Kenneth4u205:
I'm also an introvert. But I realize that I'm very talkative when with fellow introvert lady or someone that shares the same Passion and interest just like me .

As for your girlfriend gisting and laughing with ur room mate inside without coming out to join you outside. Means she enjoys ur room mate company more than yours . It's just a matter of time before both of them start having sex .might be the day you are not around or she might invite him to her place . Clock already ticking tic! Tok!! tic!!! Tok !!!!

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Johnames:
my guy na correct guy, him no get problem, he na just jovial person, unlike me, I just find it difficult to gist

Ugandatales:


Let me tell you what to do.

I was once like that your friend. I used to gist with my friend's girl, cos we both liked music, and my friend didn't know music like that. One day, while gisting with the girl, and showing her stuff on my laptop, my friend just came into the parlor, said nothing, just motioned for her to come...She went to the room, and he nack the girl like crazy, while I was with my laptop, hearing everything. After, when she came out, I didn't even feel like talking to her again, or being next to her. lol!

Just do exactly what my friend did...No need for long talk, or trying to be an extrovert.

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Ofadaman:
Just be matured, the moment you begin to bring up jealousy vibes you've lost it. The truth is all can be well as long as u have money ,you do well in bed and you're the alpha male in the situation. She's put that guy in the friend zone, but where it can cause issues is when you begin to act like a pussy around your friend or your girl. Men, shouldn't engage themselves in unnecessary chit chats and all, we are providers who spend time on work, money and occasional relaxation, the calm strong serene and confident man always win.

Side note, women can be hoes, so at vulnerable moment, she fit open for the guy to lash, e.g. drunk from party, during when u have issues, etc.

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

KiNg0G:


that nigha is playing his game.


you got to up your game by using that same introvert method in a more mature way.

girls likes guys who are funny but gets tired of them easily.



but prefer men, who leaves them in mystery...(when she can't figure you out)



you on the right path son, don't change..... don't feel jealous... infact ignore that bish the more.

OvaSabi1:
Learn how to use humor. Start calling him assistant boyfriend. If she serves you food check the size of the meat and ask why assistant boyfriend’s meat is bigger than yours. Tell assistant boyfriend that Valentine’s Day is coming and that what will he buy for both of you. Tell him jokingly that you don’t want boxers or singlet. Tell assistant boyfriend that shey he will not buy new iPhone for her ni? Can’t he see that the screen of her phone has broken ni? Meanwhile still keep a close eye on them o. And lastly ensure that you are meeting her NEEDS sufficiently. A word is enough for the wise.

dbestuncle:
Trust them until u have a reason not to.
2. Join in the jist,it will help you understand your babe more.
3. Sometimes bring up discussions n be active in the discussion.
4. Once in a while become personal like cut the guy off. Sometimes like babe I want us to see inside. When inside talk intimate having known what she really likes.
5. If the above didn't yield just prepare your mind that you may loose her to him or someone else like him because guy u boring to stay with.
6. No vex with me o

Animegirl:
For me you shouldn't see it as anything. But if you can't take it just jokingly go and carry your babe maybe try it once or twice, if she doesn't get the memo, just let her be.

Just be yourself, and don't let a girl change who you're because you don't talk much.

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Bobmarie:
Better take this advice since she doesn’t want to use her brain.
Leak her attention like drops of water in intervals and watch her worship you.

Don’t try to change yourself because of anyone, people will always adapt..

Johnames:
what do you suggest?

Kriss216:

I suggest you give your life a meaning and avoid Nigerian girls.

Beebah2000:
Oga u no be introvert.
U no no wetin to discuss with your girlfriend when u dey with her.
Introverts dey make noise if them dey free with you.

nedekid:

Either you discharge the guy quickly, or he starts wiping your babe (if he has not started already).
You may choose the boys code of solidarity, but in the first place your guy no show you love by overgisting with your love interest, seeing say the girl de feel am, him suppose backoff.

Johnames:
what do you suggest?

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Rubbiish:

Cc Johnames
The bold works like magic!
It will kill every feeling your friend is developing for that girl & u will see how their interaction will reduce! If at all u are unable to do the above, spend a long time with her alone in the room when ur friend is around, feigning sexual activities & come out to paint a nice picture of how it was having sex with her to your friend, it will kill the attraction between them. It works like magic. Let me tell u how this work, so long ur friend is not ur blood brother, he is already fantasizing sleeping with ur girl, but will apply self control not to make this happen. But the fantasies has already been established due to their closeness. Once u keep rubbing sleeping with her on his face, that attraction automatically dies, sometimes he may end up hating the girl sef, which is actually good for your relationship. This will show u already own her, anything he might be doing to please her will be a waste of time in his eyes, so he will withdraw!

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Lol.... your own gf kwa?? So she comes around and you guys just sit in silence?? you are an introvert with a Doctorate Degree I wonder how you were able to woo her, abi na she woo you ??

Let me be Frank with you. From your narration, it's obvious she enjoys your friend's company. Count your loss and move on. That's all I have to say.

Donbabafx1:



My brother God will bless you so much. This was my situation exactly! Those kind of friends are green sarpents! Did I invite my babe to my house as a family gist partner? Abi my friend self does not have sense to give her less attention, so me and my friend should now be contesting for my babe’s attention?. Breaking up with my babe and my friend was the real deal for me