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Re: My Husband Left Us by cococandy(f): 3:07pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Great0ne1: I don’t subscribe to physical violence. Ignoring is great but left to me, let him stay where he’s packed out to. I’ll be changing the locks. Ihukwa trouble 10 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Toks2008(m): 3:08pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Princedapace: You are still naive. That a man chooses to be with another lady does not mean he does not want his wife anymore. The guy left the house cos of the heat the wife is giving him not because he no longer wants her. See, most marriages that collapsed nased on man's infidelity is the womans fault. I dont know who is lieing to these ladies that a man must be with only them.. A man choosing to be with only his wife is a choice and not a yardstick to measure how responsible a man is. A man can be fauthful to one woman and be totally irresponsible and a man can marry 3 women and can be the definition of a perfect guy. Any woman who leaves her marriage because her husband has eyes for another lady is the most foolish woman in the entire universe. If you like change men a thousand times, nah your under go suffer cos men will always be men. |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Nobody: 3:08pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Tyche:Move on and stop stressing over an irresponsible man. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Juoflife1(f): 3:10pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Prepare divorce papers and keep on the table for him. When he comes back, he will sign it and get out for good. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Nobody: 3:11pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
cococandy: As in, I am surprised how the guys on this thread are saying the wife should pray and fight for her husband? When she’s actually the one hurting? I wonder if these men would pray and fight for their wives if she is having an affair with another man 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Toks2008(m): 3:11pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Simran94: Are you sure you are a Bible scholar or "my pastor said" kind of person? If i give you scriptures, do you promise to change your mindset? Let me know so i can give you the scriptures you need. And please mind you, the old testament is 100% part of the bible cos even Jesus said he hasnt come to abolish it. |
Re: My Husband Left Us by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:11pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
cococandy:...Lol @ changing of the locks. That action will provoke him more. And non of here knows his temperament. Lest we start hearing another story of domestic violence. |
Re: My Husband Left Us by pocohantas(f): 3:12pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Mariangeles: You know what is weird in all of this? It is the fact that you come off as the opposite. Your outbursts are peculiar to people who bottle in a lot, then one day they go BOOM. And you are wondering, how did we get here? You are an interesting person though. I sometimes think you are a very jealous and possessive woman. One who is capable of stabbing her husband. 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by JaskanFactor: 3:14pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
there is no such thing as cheating, give him room to do what he wants so long as he does it respectfully, keeps it far away outside the house and community. People need to stop acting like human being is an angel. Nobody eats rice for life, variety is the spice of life. Variety within reasonable means. And using separate bed rooms will help improve relationship. |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Ayomivic(m): 3:17pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Amazingbaby: Your husband had eaten Efo. Making house hot for him can never help you but make it worst . All your husband need now is prayer. In that case , you don't have to stand like a wife because if you stand as a wife , you will want to fight for your right and that would make you push him out to the girl quickly. In this matter you need to act as adviser to your husband pretend as if you don't feel the pain and that would make him to tell you things about her. Advice him by making him see the danger in what he his doing by given him some examples of such. Pray for him and don't talk about the matter to the people he doesn't want to hear about it. This is my stupid advice to you but if you can do it you will be happy you Did. You need to be patient, control your anger to achieve your air |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Toks2008(m): 3:17pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Simran94: Buy popcorn and zero sugar coke then sit on a sofa before reading this. https://www.nairaland.com/4303658/dont-deceived-polygamy-not-sin And please be objective. |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Klass99(f): 3:17pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
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Re: My Husband Left Us by Nobody: 3:18pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Toks2008: Guy please move abeg 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Nobody: 3:20pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
JaskanFactor: So why is it that when women decide to have a taste of another variety, you men flare up and chase them out? I thought variety is a spice of life? 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Nobody: 3:20pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: She can as well relocate na? Or is she supposed to stay there forever until he decides to come back? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Stoshi: 3:21pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Fight for ur husband oo... Cos if u kip quiet abt it, d guy go feel say u sef nor send n will get more serious wit d chic... Fight for ur hubby, dis one nor be boifrnd/gehfrnd mata |
Re: My Husband Left Us by NaBanga: 3:23pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
LilMissFavvy: It's Nigeria and women are desperate to stay married. The truth is that Mr. Husband has a new honeypot that he likes. He is going to stick with it probably for the next 2 years. If there is too much complaining, he will leave for that new honeypot. Whether it's the new woman or the wife, some women see it through spiritual eyes and will fight with everything they have. Some women will stay quiet until it wears off. It's a choice. Personally I recommend all women be financially independent, so they don't have to tolerate such situations. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:24pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Simran94:....What will changing of the locks solve? He can easily break into the house. She alone knows how to solve this problem. |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Prettychild(f): 3:27pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
So sorry for what is happening. The only reason I would employ you to fight to get your husband back is because, if he starts sleeping around, the probability of you getting an infection from him is high. Go to any Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries’ bookshop, buy Prayer Rain by Dr. D. K Olukoya, you would see prayers for this type of issue. Pray it consistently with faith, then wait for the result. You don’t need to call your husband, he will be the one to look for you 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Nobody: 3:27pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: I am not even subscribing to changing the locks, he has decided to abandon her and the children, she can as well try to move on even though she’s hurting. She needs to stay strong for herself and her children. Go someone else for fresh air 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Hotzone(m): 3:28pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
ibechris:Nothing like charm, the husband is becoming reckless on his family 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Ungodly: 3:31pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
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Re: My Husband Left Us by Ungodly: 3:31pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Toks2008: Premium okoto, smh. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Cleanworld(f): 3:32pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Amazingbaby: Let me give you a genius advise but first make sure that you are not totally depends on this man if not please don't try this... 1,Call his family and tell them what happened please don't add jara or lie to them then do same with your family. 2, Get a fake signed divorce letter and make sure its delivered to him directly .. ASK someone to do the job for you. 3, Break all communication with him 4, Put your faith in God and pray. 5, wait for few weeks and see how things will unfold Don't fight him or the lady in question. if you have her number then you can mistakenly send his '' Health report to her'' from a diffrent number ofcourse. Health issues includes all unimaginable condition. Don't do this if you are not bold. If he want to Go by force he will have to come back by Force. wish you well. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Nobody: 3:33pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
You are complaining about a cheating husband my dear that one naa small matter when compared to what women see in this marriage of a thing.... He left the house to go cheat very well with his side chick.... Just remove your mind from him.... He will still come back after he is done committing adultery very well with his side chick. If God have blessed you with kids, look up to them and forget him..... Don't even go through his phone again so you can prolong your life and enjoy the fruit of your labour, because if you die, he replace you in three days, side chick will maltreat your kids..... Abeg don't have raw sex with him before he dash you one Pini Pini illness please... If you will do that he should go for test first. Be strong ....... |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Curious346: 3:34pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Amazingbaby:she has cast a love spell upon him.. Can I pray for you? |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Nobody: 3:36pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Cleanworld: My dear a cheating man can never change ooo, if you scare him from one he will jump to another, the best thing is to ignore him abeg, she should work and earn her money..... If she put mind for that matter she will kill herself abeg.... Women that ignore live long........ 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Mariangeles(f): 3:39pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
pocohantas: No ooo. You know, the thing is, this place is a faceless forum and might seem harmless, but it could be dangerous for one’s mental health if one is not careful. Stalkers and trolls are not even a joke. So, I do what I have to for… even at the risk of being seen as “childish”, “dramatic”… Possessive? I think I have that tendency. But stab? Naaaaaah! I hate sharp objects. I’m not even violent. Just kinda weird I think. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Left Us by classc25(f): 3:45pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
ibechris: Thanks a lot for this reply, you were talking to me |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Newboss(m): 3:46pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Wahala for man wey wan go marry. If you don marry you be ode and mumu combined. Madam free that nigga. He needs steady and fresh toto. That girl is his plug to toto. No more unnecessary excuses from you. It's like the nigga is on the path to redeeming himself. Correct guy |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Toks2008(m): 3:46pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Simran94: I know you will have a closed mind towards this. Believe whatever you want but that will never change the fact. You either accept it or continue to live in fantasy. |
Re: My Husband Left Us by DuchessAmanda(f): 3:47pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Couples that truly fell in love with each other before they got married would have handled this situation differently. There's this air of "I don't care" attitude hovering between husband and wife. This story will be complete if we also hear the husband's side of the story too. Secondly, some people listen to opinion of strangers who most likely will not do the same thing they are preaching on about here if they were in this same situation. They only project a fantasy of what they think they will do and shove it on someone else but in reality they do the opposite - The hypocrisy of people. These same strangers won't be there when you need them. This is Marriage. Apply Wisdom. Wishing you both Happiness. Good luck 3 Likes |
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