Do u want ur brother to father another man’s child?? Better telll and let everything crash and burn.

Favfables1:
No female is condemning the woman's act of cheating on her husband, they're only condemning the man's act of visiting his brother unannounced...

Talk about hypocrisy ...

If I were in the guys shoes, I'll pick the woman's call and then record the entire conversation and then talk to my brother, so that just in case she chooses to emotionally manipulate my brother with her tears, I'll have a very solid evidence to back things up...

You are so on point. Some ladies can manipulate any situation so that it turns to their own favour.
Potiphar's wife comes to mind here

I have told people and will continue to tell people that the type of woman you marry is very important and the best thing that can come out of a woman are kids

Any man who places his trust on women and his all in a woman is a dead meat



Be wise.that guy should go.straight up and tell his brother if he really and truely love and care for him.

A souldier will always remain a souldier.a loosed woman who claims to have change after marriage is nothing but false.

cutecommend:
See the comments of Ladies there... Even if they want to advise the guy to take it easy and not to act harshly, can't they condemn the woman's act.... At least condemn the act.

Many ladies are hypocrites.. You may hear many ladies saying "men are cheats", but many of them are hypocrites...Many men show openly that they are sinners, but many ladies pretend to be good, but might be fornicating/cheating codedly and acting disciplined in public.. It is very possible that this woman caught committing adultery may be the one forcing her husband to go for church program or might be always telling him to be prayerful or might be persuading him to always be committed to God. Maybe she even bought her husband devotional or bible not long before committing that act.

Who knows the kind of bride price list that was given to the husband before marriage... Some will even have sex with maybe ex or someone before wedding day..... Maybe her husband knelt publicly to propose to her before marriage.... Maybe she was even telling her husband to be close to God before the wedding.....Maybe she was even a committed choir member

Don't be deceived with the fact that says "Women only have sex with who they love"....Many women fornicate or commit adultery because of lust, that is why a woman can sleep with dirty igboo smoker that she can never date.

You think you will fornicate up and down in your youthful days and be a faithful wife just like that...Na magic?!! Marriage does not cure addiction or sleeping around... Only God can cure it.

Finally, we have many ladies that are sex slaves. The best thing to do is to go to God for repentance and deliverance, instead of hiding under any cover, such as "I only have sex because I have feelings for him or love him"... All these sexing up and down is it feelings or lust??

U are blessed with wisdom

Adultery, fornication and immorality have taken over the world . See comments everywhere! So disgusting what the youths are promoting, can't believe the female folks are in support of this heinous act, and some men are also in support..this guys could easily sleep with their brother's wife i believe

Favfables1:
No female is condemning the woman's act of cheating on her husband, they're only condemning the man's act of visiting his brother unannounced...

Talk about hypocrisy ...

If I were in the guys shoes, I'll pick the woman's call and then record the entire conversation and then talk to my brother, so that just in case she chooses to emotionally manipulate my brother with her tears, I'll have a very solid evidence to back things up...

True talk bro

Another episode of TALES THAT NEVER HAPPENED. Anything for engagement. That bird app annoys the fûck out of me.

Better tell him fast or else she will be the death of him

The5DME:
Nigerian women are useless.

That's why our fore-fathers said that it is a woman dt knows d real father of each of her kids in marriage.

Premiumwriter:
As a man don't ever listen to women's advice when it comes to relationships.

They will never give you any advice that will profit you rather it'll be to the benefit of your female partner even when they've never met her..

You can see the illustration of this simple concept in the comment of that girl asking the guy to keep quiet and sweep the matter under the rug.

You can see her blaming the innocent guy for going to his brother's house unannounced and catching his brother's wife cheating on him.

Yet not even a single condemnation of the wh*re sleeping around.

The easiest way to become foolish in life is to listen to a woman advising you on how to behave or solve problems in your relationships

Ladies always support each other, no matter what. They always find a way to justify their actions

The comments of the ladies in the screen grab shows CLEARLY that they can do the same thing.

Which advice is he still seeking? Going on Twitter to ask is like using a megaphone to announce it in the marketplace. Twitter is not a faceless platform like Nairaland.

How would you see something that will destroy your brother and you will keep quiet! If you do, GOD and nature will subject you to curse and punishment.
Secondly; if you fail to tell your brother, the immoral act will continue and she may likely give birth to a child/children that does not belong to your brother/your family. Sure! Is that what you want?
Stand for what is right and GOD will stand for you.
Finally, GOD REVEALS to REDEEM!

I hope you have an evidence to back up your claim or allegations? If yes, then go ahead and report her to your brother.
In my place, infidelity on the part of a wife is a death sentence to the husband. So such an act should not be concealed.

Sometimes eh...if I see some women like this I go just dey vex no be say dem do me anything ......... Imagine blaming that guy for visiting his own Brother's house unannounced.....I suppose swear for u that lady bt make I hold my mouth till I see u face to face ndara...

It could be all lies and fiction. But t then again it create a forum or community gossiped in which we have a sneak peak into each other's mind.


You can see how people note ce the defence women easily put up when table are turn.

It could be all lies and fiction. But t then again it create a forum or community gossiped in which we have a sneak peak into each other's mind.


You can see how men notice the defence women easily put up when table are turn. I say its worth it in a decent way.

Hmm so this is a tough one.

The story itself get as e be. Did the offense occur in the matrimonial bed or the living room. ? Or is the Matrimonial bed in the living room ?
Leaving my supposed inconsistency Issue aside - You shouldn't be the first to tell the story.
This is what I would do. After asking her why, how long and if there are any others ?
1. Give the offender the option to inform your brother - Let her come out and explain to the brother why , how long and how many others ?
2. May sure you are there - Do not let your brother become a murderer by either killing his wife and himself.
3. If there are kids involved have them stay with someone for a while ?
4. I would get the man's number and ask from him how long he had been dating her in order to cross stories and make sure that she is in fact telling the truth and the whole truth.

From my observations men are more prone to having extramarital affairs than women. So for a woman to do this in her own house - I'll be curious to know why. And I know a lot of women who know that their men cheat and have come to the resolve that as long as it is done outside of the house and not inside, as hurtful as it is - She is still the queen. Doesn't make it right, just saying.

Now, what would happen if we flip this story around and it was the wife's sister who caught her brother in law with another woman ?
How you answer this may be the way to address & answer the initial story.

He shud pick her call, record it, implicate her very well and tell ur broda.

If ur broda catch ur wife pants down and didn't tell u, how ll u feel

Just mind your business.. your brother is not saint too

may I never have this type of brother pls .

a brother that will debate telling me such an atrocity ? especially against my home,progeny ?

if the guy like make em hide am. Na to kukuma go bleep the brother's wife join- rubbish and ingredients .

married couples though, make una just try respect your marriages -whats all this

He should tell his brother before she kills him. I've seen this type of issue before

Report it to your Brother, if not be ready to loose your Brother soon

Even though I will advice he keep quiet on the matter since he doesn't have the picture or video evidence to back up the claim.


One simp said he should not destroy beautiful and happy marriage . When the stupid holelosho is getting dicked in her matrimonial home. Beautiful and happy marriage kee him there

This is why I hate twitter, pretence and simp everywhere but here on nairaland, no one know anyone, everyone must say it as it is even though it may not seat well with you.

FuckDModz:
Only fools still take Twitter stories seriously without any proof.

That said, if I ever catch my brother's wife with another man in bed, na threesomè go end am. That's the only way to keep quiet till another source exposes her.

guy no kill me abeg

Tell your brother.

Premiumwriter:
As a man don't ever listen to women's advice when it comes to relationships.

They will never give you any advice that will profit you rather it'll be to the benefit of your female partner even when they've never met her..

You can see the illustration of this simple concept in the comment of that girl asking the guy to keep quiet and sweep the matter under the rug.

You can see her blaming the innocent guy for going to his brother's house unannounced and catching his brother's wife cheating on him.

Yet not even a single condemnation of the wh*re sleeping around.

The easiest way to become foolish in life is to listen to a woman advising you on how to behave or solve problems in your relationships

Yes those commenters were wrong however your last paragraph is not totally correct.

gentiles:
If you inform your brother, you might ruin their marriage, and if you keep quiet your brother's wife and her lover might eliminate you just to keep the secret. The decision is yours. Fear Nigerian ladies, 80% of Nigerian ladies of this generation are hoes.

Of what use is such marriage now?
Are you married?
Will the marriage be the first or the last to be destroyed?
Why would people even deliberate on such a Topic, when the first thing is to call a FAMILY MEETING... explaining all that happened with video evidence if available.....

With sooooooo many cheating women I have encountered (women willing to cheat on thier partners with me) I pity anyman who invest any form of trust in a woman.

The advise is simple, just tell your brother the same way you're telling us now or better still send him the link to this thread!!



Modified: What if after all these comments and advise y'all discover that it's mere fiction?