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I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 8:47pm On Feb 05, 2022

I'm a natural confident guy because our mom taught us to be hard working and earn everything through the rice process. She never allowed us take advantage of situations or people and never look down on anybody.

We are naturally good looking in our family and people always talk about how we are all fine in the house. As a result, almost 70% of conversations we have with people will end up discussing what our parents are giving us that are making us fresh and fine.

But our mom did not like people talking to us that way. She did not teach us how to react to compliments and we are very uneasy whenever this topic comes up in our discussions. I don't even see my self that good looking as people are saying.

I work hard to earn everything the right way, and I'm highly productive but anytime a colleague or team mate talks about my appearance I just lose confidence. I have left a lot of groups and teams because of this. When people start talking to me about it I just don't feel comfortable.

I have a lot of girls and I know I worked hard to get them. But they keep telling me it's just my looks that's giving me their attention without stress but I don't believe that, I believe I work hard to get them.

This is beginning to affect my work. Some people don't believe I got to where I am because of hard work. I have worked so hard and I don't want to be throwing things away simply because of this.

For the fine boys and girls in the house, pls how do you handle compliments without appearing proud and egotistical? How do you handle it without being weird?

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Eazyp3000: 8:50pm On Feb 05, 2022

Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Legalcriminal: 8:56pm On Feb 05, 2022

Post your picture make we confirm before we know the solution to your confidence

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 9:05pm On Feb 05, 2022

Who looks epp? As I handsome reach I'm still depressed.
People see me and assume I live a very happy and sweet life, when in truth, my world is dark and gloomy

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 9:36pm On Feb 05, 2022

Descottes:
Who looks epp? As I handsome reach I'm still depressed.
People see me and assume I live a very happy and sweet life, when in truth, my world is dark and gloomy

All these makes me very scared of you,what's so dark and gloomy about you?

Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 9:49pm On Feb 05, 2022

Iyaebe:
All these makes me very scared of you,what's so dark and gloomy about you?

so many things my dear. I'm a weirdo and a loner– I don't have much friends and I don't wish to.
I see life very differently from how other people see it, which makes me question whether I was supposed to be born here in this God forsaken shithole at all.
I hate everything about here. And I'll definitely leave to find a life somewhere else.. with you probably kiss

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 9:54pm On Feb 05, 2022

Descottes:
so many things my dear. I'm a weirdo and a loner– I don't have much friends and I don't wish to.
I see life very differently from how other people see it, which makes me question whether I was supposed to be born in here in this God forsaken shithole at all.
I hate everything about here. And I'll definitely leave to find a life somewhere else.. with you probably

lol,maybe you think too much.Relax and enjoy life as it comes while you pray for better days.Relax relax and relax,don't be too hard on yourself, no human on earth is truly free from life's challenges but you just have to be strong and keep holding on,there's always light at the end for people who don't give up on their challenges. Be positive

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:00pm On Feb 05, 2022

Iyaebe:
lol,maybe you think too much.Relax and enjoy life as it comes while you pray for better days.Relax relax and relax,don't be too hard on yourself, no human on earth is truly free from life's challenges but you just have to be strong and keep holding on,there's always light at the end for people who don't give up on their challenges. Be positive

Even though i think you don't understand, thank you.

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:02pm On Feb 05, 2022

Descottes:
Even though i think you don't understand, thank you.

I do understand but just have to be kind and encouraging with my words.

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:07pm On Feb 05, 2022*

Iyaebe:
I do understand but just have to be kind and encouraging with my words.

I've missed you Sha. You were always on my mind

I kept thinking about how close we'd have been if not for that hulabaloo that broke our blossoming friendship.

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Silentgroper(m): 10:10pm On Feb 05, 2022

Descottes:
so many things my dear. I'm a weirdo and a loner– I don't have much friends and I don't wish to.
I see life very differently from how other people see it, which makes me question whether I was supposed to be born here in this God forsaken shithole at all.
I hate everything about here. And I'll definitely leave to find a life somewhere else.. with you probably

. Hello twinny.. I'm just here to let you know you're not alone .. I was just grinning from ear to ear when I read your write up .. it felt like you were describing me ..

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:11pm On Feb 05, 2022

Descottes:
I've missed you Sha. You were always on my mind
I kept thinking about how close we'd have been if not for that hulaboo that broke our blossoming friendship.

same here,but you acted so strange and mysterious and you disappeared all of a sudden. You too like trouble sha

Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:12pm On Feb 05, 2022

Silentgroper:
. Hello twinny.. I'm just here to let you know you're not alone .. I was just grinning from ear to ear when I read your write up .. it felt like you were describing me ..

one love bro.

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:16pm On Feb 05, 2022

Iyaebe:
same here,but you acted so strange and mysterious and you disappeared all of a sudden. You too like trouble sha

I didn't dissapear completely. I visited here few times as a guest. And whenever I came on here, I scanned through your posts lol. Weird isn't it

Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:20pm On Feb 05, 2022

Descottes:
I didn't dissapear completely. I visited here few times as a guest. And whenever I came on here I always scanned throughyour posts lol. Weird isn't it

Lol I somehow knew you see my posts,you weird sha.Why did you leave then?

Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:20pm On Feb 05, 2022

Iyaebe:
same here,but you acted so strange and mysterious and you disappeared all of a sudden. You too like trouble sha

and umm. I noticed that you really like some guys here. Q.tguru li.ntune and franchasngg or so and probably pansopist undecided

Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:23pm On Feb 05, 2022

Descottes:
and umm. I noticed that you really like some guys here. Q.tguru li.ntune and franchasngg or so and probably pansopist

I like everybody, and not just them,I play with some people here and they perfectly understand my online weirdness.

Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:25pm On Feb 05, 2022

Iyaebe:
Lol I somehow knew you see my posts,you weird sha.Why did you leave then?

I felt I needed a break. I communicate with Nigerians offline and then coming online to still communicate with Nigerians became tiring and frustrating.
So I registered on Reddit, quora an d some other foreign sites.

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:27pm On Feb 05, 2022

Iyaebe:
I like everybody, and not just them,I play with some people here and they perfectly understand my online weirdness.

hmmm.
'Iyaebe'.. What a name cheesy

Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:29pm On Feb 05, 2022

Descottes:
I felt I needed a break. I communicate with Nigerians offline and then coming online to still communicate with Nigerians became tiring and frustrating.
So I registered on Reddit, quora an d some other foreign sites.

Lol,you hate for your country is worrisome

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:30pm On Feb 05, 2022

Legalcriminal:
Post your picture make we confirm before we know the solution to your confidence

Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:31pm On Feb 05, 2022

Descottes:
Who looks epp? As I handsome reach I'm still depressed.
People see me and assume I live a very happy and sweet life, when in truth, my world is dark and gloomy

I can relate. People over assume. They think u have it all

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:33pm On Feb 05, 2022

Descottes:
I felt I needed a break. I communicate with Nigerians offline and then coming online to still communicate with Nigerians became tiring and frustrating.
So I registered on Reddit, quora an d some other foreign sites.

You guys know each other?

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:34pm On Feb 05, 2022

Iyaebe:
Lol,you hate for your country is worrisome

hate is an understatement.

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:36pm On Feb 05, 2022

henrybangs44:
You guys know each other?

lol .. yeah. From here tho'.

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:36pm On Feb 05, 2022

Descottes:
hate is an understatement.

Tune it down please, it will get better

Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:38pm On Feb 05, 2022

Descottes:
lol .. yeah. From here tho'.

Making sense.

Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by jakizio42(m): 10:39pm On Feb 05, 2022

I'll like to learn this rice process

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:41pm On Feb 05, 2022

Descottes:
hate is an understatement.

Good night dear,sweet dreamz.

Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:42pm On Feb 05, 2022

Iyaebe:
Tune it down please, it will get better

better you say?
it's actually getting worse.
I'm living with sick people who kill Their compatriots for money rituals, old corrupt incompetent men keep recycling themselves as leaders, Kidnapping is now the order of the day, no true love–everyone is just after their own self ish interests. I'm fed up Rose. Honestly.
Nigeria is a failed nation.

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:45pm On Feb 05, 2022*

Descottes:
I've missed you Sha. You were always on my mind
I kept thinking about how close we'd have been if not for that hulaboo that broke our blossoming friendship.

Ewwwwwww this mad bitch has seriously infected you, gross bro u need to be seriously isolated, I won't be surprised if you're actually that her ex husband she said she physically abused, you still sound like you haven't gotten over her domestic violence, I think you deserved every bit of her beating..... How can u be communicating with a psychotic blue meth addict? She's the beast of a different dimension of hell, called purgatory pro-max

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:45pm On Feb 05, 2022

Iyaebe:
Good night dear,sweet dreamz.

Gnight. Sleep well.

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