FERNANDEZISBACK:

You sure can smash your head or your phone..that will be better than crying like a kid on my mention..

tbh anytime I see your posts I just scroll past or I Close the thread cus u dnt have anything meaningful to say

Furcko:
tbh anytime I see your posts I just scroll past or I Close the thread cus u dnt have anything meaningful to say

That's your life issues oo..
Who cares?

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Rosekin2009:
I'm exactly in this situation, my parents do not like my boyfriend, they haven't even met him before, sometimes I wonder if it's because I am the one bringing food to the table that is why they are refusing to let me go, giving me flimsy excuses that I'm not mature enough for marriage at 26 years.

Can't you speak for yourself or what?
I really find it hard how you people act tho..at 26 you are an adult why the control tho?

Don't you have a say in your own life?

If my parents reason is not convincing enough, then they are on their own o.

Dammyseyon:

I won't lie, it hasn't been easy. My mum literally gives her attitude when she comes around so I stopped her from coming around often. This lady in question didn't even offend my mum directly in anyway. I mean if you don't want people to be together, give tangible and reasonable reasons not just "Their family is not good", I mean who exactly is good?

Their family isn’t good isn’t enough reason na, like what did they do exactly

arthurwillia:


Their family isn’t good isn’t enough reason na, like what did they do exactly

Nothing really o, my mum had an altercation with the elder sister many years back about 15 or more of I'm correct and that's all.

They can't do that. I'm the one going into marriage with the person, not them.

Most parents at against their kids/wards partner because of past encounters with him/her tribe, religion, physical appearance, pure hatred, etc., but however, its wrong for them to judge the outcome of their kids/wards marriage because of that.

I even prefer ladies of other faith, not even my faith.

Dammyseyon:

Nothing really o, my mum had an altercation with the elder sister many years back about 15 or more of I'm correct and that's all.

Your mom should let bygone be bygone. What if the table was to be turned and you were the lady, would she have asked you not to continue with the lady?

Humans are hypocrites.

Rosekin2009:
I'm exactly in this situation, my parents do not like my boyfriend, they haven't even met him before, sometimes I wonder if it's because I am the one bringing food to the table that is why they are refusing to let me go, giving me flimsy excuses that I'm not mature enough for marriage at 26 years.

That might be a factor in the sense that your boyfriend might not be doing well financially. Your parents knows that you're gonna have your nuclear family after marriage and you ain't gonna be consistent with your regular care (financially) once you're married.

OMOJOHN001:
Facing similar issue right now.

My mom is the only person that just hate my GF, She has stopped her from visiting our house.
Her reason is because she knows little about her family, she just believe every lies about the family, She doesn't want to see her at all, talk more of me getting married to her.
Though she didn't give me any tangible reason, maybe its because she knows that I am not the first BF the girl will have and because her mom also remarry after the death of her first husband.
Though she gat some point but the society we are now is beyond looking for one village girl to marry, Its this my babe that gave me all her details that gave me all the money I am spending now.

I have explained tired, she refuse, Now my Revenge is to have more money and start living afar from them.

Cuz breaking this girl heart will be one of the most wicked act on earth, She has done the unthinkable for me, when I had Issue for bank, relating to fraud, this babe went to police station to present herself as the owner of the account.

Thank God she comes out from it without sentence by the Court. Now Imagine me breaking her heart, and start spending all she worked and suffer for with another lady.

Make my mom go rest and keep enjoying my money. while I also choose for myself who I wish to marry, just the way she choose my dad for herself back then without her patent stopping her.

Bro, you are a real man. No parents should stop their kids from marrying who they want especially if the partner ticks all boxes.

Your mom should switch side and assume the position of the lady's mom and lets see if she's gonna be happy if a guy leaves her daughter after doing her best for the guy.

Most parents are just selfish and hypocrites.

Snapchat:
To start with, I do not have problematic parents; but assuming they do not like my choice of a life partner, I’ll try to make them understand why I want to marry that person. If they no not agree, I’ll ask them why; and if their reason is convincing enough I’ll have to break up with her. If it’s not convincing enough, I’ll probably stick with her but there won’t be a wedding, and to be honest, I preface it that way.

Most parents don't have convincing response.

Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn,a similar thing is currently happening here in my fami.. It's a long story tho...But there's one particular village here in Delta state that my dad and my elder sister have warned my brothers and I never to marry from......And like seriously, we've been sticking to that......To the extent that I met a girl who came from that village last year..She was a very caring girl,and I really loved her..But only the thoughts that I'm not gonna settle down with her las las due to the feud we've with her village entirely,na once I cut the relationship rope before e go strong finish like hausa rope

Lol

Parents been passing their personal hatred for a town/tribe or whatever to kids. I'm sure you gonna pass it to your kids, too. Shame!

WetinIsabi:


If they reject the person, then A God fearing person should obey

Shame on you! I'm sure your Pastor can even dissolve your marriage with this your mentality.

MufasaLion:


Shame on you! I'm sure your Pastor can even dissolve your marriage with this your mentality.

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Bro, you are a real man. No parents should stop their kids from marrying who they want especially if the partner ticks all boxes.

Your mom should switch side and assume the position of the lady's mom and lets see if she's gonna be happy if a guy leaves her daughter after doing her best for the guy.

Most parents are just selfish and


Thanks jawe, In fact they think we are in the ages where parent decide what children should have.
It was this babe that gave me her BVN to open Domiciliary Account for bank ooooo, And they want me to break up with her. ko possible ajeh.

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Lol

Stand on your ground.

MufasaLion:


Your mom should let bygone be bygone. What if the table was to be turned and you were the lady, would she have asked you not to continue with the lady?

Humans are hypocrites.

You spoke with wisdom and maturity. You must be very experienced and exposed. You made sense

Dammyseyon:

You spoke with wisdom and maturity. You must be very experienced and exposed. You made sense

Thanks, man.

Enjoy your weekend.

Dammyseyon:

Nothing really o, my mum had an altercation with the elder sister many years back about 15 or more of I'm correct and that's all.

Did you know about the altercation?