slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
You are not a real niggarrr

PaNnamdi:

If dem drive the guy from house u go like am
Why u dey give bad advice to another man

Ugandatales:


Let me tell you what to do.

I was once like that your friend. I used to gist with my friend's girl, cos we both liked music, and my friend didn't know music like that. One day, while gisting with the girl, and showing her stuff on my laptop, my friend just came into the parlor, said nothing, just motioned for her to come...She went to the room, and he nack the girl like crazy, while I was with my laptop, hearing everything. After, when she came out, I didn't even feel like talking to her again, or being next to her. lol!

Just do exactly what my friend did...No need for long talk, or trying to be an extrovert.

PaNnamdi:

Na lie

Some go still wan still do their own
Man wey dey patronise olosho nor know say dem dey sleep with them

The best thing is for the guy to be himself and tell the girl confidently and calmly how he feels without been to over concerned

If him apply your way,e go shock you say the guy go dey ask for party

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Rubbiish:

Cc Johnames
The bold works like magic!
It will kill every feeling your friend is developing for that girl & u will see how their interaction will reduce! If at all u are unable to do the above, spend a long time with her alone in the room when ur friend is around, feigning sexual activities & come out to paint a nice picture of how it was having sex with her to your friend, it will kill the attraction between them. It works like magic. Let me tell u how this work, so long ur friend is not ur blood brother, he is already fantasizing sleeping with ur girl, but will apply self control not to make this happen. But the fantasies has already been established due to their closeness. Once u keep rubbing sleeping with her on his face, that attraction automatically dies, sometimes he may end up hating the girl sef, which is actually good for your relationship. This will show u already own her, anything he might be doing to please her will be a waste of time in his eyes, so he will withdraw!

nedekid:

Your friend na crazeman

Premiumwriter:
All I can say is work on yourself bro.

I'm an introvert too but I learned to be loud especially when in the midst of other guys.

Not loud as in talking too much.

But loud as in never letting any of them step on me while with my girl.

Instead of going outside while your girl is inside with the guy, while not tell your girl to come and sit outside with you.

Telling her what to do shows who is in command and will have to force/remind your guy that you are the man since he'll have to follow her outside if he wants to gist.

Next, laugh as little as possible. As an introvert, you tend to be a people please and laugh so you don't feel awkward.

F*ck that. Laugh as little as possible. Especially when your guy cracks a joke around your girl, no laugh self.

Just the look them laugh and you go start to the notice tension.

Next thing I'll advise you is to get intimate with your girl. Like I don't understand what gives your girl time to gist with your friend when she comes over.

Next time, start telling your guy to excuse you guys when your girl is coming over. Before she comes, tell am say something one sup, say if she come you go like make him give una space.

Another thing and most importantly, learn to tease your girl, make fun of her, I like insult my girl village eh, she go almost wan cry.

Find something that's not directly related to her body and use it to tease her. Maybe something she say or is ignorant of, or a grammatical mistake she made, bring it up at random and use it to make fun of her.

Even when your friend is around. If he asks no tell am. Just use it as a joke between you and your girl. This will make him feel left out just as you are feeling right now.

Mock your girl in his face but do it subtly in a way that he will want to join in, then instead of supporting him against your girl, turn around the moment he joins in and support your girl against him.

For instance, I was subtly Teasing my girl about how they don't have light in their village (they have light but I still insist they don't). If my friend joins in, I just turn around and start defending my girl's village against his.

This can easily go wrong tho if you're a newbie and not calculative or didn't plan things to say.

Your most powerful move will be showing who is in command. Touch your girl inappropriately around him and make him uncomfortable and then ask him casually to excuse you guys (guy abeg you fit just go outside small or excuse us small I wan tell this fine girl something).

Actually tell her something. It can be as dumb as (Chai madam you look Soo cute today, I fit just chop you raw or any other dumb compliment).

The problem with you is that you are not marking your territory right.

Please go back and snatch your girl.

And watch comedy videos especially stand-up comedy like those them basket mouth, bovi, I go die etc. Not those comedy skits o). With time and many laughter, you'll see yourself being able to crack jokes that will make your girl laugh like hell.

Like I said, I'm an introvert. A very chronic one but tell that to my girl and she'll look at you like you are crazy.

Kriss216:

I suggest you give your life a meaning and avoid Nigerian girls.

Johnames:
I no vex, I understand your point

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Kriss216:

I suggest you give your life a meaning and avoid Nigerian girls.

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Johnames:
thanks boss, I will apply this

Medianna:
You can't talk doesn't mean you can't listen na..
Stay with them and laugh together.

And as for your fear, it depends on your gf and your friend..
I do gist more with one of my guy's friend more than the guy himself if the three of us are together, sometimes I even go to see the friend on my own.(with the knowledge of my guy though) and if you see our sitting position indoor you will thing something is up.
Sometimes his head will be on my legs...
but nothing nothing

MaverickA3:
The girl knew he was a boring guy before they started their relationship. Now she is giving his friend more attention, do you think that make any sense?

gift0123:



You are even proud of your stupid act in public??

Saynotoapc:


For your mind you Sharp
You be better fvck boy.
Don't be surprise the Guy get idea you fvck his babe.

sainttwist1:
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

stunnert:


You be mumu woman, like you wouldn't lash the banny if you were in my shoes

Animegirl:
For me you shouldn't see it as anything.