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Olunmercy56:
very simple! Thanks to your understanding woman too

As in ehn, No be small thanks to her oh, the kind of ladies we have now, they compete whose wedding s more luxurious with another person's money. Lack of understanding is a big barrier for a successful marriage.

frozen70:
You got it wrong

Court wedding makes you to be identified as a married woman in the society and documentation purposes

Traditional marriage, identified you with people and families you are going to be long and get a share of inheritance because you are now a member of their family

Well you can take your wife strait to court and wed her if she doesn't identify with her family and traditions

What is wrong? With your registry certificate, a married woman is entitled to all properties of the late husband. It is only husband WILL that overrides that. In Traditional setting, family decides on inheritance and court can't do much on that unless children are minors. Also, embassies recognise only registry certificates for immigration purposes. Traditional marriage is not a requirement for court wedding.

frozen70:
So which one can you do and leave the other

Raditional marriage

joyandfaith:
What is wrong? With your registry certificate, a married woman is entitled to all properties of the late husband. It is only husband WILL that overrides that. In Traditional setting, family decides on inheritance and court can't do much on that unless children are minors. Also, embassies recognise only registry certificates for immigration purposes. Traditional marriage is not a requirement for court wedding.

Go and marry first then come and explain to me if you pass through tradition to court wedding or you kidnapped her and took her straight for court wedding

I have given you an assignment

donbachi:
Every man should marry a woman he can afford.

Orente fit later complain o

frozen70:
What about traditional and church marriage

Was it the same 10 people crowd that you gathered or they were more

The way you arranged your marriage is the way people will attend, you are not doing it to impress anyone

But to fulfill all righteousness

As a Nigerian, you got to impress your neighbors and live the way they want you to live.

Yoruba saying "JE KON MO" -"LET THEM KNOW"

frozen70:
Go and marry first then come and explain to me if you pass through tradition to court wedding or you kidnapped her and took her straight for court wedding

I have given you an assignment

How can someone who married with 2 kids to go and marry again. I dey laugh. I dey League of married men. I did court wedding. I know a number of couples who married in court without support of their relatives without any issues. Go and read requirements for court marriage.
I would advice you to discuss this with a lawyer for a better understanding.

joyandfaith:
How can someone who married with 2 kids to go and marry again. I dey laugh. I dey League of married men. I did court wedding. I know a number of couples who married in court without support of their relatives without any issues. Go and read requirements for court marriage.
I would advice you to discuss this with a lawyer for a better understanding.

Did you pay bride price

calcal:
As a Nigerian, you got to impress your neighbors and live the way they want you to live.

Yoruba saying "JE KON MO" -"LET THEM KNOW"

When you leave your life to impress people at your expense and discomfort

What have you achieved doing so

Iyaebe:
Men are not to be considered when it comes to weddings, they should just tag along,that's all that's expected of them.

Are you going to fund your wedding?

odinson1:
I hope you married that woman a Virgin?

Non-virgins/PROSTITUTES have no business getting married. They should continue doing what they do best, sampling dicks bigger than their father's Head

But jokes aside,if you Are An Average man earning 100k monthly or thereabout,and you have a wedding worth millions,you are a very Stupid Fool! You men should just stop trying to over prove yourselves. Don't live to impress or show off.

Do wetin your power catch,have your wedding,and take your virgin wife home to break open the seal.

I just hope this is coming frm a virgin. Life is tit for tat. U can't sow mango and expect to reap apple

Op i tuuru nwanyi ahu ime
Anyways congratulovia welcome on board.
I love the simplicity.
Hope you are fully prepared mentally for the sweet trouble that comes with this decision and road you have chosen �

frozen70:
So which one can you do and leave the other

Paying of bride price(traditional) and going to the registry for certificates. Every other thing, na scam

Loewe:
Normal introduction will be taken care of, all the wine and drink stuff will be done.

But then, the concept of "somebody's daughter" is something you guys give an ill definition. In America, it's the bride's family that pays for wedding costs. In India, it's men who collect a groom's price. And what I just said is way far from that... So take it easy sister, I ain't marrying you.

In Nigeria you MUST do a traditional wedding or you will live to regret it .......
America or India are no standards here

Iyaebe:
Even though I'd prefer a quiet wedding but I know it's not going to be possible. The way my mum goes about the day her only daughter will get married is scary to me, I don't want to deny her that joy,so as for me there's no quiet wedding even though I don't like it.

it's all about satisfying your mum's fantasy,even at the expense of drying your man's pocket ba?





You will surely stay single for a long time.

MissSweet:
You are absolutely right! Men should stop trying to prove themselves. All you need is drop down your ego.

With packaging and looking presentable, you can always hunt and catch a rich girl.
With help from her dad and Mon, you can have a lavish owambe.
Her Mon & friends do pepper then gang with matching outfits.
In return, you enjoy the benefits of big wedding.
Just be humble to her family and you men won't have problem as long as you always respond with YES MA

slave mentality

Loewe:
I put my faith above tradition so I would chose Church wedding anytime. As for registry, na only certificate I need, not a big deal.

:Dthe elders and tradition are watching you in HD

Awkabigboy:
There is nothing like a woman you can afford. Women aren't commodities , stop disrespecting our women

there is no disrespect in what he wrote up there,now get your simping life outta here

caracas:
In Nigeria you MUST do a traditional wedding or you will live to regret it .......
America or India are no standards here

What are you regretting? Abeg getat!

Loewe:
What are you regretting? Abeg getat!

You know nothing
Loewe snow.......

How can a marriage with olosho be expensive .

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

There is this girl in my life dreaming of how our wedding and marriage will be the talk of the town, she is saying we'll do it in a massive way...

Remember this girl is still living with her aunty and has no dime to contribute

But I am going to find out very soon if her hymen is still intact because it will be so unfair of her and I
won't take it if she gave her hymen to another man and expect me to pay a higher bride price.

I once asked my babe to make a rough estimate of our wedding. Babe brought bill of over 5million in 2018 oh.
Sarah thunder fire u!!

I once asked my babe to make a rough wedding estimate,, babe gave me bill of 5m plus.
Sarah thunder fire u

tiswell:
there is no disrespect in what he wrote up there,now get your simping life outta here

Your father is a bigger simp

Iyaebe:
Even though I'd prefer a quiet wedding but I know it's not going to be possible. The way my mum goes about the day her only daughter will get married is scary to me, I don't want to deny her that joy,so as for me there's no quiet wedding even though I don't like it.

what if your supposed fiancé cannot finance a robust wedding,you will choke him because of your mama, better no use this kine thinking enter marriage

Loewe:
Go and meet babalawo then...

Read your bible not your pastor

frozen70:
So far it's done in the church and officiated by a priest

Because you probably belong to the "oh yes" group coupled with the fact that you must have been brainwashed into believing that the church "conducts" marriages and if not done in the church the couple will be committing sin of fornication.

frozen70:
So far it's done in the church and officiated by a priest

You're wrong because the OP did not do his in the church and he is legally married.

edoairways:
Read your bible not your pastor

Take a flight at the airport, not edo airways.

Obynolee:
You're wrong because the OP did not do his in the church and he is legally married.

Read through the whole pages so that you will know what brought about church and priest

Obynolee:
Because you probably belong to the "oh yes" group coupled with the fact that you must have been brainwashed into believing that the church "conducts" marriages and if not done in the church the couple will be committing sin of fornication.

You are the one saying this not me

Innomach:
Paying of bride price(traditional) and going to the registry for certificates. Every other thing, na scam

Then why the too much talk against traditional marriage