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Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by ConsciousMan01: 11:46am On Jan 13, 2022 |
Lee99: One of the reasons why I don't blame men looking for virgins!! Lost count of number of sex with someone you met in less than 3months?? the word relationship really has no value in this part of the world! Well I only see an idiot who will soon become a babyfather to a retired olosho. |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Akakanfirstclass(m): 11:54am On Jan 13, 2022 |
Lee99: Oga, you can't change a woman.. If she is stubborn with I don't care Attitudes then I promise you it will only get worse... An elder once said "the red flags we ignore in the early stage of a relationship are the very same reasons we quit later, after so much unnecessary tolerance.." Never wish to change a person.. Instead, date or marry a person that you wouldnt need to change anything in them.. The onlybthing u have to do tonur woman is package her with goodies.. Let her attitude be pure from the foundation 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by ashawopikin(m): 12:06pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Who've nutted in her more times you can count, yet u don't want her to get pregnant, it's like saying you want to enter rain without umbrella and u don't want to get wet. Abeg dey wear condom o, apart from pregnancy, STI dey o because 4 months is too short |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Nobody: 12:09pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Please depart from your devilish act destroying people's daughter, if you don't want to have a family why sex. This is just a sign that you're playing with your life. This girl might harm someday, due to the feeling of her being used. 2 Likes |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by ashawopikin(m): 12:10pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
HarunaWest:na wa o just 3months, something is wrong |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Nobody: 12:10pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Please depart from your devilish act of destroying people's daughter, if you don't want to have a family why sex. This is just a sign that you're playing with your life. This girl might harm someday, due to the feeling of her being used. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Germi9: 12:31pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Does she have yansh? 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by darediamond(m): 12:37pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Lee99:Hmmm, I like the way you think. But why is fathering a baby not in your plan? Is it going to be only you that would be financially responsible for the baby? If yes, I support you not wanting to impregnate her. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by darediamond(m): 12:40pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Lee99:Her desperation could be secretly born out of fear of Infertility. If you know you know. |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Factoryfitted: 12:53pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Lee99: OP, you mentioned that she was born in July. That makes her Cancerian or Leo. Either way, she probably has strong Cancerian aspects somewhere in her makeup. The point in all of these, is that Cancerians have really strong maternal instincts, stronger in fact than the average, which means that the whole concept of mothering and being a mother matter very strongly to her. Which also means that she may not actually be trying to blackmail you; she is simply wired that way - to want to have a child. That said, be very careful how you interprete and apply all the advice you are getting online. The shoes you wear are yours and nobody else's so tread carefully. You sound young, probably still in your twenties and you haven't stated the levels of education of both yourself and your girl. That said, you describe her as someone who who has her head screwed on right. If she feels right, and she shows she is willing to learn and change, and most importantly [/b]you both go well together[b] and you are both comfortable with each other take the relationship for a spin and see how things go. Give it your all, and try to verify she is also giving it her all. You will want to test how compatible you are in areas, but, one thing I can tell you for sure is, when a cancerian woman loves you, you will stay loved. If however you feel it isn't going right, don't string her along - let her go. |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Lee99: 1:09pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
I've gone through comments page by page and I cannot answer all my mentions but I will put it all out here. 1. She is willing to be financially responsible for the child whether I choose to be or not 2. She is financially stable 3. I am also financially stable, I have a Job, I have an apartment I rent and I have a car 4. I can take care of a child no doubt what I am saying is I prefer to not have one at the time because I'm working on myself 5. I guess with time she will change for the better because I see some of her acts as immature 6. She told me today that she's too in love with me but is willing to accept if I don't want to be there in the event that she is pregnant 7. God has nothing to do with this for those masturbating about fornication and the likes |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Kobojunkie: 1:25pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Uncle96:See delusion! |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Kobojunkie: 1:26pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
elganzar:Being open to change is one thing, but trying to change another to suit your personal taste is something altogether foolish! |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Kobojunkie: 1:28pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
SmartPolician:Again, being open to change is one thing but trying to change someone else you suit your taste and desire is an entirely different and foolish endeavor. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Heterodox(m): 1:45pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Sorry but you're refusing to make sense. Two people together changes each other. |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by usah4(m): 1:45pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Be careful make she no carry person belle come give you oh Just make her understand why you don't want a child for now and if she's not working to assist you then Bruh just sack her in a respectful way and move on. Leave the shaping to another. |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by emmyN(m): 1:45pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Lee99: Oga you be bricklayer? Which one is work-in-progress? Don't come and do 'hide my identity' later o |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Kobojunkie: 1:50pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Heterodox:Again, being open to change is one thing but trying to change another person to suit your taste and desire is an entirely different and foolish endeavor 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by LordReed(m): 1:57pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Lee99: You don't want a baby but you are busy nutting inside her, are you a special type of clown? |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by elganzar(m): 2:01pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: It's the lady's call__it's up to her to decide if what they share is worth the compromise or not Let me add; as fu!ked up as it may sound_ it's what we all do, for the one's we love... |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Testimony1988(m): 2:12pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Both of you are committing sin, if she wants to be pregnant, let it be legal, marry her. |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Kobojunkie: 2:12pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
elganzar:That's instead the delusion that many of you confuse with love. Same as thinking of believing love will cause others to change on your behalf! You can only change yourself, you cannot change anyone else! |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by khalids: 2:44pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Ticking time bomb.......... |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by iInjureHerYansh: 2:55pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Op don't listen to this trash It's either your way or nothing. They do worse when the tables reverse |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by frozen70(f): 2:56pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Lee99: You never see anything Once she has made up her mind, she will definitely trick you to get pregnant No be woman, they don't miss their targets |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by iInjureHerYansh: 2:57pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Lee99:Nice potential baby mama you got there. Send her number |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Larrykaysail(m): 2:59pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Lee99:4months is too early to study and understand her , Girls can pretend use condom to catch ur cruise |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Larrykaysail(m): 3:00pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Lee99:maybe your income is good and ur environment is nice , ladies will always want to die there , |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Heterodox(m): 3:39pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Is the mannerism. If it's cohesive it's bad. |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Kobojunkie: 3:55pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Heterodox:Mannerisms? As far as relationships are concerned, the one who is meant to compromise is the one who notices a a fault with the other, not the one with the fault. If you notice a fault in your partner and are unwilling to change yourself to accommodate that fault aka compromise your own standards, you should probably consider exiting the relationship to find someone you are better able to tolerate. Attempting to change others to suit your taste is a very silly way to go at a relationship. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Wants To Get Pregnant, I Don't Want A Baby Right Now by Heterodox(m): 4:03pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Read what you wrote again Once you're done, if you make sense, then have a nice day. |
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