PerfectlyPerfect:

Men are becoming more conscious of the emotional manipulations of the female folk. That's the gospel of the Red Pill

pquaver:


Did u see where I said only women cheat? I said he should just be as brutal as the girl will be to him if she was in his position. Simple

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

doyin01:
I am not surprised that you are not up to 20...one can easily know your age with this your clueless comment.....In the next five years you will understand better

what the OP did is totally wrong...even both sensible males and females will condemn it...even the females know deep down that his act was foolish but for selfish reason the ladies will not come on nairaland to abuse the OP because it favours their gender...but deep down they know that the op is foolish for the act.. same way a guy might support a fellow guy that cheats on his babe but deep down he knows that what the guy did is wrong but you do not expect him to say it openly...



....SELF LOVE is the greatest love that a human should have....you must love yourself first....the Bible said love your neighbour the way you love yourself.. ..even the Bible is aware of the importance of self-love......Getting a better life for himself is an act of self-love...and it is greater than any love you can demand from any other person...what the op did is FOOLISHNESS not love .......

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

Keepem:
seconded. Only an idiot would travel abroad and be looking for Nigerian ladies to date. What’s wrong with dating the locals ?

CriticMaestro:

Do you even know whether she is financially capable of moving abroad? some of you see everything through the same lense

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

Simran94:

Your post said “This women have no heart” and you went ahead to describe a story. That only means you assert that all women cheat, instead of “some” just like some men cheat.

And how exactly do you know that the girl would do same to him? Didn’t you read the OPs other comment saying the Girl has sacrificed a lot for him in the course of their relationship? Didn’t you see where the OP said they have both been through difficult times together for years? If she was what you narrated, why hasn’t she left him for someone else? Why bother to sacrifice many things for him during the relationship?

It’s so easy for you all to just sit and judge women based on some stories forgetting Men are worse.

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

pquaver:


Yes and I stand by it. I am a man and I speak on the side of men. When the story of destiny helper will be on frontpage do women advocate for men? I repeat my sentence again and it is a fact.. This women got no heart when the travel they never remember their old relationship in Nigeria.. They remember they must go higher.. There are many guys I know who maintain theirs even after going abroad. Pls do u know any woman who has done such? It's simple do yo them what they do to you. Women always want what they can never give u in return and it's a fact.

shomutuski:


fcking pvssy. man up, ijiot. she will stop you from growing and leave you for a man that has levelled up already, you are not even upto 30 you don they whipped.

chase excellence and women will never let you rest. leave naija oooo

i left last year September and i am touching money i never dreamt of, i take care of my woman better and my family and i am sure my babe is glad i took the risk to come out here. last year i spent my xmas in budapest, this year summer vacation nah for uk.

there's always room for improvement for men cus we age like wine, remember the story of the lady that wanted to travel out. you see the backlash that was meted out on her bf? you better jaaapa and help your family. omo odee

my woman is coming in to eu this year and we go run am 50/50, if the relationship cut i can pick from a billion more now, i have built my character and finance to that level. strive to be a king and always be a value man, she no go ever leave.

even if she did, your life is always good, you gave her a taste

fattprince:

Shomu., I hope to be a foreign country before year ends.

Kriss216:



This is why you're a SIMPle man.

Ask yourself, if that girl is in the position to japa, will she consider you?

You guys should learn to differentiate between being in Love and being Foolish!

CriticMaestro:

Do you even know whether she is financially capable of moving abroad? some of you see everything through the same lense

apple30:
I dnt knw when I laugh out loud in my office ,dat draws my colleagues attention ..looking at me like “wats wrong with this one una no go kill person for this app

Simran94:

Lol, see this guy sha. There are over 200 million Nigerians and you are asking like you know every single one of them. I have a few female friends that applied for work visas and Student visas to the UK and Canada. And since they were in a relationship they had to get married to their boyfriends here in Nigeria before traveling so it would be easy for their now husbands to apply as “Dependants” of their wives when applying for Visa so they can join them in the UK and Canada. These ladies were the ones who paid for their respective apartments and are currently running the home financially till their husbands are able to get jobs over there. If every woman is what you portray a small fraction of women to be, my friends would have actually ended the relationships and moved on leaving their Bfs in Nigeria.

My female cousin had to also get married to her Bf here in Nigeria before she moved to Canada, her husband was able to apply as a dependant of my cousin over there, he has gone to join her last month already

CriticMaestro:

Its funny how you just hide behind your keypad and be calling someone a simple man. Do you know what me and her have been through in this life? Not everyone has the same heart, you can sit their idly without love and be happy... In the meantime leave the few of us to enjoy what we have

Kriss216:

A very big disgrace to his community!

Placing a Nigerian girlfriend ahead of his career. Foolish boy!

Kriss216:



This is why you're a SIMPle man.

Ask yourself, if that girl is in the position to japa, will she consider you?

You guys should learn to differentiate between being in Love and being Foolish!

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

CriticMaestro:

some of you are just kids, deep down you want somebody to love but you are scared they wont love you back... I have been there before, thats why its easy for you guys to dismiss anything like love

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

Kriss216:



This is why you're a SIMPle man.

Ask yourself, if that girl is in the position to japa, will she consider you?

You guys should learn to differentiate between being in Love and being Foolish!

Romanoff:


The age is the first hindrance.

Second is they live in separate towns, one in Ontario, another on Toronto.

Then one is a muslim, the other a christian.

Ko le werk noni.