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Animegirl:
For me you shouldn't see it as anything. But if you can't take it just jokingly go and carry your babe maybe try it once or twice, if she doesn't get the memo, just let her be.

Just be yourself, and don't let a girl change who you're because you don't talk much.

Just tell him the truth.
He will loose his Girlfriend to that guy.
Women love to laugh.
How I got girls those days is to make them laugh.
Get money pass me, I will collect your babe.

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Stop that nonsense before it's too late and we will see another thread on how your roommate took your girlfriend

Beebah2000:
Oga u no be introvert.
U no no wetin to discuss with your girlfriend when u dey with her.
Introverts dey make noise if them dey free with you.

Everything is not black and white, all introverts don't behave the same way...some are more quiet than the others.

Thank God say na leg I talk.no put words for my mouth

Raychee:
Ha. Head on legs ke

u dey stay outside para 4 common laugh? Naim be say u go dey outside commit suicide when them begin do hai hai hai, hu hu hu

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Ure not the gisting type and don’t wanna work on that and ontop of that u are insecure?? Well at the end of the day water go find him level.

What will be will be.

Why is the gal with u? I hope it’s not cos u give her money? I hope she sees more in u?

stunnert:
I remember that year I used funny jokes and humor to get my gf roomie. I used to gist with her and tell funny jokes that always get her laughing whenever I go over or they come over. One day we were both alone in their room and she saw my gbola, right there at that moment we both knew that sooner or later we were gonna fvck ourselves which we actually did two days later

How manage?

tell ur guy to quit chatting with ur girl because sooner than later u will lose out and that will affect ur relationship with ur guy, tell him too to leave ur babe...women like chilling with guys who make them happy easily with jokes and communication, soon she will realize its ur guy that really trip her not you....however ur immediate concern should be your relationship with Jesus not a girl who might tempt you into sexual sin.

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Since you don't want to be a man in your relationship, let the other guy teach you how to communicate a woman.

I DONT KNOW WHY YOU ARE SCARED OF SPEAKING OUT. IS THE GUY FEEDING YOU?

Totilopussylick:
There's a popular saying, as you makes your bed, so shall you lay on it.

Be there forming introvert, while your guy we eat your glory

Which kijd wahala be this. What glory again

KiNg0G:
that nigha is playing his game.


you got to up your game by using that same introvert method in a more mature way.

girls likes guys who are funny but gets tired of them easily.



but prefer men, who leaves them in mystery...(when she can't figure you out)



you on the right path son, don't change..... don't feel jealous... infact ignore that bish the more.

Take one bottle of Chicken beer for ma head. You are carried!!

U better do something with your introvert issue. Had it been you are a jovial type , your gf won't have any reasons to chat and giggle with your room mate. Don't forget that Ladies are moved by what they HEAR. You don't know the sweet , lovely and crazy things your room mate is telling your girl that make her to be laughing loud. And if this continues more than necessary, there is every possiblity that your room mate will be giving your gf BIG GBOLA and funny enough they still be chatting a loud.

Then don't come here and start wailing ooooooo9oooooo9

Op just mingle with them whenever they are discussing laughing and follow them

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

That guy will eventually fùck your girl friend, it's only a matter of time

get someone like you.....periotttt

FERNANDEZISBACK:
He is an introvert and I don't think he can change himself..he is the kinda person who rarely talks..
He rather send you a text than call or have a conversation with you..
He is the quiet kinda guy who women tend to think isn't loving and caring due to his silent nature..
He is just being himself..

I was once like him before but reading so many articles online mostly nairaland give me more vim and gist to throw at ladies if you don't know what to discuss just tell her can you imagine TINUBU IS 10 YEARS OLDER THAN HER DAUGHTER she will be like how from there topic start.

Babaken:
I was once like him before but reading so many articles online mostly nairaland give me more vim and gist to throw at ladies if you don't know what to discuss just tell her can you imagine TINUBU IS 10 YEARS OLDER THAN HER DAUGHTER she will be like how from there topic start.

I understand your point..
That's one way to spike a conversation..

Ah swear, if i was dt roommate, i will do the same thing. so u expect him to be quiet n morose with u when there's someone lively to gist with?..abi u wan use ur boredom kill am?

Bro I get you but ama be real with you too.
Yes, you're an introvert but you still got her to be your girlfriend and I'm sure you didn't use your mind to get her, you actually spoke. So get over yourself and start doing that again. Because at this point, honestly, she's not coming to see you again but your roomie. You don't just with her so don't get angry when another person is supplying the need you ignored.
No, that's just being selfish. Ask yourself would you be with you(boring and all) if you were in her shoes?
I'm not trivialising the fact that maybe you don't talk much, or lack what to say or not out going and the "normal" definition of fun, but you can improve on some areas for the sake of your relationship (if you're still interested sha).
Become a bit more interested im things she likes, gist more with her, be a bit open/vulnerable to her.

Don’t worry
Keep being you and watch him makes her laugh and moan likewise smh

Johnames:
I do really get jealous when both of them start gisting and laughing so hard, I will try and control it

I UNDERSTAND THE SITUATION VERY WELL, NEXT TIME WHEN THEY ARE GISTING, JUST CARRY YOUR PHONE AND BE BUSY WITH IT, NAIRALAND CAN BE A GOOD BLOG TO VISIT IN SUCH CASE, YOU WILL SEE MANY FUNNY POSTS AND COMMENTS THAT WILL MAKE YOU LAUGH OUT LOUD. YOUR GIRLFRIEND MAY EVEN BE CURIOUS TO KNOW WHAT IS SO INTERESTING TO YOU.

Marry your type. Issa silent something. Ladies love/knack who dey make Dem laugh.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Nothing there aiit just mere discussions..you need to stop taking things too far..

Look if you ain't comfortable tell the guy personally in a polite manner..but if you ask me I see nothing wrong in me having discussion with a random guy..it's normal na..
The same way you guys talk to ladies..

Everything is wrong, before you know it, Dem don shift person pant.

You dey carry fish play with cat?

If u trust your guy no problems

qtguru:
You be fvckboy sleeping with your roomie's babe

Him babe roomie na wetin he talk sir

Biggcake:
Everything is wrong, before you know it, Dem don shift person pant.

You dey carry fish play with cat?

Nope things don't happen that way...If he feels that way then he should speak to the guy as I said..

Evry soon Ur babe will get use to Ur frnd... Even if Ur frnd his not around. She will miss him...

You need to know how to control your emotion not only in relationship, in business and investment as well. If you don't control your emotion, your emotion will ruin you!

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Hassanmaye:
What is the bag money or pekus?

Money na.

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

I can see clearly that your government will be overthrow very soon, these I have seen, if care is not taking. if doubt me ask falseprophet for more forecasts lol