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EASYGURU:
Here the he, she or transgendered whateva comes again. You should have said something sensible but you insist on blaming female promiscuity on rape cases. Shalom

advanceDNA... Single mothers are promiscuous...

EasyGuru: i don't understand your comment... Are you defending rape ? Or saying that there are no cases where the rape victim was impregnated? Or saying that female promiscuity is the reason for rape...

BoredBerry:
The character of the children?

Their own character. I.e towards the men they had children for.

BoredBerry:
The character of the children?

Their own character. I.e towards the men they had children for.

advanceDNA:
What’s your point exactly......u are fighting for women, that men should be blamed instead??

Bothe parties are involved in the sex, why should the women be free from blame??

The women have been blamed for years... Why shouldn't the men?

Both parties were involved, yet one got saddled with the responsibilities of both...

Like I said, condemn the men for abandoning their children

Truvelisback:
Their own character. I.e towards the men they had children for.

So the woman's character is enough for a man to run away from his children and never speak to them? Or it's the woman's character that makes these men deny the pregnancies?

Funny how the character isn't an issue during sex but it is after the children are born...

BoredBerry:
My birth month is march...

I'm sure they'd be some crazy stuff written in ur birth or natal chart

Realism is bullshit,if you wallow too much in it your mind will be fvcked up and you'd barely survive if you can't seek out escapism ( not like you'd allow yourself die anyway, I'm sure nothing can kill you, you're probably too strong for that, you'd never allow it)

Maladaptive daydreaming is an intoxicating escapism. Better than weed

That's a very confusing question

teddybarz:
YOu re SOundinq Weak. . Did SOmeone impregnant u and ran away?



U Tend to brinq SOmeting that has no atom of . . . . .


Hey! Ask FOr who came in dix WOrld fOr yOu.

Who came in this world for me?

EASYGURU:
Here the he, she or transgendered whateva comes again. You should have said something sensible but you insist on blaming female promiscuity on rape cases. Shalom

Ok

Senomii:
I'm sure they'd be some crazy stuff written in ur birth or natal chart

Realism is bullshit,if you wallow too much in it your mind will be fvcked up and you'd barely survive if you can't seek out escapism ( not like you'd allow yourself die anyway, I'm sure nothing can kill you, you're probably too strong for that, you'd never allow it)

Maladaptive daydreaming is an intoxicating escapism. Better than weed

Weed is sh**...

BoredBerry:
Weed is sh**...

Yh it is, wouldn't hv been as attractive as I am if I'd indulged in it

BoredBerry:
Who came in this world for me?

Nah! . . I dnt FOretell a future. . I'm nt an astrOlogy, neither a native DOctor. .



Try One day i question YOurself, ask GOd to reveal YOur spirit man. . . . . . U cud solve that by YOurself withOut a native helper.


Hey! . . .DOn't take dat too serious. . . . .
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We re
LOnely, I Can FOretell that

BoredBerry:
The women have been blamed for years... Why shouldn't the men?

Both parties were involved, yet one got saddled with the responsibilities of both...

Like I said, condemn the men for abandoning their children

U women are the determining factor in sex...if don’t say yes..sex isn’t happening....so yes, the responsibility is on you to spread your legs for responsible men...
if you spread your legs for a man you hardly know, who ddnt discuss marriage with you, whose fault is that...?? U have a decision to make keep the baby or get rid of it...u don’t keep it and blame a man for not sticking around to care for a child.... u spread your legs for a man that wanted sex when you also wanted it.... he never even wanted the you(the mother) in the first place....I ask again.. whose fault is that?? U are now calling out people for not blaming the man?? How now??

BoredBerry:
So the woman's character is enough for a man to run away from his children and never speak to them? Or it's the woman's character that makes these men deny the pregnancies?

Funny how the character isn't an issue during sex but it is after the children are born...

There is an extent one can endure negative behavior. Some men who married today, never expected that the wife would end up being a thorn in their flesh.

Senomii:
Yh it is, wouldn't hv been as attractive as I am if I'd indulged in it

Wait for me to compliment you...

BoredBerry:
Wait for me to compliment you...

Ssssshhhhh, bye.

BoredBerry:
A million threads are created condemning single mothers... Giving reasons why they do not deserve to be dated or married... Justifying the actions of the men who had abandoned them...

Here's my question:

Why does no one talk about the children?

For every single mother, there's a man who delibrately ran away from his children...

[That's why he's a "deadbeat father" and not a "deadbeat husband"...]

Are redpillers in support of men not loving their children enough to stick by them and be concerned about their welfare?

Or redpillers do not care for the millions of children who would grow up without a father... Who would never receive a dime from him... Who would be raised without his support...

Let's focus on the children ...

So what exactly do u want us to do for the children

Echoban:
So what exactly do u want us to do for the children

Love them...

BoredBerry:
Love them...

the responsibility of loving them is on their fathers not some innocent young men

It's messed up that people are trying to normalize dysfunction and irresponsible parents. It's not normal or acceptable to casually have kids like they're puppies. Responsible people get married and plan for children. They don't treat their children like goats.

All of una get time

In summary, let single Fathers marry single mothers.

advanceDNA:
U people like just guilt-tripping people for their choice...

Even these single mothers want men that are single without kids...does that not tell you nobody wants baggages of other people even those that have baggages of their own...

Let the owner of the child worry about their child abeg

the boredidiot of a girl is insanely shallow and daft to understand what you are saying. Kind sir.

BoredBerry:
I'm perfectly ok... I don't mind thinking about him, he's the past...

Nairaland's redpillers justify the darnest things; the actions of deadbeat fathers, rape, domestic violence, etc...

Very messed up human beings...

while you are always jumping from one thread to another dragging your poor dad upandan, remember the apple does not fall far from the tree.

It is very possible that the traits you display here must have been inherited from your so called deadbeat dad... Stupid silly mofo.

BoredBerry:
Love them...

Did anyone hate them before

dontrulee:
In summary, let single Fathers marry single mothers.

on point. . I hope she quoted you?

Torquena:
while you are always jumping from one thread to another dragging your poor dad upandan, remember the apple does not fall far from the tree.

It is very possible that the traits you display here must have been inherited from your so called deadbeat dad... Stupid silly mofo.

hey! Are u out of ur sense?


MAnners plz.

Echoban:
Did anyone hate them before

Abeg help me ask o. .


I Love dix topic

My BOredberry. .


Plz u re 18 . . U shudn't have been asking dix kinda questiOn. . . U shud be thinking HOw to be a Good WOman



BTW. . I Sent an email. . Plz reply me. . Happy Val Sweetheart . .

BoredBerry:
I'm not negative... I prefer the word 'realistic'... Maybe I don't see things the way you do... My life is very different... And it's fine... I'm fine...

I'm sensitive... Maybe you haven't noticed... You were right, if I were to feature in Disney... I definitely wouldn't be a princess... Life's not bright colours and love songs and pretty little birds... I'm not gonna be a witch either, I have a tender heart...

Maybe the character who's sad, but deep down hopes to discover true happiness... She would be a favourite, because everyone can RELATE!

My birth month is march...

You can never be a March baby,we don't reason like you,

Most of the threads here created by men having issues in their relationships have something in common: The fear of losing their kids to their wives if they divorce.

This tell you that many fathers don't want to abandon their children. Not supporting FFK, but I know that if he had released his children to his wife when they divorced, the narrative today would be that he abandoned his children; that he is a deadbeat dad.

Most times, it is the women who make it impossible or very difficult for the men to have access to their kids. Women are the ones who leave their husband houses with their kids and go back to their parents' house.
Many times some men try to have access to their children but are prevented by the woman and her family (and yeah some men have done some very awful things to warrant this).

I'm not saying that this is always the case. Some men just abandon ship and leave their families and home for other women or places.
Some refuse to bear responsibility for pregnancy of their women and abscond.


People (especially women) shame broke men. There is no equality between a broke man and a broke woman. Society is always fairer to the broke woman than to the broke man. No one talks about it.
The society is always biased; it depends on your situation, status and gender.

Furthermore, people's perspectives are shaped based on past experiences whether personal or not. Some have had very bad experiences with single moms and so you can't blame them.
Now, nobody just creates a thread to bash single moms. Many bashing of single moms come in form of solicited advices to those who are in or about to enter a relationship with a single mom.
Also, we are all hypocritical to some extent. Many of the females on this forum wouldn't wish or want their brothers to marry single moms.
Do you know that sisters and mothers are more likely to stand against their brothers and sons getting married to single moms compared to fathers and brothers allowing their sisters and daughters to get married to a single dad?

See eh, the only thing I can say for now is don't be poor. If you're rich, the society will always be fair to you no matter the relationship mistakes you may have made. But if you're poor and you are a lady, ah..... Just brace up for the viciousness of the society when you experience broken relationships.

Children are the greatest victims of broken homes and failed marriages and those who abandon their responsibilities and loved ones have failed themselves and society whether man or woman.

cc: BoredBerry and Datboredberry (I hope they are same)

BoredBerry:
Then you don't know me... I'm not cold, I'm not harsh, I'm not negative... But if you're like the rest, and you're going to use a persona to judge me... Then you're not worth the stress... That's why I don't like most men here... They can't see below the surface...

I'm not a fan of kids... My future self totally agrees...

Me quoting your statement is not about you but one of the real problem of single mothers that men avoid.
Let me start by saying most men are visual, we are attracted to what we see.
With that in mind, when a man meets a woman and in the course of this he finds out she is a single mother, at that point he moves on if not interested, or stays with the woman he just met.

This is were you word" That's why I don't like most men here" comes in.
A woman with such thoughts in her mind, or the idea that men only want to sleep with them will only see that tendency in men.
When they woman responds with those tendencies in her mind, she only respond to men like she would to the one that left her with a child.

Should a man expect to find something that will quench his thirst under muddied water.
Should they be looking under the surface when the reason a man will walk away from a child is starring them in the face.

A single mom is trying to protect herself by putting up a stronger wall, or blaring her fangs, and these action also make it harder to find a suitor, or scare off men who see what is presented to them as it is a bad woman capable of making a man walk away from his child.