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Richy4:
I don't understand honestly.... because it was as if I read some contradiction....Maybe u should clear it for me....

<<<You said that you were a shy person... then I read something like this
<<<.....No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.....

How does that work for a shy person? because that statement for me is scary ...

That statement means that u can get any woman...bed them...Remember u are shy, u can't approach a woman, that was why u were going for prostitutes.....So what's that statement all about? because that statement is synonymous with someone that got rape mindsets and tendencies....

RPG2020:
Was their payment method there

Do swipe work there?

Mariangeles:
After being with so many sex workers, should you be trusted as a boyfriend/husband?
Are you any better than every one of those sex workers you've been with?

enemachris:
You are a clown bro . If u can stop masturbating, you can equally stop this habit too. It's a personal decision.

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

Carchoice:
Having sex with prostitutes makes you one with them. It’s deeper than you think. A prostitute is always having sex with numerous men, and for that, you’ll do same with numerous prostitutes unending. The crave is now on the both sides. To break it down for you, whatever dwells inside a prostitute is now dwelling in you and it gets so strong and wild because you been doing with different prostitutes.


Solution? If you are a Christian, start fasting. Start with 7 days, increase it to 14 days. 6am to 2pm. Do this every month.

Sexual urge is an appetite, it needs sex and also needs food to grow out of control. When you fast, you starve it and it diminishes with time.

When fasting avoid viewing seductive photos, porn, masturbation, don’t entertain sexually active women because the moment you start this journey, “women of that kind” will start chasing you with sex and you relapse. Rid your phone and WhatsApp of all the prostitutes you patronized. Don’t block but delete them. Occupy your mind with God and he’ll clean it from all sexual immoralities.

Try all these and give God the glory. I got saved.

RevolverOcelot:
Step 1: HIV/STI test

Step 2: Buy condoms put for wallet

Step 3: Resume masturbating

Step 4: Avoid ashawo joints

Step 5: Keep many male friends that don't do hoes.

Step 6: ?

Step 7: Profit

Myer:
Good thing you're a scientist, so I can see from your post that your analysis is on point.

You've stated the most crucial point, you find it hard to socialise with men and women. So you resorted to what you could easily do via mastirnation without any need for others and patronising prostitutes which you can do as long as you have the money.

What I will prefer might seem a bit far fetched but I always believe in giving God a chance.
I'm not a religious person but I know that things happen in churches and mosques that have made them stand the test of time and remain relevant and thriving for centuries and even millennia.

Whichever one you feel obliged to try, either church or mosque, embark on a spiritual journey to find God.

And I can assure you that somewhere along the line,you will find the solution to your problem.

But please do not stope your habit immediately... ease yourself into it and stop progressively.
Because if you stop abruptly, chances are you will be wound up and eventually you might relapse and become even worse than you are presently.

So take your time to reduce it gradually until you're able to stop it.

Once you find where you want to commit yourself to,either church or mosque. I won't advice any other for now in Nigeria cos these are the dominant religions, please make sure you submit yourself to whatever they require of you.

If they ask you to join a foundation class, pls do.
If the mosque has their demands, pls oblige (as long as they dont ask you to bomb anyone).lol no offense to my Muslim friends.

GOSPELTRUTH31:
@Op the culprit is alcohol...
Minimize your alcohol intake..
Learn how to socialize with friends
If you have a sister learn from there..y advice is to you is to confess to Jesus in your private time and go for Culture test before you think of Going into any serious relationship that will lead to marriage...
If you want to socialize easily
Go and be a member of salvation ministry
Join the choir and learn how to play keyboard
And thank me later
But don't forget to go for medical test..
Wish you the best of luck

Simran94:
Public toilets that his life and that of other men who patronize them depends on to survive.

LeyeWrites:
Bro, enjoy your tribulation.


When you're done learning you'll quit.

CUMIN:
Tired2022
You problem comes from toxic masculinity. There's a part of your brain that demean women most especially normal day to day lady as not up to your standard. That part of your brain every lady you meet or see who doesn't conform with your (standard you set in your brain) as not-too-good for you.

You need to start re-programming your brain to see normal street lady as the real thing and the prostitute as the bad ones.

But to break the cycle. You need a girlfriend. To get one I would advice to start initiating conversation with ladies in everywhere you go. Bus, road, reception anywhere. And always do follow up.

You can also try fasting to spiritual distance yourself from that act.

unclejb2:
Rubbish post. No prostitute will allow you to bleep her without protection not to talk about bleeping 35 prostitutes without protection.


Pls tell this your useless story to dullards like Buhari

JohnCyrilEfe1:
After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax.

Then toward the conclusion you said u haven't masturbated for 5 years now......which u earlier said u mastubated last night after some vigorous mouth action

Me m only here to detect mistake nt to judge your action or ur addict.......... hahahaha

Fatbam003:
The devil has seen a way to bind . Mine was gambling it was so bitter that I gambled almost a million naira within 4 months,apart from that I gambled away all the money I came back with from Dubai, I cried and wept but there were irrelevant when demonic spirit are involved they don't respect your resolution, crying and weeping but there was a gradual change when I started practicing Priesthood and now I am totally free, whenever I remember the loss the gear myself up that am free and the Lord will replenish me, I lost vital relationships and investment . Bro pray for mercy and light then practice priesthood you will be free and even . remember the devil knows your bright future that is why arrows like this are being shot. His agenda is to steal, kill and destroy. Priesthood is the solution bro .

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

SeriouslySense:
Why are you suicidal and desperate, it's life, just breathe in and out, and learn/. Trust in the process.

unclejb2:
Rubbish post. No prostitute will allow you to bleep her without protection not to talk about bleeping 35 prostitutes without protection.


Pls tell this your useless story to dullards like Buhari

Mariangeles:
Those who lie a lot find it hard to believe the simplest of stories.

SeriouslySense:
, i did not even read it, sounds unrealistic, cliché and overly dramatic. I have bicycle equations to solve this morning, will not full my head, with empty writings.