Hakeem3:


I hate myself

Really?

FERNANDEZISBACK:

If I humiliate your head now you will start crying on the mods..did you not read where she said matured minds..?

Looks like you ain't ok huh? respect yourself and stop concluding in a brainless manner..

Is her elder sisters Husband the only man on Earth.
There are something one should not venture into when it comes to blood relations.
No matter how she tries to explain it,she won't be forgive by her sister, friends and relatives.
There are several men outside looking for who to marry.
Your brother in- law is a No No for you,don't bring unnecessary battle into your life.

Please for the fact that they separated just 2 months ago. It's too early or immature for the man to make advances towards you.

It's okay if it's after one year or so but two months even without formal divorce is a big NO. The man has a motive.

At 30 and you reason like this... anyway age is just a number that's why you asked for mature minds. I won't advice you to marry your best friend's husband not to talk of your blood sister's husband. Do you want your sister to hate you for the rest of her life? Have you confirmed why she separated from that man? And you couldn't wait for proper divorce you are already thinking of accepting his proposal. How am I sure you were not involved in the separation because you are liking him and calling him a good man. Leave somebody's husband and look for your own. The man must be shameless for leaving your sister and proposing to you...two siblings from the same family. I rest my case.

You are obviously the reason reason for their separation. How long have you been sleeping with your sisters husband? Shameless girl

So there's no other man in this life abi.

Darevofpeace:


Is her elder sisters Husband the only man on Earth.
There are something one should not venture into when it comes to blood relations.
No matter how she tries to explain it,she won't be forgive by her sister, friends and relatives.
There are several men outside looking for who to marry.
Your brother in- law is a No No for you,don't bring unnecessary battle into your life.

Only an advice she seeked..

infogenius:


The little boy made a relationship work and making his marriage better.
Which one big girl u don make work?

Iknow very well that all the trash u spill here has not helped u to get a steady relationship.

Work on a relationship, get married then possibly ur sense will make sense but until then keep gallivanting here and talking like a kid that can't reason.

You've been schooling the guy,your replies are too notch and you put the guy where he rightly belong.Respect bro

SarutobiEky:
bros na guy be that na.

The most foolish of guys

Polynek:
Actually u are correct bro, maybe she needs pples advice b4 she ll decide her next step.
Remember age is not on her side again
So don't blame her entirely

Age? And she still reasons like a kid? How will she be able to take care of her kids or probably keep her home if at 30 she still reasons this way...I pity her so men don finish for market abi? And moreover what was she doing when she was at her 20s maybe she was doing shakara thinking it will be rosy for ever .. stupid girl

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Ok?

You're becoming a nuisance.

You need to check-in into Yaba-Left for a thorough mental evaluation.

YorubaKing:


I have a problem with my brain...

Really?

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Exactly and I gave each one a response so smash your head baby boy..

So you are not even ashamed of yourself till now. You see your life? That your brain needs to be reset so that you can reason like human being.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Only an advice she seeked..

**Sought**

Again, you're NOT as normal as you'd love to think you are. You need help!

You dinnor haf boyfriend or manfriend before your sister's husband started to toast you I'm not much for 'what will people say?', but I think this time you have to really consider what people would say. PLUS I do not think he is the man for you. I do not know the circumstances of their divorce, but I think he is a faithless person...or he has been sent to all the females in your family

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

I agreed that, this is really serious as you claimed but let's face the reality in the order of priority .
1. Do you like him? and ready to face the mockery that it may attract?
2. You need to tell your sister first and listen to what he has to to say as to why she couldn't stay, and if she will want you to go ahead, you can record the conversation if the number question above is Yes.
3. Your parents need to be at least 50% in agreement with you, you don't need total 100% yes from them, but don't totally avoid their consent to it.
4. Ask Him to go and tell your parent and his former wife about what he want himself.

But, I must confess, your type is scares. And I love you already for your kind of heart. Shallom.

infogenius:


U're 30 and surprisingly with lack of sense. Accept his proposal at ur own risk. It's obvious u're the most likely reason y his marriage to ur sister failed.
Better look for ur own husband and leave ur sister's husband alone.

But, she asked for an advice and not insults. Nigerians and " l - too - know" kind of mentality sha...

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Honestly, it's going to be a calamity for the entire families
Just respect yourself, your sister may ride you off

He's supposed to be like a brother to you, u shouldn't marry him. Hope you've not started sleeping with him though.

YorubaKing:


**Sought**

Again, you're NOT as normal as you'd love to think you are. You need help!

Thanks for the correction..are you gonna help me?

mummymum:

So you are not even ashamed of yourself till now. You see your life? That your brain needs to be reset so that you can reason like human being.

Do I?or you do?

The op sef looks like a LovePeddler tho
Imagine the man bleeping two sisters already
The man saw this kind of clothes you wear and still wants to marry you nawa o
E be like say you dey for the streets

The man definitely knows what he wants

Hmm....without asking for advice as a lady u should know its wrong,no matter wat happened between your sister and the husband should not make him come to you the blood sister,some men don't reason at all ,your dignity matters alot,won't you even feel irritated that your sister husband is having sex with you,no now,if u accept such that's a betrayal to your sister and I read someone said talk to your sister about it ....is it to accept him or wat?..noooo.men are out there na,you don't even know maybe he is having feeling with you that y he want to end the marriage,those gift or money is just to entice you,he may even sex you and dump you seeing you as useless lady. Ask your sis,wat exactly is going on?

Orichirichi

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

simply avoid scandal.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Thanks for the correction..are you gonna help me?

I'm not a Psychiatrist. Yaba-Left is readily available to help your kind. Go check-in asap!

DO YOU HAVE ANOTHER SISTER? THE SAME THING WILL HAPPEN TO YOU.

THE MAN IS PLAYING DEVILISH PRANKS WITH YOUR FAMILY.

STAY AWAY FROM HIM COMPLETELY.

LINTUNE:
but..but..but so many of your gender here are encouraging the op to go ahead.

And the guys that are encouraging it as well are from Mars? .

This will really be a cruel thing to do.Are you from from same parents or she is your step sister?Even a step sister can go this far.Have you been hating on your sister?How do you think your parents, siblings, relatives,friends and your future kids will feel about it.The society will label you as the most cruel sister on earth.Even if they are legally separated, you shouldn't think of dating him talk more of marrying him.A better way to make you understand it is just for you to put yourself in your sister's shoes haba.Does your sister have kids for him?If so you their supposed aunty will be their step mum,Aruuuu.

YorubaKing:


Yeah I can..let me send you a PM now

No issues..

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

What is wrong with you?

Have men finished in this world that you should be considering your sister's husband?

If your sister was late, it would have been ok, but she's alive for crying out loud!
Even if your sister is cause of their marital issue, it doesn't mean you should jump at the opportunity to take her place.


You should warn your sister's husband to stop visiting you...'cos I'm sure you're the reason he doesn't want to reconcile with his wife.

I can't even believe you're considering it

No matter how good he is, please be wise.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Exactly and I gave each one a response so smash your head baby boy..

Like i knew you would include 'babyboy' in your reply...your are the real babe mhen.