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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by lecturer50(m): 5:16pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Dizzyyish: Ok. |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 1:31am On Jan 20, 2022 |
Cc machote heartofcity12 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by dontai(m): 7:31am On Jan 20, 2022 |
Kellzzyy:I'm also bother bro, who on earth thinks giving sweet to a child, is the remedy for bad behaviours. |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by machote: 7:42am On Jan 20, 2022 |
Dizzyyish:You're really making a point on this thread. More power to you man. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by heartofcity12: 8:46am On Jan 20, 2022 |
machote: Thank you brother 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 9:58am On Jan 20, 2022 |
PART XI: At some point in time, man's greatest wish is to have peace of mind. Children may understand the concept of peace of mind but they don't truly know its importance. A child is restless, often discontent and most times, antithetical to peace of mind. Whereas this 'antithesis' of child is simply due to their naivety; woman---a supposed adult---has no good reason nor excuse to prevent the peace of mind of her partners. Many see marriage as a union between equals, but in reality, marriage---to man---is the adoption of an adult child. Studies has shown that if you cease giving a child attention the child will begin to lash out, perhaps if attention is continously withheld during the child's development the child will begin to adapt maladaptive/toxic behaviors. A child will also need validation from its parents to build its confidence and self esteem. Attention and validation is very important to a child. Just like a child needs proper attention to develop well, woman needs attention (good or bad) to optimally function and validation to feel good about herself. But unlike child, woman's insecurities are kept intact by her own antics, creating problems for her (and her future partners). When woman's source(s) of attention is deficit, she will go to long lengths, questionable lengths, to get attention. She might surround herself with males friends so she can be the center of attention (in a pack of female friends this is impossible as the friends are also fighting for attention), she will lead oblivious men on (for attention and often money) with no intention of dating them---"orbiters they are called. She will utilise long (and brightly coloured) hair attachments, sometimes long enough to reach her behind. She will don tight and/or revealing clothes (the amount of skin she reveals is inversely proportional to the amount of shame she has). She might even act controversial or start drama. All this and more she will do for attention and validation. For attention is her oxygen. Validation is her lifeblood. Some men would even occasionally deprive their women of attention to keep them in check, though this depends on whether she has "reliable" sources of attention like social media or orbiters. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 10:19am On Jan 20, 2022 |
Cc sultaan Rickmann |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 12:19pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Women, like children, don't have a strong sense of boundaries, or in other words, they don't truly respect the boundaries of others but want others to respect their boundaries. This is one of the main reasons why 'preselection' is a female phenomenon. This is one of the main reasons why women don't really like each other. Images below courtesy of heartofcity12 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by heartofcity12: 12:23pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Dizzyyish: So true |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by olabrad: 12:37pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Datboredberry: Lolz. Your coolness ends now. Black men are now actively contributing to the world, while blackwomen like you only sit back hoping to hawk your pussy for livelihood. 5 Likes |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 3:19pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Intermission |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Davidonkonsults: 4:19pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Datboredberry:True. The white man is more advanced than the black man. And the African man is more advanced than the African woman. |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 6:35pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
To reiterate PART VIII: To elucidate the previous points on sex, Money and sex are not of equal value. Man gives woman money and woman grants access to man. Man works for money but woman does not work for sex; she could step outside and ask a random man to have sex with her and he probably wouldn't think twice. Sex is mutually pleasurable despite women having the notion (rationalisation) that they are doing men a favor, whereas money given to woman is not pleasurable for man; she's the one spending it hence it's only pleasurable for her. If she truly thinks sex is not mutually pleasurable and still has sex (with a man she doesn't like) then she is simply a sex worker. "What value can one give when their worth is in the cavity between their legs? All women have said cavity but the ones with true value are but few. Very few." Below are screenshots of a female nairalander emphasising this point: 3 Likes
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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 9:54pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
A guest appearance from Ofadaman: "Women remain the ultimate manipulator, and as a man it doesn't really matter if you see through the manipulation or not, for sake of peace you'd need to pick which of the manipulation you'd turn a blind eye to and fall into. 90% of men who proposed to their girls felt they did it on their own volution, but deep down they know the women planted all the ideas , the time, place ,how they want it etc. The power of being a woman is not being in leadership but subtle act of making the man feel he's in control while they control his decisions, he takes the risk of action, they take the result of it, this is why a woman will do nothing and still claim that he made a man who he's become, now before you think it's just brag, she's actually right. Sex, weakness, guilt ,seduction are few of the tools in their arsenal." - Ofadaman 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 11:39pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
"Here's how you follow a woman's dating advice, you listen carefully to everything she has to say, then you do the exact opposite of what she just said." "The problem with women's dating advice, and with women in general is that they assume way more than men. In other words you always get relative truth from them, not the absolute truth. When they say they want a confident guy they are actually saying they want a confident guy that is good looking, experienced and that his SMV at least matches her SMV. Attractive women don't want average broke men who are trying to sell them that they are confident. But they will never say that, because women are very interested in friend-zoning men that they can use in the future, and dating coaches do not want to loose their clients.. It is like you always need parenthesis whenever women finish their sentence to have the full translation." 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 7:24pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Chameleon tactics. These are employed by women during dating/courting phase to trick their partners into thinking they are wife material. Because of the societal notion of women having a childlike innocence combined with woman's need for dissimulation this tactic becomes very effective against men. "One sincere and honest move will cover over dozens of dishonest ones. Open- hearted gestures of honesty and generosity bring down the guard of even the most suspicious people. Once your selective honesty opens a hole in their armor, you can deceive and manipulate them at will. A timely gift—a Trojan horse—will serve the same purpose." — Robert Greene When they've gotten what they wanted (marriage/children) they now have leverage whereas the man has all the leverage before marriage. Their true character/behavior is often overlooked due to 'sex, looks or love' and later it appears like they've suddenly "changed". One must have come across accounts of women acting very different after marriage. With marriage and children, they've gotten comfort and leverage to finally show their true colours with little to no repercussions. After all, what are you gonna do? Breakup? You invested huge amounts of time and money into her, into your family... and this is where the sunk cost fallacy comes into play. Women may be children but what they lack in physical strength and rationality---compared to man---they make up for it with cunning and manipulation. That's why a keen eye and patience is necessary when vetting a woman because even if they're pretending there'll still be glimpses of their real character every now and then. 6 Likes |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Arsenate(m): 8:07pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Dizzyyish:They masks they wear fall off once in while during the dating periods but men are too drunk in 2 Likes |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 8:50pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Arsenate:Women (manipulative) + Men (naive/oblivious) = a good combo for the former; a bad combo for the latter. |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 9:44pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 1:46pm On Jan 29, 2022 |
Nature uses cuteness (in babies and females) as a protective mechanism so they will be tolerated instead of receiving retribution for the difficulty they come with. 4 Likes |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 9:33pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
"Trust no woman when she weeps, for it is in her nature to weep when she wants her will" - Socrates 5 Likes |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 11:49am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Only women are allowed to criticise women. When a man does it he's perceived as a bully." - Dr. Jordan Peterson 4 Likes |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 3:47pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Cc Zionzoom sonnobax15 |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by rickleye: 4:15pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Dizzyyish: And when women criticize men, how are they perceived ? Btw - I don't see that quote ascribed to the Canadian anywhere ? |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 3:14pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
To supplement this earlier quote from Ofadaman: The power of being a woman is not being in leadership but subtle act of making the man feel he's in control while they control his decisions, he takes the risk of action, they take the result of it, this is why a woman will do nothing and still claim that he made a man who he's become, now before you think it's just brag, she's actually right. Sex, weakness, guilt ,seduction are few of the tools in their arsenal." Here's a quote from Esther Vilar's The Manipulated Man (1974): "It's better to let them think they are king of the castle," a female reader of Psychology Today wrote, "lean and depend on them, and continue to control and manipulate them as we always have. It's no secret that women have perfected the art of "stroking" or "massaging" a man's ego so he'll do what she wants. Interestingly, this 'art' is so ingrained in woman that even if a man does her a favor out of the goodness of his heart she'll still think he did it because of her beauty, cunning or feminity (which also boosts her ego). Because of this, some men opt to not help women with favors to avoid manipulation. "The moment you do favors for them, you unintentionally create room for their evil manipulations." - Nonexisting 4 Likes |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by CAPSLOCKED: 4:33pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Dizzyyish: IF SYMPTOMS PERSIST ABEG VISIT DOCTOR CAPS FUNNY SHĮT. |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by CAPSLOCKED: 4:38pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Dizzyyish: SER, UNDERCOVER MISOGYNIST? 1 Like
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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by CAPSLOCKED: 4:56pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
clownedberry: NOW I KNOW WHY MY SENIORMEN SAYS TO NOT ARGUE WITH YOU PEOPLE ON THIS FORUM. IMAGINE ARGUING WITH PRIDE AND ARROGANCE HOW EGYPT AND AFRICA ARE IN TWO DIFFERENT PLACES. WAHALA DEY O 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by bluefilm: 6:50pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Dizzyyish: I am even shocked by the number of men who jumped in to beat the guy. SIMPS are everywhere. 2 Likes |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by bluefilm: 6:55pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Dizzyyish: Great words of wisdom. RESPECT. |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 8:39pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
bluefilm: Simps are the real enemies. They enable and reinforce the bad behavior and mentalities of children (women) and then attack men who try to discipline said children. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by bluefilm: 11:13pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Dizzyyish: You are so right. The woman didn't even bother to do any thing. She just stepped away and allow her SIMPS to take over the job of manhandling the man for daring to return the slap to their Queen. It's such a sad scene to watch, for me. |
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