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Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Ocholu(op): 6:55pm On Jan 28, 2022
Sequel to my earlier thread (link below), on how I embarked on the the serious business of semen retention. And how I am not sure on how to handle the situation because of my girlfriend wanting to spend the weekend with me.

https://www.nairaland.com/6956480/damn-been-12-days-since

In the thread, I noted that my baby girl hasn't really gotten the gist about me intentionally avoiding any physical meeting with her in my crib. And also, wouldn't know how best to contain the situation is she becomes insistent.

I guess she's finally seeing the handwriting on the wall. And it's been many days since we last had any form of coitus. Me, I intend going celibate for long. If not longest. But getting her to understand wants to come up as a burden for me.

Thing is, we're both heavily attracted to each other. Both physically, mentally or spiritually lol. So, when she eventually comes to the house, na only God fit save us from not getting intimate. And my gauge of resistance haven't even levelled up, seeing that I just started the whole stuffs over 14 days ago.

Now, she really wants to spend the weekend and I have ran out of excuses. I intend talking to her about it. And also urging her to try it. Maybe she'll get promoted in her place of work quick quick.

Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Baawaa(m): 6:56pm On Jan 28, 2022
Send her number to me
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Jay5mie:
grin


It's all fun until another sharp guy start to shine her congo
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by MufasaLion: 7:04pm On Jan 28, 2022
Perverts will ask for her contact now.

grin grin grin
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Nobody: 7:04pm On Jan 28, 2022
Don’t tell her. She can never see the picture you have painted in your head. It will seem funny to her and Be ready to lose her as well or be ready to go back to old ways.
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Slynation(m): 7:13pm On Jan 28, 2022
Just tell her no preeq for her till further notice....
The women minds ain't programmed to comprehend things like this, they are programmed to jump into conclusion. They will either conclude so you mean I'm the badluck in your life or you are seeing someone else...so don't border telling her, or even if you do, it won't be different from the aforementioned outcome...
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Kenneth4u205(m): 7:21pm On Jan 28, 2022
I once stayed for 12 years . Women can't stay without sex when in a relationship with a guy they truely love . Your proximity alone makes her to get wet.

The only way to accomplish your goal of celibacy is to do away with relationship completely and focus your mind on impossible things you wish to accomplish . A lady can only stay in a no sex relationship with a guy if she doesn't love him or if she's already cheating with another guy . unless she's a virgin
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Ocholu(op): 7:23pm On Jan 28, 2022
Baawaa:
Send her number to me
No Sir!
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Ocholu(op): 7:24pm On Jan 28, 2022
Carchoice:
Don’t tell her. She can never see the picture you have painted in your head. It will seem funny to her and Be ready to lose her as well or be ready to go back to old ways.
Hmm.. True. I am not ready to lose her oh!
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Ocholu(op): 7:29pm On Jan 28, 2022
Kenneth4u205:
I once stayed for 12 years . Women can't stay without sex when in a relationship with a guy they truely love . Your proximity alone makes her to get wet.

The only way to accomplish your goal of celibacy is to do away with relationship completely and focus your mind on impossible things you wish to accomplish . A lady can only stay in a no sex relationship with a guy if she doesn't love him or if she's already cheating with another guy . unless she's a virgin
Wow!! 12 years bros?? Hope it's not your first twelve years on earth because me I stayed for 18yrs.

What made you embark on such journey, and were you able to achieve the task that made you go celibate?
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by FERNANDEZISBACK: 7:30pm On Jan 28, 2022
Pls satisfy her sexually na if that's what she needs at least you are in a relationship..

Hope you won't mind if she goes outside to find a guy who's gonna take your place tho? grin

Seriously I see no reason why you are stopping her..
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Ocholu(op): 7:37pm On Jan 28, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Pls satisfy her sexually na if that's what she needs at least you are in a relationship..

Hope you won't mind if she goes outside to find a guy who's gonna take your place tho? grin

Seriously I see no reason why you are stopping her..
Haha.. Sèniorita, I was hoping you'll help me explain stuffs to her.
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by yuping(m): 7:37pm On Jan 28, 2022
undecided month just end my guy they will be nice use your head and Val is around the corner.
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Nobody: 7:38pm On Jan 28, 2022
I can tell she's so horñy. Hope you don't get mad if she goes back to lash her ex grin
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by FERNANDEZISBACK: 7:38pm On Jan 28, 2022
Ocholu:
Haha.. Sèniorita, I was hoping you'll help me explain stuffs to her.
Why not?
If she has a Gmail in which we could communicate why not?
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Sonnobax15(m): 7:41pm On Jan 28, 2022
lipsrsealed
Na valentine trap be that my guy angry. Use your head now before it'd be too late......Na your January salary she wor blow siren put so shocked
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Ocholu(op): 7:45pm On Jan 28, 2022
yuping:
undecided month just end my guy they will be nice use your head and Val is around the corner.
It's not about money bro. We're both rich.
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Ocholu(op): 7:47pm On Jan 28, 2022
SmellySperm:
I can tell she's so horñy. Hope you don't get mad if she goes back to lash her ex grin
LoL. This life no balance my guy. Even though I know that she won't do that.
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Ocholu(op): 7:48pm On Jan 28, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why not?
If she has a Gmail in which we could communicate why not?
Off course she does.
So, PMs?
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:01pm On Jan 28, 2022
Ocholu:
Off course she does.
So, PMs?
PM with her..
You want me to convince her not to come over right?
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Ocholu(op): 8:05pm On Jan 28, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
PM with her..
You want me to convince her not to come over right?
Yes. She's not on Nairaland though.
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:10pm On Jan 28, 2022
Ocholu:
Yes. She's not on Nairaland though.
Let's be sincere tho I don't think it would make any sense if I speak to your woman on your behalf tho..

Why not be plain with her and let her know your intentions..
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by wiseone28: 8:20pm On Jan 28, 2022
Ocholu:
It's not about money bro. We're both rich.

Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by Agricmoney(m): 8:22pm On Jan 28, 2022
if your heart is set on it then it would work out one way or the other . But it’s better you tell her the truth too



Anyway, Agriculture is life.
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by wiseone28: 8:24pm On Jan 28, 2022
Ocholu:
Off course she does.
So, PMs?
Hope you know the person with the moniker is a guy though he pretends to be fighting for female on nairaland

Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by phenzy(m): 8:31pm On Jan 28, 2022
wiseone28:
Hope you know the person with the moniker is a guy though he pretends to be fighting for female on nairaland
Dem no dey telli person grin
Leave am e go learn
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by wiseone28: 8:51pm On Jan 28, 2022
phenzy:
Dem no dey telli person grin Leave am e go learn

Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by yuping(m): 8:53pm On Jan 28, 2022
Ocholu:
It's not about money bro. We're both rich.
It does not stop them from spending yours alone.
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wants To Visit Me By Force This Weekend - Pictures by kingjiss: 8:58pm On Jan 28, 2022
Ocholu:
Sequel to my earlier thread (link below), on how I embarked on the the serious business of semen retention. And how I am not sure on how to handle the situation because of my girlfriend wanting to spend the weekend with me.

https://www.nairaland.com/6956480/damn-been-12-days-since

In the thread, I noted that my baby girl hasn't really gotten the gist about me intentionally avoiding any physical meeting with her in my crib. And also, wouldn't know how best to contain the situation is she becomes insistent.

I guess she's finally seeing the handwriting on the wall. And it's been many days since we last had any form of coitus. Me, I intend going celibate for long. If not longest. But getting her to understand wants to come up as a burden for me.

Thing is, we're both heavily attracted to each other. Both physically, mentally or spiritually lol. So, when she eventually comes to the house, na only God fit save us from not getting intimate. And my gauge of resistance haven't even levelled up, seeing that I just started the whole stuffs over 14 days ago.

Now, she really wants to spend the weekend and I have ran out of excuses. I intend talking to her about it. And also urging her to try it. Maybe she'll get promoted in her place of work quick quick.
You are born male not a man

Shame on you
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