I believe u belong to the " a man should never hit a woman no matter what " crew...

Na ur dead body them go carry soon... flog am better hot slap and she go mellow ....they call it " SUBMISSIVE SLAP" ...

Romanoff:
After 8 years of housing a woman without paying shishi on her head, you done give her belle two times, she dey perform wifely duties to you even though you no be her husband and you want us to give you what advice?

Make she continue to dey flog you.

Pootle:
u no read wer e say traditional marriage...na wa fr na o

SEXONLY:
You should stop doing what will make her flogging you Respect your madam and be a good boy.

Brarrie:
You be mumu so women are goat they buy to keep abi ,s it okay if he actually pay her bride price and beat the hell outta her

Romanoff:
After 8 years of housing a woman without paying shishi on her head, you done give her belle two times, she dey perform wifely duties to you even though you no be her husband and you want us to give you what advice?

Make she continue to dey flog you.

flokii:


You'd shocked to know what is going on in some marriages.. forget all the public display of affection and social media pose.
It's like men are becoming weak these days. Hope women won't be the ones marrying men in the near future with the way things are going.

heniford2:
even if she's that military lady i once dated one navy lady then in Nigeria she dare not raise her voice at me talk more beating me once she tried calling his co to beat me up because i cheated on her i sat those guys down after much talk we end up drinking beer never can a women lay her hands on me in DA name of Relationship or marriage without having cup eye from me

usah4:
A Priest once said so long you're not married in the Church any man or woman you're housing is just your Girlfriend and Sex Partner so if you guys don't have kids then I see no reason(s) why you're still keeping her in your house to kill you.
Take her to her Parents house to stay for a while after which when she misses you she'll come back to her normal senses.

Everybody for Nairaland don turn Therapist oh na only for here you go receive therapy without paying.

KillIgbohoN0W:


Wow. So the deity you worship did not also make it a curse for women to beat men.


Anyway, your wife is into BDSM and your sex bores her to death. Give me her number so I can change her for you.

Cheers.

officialmario:
Good morning Nairalanders

I want to use this medium to seek for your advice..

Me and my wife has been together since 2014, although we have not done marriage as we only did introduction, but we planned having our marriage this year, we had two kids, but I think right now I'm not comfortable living with my wife.

I am not enjoying this relationship anymore, she keeps beating me whenever there is quarrel between us, she is fond of slapping me and giving me punches, at times she makes use of wire and and broom to scatter my head.

The one that happened on Monday is really giving me much concern, she checked my phone and saw a friend I was chatting with and instead of her to ask me about the lady, the next thing she did was to slap me and she started beating me to the extent of having right hand dislocation.. It's not as if she can beat me if I decided to fight back, I don't want to raise my hand on a woman, it's a curse and I don't want to do that, this is getting out of hand and I am not living comfortable at home again, we sleep on different bed, she doesn't allow me touch her again.

She is even planning to get a room by ending of this month when she gets her salary..
I told my sister about her behavior, the advice she gave me is that I should beat the hell out of her whenever she raises her hand to beat me.

I have pleaded with my wife to let us continue the way we have been doing before but she wouldn't listen to me.

I am really confused and I don't know what to do right now..

I need your advice my great people of Nairaland.