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. by Timibraun0010: 12:40pm On Feb 08, 2022
Thus

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Re: . by Nobody: 12:43pm On Feb 08, 2022
What do you want? you have not really asked for anything.I also think you're a big liar and you've told her a lot of lies only to realized after her visit that you didn't match up to her expectations contrary to the picture you painted in her head.Please quit lying and be your natural self.
Re: . by shilenji(m): 12:44pm On Feb 08, 2022
SIMPly ask for advice from SIMPle men grin

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Re: . by Magnoliaa(f): 12:44pm On Feb 08, 2022
Another alfa mail caught in the net of the Eve's gender.

Thank God you know you're a simp. Yes, you are. You should (have) never caught feelings for women at all or relate with them in anyway.

Wo. It's a busy work day... deal with your shii and stories.

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Re: . by donbachi(m): 12:46pm On Feb 08, 2022
You aint no simp,bro.
Na just issue of see finish.nothing else.
Re: . by Magnoliaa(f): 12:50pm On Feb 08, 2022
donbachi:
You aint no simp,bro.
Na just issue of see finish.nothing else.

Mba. He's a simp o. He is. Any slight feeling for women at all is simpism. A true alpha no dey get emotions. Ka ma wa s'ope liking women. Lailai.

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Re: . by Nobody: 12:51pm On Feb 08, 2022
I am here to read elderly advice cool
Re: . by Timibraun0010: 12:54pm On Feb 08, 2022
Magnoliaa:


Mba. He's a simp o. He is. Any slight feeling for women at all is simpism. A true alpha no dey get emotions. Ka ma wa s'ope liking women. Lailai.
Iyaebe:
What do you want? you have not really asked for anything.I also think you're a big liar and you've told her a lot of lies only to realized after her visit that you didn't match up to her expectations contrary to the picture you painted in her head.Please quit lying and be your natural self.

I know I'm not an alpha. I deal with girls easily when there is no emotion involved. This is simply messing my head now cos of the emotion. I know myself that after a week when the whole emotional rollercoaster wears off, I might not think of her again but then, when the next girl comes, I might end up making same mistake again.

Iyaebe, I laugh ��. Nothing like that sis. I know she's short but she's even shorter than I envisioned. But then, one have to look beyond height . So I'm beginning to like her beyond her height .
Re: . by Magnoliaa(f): 12:55pm On Feb 08, 2022
Timibraun0010:


I know I'm not an alpha. I deal with girls easily when there is no emotion involved. This is simply messing my head now cos of the emotion. I know myself that after a week when the whole emotional rollercoaster wears off, I might not think of her again but then, when the next girl comes, I might end up making same mistake again.

Iyae.be, I laugh ��. Nothing like that sis. I know she's short but she's even shorter than I envisioned. But then, one have to look beyond height . So I'm beginning to like her beyond her height .

Yawnsss.

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Re: . by Timibraun0010: 12:55pm On Feb 08, 2022
Magnoliaa:


Mba. He's a simp o. He is. Any slight feeling for women at all is simpism. A true alpha no dey get emotions. Ka ma wa s'ope liking women. Lailai.

grin grin grin, we no go come marry again ni. Abi I go come marry who I no like
Re: . by Magnoliaa(f): 1:00pm On Feb 08, 2022
Timibraun0010:


grin grin grin, we no go come marry again ni. Abi I go come marry who I no like

Redpillers don't marry. You're in the best place to know that better.

Fact that you think somehow it is simpism for all of your stories, I wonder why you're bothering at all with seeking clarification from strangers.

Have a nice afternoon.

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Re: . by Nobody: 1:03pm On Feb 08, 2022
Magnoliaa:
Another alfa mail caught in the net of the Eve's gender.

Thank God you know you're a simp. Yes, you are. You should (have) never caught feelings for women at all or relate with them in anyway.

Wo. It's a busy work day... deal with your shii and stories.


It's a busy work day and you dey comment back to back

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Re: . by jaxxy(m): 1:03pm On Feb 08, 2022
Whatever u do don’t tell her u love her. That’s weak. Stay strong bro. Lol
Re: . by donbachi(m): 1:06pm On Feb 08, 2022
Magnoliaa:


Mba. He's a simp o. He is. Any slight feeling for women at all is simpism. A true alpha no dey get emotions. Ka ma wa s'ope liking women. Lailai.
and i believe sey a true alpha no dey fvck.cos it comes with emotions.unless na rapist dem be.
Re: . by Timibraun0010: 1:10pm On Feb 08, 2022
jaxxy:
Whatever u do don’t tell her u love her. That’s weak. Stay strong bro. Lol
At all at all. I'm focused on how to swing the power balance to my side and get her to start nursing the thought of having a relationship with me
Re: . by jaxxy(m): 1:15pm On Feb 08, 2022
Timibraun0010:

At all at all. I'm focused on how to swing the power balance to my side and get her to start nursing the thought of having a relationship with me

Act like u don’t care. Ignore her calls, tell her ur tired, tell Ure busy. Post another gals picture, post a controversial status. Talk about ur ex.

There are many ways. grin

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Re: . by MrCuteking(m): 1:19pm On Feb 08, 2022
Timibraun0010:

At all at all. I'm focused on how to swing the power balance to my side and get her to start nursing the thought of having a relationship with me


Take off your mind. Ignore her.
It’s a win win for you. You should do so cause
1. She may have or be considering to have a boyfriend close to her.

2. She is likely going to wonder why you no longer find her attractive and perhaps start pulling you closer.

Post your fine pictures on WhatsApp for her to view, even if it’s to limit it to only her.

Just lock up and don’t always start the conversation. When you do this you will be back on track.
Re: . by Timibraun0010: 1:39pm On Feb 08, 2022
MrCuteking:


Take off your mind. Ignore her.
It’s a win win for you. You should do so cause
1. She may have or be considering to have a boyfriend close to her.

2. She is likely going to wonder why you no longer find her attractive and perhaps start pulling you closer.

Post your fine pictures on WhatsApp for her to view, even if it’s to limit it to only her.

Just lock up and don’t always start the conversation. When you do this you will be back on track.

Thanks bro
Re: . by Nobody: 1:54pm On Feb 08, 2022
Hmmm.. she risked her life enter road from Kaduna to osun amidst the bandits, terrorists, kidnappers and omilla yet still u no gree give am the koko inside the four days and u want her to still be excited... about what exactly. She pushed ur hands and so. Maybe u weren't fun enough for her. Reminds me of same thing that happened to me back in the days. She left her house to visit on boxing day. After entertainment I decided to entertain myself only for her to push me off time after time warning me she was not here for sex and she was insisting on going home same day but she still lay for bed. After much i persuaded her to lie to her mom and the lie entered so I believed I had her exactly where i wanted only for this girl to still change am for me. I just go out invited her to meet me for a drink somewhere as inside house tire me. She declined. I just zero mind comot only for me to come back house around 10:30 -11 pm to meet her watching movies on my laptop with just my basketball jersey on her and nothing else. I smiled inwardly cheesy and came close to try my luck after bathing away smoke and drink smell. She still declined me.. but not for long. She's one of the best I ever had.
...My only akwa ibom babe. She later told me she wouldn't have forgiven me if i had ignored her completely because she was rejecting it. She even allowed u smooch and kisses yet u dishonoured her... Well nothing spoil. Just forget the babe to avoid long thing. Long distance relationship self na error.. mostly

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Re: . by Raalsalghul: 1:58pm On Feb 08, 2022
Magnoliaa:


Redpillers don't marry. You're in the best place to know that better.

Fact that you think somehow it is simpism for all of your stories, I wonder why you're bothering at all with seeking clarification from strangers.

Have a nice afternoon.

This is true, but there's a difference between core redpillers and those who know just its principles. smiley

Marriage is a total representation of concepts the redpill preaches against.

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Re: . by Jamieb(m): 2:22pm On Feb 08, 2022
Timibraun0010:
Hi guys, please I need an advice on what to do next. I know many people will say I bleeped up but the did is done. I just need the next line of approach.

There is this girl I met online sometimes in October but we started talking very well in Nov. At the point we met, I wasn't in a relationship neither was she. But at some given times why whining her she would always reference the fact that her bio reads no relationship.

All these while, I had no intention of going into a relationship with her but all that changed after we saw each other.

We talk everytime, everyday including video calls most of the time.

While on Christmas break and new year break in Lagos from her base in Kaduna , she came to see me in Osun and spent 4 days. Throughout her stay, I felt a kind of peace I never felt around any girl. I was my real self, we talk and act like we've known each other for eternity.

Though I made attempts for sex but it didn't happen cos she was always removing my hand.

There were smushes and kisses but I won't push further since she was resisting.

She was like she didn't want any kind of friend with benefits cos at the end, we knack and do same the following morning. I told her I'm not her friend and shouldn't categories me as such cos I won't end up in anyone's friendzone.

I'm the kind of person that won't bother once she display such.

Now she's back to her base in Kaduna and I'm beginning to develop feelings for her. I recently notice she wasn't as excited as we she used to be when we talk before.

Now that I have feelings for her, I don't want to appear weak nor be added to the retinue of guys running after her. I honestly don't know how to navigate it and make her think of me in a relationship manner.

Also, before she came to see me, we made the arrangement of her coming while I will go visit her during my leave break. Honestly ,with the way the recent communication is going, I doubt if we might survive and still be talking before march when I'm to visit .

Talking with her now is harder cos of the emotion of my side. More like there is an expectation on her side
One more thing, while I don't even do it at all, I guess I got too comfortable around her and check through her phone galleries. She was angry and everything was settled after my apologies.

I know some will call me a simp, while some will insult and those who will advise will do so. Your imputes please

She seems not to be feeling you again. The whole mistery has waned off after you guys saw. Just let her be cos further calling her every time will make you appear like you bugging her
Re: . by MadeINchenzen2: 2:32pm On Feb 08, 2022
Timibraun0010:
Hi guys, please I need an advice on what to do next. I know many people will say I bleeped up but the did is done. I just need the next line of approach.

There is this girl I met online sometimes in October but we started talking very well in Nov. At the point we met, I wasn't in a relationship neither was she. But at some given times why whining her she would always reference the fact that her bio reads no relationship.

All these while, I had no intention of going into a relationship with her but all that changed after we saw each other.

We talk everytime, everyday including video calls most of the time.

While on Christmas break and new year break in Lagos from her base in Kaduna , she came to see me in Osun and spent 4 days. Throughout her stay, I felt a kind of peace I never felt around any girl. I was my real self, we talk and act like we've known each other for eternity.

Though I made attempts for sex but it didn't happen cos she was always removing my hand.

There were smushes and kisses but I won't push further since she was resisting.

She was like she didn't want any kind of friend with benefits cos at the end, we knack and do same the following morning. I told her I'm not her friend and shouldn't categories me as such cos I won't end up in anyone's friendzone.

I'm the kind of person that won't bother once she display such.

Now she's back to her base in Kaduna and I'm beginning to develop feelings for her. I recently notice she wasn't as excited as we she used to be when we talk before.

Now that I have feelings for her, I don't want to appear weak nor be added to the retinue of guys running after her. I honestly don't know how to navigate it and make her think of me in a relationship manner.

Also, before she came to see me, we made the arrangement of her coming while I will go visit her during my leave break. Honestly ,with the way the recent communication is going, I doubt if we might survive and still be talking before march when I'm to visit .

Talking with her now is harder cos of the emotion of my side. More like there is an expectation on her side
One more thing, while I don't even do it at all, I guess I got too comfortable around her and check through her phone galleries. She was angry and everything was settled after my apologies.

I know some will call me a simp, while some will insult and those who will advise will do so. Your imputes please
If you really want her then be ready to let her go... if you want a lady to find you attractive then use the withdrawal method... u don't go about chasing after her like you are hunting for grasscutters.

U've given her enough attention, it's time you withdraw from her and keep it that way until she makes the next move, and if she doesn't make any move... move on !!! Your self esteem is more important than love !!!
Re: . by IbrahimSkiba(f): 2:41pm On Feb 08, 2022
I like your write-up, which made it easy for me to read through.

Neat, punctuation marks at the right places and enough paragraphs.

My advice.

Find babe wey dey close to you and date,

Haba..the distance alone no dey fear you?, Stop Putting someone's child at risk...

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Re: . by Truvelisback(m): 2:59pm On Feb 08, 2022
U are a SIMP.
Re: . by Timibraun0010: 2:59pm On Feb 08, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
If you really want her then be ready to let her go... if you want a lady to find you attractive then use the withdrawal method... u don't go about chasing after her like you are hunting for grasscutters.

U've given her enough attention, it's time you withdraw from her and keep it that way until she makes the next move, and if she doesn't make any move... move on !!! Your self esteem is more important than love !!!
Thanks chief
Re: . by Timibraun0010: 3:01pm On Feb 08, 2022
Truvelisback:
U are a SIMP.
Like it's suppose to make me feel bad? Move on abeg
Re: . by Truvelisback(m): 3:03pm On Feb 08, 2022
Timibraun0010:

Like it's suppose to make me feel bad? Move on abeg
No, not to make u feel bad, it's just the truth and u know.
Re: . by JOACHINpedro: 3:04pm On Feb 08, 2022
When she came how much you spend? cheesy
Re: . by crismark(m): 3:07pm On Feb 08, 2022
I laugh in spanish!

Children in love.
When you grow you'd learn
Re: . by Sammy101111(m): 3:18pm On Feb 08, 2022
When she came may be what she expected was not what she saw that is why she acted different after you both met .
Because for a lady to stay with you for a visit for 4 days with out sex is some how ans you both live far away .
She no love you
Re: . by Sonnobax15(m): 3:21pm On Feb 08, 2022
lipsrsealed
Guy,move on with your life...No NIGERIAN banny deserve the least two seconds of your headache undecided

Las las, personally na my peace of mind be my over all priority...Once I notice say my banny wor dey take me for granted,na instant ghosting I go ghost her..

Rubbish... Nonsense and Buhari's call to super eagles undecided
Re: . by Timibraun0010: 3:30pm On Feb 08, 2022
Sammy101111:
When she came may be what she expected was not what she saw that is why she acted different after you both met .
Because for a lady to stay with you for a visit for 4 days with out sex is some how ans you both live far away .
She no love you
My mistake was it's either to go all in or not at all. But then, life goes on.

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