Kriss216:



This is why you're a SIMPle man.

Ask yourself, if that girl is in the position to japa, will she consider you?

You guys should learn to differentiate between being in Love and being Foolish!

You guys are really resetting guys' brains on Nairaland. If this continues for the next 20 years, I fear what will become of marriages. Many wrecked homes in view!

TBH, women have played the victim for years at the detriment of the guys. I like what you are doing! Keep it up! Let's rid our country of SIMPle men!

CriticMaestro:

how am I a simple man?

For even asking the question .

SmartPolician:


You guys are really resetting guys' brains on Nairaland. If this continues for the next 20 years, I fear what will because of marriages. Many wrecked homes in view!

TBH, women have played the victim for years at the detriment of the guys. I like what you are doing! Keep it up!

We're doing the Lord's work.

Thanks man.

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

And so what if you want a better life for yourself? Is that a bad thing?

She should direct that anger to her parents. It is not your responsibility to better her life.

If you feel you want to travel out and see the world or find a better path for yourself then don't let anything or anyone stop you or stand in your way.

Now is the time to invest your resources in yourself.

In the end, I hope she's worth it.

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

What Is Or Are The Moral Lesson?

She saw the apps and so? Did she show you hook up apps other things she's hiding? Your mumu no too much like this

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illicit:
Ok


So....

Kriss216:



This is why you're a SIMPle man.

Ask yourself, if that girl is in the position to japa, will she consider you?

You guys should learn to differentiate between being in Love and being Foolish!

I owe you 10 bottles of.......

CriticMaestro:

some of you are just kids, deep down you want somebody to love but you are scared they wont love you back... I have been there before, thats why its easy for you guys to dismiss anything like love

Guy, ten gbosa for you. You just hit the nail right on the head.

Y'all should free the guy abeg, I dunno y everyone's recent slogan is "make money", ''hustle n forget love'' wether you like it or not love is very important same as relationships, by the time you make ur money you'll see majority of the pple you hv around u are gold diggers and fake friends, that's wen life will hit u hard, and you may end up livin the rest of ur life as a very miserable and frustrated old man.

I'm not even up to 20, but still I know what's very important, money first b4 love, but that doesn't mean I hv conditioned my mind to see girls as people that are a threat to my life, majority of guys just view women as something else, it's more of a hatred brewing in their minds n hearts, they now see women as threats and it's really not a healthy mindset any guy should hv, men hv made the whole thing look as if they're being threatened by zombies just like a terrible apocalypse, it's a really a sick mentality, it's really sad

Kriss216:



This is why you're a SIMPle man.

Ask yourself, if that girl is in the position to japa, will she consider you?

You guys should learn to differentiate between being in Love and being Foolish!

100% simp. After explanation, he went ahead to delete them.

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

Na so Nigerian girls be o, once you're dating them, they don't want to hear you're doing anything to travel. Na wa.

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

Firstly, why are you in a relationship with this girl? Is it a long-term relationship or just a fling? If she is someone you see as a virtuous lady you would want to marry someday, then you shouldn’t hide your plans from her. It’s a relationship, you both should share ideas and plans with each other, sometimes I wonder what youths of this generation do in relationships other than sex.
You have a plan to see if you can get a better life abroad, why not call your girlfriend, sit her down and tell her your intentions. If you eventually find a way abroad, what do you intend to do with your relationship because having kind distance relationships isn’t a good idea.
So, what steps would you guys take to go about it.

You should have atleast informed her of your plans. If she was the one who had such intentions and you found out, you would definitely feel the same way.

Some of these so-called Nairalanders who are boys who lack love in their lives and have been heartbroken by women will just be opening mouth and be talking trash in the comment section.

SocialJustice:
Na so Nigerian girls be o, once you're dating them, they don't want to hear you're doing anything to travel. Na wa.

This is wrong, totally wrong.
Why would anyone not pray for a better life their partners knowing fully well they would also share in this same better life?
Relationship is a duo thing, you are supposed to plan with your partners rather than doing things on your own.

truthsayer009:


My sister, age is just a number. Connect them if you really care about them and let love do the rest, to find love for Canada na war oh.

The age is the first hindrance.

Second is they live in separate towns, one in Ontario, another on Toronto.

Then one is a muslim, the other a christian.

Ko le werk noni.

Romanoff:


If you've found a decent woman in her, hold her tight and after you've relocated, marry her and work on her relocating with you.

Word on the street, especially canada is that it is hard to find love there, especially amongst Nigerians.

All everyone wants to do there is have fun and move on to the next one.

My friends in Canada for over two years now, none done see relationship, a guy and a lady.

Na so so dating woes I dey hear.

If she not worth it, tell her now and let her go o.

It's only hard to find love there for women. Lol

CriticMaestro:

Its funny how you just hide behind your keypad and be calling someone a simple man. Do you know what me and her have been through in this life? Not everyone has the same heart, you can sit their idly without love and be happy... In the meantime leave the few of us to enjoy what we have

Bros leave that thing jare. This women have no heart ooo.. She will do worst to u.. Even my friend hear we tell am e no gree hear. Mow he is still settling for oyinbo we told him earlier. This guy was sending money to this babe, put her on salary every month, nothing he no do for this girl in the name of we have been though alot together.. He no dey purse woman here.. When the Hammer landed he wanted to die lol. He was admitted to hospital and had to go thru depression therapy... This girl dey knack his friend on a regular und another friend burst the whole thing.. As in she ho even dey knack d guy while the are on phone and be telling him she loves him.. Imagine. Like me I told him if the girl was in your position everybody around her including she herself will tell her to leave and then you will receive the emotional blackmail of are u a destiny blocker? You no Wan her to follow her divine helper? So you will only not be smart not to follow your divine helper too. For 1 hold oyinbo 1 hand hold Naija 1 hand.. Eitherway it goes I hold something... .

Senomi:
Y'all should free the guy abeg, I dunno y everyone's recent slogan is "make money", ''hustle n forget love'' wether you like it or not love is very important same as relationships, by the time you make ur money you'll see majority of the pple you hv around u are gold diggers and fake friends, that's wen life will hit u hard, and you may end up livin the rest of ur life as a very miserable and frustrated old man

Lol, the people saying that are the so-called redpillers that lack love and have being heartbroken a couple of times. So they don’t anyone else finding love.

What happened to making money as a couple? What happened to enjoying life as a couple?

Some comments here are just somehow

CriticMaestro:

some of you are just kids, deep down you want somebody to love but you are scared they wont love you back... I have been there before, thats why its easy for you guys to dismiss anything like love

You should have kept it all to yourself… once you bring your personal issue to social media the get ready for any comment you receive…. Romeo

He might be a simp to you all.

He is just in love...
Allow him to love...

Raalsalghul:


It's not a matter of whether she's financially capable or not.

The crux here is that if she was in your shoes, she would make the move without giving a damn about how you feel but here you are trying to compromise.

The words of the other posters might be harsh, but they've made a lot of points.

Some of you like to instigate and create gender war unnecessarily. Have you heard about the word selfless? That she can’t reciprocate your kind gestures doesn’t mean you shouldn’t go all out for her.

Do not make it a gender thing but a humanity thing. I try as much as I can to do the best I can for humans and not because they are females or males. That’s what makes life worth living, and that’s what gives one a sense of purpose.

truthsayer009:


My sister, age is just a number. Connect them if you really care about them and let love do the rest, to find love for Canada na war oh.

Bro, how far?

How that end?

Raalsalghul:


Bro, how far?

How that end?

I sent you a message on Whatsapp na. Check.

TheManOfTheYear:
It's only hard to find love there for women. Lol

Like I said, a guy and a girl that I know there.

The best friend of my male friend over there came back to marry his Bayelsan girlfriend.

She done dey Canada with am there.

illicit:
Ok


So....

lolz.

pquaver:


Bros leave that thing jare. This women have no heart ooo.. She will do worst to u.. Even my friend hear we tell am e no gree hear. Mow he is still settling for oyinbo we told him earlier. This guy was sending money to this babe, put her on salary every month, nothing he no do for this girl in the name of we have been though alot together.. He no dey purse woman here.. When the Hammer landed he wanted to die lol. He was admitted to hospital and had to go thru depression therapy... This girl dey knack his friend on a regular und another friend burst the whole thing.. As in she ho even dey knack d guy while the are on phone and be telling him she loves him.. Imagine. Like me I told him if the girl was in your position everybody around her including she herself will tell her to leave and then you will receive the emotional blackmail of are u a destiny blocker? You no Wan her to follow her divine helper? So you will only not be smart not to follow your divine helper too. For 1 hold oyinbo 1 hand hold Naija 1 hand.. Eitherway it goes I hold something... .

So, in summary you are saying only women cheat?
What about men? Or was it not this same Nairaland that we have seen stories of men cheating on their girlfriends with their Gfs younger sisters land cousins? Is it not this same Nairaland we saw a story of a man that was supposed to get married to a lady in a month time but ended up abandoning her and marrying someone else?

Some Men Cheat, some women cheat but does that mean we don’t have men and women that are faithful to their partners?

Fabulouslouie:
Some of you are too quick to use abusive words on people.

Most of you are using Redpill in the wrong way. Most of the comments from the "he's a SimpLe man" crew are just full of toxic traits.

Make una try dey reason before una abuse person.

If we take u under scrutiny now, we'll see that you're even worse than op

Lol, those ones are redpillers online but offline na dem dey beg for love

Don't mind the op. It's a Format to scaming people by luring them to open those apps and get scamed. I was also in the game but repented.

Romanoff:


The age is the first hindrance.

Second is they live in separate towns, one in Ontario, another on Toronto.

Then one is a muslim, the other a christian.

Ko le werk noni.

Okay, let's make a bet. Connect them and allow things to flow. Don't do more than that, just connect and leave them alone. If the relationship work in a year, i go wire you 100 pounds. If not, no wahala.

People leave Lagos to Abuja, Lagos to PH to visit babe, it is now ontario to Toronto ontario to another state that is now a problem. Lmao.